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my mom
Posted Tuesday May 8 2007, 5:30 pm
15 f
i loove wearing eye liner. my mom doesnt want me to wear it. she was mad at me when i wore it to take pictures then she said to take it off. so i asked her nicely if i can please wear it she got mad and almost hit me. she said i was too young. but my sister is 18 and my mo doesnt even let her put makeup ,and i just want eye liner. she told me if i ask her again then she will hit me, and i know she will so i wont risk it. she is really strict. so since she doesnt let me i just wear it in school and take it off before i get home. what shoiuld i do? i know this is wrong but i just think that i look so pretty with it and it makes me feel prittier. what do i do? please help.
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FRiENd M0VEiNG
Posted Tuesday May 8 2007, 4:12 pm
Where 14-13- &Nd 15 &nd we live & fla
Okey well my best friend is moveing like the 17 or 18 so me her &nd my sister are going to hang out &nd we wanted this weekend to be the funest time we have had together!! &nd I cant think of anything to do she dont want to go to the mall &nd spend our time there... &nd the movies isnt really hanging out i want something we can do
-T0GETHER!- _x33 like sunday where going swimming so what sould we dosaturday &nd friday? &nd it has to be something where my boyfriends can come &nd there also 13-14-&nd 15 so if you have anything please oh please help me :))))
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MOM >:[
Posted Tuesday May 8 2007, 3:17 pm
Hey. Well, I'm 13/f, and during the weeekdays, I live with my mom [my parents are divorced]. Now, don't get me wrong, my mom is NOT an alchaholic, becuase I've NEVER seen her like really drunk, in my entire life. But, she always drinks, like beer is pretty much the only thing she does drink. I've told her It bothers me, and she stops, for like 3 days to a week. Then she complains that she's 'poor'. She also smokes, a LOT, In the house, and it smells GROSS. Is their anything I can do?
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piercings
Posted Tuesday May 8 2007, 6:26 am
im 16/f and i really wanna get my lip pierced but my mum thinks it looks awful. What can i do to convince her??
and i havent told her whether i want the bottom or top done yet coz i cant decide!
plz help!
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car crash
Posted Monday May 7 2007, 11:46 pm
this weekend i was with my brother and some of his friends and we were all driving around in my new car a 2007 escalade. I was driving adn it was raining and late at night and i have only had my license for about 3 months. we were coming around the corner and hit another car totaling mine and theirs. right away my brother took the blame for it and told me not to worry about it since he has been driving for a few eyars now and wouldnt get in as much trouble as i would. since the other car didnt see i was driving it worked out fine but now i feel awful that he took the blame for this but i know that if i came forward my parents would kill me. they are making him pay for a new car and he is grounded for like a month and i keep telling him that...
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tense
Posted Monday May 7 2007, 10:24 pm
Even though this is related to another question I have on this site (now). I am going to ask it here. This question has to be answered separately from the other one.
I start to get anxious and uptight and tense when my mom gets insistent that there is something wrong with me for buying as much jewelry as I do. She starts to lecture me and tries to make me feel that her way of thinking is right and my way is totally or almost totally wrong. However, I made the mistake last week of telling her how much I spent. On Thursday I told her I spent $21 and then on Friday I spent $26. And the only reason I told her was because of my anxiety which makes me start thinking: well if she was with me would she start making me uncomfortabl...
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mothers day.
Posted Monday May 7 2007, 10:08 pm
ohkay so i really want to get my mom somthing special for mothers day. she really deserves it.
i want to buy her somthing, then i want to make her somthing, like a card but i dont no what to say in the card.
can you help me what to say? i want it to be really sweet and that she knows that i love her.. because i dont reallly treat her like i love her :\
and also what should be a good thing to buy her?
thanks. a lot
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Posted Monday May 7 2007, 8:49 pm
what do you do if you have an average income or slightly above..but you still have fin. problems..and your kid sister lives a fantasy life with her multi-millionaire husband..also she wants to relate the details to you as you are on your way to work! i mean rich.... and he won't let her share the wealth at all!!!!!!!!!!!!94 million dollars!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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car crash
Posted Monday May 7 2007, 7:40 pm
this weekend i was with my brother and some of his friends and we were all driving around in my new car a 2007 escalade. I was driving adn it was raining and late at night and i have only had my license for about 3 months. we were coming around the corner and hit another car totaling mine and theirs. right away my brother took the blame for it and told me not to worry about it since he has been driving for a few eyars now and wouldnt get in as much trouble as i would. since the other car didnt see i was driving it worked out fine but now i feel awful that he took the blame for this but i know that if i came forward my parents would kill me. what should i do?
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my wonderful mom
Posted Monday May 7 2007, 5:53 pm
I have a great mom. She has her ups and her downs but she always bends over backwards for me. I love her a lot, but she thinks I'm not as appreciative as I should be. So...since mother's day is coming up I really want to suprise her with something really nice. I don't want just a present for her, I want something that she will remember forever. I already am getting her a present anyways. What should I do for her?? I live in a really small town so I can't take her to a really nice restraunt or take her to a play or something. It has to be kind of like a homeade present suprise. I'm thinking maybe a dinner. And a day off from everything. What do you think I should do?? P.S. I only have about sixty dollars. I have more, but I can't get to it ...
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mom part 99
Posted Sunday May 6 2007, 8:58 pm
Last Wednesday was my moms 81st birthday. I AM GOING TO BE 52. She knows that I buy a lot of jewelry each item in every color due to the fact that if you dont buy them you will never see it again. She has even told me the jewelry is gorgeous and you cannot tell the difference if it is 99 cents for a piece from Lord & Taylors, Bloomingdales, etc. Also before her birthday she told me to keep her out of my buying the jewelry - she told me that if I like it that is all what counts. Any way now she is screaming at me that last week I spent too much money on the jewelry. How could I buy $50 worth. Today she started to scream at me: what is the difference if you wont buy one piece of jewelry for $50 or all those pieces for $50. And why d...
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cleaning
Posted Sunday May 6 2007, 7:03 pm
So here's the thing.
i'm always stuck at home cleaning. I can never go out ause m cleaning.! my 3 older bros can do watever they want. I';m a girl and the youngest and the only girtl in the family! people think im spoiled but thats the farthest thing i am! im always cleaning!
i dnt get whY!!
sometimes i get sooooooooooooo mad i just wanna slap someone and kill my self! i no a lil frekay!
but i cant stand it!
my bros are always having fun and im stuck at home!
and i cant even see guys not even have them as friend or ewls im grounded!
I HATE MY LIFE!@
i need advice wit this!
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new stepdaughter
Posted Sunday May 6 2007, 3:21 pm
26/f
My boyfriend is 29, we've been dating two years and we're getting married in three months. He has a nine year old daughter in another state. She doesn't know about me. He only visits her once or twice a year because she lives really far away, but he tries to call a lot and always sends money to her mom. I'm just scared because I've read articles about how a lot of kids have a harder time dealing with a parent getting remarried than they do dealing with their parents getting divorced in the first place! What's the right thing to do? I don't want to make her accept me as this new "mom" if she doesn't have to, but I also want to be honest, and I feel like I should get to know her if we're family now. The mo...
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Posted Sunday May 6 2007, 10:00 am
14/f
so, todays my confirmation, and if your catholic, or know anyone that is catholic, you know its a pretty big deal.
well, first of all, let me tell you something about my family, they OBESS over baseball. like, my littlest brother is on this big travel team, and my mom has him go to these private baseball lessons, with like these minor league baseball people, or something, and my mom and dad pay them like 100 dollars. and my brother doesn't even like baseball that much. and my mom always says, if he plays really good, he can get ice cream. and its like total bribs. and my other brother gets attention from like the sports he plays and stuff too. and ok, im not a sporty person, im tottaly girlie. like reallly...
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birthday
Posted Saturday May 5 2007, 11:31 pm
I need advice: Today in the afternoon when I came home (at 3PM) there was a message on my answering machine. One of my coworkers called to ask if I wanted to join them at the street fair (ending at 6PM) a block away from our office. I called her back and told her that I could not join them due to the fact my family was taking my mom out to dinner (at 6:30PM) to celebrate her birthday. My coworker told me that at the street fair jewelry was being sold (the jewelry I buy the 99 cent that look expensive). About a half hour after my coworker and I finished our telephone conversation I started to talk to my mom about the street fair. My mom said; Just to go to the street for a half hour to get a necklace is a waste, I am not going to wait ...
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Dad
Posted Saturday May 5 2007, 9:55 pm
My dads birthday is the 11th, and I don't know what to get him. He says he doesnt want anything but everyone says that. He loves books and money, hes a doctor, and he loves smart quotes from people. I wont even be home for his entire birthday so I want to get him something good. Ive already gotten him:
Ties
Shirts
Socks
Gift Cards
Cuff links
Coffee mugs
Please dont say
Chocolate-he'll give it to me, forget about it, or think its too bad for him
Jewlery-he'll lose it
Or any of the above things. I have about $50 to spend. Thank you so much!
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Family depression
Posted Saturday May 5 2007, 6:16 pm
Ok, so about 4 years ago, my dad got fired from his job and got diagnosed with manic depression. To be honest he was hell to live with. After a while of being on the medication though, he started to be back to the slightly more outgoing person he'd been before. He's never been the same since really, but a month or so ago he started to try and take himself off the medication (he didn't like not being able to drink or use 'heavy machinery').
The past week or so though he's been pretty much back to how he was before. And what's more, he's lately made a friend at his new job, and he told us that there were rumours going around that they were having an affair or something. Now I KNOW that's not true, but my mum's pretty riled up a...
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my controlling mom and my bf/bff?
Posted Friday May 4 2007, 2:39 pm
female i just turned 13. my mom ruined everything. i had a carnival at school today. she was the chaperone and one other person for my grade. yesterday me and my bestfriend(a guy) had a great time at our track practice. my first time doing track in my life his second. im good at it i guess. he really cares for me. we do the hurdles and high jump and a relay together. im bad at hurdles i hit half of them and fell over two. he was there for me he laughed at me(in a nice fun way we're like that to eachother) i have fun with him alot. we also love eachother which we held it off for a longtime because i didnt wana lose my bestfriend. id rather have a bestfriend than a boyfriend. but we hug alot and we kiss. we just love eachother. he was going t...
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me and mom in fight.. help!
Posted Thursday May 3 2007, 5:12 pm
me and my mom havent been talking to eachother for the last few days
and when i try we always end up yelling at eachother
it started because she got out of work early to see me at my track meet and i kinda told her to leave
i know it was mean and i regret it
But i dont think apoligizing will work?
is there any ideas ??
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my mom and me in a fight.. HELP
Posted Thursday May 3 2007, 2:35 pm
okay, so i do track, and my first meet was yesterday.
So i was there,and my mom came with my 2 little sisters.
Heres me and my moms convo
me: why did you bring them?
my mom:they can come if they want too
(sister butts in and says, she doesnt want us to be home alone)
me: okay cool. why arnt you over there?
my mom: i came to watch you jump
me: im not jumping im watching people.
me: go sit over there with your parent friends
my mom: what?
me: idk go sit with like parents
then my mom left the meet angery
and i called her im like whered you go
and shes like you dont have to be a jerk to me
blahblah
and she hung up
and ...
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