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Finding a way to fit in
Posted Sunday June 29 2008, 12:28 pm
I haven't really 'fit in' since the 6th grade when I was a cheerleader and hung out with their crowd.
Ever since then, I've had one or two friends.For the most part I'm just a helping hand when a random person needs it.
I just need a little advice as to finding a group or a few more friends to have a good time with. I'm in several clubs and sports teams, but I always seem to be the odd one out.
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group name. ( short question )
Posted Sunday June 29 2008, 2:00 am
ok well i have three bestfriends, and we're tryini to figure out a group name for ourselves. andrea lexy morgan & johnee.!!
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how to let him down before he gets his hopes up.
Posted Saturday June 28 2008, 11:39 pm
17/f. ok so my best friend and i have went to this club a couple times. the last time we went was a week ago, and i had just broken up with my boyfriend [18] of 4 months 3 days before. we met these two guys, and the one i danced with is now interested in me. both me and my friend exchanged numbers with these guys, and have been talking ever since, just through myspace and text, though. this guy really likes me, and wants to hangout & go to eat and whatever. he's a nice guy, and sure, going to eat would be fun. however, the [ex]-boyfriend and i are talking again, and trying to work through our problems so we can be happy again. but technically, im still single. i feel kinda bad, because this guy does like me alot, and he's fun to hang ou...
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i didnt know where to put this...
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 10:53 pm
I'm going to a sweet sixteen tomorrow and I dont know anyone (except for the bday girl)!!! what do i doo?! I know i should be outgoing and all... but i dont want to be like weird about it...
yahh. help please!?!
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I'm so lost in what to do...
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 9:14 pm
The thing is, I broke up with my girlfriend several months ago, through a note. Stupidest move ever, never try it. Supposedly we broke up because I'm emapthic and I express other peoples emotions. To her, that meant I didn't love her. So we broke up because of that. What really started it was the fact she mentioned something on IM that she would normally say out loud. I believe that if you can mention something in a message or IM, you can just say it. She wouldn't and the whole empathic thing whatever. So we broke up.
Now, I can't stop thinking about it. Turns out, I've figured out, according to myself, that I gave her a chance to come back and we could start over. I waited and waited only to find out she's dating some other ...
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I love my friend but.....
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 5:38 pm
I asked this guy I really like/love out and he lied and said he is taken which isnt true, because my friend said so. She said he wanted to go out with me but then why would he turn me down? And plus she said he told me a lie so I wouldn't bother him. What should I do? I still like him but I don't want him to hate me and I want to talk to him without him thinking I'm bothering (I never bothered, I took time out of my life to say hi everyday!).
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My friend
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 3:16 pm
Hey, so me and my friend slept over this guys house the other night. Well the next day [like th day i woke up at his house] my town had this carnival so I walked up to him and I was like Hey! and he was just like Heyy. and We walked away from eachother..whats wrong with me? like what did i do to piss him off.
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friend's obesity and my worry
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 2:17 am
My friend (15/F) is definitely over weight. I know that nobody's perfect, and stuff. But she's at the point where it's a potential health risk! It could possibly be my fault for not helping her earlier, but I can't exactly change that now.
Her parents don't exactly help, though. Her dad makes unhealthy, meaty, casseroles almost every night. So, she isn't used to eating healthy foods. And I guess she's too oblivious to notice what she's eating.
Her parents also pressure her a lot. For example, there isn't a waking moment when her dad isn't nagging about some sort of walking. To be blunt, both of her parents are always reminding her of her obesity.
She has a short attention span, and gets annoyed...
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Moving...
Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 1:55 pm
My best friend is moving away. I tell her everything and she's always the one I go to if I'm sad or angry. Basically, she's pretty much a sister to me. But now she's moving =(
I've moved hundreds of times before...but this is weird because now someone's moving away from me instead of the other way around. And it's just different ya know? I'm perfectly fine usually moving away because there's the possibility of a new beginning. But when she moves away, I'm still stuck here...without her.
Does anybody have any tips on how to cope when a friend moves away? I just don't know what to do.
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annoying friend...
Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 8:09 am
I have an annoying friend and she always talks about her self. I like her because we are besties, but she only talks about HER and what she will be doing and who she talked to and blah blah blah... Everytime I talk about me or anything other than her she changes the subject or doesn't listen to me. She also would ditch me to sit at the back of the class or with cooler people, and she doesn't care if i end up sitting by myself. Please help me, I don't know how to let her know she is making me angrier every day. What should I say to her?
PS. I have tried talking to her about it but she refused to listen and wouldn't take in what I was saying.
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my friend is having many problems
Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 12:25 am
my friend, he's going through alot of things right now.. like girl problems... like this girl says she likes him, but yet she can't get over her ex because she lost it to him.. and it's driving him crazy because of that. he is having family problems and he only has one friend which is like his sister. which, i can't give much information out about that.. because he won't tell me much. it's basically that he's been bottling all of these problems up and is about to explode. he told me he's a failure in life because most people said he was going to be a failure in life. he doesn't know where he's going in live, and the reason why he's living because of the few people that loves him & the people he loves... i don't know what to say to him.....
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Friends birthday
Posted Wednesday June 25 2008, 9:10 pm
My friends birthday is tomorrow and I have no idea what I should do for her, or even what I should get her. Suggestions? By the way she's turning 15.
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Is it okay if your parents don't know ?
Posted Wednesday June 25 2008, 8:57 pm
Is it okay to be bi, have 1 gf and 1bf and not tell your parents?
How do u no if ur bi, lesbian or straight?
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i wanna be alot more out going
Posted Wednesday June 25 2008, 2:00 am
i want to be like those really cool teenagers the really fun outgoing ones that everyone wants to be friends with but IDK how too get things started or what to make people wanna hang out with me can you give me some tips and dont say just be yourself cause I guess that doesnt work
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I've been having trouble making friends
Posted Tuesday June 24 2008, 10:46 am
I've been having troubles with making friends. I had a lot before. But now they've all turned on me since I started going out with this one guy. They call me a #### ... and they think I "sleep around" .. Which I most certainley dont. And I can't seem to understand why they would say all of these mean things to me. I just want it to all end. What should I do?
Sincerly,
Truly Confused.
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longdistance
Posted Tuesday June 24 2008, 12:20 am
i'll give you some background information .. ok so my bestfriend of the opposite sex lives in massachusetts and i live in newyork. we're both 16. we met three years ago at our grandparent's retirement development in florida while we were both there visiting. we obviousily became really good friends. neither of our grandparents live in florida anymore as of last year. last summer we really wanted to see eachother so we both convinced out parents to let me go to massachusetts to see him .. and i did and we had an amazing time. so i went back this past april for a week and you can totally say we became more than friends in april. it was the first time we had hooked up.
it doesnt seem that he has any sort of interest in ...
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what do they want!?
Posted Monday June 23 2008, 6:17 pm
uggh;;
well i honestly dont think im unattractive
and i kno guys dont think im ugly
but at my age all guys want is ass
and im not going to be a whore
and give it to them
are there other things
that guys look for
besides whether or not
they're gunna get some!?
pleeease help me
im getting sick of being single
[it would be great if i could get some guy's thoughts on this]
alrighteyy thanks =]
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Craves Attention
Posted Monday June 23 2008, 12:23 am
One of my "friends" is always always always trying to be in the spotlight. It's so annoying. I'm like not even her friend anymore because she's treated me so badly and stepped all over me to get attention. All my other friends knew this about her and were on my side, but then she shoved me out of the way (like she always does). So, now they're on her side =[
I just don't know what to do. I'm a generally shy person at heart, but when I'm with my friends it's so much easier to be outgoing and such. In fact, I am quite outgoing with friends. It's just that with her always around sometimes even literally shoving me out of the way, it's so hard to be myself. Every time I try and say something funny, she'll do something stupid li...
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cheering up
Posted Sunday June 22 2008, 7:36 pm
okay this is may sound confusing.
my friend and i were best friends all last year. i started to like him, we were open about it. he understood i didnt want to like him that way..and we put it to the side and didnt make of a big deal about it. last august, i realized i became in love with him.. again i was open to him about it, and he helped me and i felt comfortable about it. late november, he started dating this girl, he liked for the longest time. all was well.. the 2 of us, we had a rocky friendship and realized we needed space, we weren't friends really from mid-late feb till the 1st of june, though for 2 1/2 weeks in march we became friends and then went back to not being friends.. we still stood by each other, helped each othe...
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Broken friendships over being roomates.
Posted Sunday June 22 2008, 12:11 pm
Yesterday I lost my best friend. I thought of him as my brother. He was living with me in my condo for maybe 8 months with me and my boyfriend. For the past two months I had been charging him rent because things are getting really hard with money and originally he was living here for free. Free as in he didn't even have to buy his own food. He was going through a tough time and I let him in my home. Him and my boyfriend and me had a really close relationship since high school, but then he seemed to get really into his girlfriend who he had been with for 9 months and he proposed to. He started to seem like he was more interested in her than us. He even actually told me straight to my face that he cared about her more than me and my boyfriend...
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