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no such thing as happy endings.
Posted Sunday June 22 2008, 8:14 am
theres this guy that im close to.
i used to like him, and he had a small thing for me before, i told him i liked him twice (both different times) and now hes being really clingy. hes a really REALLY sensitive guy. and its getting annoying. he wants me to get online all the itme - and he always flirts with me which i dont mind too much, thats who he is. but i dont like talking to him as much anymore, i used to stay up late and talk to him.
i wanna end our friendship, i mean i wanna be friends with him, but i dont wanna be liek close friends anymore. its summer, and we're both moving to different countries. what should i do wihtout telling him i dont wanna be friends, or as tight anymore? i mean he notices when i lose co...
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friend likes me...i told him i liked his best friend
Posted Saturday June 21 2008, 5:44 pm
13/f
well you see...this might be confusing...sorry if it is. so yea mii best friend likesz me, lets call him Ryan. and he asked me out. i said no cuz it was complicated...mii other best friend who was also his bestest friend ever liked me, lets call this guy dave. and i didnt really like any of them. (by the way, just to clarify, im not transsexual or anything, im straight, the two are boiis who like me, and im a girl.)so yea, ryan asked me out. i said no and he was being so annoying. i guess i was too nice about it and stuff so he still thought he had a chance. he knew dave liked me too, but they were really good friends, so they wouldnt let a girl ruin their friendship. then ryan realized he wasnt going to get me, so ...
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She didn't get grossed out when she saw two women kiss?
Posted Saturday June 21 2008, 2:16 am
my friend gets gross out when she see couples kiss man and women. but when we saw a moive with a scene where two girls kiss one another she didnt say "ewww". she trun and look at me (i saw it in the corner of my eye). we are both bi curious but i know she doesnt like me because we are friends but WTF why did she look at me?
i know friends can go out but she said she see me as a sister...idk
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He just stopped talking to me..WHY?
Posted Saturday June 21 2008, 12:42 am
Alright..I know that a lot of you guys probably already helped out a person whose been through this crises but my case is a bit different...
So this boy..lets call him Sam
well Sam is not so social like everyone else. Me and him would talk online for days and days and never get bored of each other. And we know each other because we go to the same church and we've been best buddies ever since...well ever since i got a boy friend.(i'm now single) But while i had this boyfriend i guess i stopped signing on and talking as much to Sam. And when me and this stupid boy broke up i was a horrible person and realized that...dang i just completely ignored my best friend cause i was so caught up with this boy friend i had...
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memory box...any ideas?
Posted Friday June 20 2008, 2:03 am
Hi everyone!
So this year, i graduated and all my friends are going different places, so i made this memory box for my best friend. It has a shirt in it with our picture on the front, and all our memories on the back. It has a photoalbum full of pictures of us, some rocks from an adventure we went on, a friendship bracelet, and a stuffed animal that we used as our campaign for class president. And theres the menu to our favorite resturant. But i feel like its missing somthing. Any ideas? Its a shoe box, and theres already a picture of us glud to the front. And ideas would be amazing, thank so much!
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clingy bff
Posted Thursday June 19 2008, 10:27 pm
okay so I have this best friend who is really clingy and obsessive. If I don't get to call or talk to her in like 3 days she freaks out. She calls basically 4 times a day and exspects me to always be waiting by the phone to answer it. Recently I haven't been able to talk to her and she claims I have changed, that I've been miserable and sad, and that I've been hiding from the world. I seriously have no idea what the heck that means.. and I even told this to her; yet she still doesn't make any sense. Another thing she does is freak out when she finds out I'm hanging out with other friends that she doesn't nessisarly like. It's like she wants to spend every second of the day with me and sometimes it just gets on my nerves. I mean I love the g...
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he keeps me coming back for more.
Posted Thursday June 19 2008, 9:32 pm
theres this guy - lets say his name is andrew.
andrew constantly flirts with me, for the past six months.
andrew considers me one of his top 5 girl friends, and he also flirts with the other four.
i told andrew that i like him about 2 months ago - then after a week, i said i had stopped, but our friendship still stayed the same.
then i told andrew recently that i had liked him again - andrew admitted that when i liked him before - he also kinda liked me.
andrew kept flirting with me - among with the other four girls.
but before i tell andrew i like him (the second time) - he talks about his relationship with this other girl - ally.
ally has a boyfriend named john - but she cheated on john w...
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Shutting People Out. Expecially The Close Ones.
Posted Thursday June 19 2008, 7:32 pm
We all here are probably in school, or out of school but we have all atended it. I'm that girl that's not good looking but have friends of both genders. I hear Im very bubbly, and outgoing. But at home Im the complete oppisite. I think I am suffering from depression, I just dont have the guts to tell my parents about it.
I do not get along with my Father at all. We can't have a decent conversation EVER. And my Moms never home, but when she is she's never listening. Anyway, during the past 9 months I haven't slept over anyones house. I hate my home but I have the oppurtunity to leave, but say something like O my Mom wont let me, or Babysetting sorry. And sometimes I get all excited and be like Yehh and ask and everything but right be...
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My Friend Does things she really shouldnt be doing at this a
Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 11:52 pm
Ok So, I'm 15 and my friend is 14. There's this guy that is 22 and she realy likes him. We talked the other night and she told me a whole bunch of things that really concerns me. First, This 22 year old guy that she likes has a girlfriend, and she is also one of my friends. Second, everytime him and her hug, he grabs her boob. She told me that one time, when they were walking around they started making out and it turned into more than just a makeout. He actually pulled down her shorts and underwear and fingered her. I can't believe she let him. I just don't want his girlfriend to get hurt, and I dont know what to tell my friend. Ive tried to talk to her but maybe im not saying the right things. Thanks for your help
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I saw something good/bad? and now I'm confused
Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 10:57 am
I'm 17f. Last weekend I was sleeping over my best friend's house. We're really close and she knows everything about me. But since we're both religious Jews and our families are too, we're very modest. We never change in front of one another or anything like that. One of us goes to the bathroom and other changes in the bedroom. Anyway, On Saturday I woke up at like 7;30 because I heard a noise. I looked around and saw my friend in her hed. She was on top of the blankets and her p.j. pants and panties were off. She was playing with herself. She must have thought I wouldn't wake up. Anyway I didn't move at all, and sort of squitned so it would look like my eyes were closed but really I could see her. Since her beds are in a L shape design, I s...
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How do you tell
Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 5:28 am
It sounds odd, but I sometimes get the feeling that my friends are no longer interested in remaining friends with me, but are being polite about it.
How can you tell if they no longer want you as a friend without outright asking them?
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Best Friend
Posted Tuesday June 17 2008, 9:51 pm
Im a female, turning 16.I had been very good friends with a girl across the street4about 9 years,her name is Jess.When I say very good friends I mean we were REALLY REALLY best friends.We were unseperable.Jess and I would do eVeRyThInG together,whether it b sitting together in class,drawing,dancing,going swimming,having girl talks,doing homework together,taking walks,having sleepless sleepovers,whatever it was,we did it together.I'll tell you now,that I am not a very popular gal.It is sort of hard for me to fit in with a crowd for they don't see me as 'good enough' 4them.I do like who I am,its just others dont see that.The only one that does is Jess.I would have 2change who I am in order 2fit in at my school.So,whenever I do try making frie...
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talking to some guys. is weird.
Posted Tuesday June 17 2008, 4:48 pm
15/f
Uh so sometimes, when I talk to guys my age, it's really hard to talk to them because of you know what: hormones. My mind just fogs over and I stop thinking and I say retarded things, even though I have no romantic interest in the guy at all. I don't get nervous around guys, it's just that when I anticipate myself messing up, I get nervous to talk to them. (also the thought of looking directly into certain guys' eyes makes me nervous)
How do I make myself handle talking to guys better? ty in advance <3.
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not sure what to do
Posted Tuesday June 17 2008, 11:59 am
I'm 17f. Last weekend I was sleeping over my best friend's house. We're really close and she knows everything about me. But since we're both religious Jews and our families are too, we're very modest. We never change in front of one another or anything like that. One of su goes to the abthroom and other changes in the bedroom. Anyway, On Saturday I woke up at like 7;30 because I heard a noise. I looked around and saw my friend in her hed. She was on top of the blankets and her p.j. pants and panties were off. She was playing with herself. She must have thought I wouldn't wake up. Anyway I didn't move at all, and sort of squitned so it would look like my eyes were closed but really I could see her. Since her beds are in a L shape ...
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friend & boyfriend
Posted Tuesday June 17 2008, 11:02 am
My friend, K, has a boyfriend, J, all of us [like our whole group] hate him. If he's making fun of us she'll tell him to stop, he will, but only for like 20 minutes. She really likes him. But hes sooo mean! He makes fun of me like 24/7. Honestly, this is kind of bitchy but, i've got the prettiest face, but i don't have a boobs of a butt. They do. Thats why they get all the guys. It's annoying. It's seriously getting to the point where i'd rather be alone all summer than have to go somewhere where J is going to be. K, i don't know. Were becoming closer and stuff, but this is ruining our friendship. I can't do anything without hearing some comeback from J or any other guys. ANd then if i sit there and be quiet, then they make fun of me for be...
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Guy and Girl Best Friends who stop talking cuz of another gi
Posted Monday June 16 2008, 9:26 pm
So a while ago I met this guy and we tried dating, but he was still in love with his ex of three years, so we decided to just be friends. Than they broke up again and he starting liking me.
One night he randomly calls me and says we need to stop talking because he is falling for me and doesn't want to. I was there for him the whole time and a week later we started talking again. He promised he would never do that to me ever again. We became best friends and were so close.
Just a few days ago he calls and says that he is going to get back with his ex and she doesn't like me, so he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. I was really upset and yelled at him for going back on his word. Now, I am feeling guilty. What should I ...
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friendship...love life?
Posted Monday June 16 2008, 8:37 pm
i have this friend, lets call her A. we're pretty good friends, but shes's more um...open to guys than me. don't get me wrong i can flirt and be very friendly with guys but she like sits on their laps and hooks up alot. she's really pretty.
heres my problem:
i feel like whenever i go somewhere and meet a guy with my other friends he supposedly tells my friends he "likes" me and wanted to go on a date or something. when i hang out with her the guy told my friends he "likes" her and denied ever liking me. shes really nice to me but she hooks up with alot of guys and she has hooked up with one of our good friend's guy (they werent officially going out but she knew she liked him) im kinda scared cause i...
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We used to be friends
Posted Monday June 16 2008, 3:21 pm
F/18
Couple of years back me and Anjy were best friends. We never fought in our five years of friendship and shared everything with each other. Then I changed school. Now things are different. We dont talk over the phone or im. We occasionally say a hi on facebook but that's about it. She got a bf after a difficult love life and got thru the best college and she did not even tell me. Now i go through her wall and see that she's been calling me a slut and stuff with my ex. Both of them are makin fun of me...I feel sad about the fact that she can do something like this.. I just wanna know how to get over her.
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i love(friendly way) her but....
Posted Monday June 16 2008, 2:28 pm
okay, we're best friends, lets call her Anna, and i love( like family) her to bits but she drives me crazy!!!! she'll ask me some advice and i'll tell her but, as soon as i say something she doesn't want to hear, she'll go mad at me! and lately, she's made a mistake with two of these guys, and she asked me my opinions on them, and i told her, my answer wasn't harsh at all, but she came out with the sort of answer like 'yeah, well you've never had a boyfriend so what the hell do you know?' my question is, should i tell her these things piss me off or should i just keep quiet and ignore them?
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awkward
Posted Monday June 16 2008, 1:38 pm
i'm female
okay, i've been 'best friends' with this girl for 3 years now and we're really close! but i sometimes feel we only talk, and i mean really talk when theres something wrong in one of our lives. and i was just wondering if thats normal, i mean like, do quite a lot of 'best friends' act like just friends until theres a time when they really need each other?
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