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Posted Monday June 16 2008, 11:48 am
Last week I was in the park with my friends, and my brothers friends.
I'm 15, and my brother is 19.
He had some of his friends in the park too. None of were drinking, but we were having a good time, just sitting together and talking (about 20 of us)
The thing is that some of the couples were making out and such, and as a dare, I kissed this guy who was 22.
Not with tongues or anything, but like a two minute kiss.
Now I'm kinda worried that it might be considered as really sick and stuff.
He's just a friend, I'm not interested in going out with him, it was just a dare.
He afterwards said to me ''I hope this doesn't make things awkward between us, since it was just a dare''
The day after...
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Friendship....is it worth it?
Posted Sunday June 15 2008, 9:04 pm
I love this friend to death, but lately I can't really tell if we are actually "friends" anymore. She completely ignores me on long intervals, and then decides to talk to me again when it's convenient. Next year she's going off to college so I probably won't see her very much, even though we are neighbors. Is this "friendship" worth it?
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BFF's Bday
Posted Sunday June 15 2008, 5:06 pm
I need help! My best friend's birthday is tomorrow, and I don't know what to do with her! I started out thinking a movie, but she doesn't like movies (we don't hang out much, so I wanna do something WITH her) PLEASE HELP!
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Friendship vs. Family
Posted Sunday June 15 2008, 3:41 pm
I am really confused lately. I have a new guy friend, and we are becoming really good friends, and he is African American. And I hate to say it but, my parents..are racist. It's horrible. I don't know what to do. I just don't see why the color of skin matters so much. Help?
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guys and friends
Posted Sunday June 15 2008, 6:46 am
i like this guy, and my friend found out that i like someone, but she doesn't know who, but she wont stop asking me, i usually tell her everything, but for some reason i don't want to tell her this, but now she knows that there is someone, will she be offended? and should i tell her?
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2 year couple
Posted Sunday June 15 2008, 4:26 am
got this friend they been together for a long time almost two years and she told me the other day she wants to brake up with him cause he not the same guy he was which i understand but this is going to hurt him really bad and he is my best friend but then on the other hand his g/f is to so what do i do cause this got me confused~!!
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18th party
Posted Sunday June 15 2008, 1:15 am
17/f. I want to do something fun for my 18th.
I don't think many people will come to it though.
Any ideas on what I should do for my party?
I don't want to have it at my house, its too small and my dad would freak. :S
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loner?
Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 11:41 pm
for 7 weeks this summer im going on a west coast teen tour. it sounded amazing and everything and i wanted to go alone to get away from the stupidity of my town. the only thing is im really nervous about meeting new people, and some of them are friends with eachother. how can i open up and be myself around new people?
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should I ask this girl out or no.
Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 9:28 pm
I need some help and I am not sure what to do. I am a 17 year old boy. Monday will be our last day of highschool together. I have liked this girl for a while now and i am not sure what to do. we have become close over this year. I feel that it would be easier to ask her out if this was a couple months ago but the year is over and we are heading off to college. It would be easier if we were going to college around the same place but we would be about and hour and a hlf away from eachother. We talk all of the time and we just have a ton in common i just dont know what to do because its going to be summer and we are heading in the opposite direction for college.
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constantly needs attention
Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 12:01 pm
I have a friend who constantly needs attention. It was my friends birthday, but she made everyone pay attention to her. She thinks she's above everyone, and is 'different' just to be 'different', rather than being herself completely. I know thats a complicated concept. Anyway, the other day she was being mad annoying and i told her to be quiet and she blew up on me. She just recently told me how boring I am, so I think its my turn to tell her how attention-seeking she can be. Any suggestion?
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ex - boyfriend
Posted Friday June 13 2008, 8:39 pm
Well my ex - boyfriend like broke up with me a few months ago and his friend told me tht he hated me and i didnt do anything to him and i dont believe his friend . uhm well i think i may be starting to like him again but i dont know if i should like talk to him becuz it'll be pretty weird so i dont know wht to do but i really wanna be friends with him .
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how to express my problems
Posted Friday June 13 2008, 7:40 pm
15/f
ive recently realized that i have a hard time talking about myself and my problems to my friends. sometimes i feel like my problems are too boring or too weird compared to other peoples' problems.
for example, way one of my problems that i wish i could talk about is this problem itself. but i feel like i'll be judged badly and im scared that nobody will be interested long enough in what im saying to help me through it.
honestly, the only problem im comfortable with sharing is boy problems because there are so many diff ways you can go with it, and it is "socially acceptable" to have boy problems. everybody has them and boys are fun to talk about! but i dont really have that many b...
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BIG bullies at my middle school! LONG but PLEASE PLEASE PLEA
Posted Friday June 13 2008, 6:36 am
I know this is kind of long, but its a big problem right now and i hope you can read this and help me fix it. well there are these 4 girls in my middleschool AND my neighborhood. I've known them all since like first grade too. We used to be friends but that friendship.. got annoying sometimes. One of the girls always was way too bossy, making up games that only SHE won, she always thinks she is always right even when she was clearly wrong, and expected us to take time to find her missing cellphone when im sure she wouldnt do the same for me. fast forward 7 years, to 8th grade. like sometimes, ever since first, i felt exculded. they're all indian/muslim kids and im the only black girl. i didnt get why we couldnt all be friends and share thin...
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Friendships in adult life
Posted Thursday June 12 2008, 11:22 pm
Perhaps some of you have been in this situation. What is your opinion on how best to deal with friends who rarely make time to nuture the friendship? Sometimes it seems so one sided with me putting in the most effort. I have always been there for her through life's ups and downs, but when I am down, or when I simply want to get together it feels as if I am bothering her. This is a 30+ year friendship and there have been times when I just quit making contact because I was frustrated. I am about at that point again, but maybe I am in the wrong and should just keep trying, and inviting and calling etc. I tend to get dissapointed though because I look forward to getting together and usually she declines.
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partyyyyy/scavenger hunt
Posted Thursday June 12 2008, 8:33 pm
me and my friends are going to the mall for my party and im making a scavenger hunt list. all my friends are in groups and we have cameras and whoever has the most pictures with/doing the things on the list wins . i have a lot on my list already so i need some really crative ideas. what can i put on my list of ideas?
ill give an example of one of mine:
take a picture with a naked mannequin
thanksss. be creative!
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graduation gift
Posted Thursday June 12 2008, 7:56 pm
i need help on deciding what to get my friend for graduation! i talk to him every day, but i can't decide on what to get him. he's like "hypebeast" he wears nike dunks and he wears like stussy and obey &he plays basketball &stuff, &he's going to college about an hour or two away from here. but yeah, i really need to decide what to get him, and hes graduation next tuesday! i don't wanna get something too meaningful because he dated one of my best friends and it didnt work out and i dont want it to be weird, but hes still a really good friend and i still wanna get him something so what should i get him? any ideas would be good. THANKS SO MUCH!!!!
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Moving once again
Posted Thursday June 12 2008, 6:57 pm
I have moved once more. It is nothing but a pain though. I have moved quite far from my friends and I feel very lonely, and thanks to the school year ending, I have no friends here. I would walk around my neighborhood but I am afraid that I might get hurt since this is a new town and a new place. What should I do?
PS: My b-day is in like 4 days, I might still be able to hang with some friends then though. Key word: might.
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race/ realtionships
Posted Wednesday June 11 2008, 10:46 pm
well, my bestfriend who is middle eastern hates where she is from 16yrs and says she dosent wanna date any guy from afgan, but she tells me (16 &asian) right now she only is attracted to asian guys maybe cause, r we hang w/h them too much.the problem is, she says no asians will ever fall for me! and im gonna b single 4 ever! i told her some asians are open to different race,and some asian guy will like her, what do u think?/ any asian guys out there willing to date out side their race? esp middle eastern?
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not talking anymore..
Posted Wednesday June 11 2008, 10:42 pm
so i became really close to this girl jen (shes like 6 years older. she came down here for the weekend over the summer and i talked to her about everything. then over the winter she worked like crazy and i didnt talk to her much. so i almost feel like she didnt want to talk to me but idk why. i miss it but now we dont talk (she hasnt been online and if i was gonna text her i just dont know what to say) like before we could talk for hours and keep a conversation going but the last time we talked online it was a dud. same with the last time i texted her so i dont know what changed. why cant i talk to her like i used to. im almost afraid to talk to her (maybe im afraid she doesnt want to talk to me) i wanna start talking to her again but how c...
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Complicated.
Posted Wednesday June 11 2008, 9:22 pm
Okay, Lee my best guy friend is a Soc Jock. What me and best friend Ashley call the kids that play soccer in my Highschool. Well my school plays In and Out doors soccer all year round, and are wicked competitive to our rivals The Chiefs... and theres so many kids that would KILL to be on the soccer team that theres rules to being on. No Smoking, and No drinking and the biggest ones tho that could get you kicked you off immediatly. Well in November was our start of Indoor soccer which Lee is on because he's amazing at soccer and they won there first game. So him and a bunch of Soc Jocks celebrated. Now I dont know the whole story because I was not there... this is what I heard from a crying Lee which you will understand later. After getting...
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