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how to get mom to shut up about my tight clothing
Posted Monday May 28 2007, 4:29 pm
ok i just realized that i have a big growing stomach. maybe because i cant stop eating at mcdonalds. i still try to fit into clothes that fit me about 50-60 pounds ago. i insist on wearing belly shirts with tight jeans, and i recently got my belly button pierced and i want to show it off. i dont really want to go on a diet or attempt to lose weight, and i dont care if my fat tummy spills over the top of my jeans and hangs out for everyone to see, i think i look just fine. the only problem is my mother, she constantly tells me that nobody wants to see my round jiggly belly and to cover it up. she even offers to buy me bigger sized clothes. but the thing is i dont want to buy bigger clothes, im 100% ok with letting everything hang out, idc wh...
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he's so inconsiderate
Posted Monday May 28 2007, 3:40 pm
my dad is the biggest jerk. technically he buys my affection with materialistic things but we don't spend time together because he's an a** hole. he always throws mine and my moms stuff around and thinks its "junk" but he thinks his stuff is so valuable. today he went through our shed outside and threw out all of my stuff. stuff from my childhood, stuff that i had emotional attachment to and all of my sleds for winter because i haven't used them...of course i haven't used them it summer!! he always says we have stuff we dont use and we should throw it out but we do use it he just doesn't believe us. my mom has been thinking about divorce because he's always been like this and he makes me and my mom wait on him hand and foot and wh...
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Pregnancy tests / drugs
Posted Monday May 28 2007, 10:06 am
If i get my blood taken to see if i am pregnant will it show up that i have smoked weed? If i go to planned parenthood and it shows up (my mom is taking me) will they tell her that I did drugs?
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what now for the yelling and since its summer now
Posted Monday May 28 2007, 1:27 am
now that its the summer im sooo board. im 13. im home alone atleast 6 days a week. im soo lonely and board. im home while my brother gets to go do what he wants and with who he wants my parents are gone out getting drunk or gambleing. ya thats my life. then everyone coming home. then the yelling starts then im wrong for everything and being yelled at for how i dress then it goes to who my friends are then my bad actions then music then makeup then so much more...GOD DAMN IT I HATE MY LIFE IM WRONG FOR EVERYTHING. haha o look talking about the bad news their home joy. sarcasm. g2g. but what do i do i cant take it its getting worse? o and now dad yelling ''GET DOWN HERE NOW I HAVE TO SPEAK TO YOU'' give you 2 guesses what did i do now. the us...
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my little sister is so different and gloomy
Posted Monday May 28 2007, 1:11 am
i am 21/f. how every sister wants a younger sister to do hair and make up and just girl stuff with. my little sister is so different. i miss her when we were little. shes just such a gloomy and dark person now. i moved out and i live far away right when i turned 18. our family was always just so bad and mean. shes not old enough to move out shes 13. our mom wont let her even go stay with me fo a week end or even come see me i have to go there. it takes over an hour to drive there. we hate our mom shes even harder on my little sister than she was on me. i feel so sorry for her. i dont know what to do. she hates our mom...she wears dark clothes has a dark personality and wears dark and alot of makeup but when i wanted to do makeup for her she...
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my dad
Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 9:57 pm
13/f i seriously cant stand my dad anymore. he had ADD (well it sure seems like it) ok i will fill you in on some things he does. i was in my room yesterday putting my clothes away, and there was this one shelf i put my old clothes on that don't fit me anymore. my dad came into my room and kicked me and was like why dont you wear these nice clothes anymore? and i was like because there too small i've had them since 5th grade (and im in 7th) and they are size 10 in girls and im size 14 in girls. i told him that, so he goes im not spending anymore money on your fatass anymore because i buy you so many clothes (and really, there was an orange BEBE shirt that my cousin gave me, and a BCBG sweatsuit that my mom bought me for 10 bucks a piece) i ...
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How do i tell her
Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 6:39 pm
17/f
How do I tell my mom that I am pregnant? She thinks I am a virgin, so not only do I have to tell her I had sex, but I also have to tell her that I am pregnant. Ever since I was little she told me that I would be the one to most likely get pregnant first (out of my older sister and I. I just don't know how to tell her. What do I say? How long will she stay mad?
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Myspace Addict
Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 6:28 pm
haha. most of us know how addicting myspace can be, and I had a myspace account for a while and now in high school they ban me from myspace because of drama that happenend with three of my enemies which involved alot of cussing and drama. I want to know the best way to approach my parents and get hem to let me have a myspace account because I'm an addict! :) ;)
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Guilt
Posted Saturday May 26 2007, 9:52 pm
Hey everyone, I need some help.
I've looked up things I wasn't supposed to for a really long time - without feeling guilty because most anyone at that age is normally interested in those types of websites. & I never felt guilty about it. Maybe because I'm growing up, that's what my mom said before. But this time I looked up some erotic type quizzes & became interested in them, then read an erotic story which I don't read very often but when given the chance - It's not uncommon for me to read it. So anyway, I feel really badly about it. Either that or indigestion, lol. That same kind of thing happened before when I didn't do anything wrong that day. I ate a lot today so maybe I'm just having indigestion? If not, can someone pl...
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my parents.
Posted Saturday May 26 2007, 8:33 pm
okay well my parents are so annoying
especially my dad and everytime i try to ask him something or talk to him he always ends up yelling at me and when i want to say my opinion he doesnt let me and he just screams at me. and usually hes the one thats wrong and i just dont know what to do
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more mom
Posted Saturday May 26 2007, 8:32 pm
Tonight my mom and I were talking about jewelry and clothes. She said she didnt care if I buy the jewelry, that it is my money and I should spend it the way I like.. Then we started to talk about clothes. And I told her that I want to go clothes shopping and buy some tee-shirts. She said with all the summer and winter clothes you have you dont need any
more clothes. You need an apartment. I told her that the best times to buy clothes is at the end of the season for two reasons one everyone knows (cheaper) and for another no one knows (they keep some clothes to release at the end of the season). I said to her are you saying you dont think I should ever buy clothes and she said when did I ever say that. She then said to me; that I ...
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i smoked a ciggerate and lost my trust
Posted Saturday May 26 2007, 7:01 pm
my name is Rachel and iam 18 years old and about two weeks ago i started smoking after my cousin let me try it for the first time when i was 17 but the only reason she let me try it was to see what a horrible habit it was and she told me to promise her never to do it again so i promised her i wouldn't smoke another ciggerate again but 2 weeks ago i broke that promise and smoked a ciggerate and now i can't stop for some reason and my cousin is really mad at me and she dosn't trust me i told her i'll try to quit but she dosn't belive me how do i earn my trust back?
How do i stop smoking?It's just it's hard to quit when i see my cousin smoking so how am i suppose to keep that promise?
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anxiety
Posted Saturday May 26 2007, 12:03 pm
What is your definition of skinny enough? And when someone says that to you are they implying that you were never skinny or that you were overweight before: Here is the story so you know what I am referring to: STORY: I am thin and A FEW DAYS AGO when I came home from work I changed into a tee-shirt but wore the same pants I wore to work. She asked me as I sat down to eat if I lost weight, and I said no, but this upset me. I said to her that she always tells me I look beautiful. She said you do look beautiful but your pants look bigger. And she told me that I am skinny enough.
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unreasonable SO MAD (really need help)
Posted Friday May 25 2007, 5:16 pm
OKAY. well I like REALLY so badly want a trampoline and its like not even funnyy like i am obssesed over it SOO much but my parents never listen. I am only 13 and they say i cant get one because its dangerous..
i keep trying to convince them but i am running out of options.. I KNOWW I KNOWW its dangerous but still i know how to be careful :-)
alsoo... they think i will enjoy for a week and then forget about it like i did with my old tether-ball i had.. BUT i didnt even want the tether ball they just got it for my brithday. AND my cousin broke it. but this is totally different and they dont understand that i will be on it everyday.. they dont trust me.
SO I NEED ADVICE.. DOES ANYONE KNOW ANY OTHER WAY TH...
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ehh... family problems.
Posted Thursday May 24 2007, 9:46 pm
i wrote this last night:
titleless- blog 16
love doesnt exist.
people spend their whole lives searching for love
and end up short handed.
because it doesnt exist.
if it did, then i wouldnt have half as many problems as i do now.
my whole life is one big mistake.
every single breath i breathe makes me more of a failure.
no one understands where im coming from when i write this shit down.
at times it seems like no one really wants to.
they'd rather blame me than try to help me.
which in turn, makes everything worse for me.
i absolutely hate looking in the mirror.
i dont see the same girl t...
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my mom wont...
Posted Thursday May 24 2007, 3:01 pm
let me go out wit my guy friends
i have to lie to her just to go sumtimes but i haven been feelin real guilty so i have stopped
she basically thinks that all my guy friends are my boyfriends
now i know she doesnt think im a whore but come on
wat can i do ??
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do i actually give a shit?
Posted Thursday May 24 2007, 2:38 pm
theres this person i dont really know if i can call her a freind now because for some reason i have no idea why ... i just stopped likeing her :S its the most embarrasing shit ever but the story goes a little like this:
her parents are going to move to austraila and she has to go (i live some were far away from there but as my name says i like to stay annon-ymous in case anyone i know reads this) so, as you can tell i was upset. Its now been about 3 months and while the sad feelings for the news have worn off and now my feelings for our freindship have gone too. its gone from awesome freinds to dull, then to nothingness, now i just dont wonna see her hear her and i just dont like her has any one else had this? or heard of th...
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Uncle's self-image.
Posted Thursday May 24 2007, 12:20 pm
I have an uncle, who's kind of on the "outside" of society. It's weird, but think of it as a person who's on the outside in highschool, it's kind of like that. He doesn't have good chances of getting a job, or being heard/seen at all so he doesn't really have a chance to get himself a good self-image either.. i want to help him, or atleast give him advice when he taölks about this with me, cause all i can do when he tells me how he feels is cry.. it's awful, he's seriously on the OUTSIDE of society, y'all know how that feels in highschool, being left out, imagine living your whole life lika that. I'm trying to convince him that HE needs to take a step towards getting himself out of his situation, but it's not easy - what do I say...
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advice
Posted Wednesday May 23 2007, 11:05 pm
PLEASE KEEP in mind she only said the nasty thing about online advice websites when we were fighting. Three days ago my mom was cranky and
kept snapping at me to the point we had a a tiff. During the course of the fight she said; I
know you ask questions about weight and other things on the computer, these people are
not experts, I see what you do; (But she really does not see because I log out when she
comes near my computer) And of course she and I went back and forth saying nasty things
to one another. (But I like asking and getting advice on Advicenators and other websites
like Advicenators and the advice makes me feel better.) SO MY QUESTION: If you were
me (or even it happened to you) a...
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sister
Posted Tuesday May 22 2007, 9:50 pm
my sister is 8 and reall annoying!
she is always over my shoulder reading everything on the internet that comes up.
as a matter of fact, she is reading this right now.
she is also always stuck up my ass when i have friends over and im am deff. 7 years older then her.
tell me what to do , please.
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