|
Viewing QuestionsFamilies
We know you love your family, but sometimes issues come up where a little advice is helpful. Ask your question here.
How to feel unguilty??
Posted Tuesday June 5 2007, 12:51 pm
I'm 20 years old and I have a bf who's 21. My bf and I live in different city. Just this week, he went in our house to have his vacation. He's very much welcome in our house because my mum is a cool mum and my sister is so nice that they became close immediately. The problem is with my aunt. I already introduced my bf to my relatives and everyone likes him because he's a nice guy, except to my aunt. She was so angry because she said that it's not nice that a guy would come to a girl's house and sleep there.(we sleep in different room) My bf stayed with us in our house for 2 weeks. My aunt told us things that made me cry. She said that she's pretty sure that my bf and I already had sex and that maybe i wouldn't graduate from college because ...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
life sucks
Posted Monday June 4 2007, 4:50 pm
I feel so alone right now.
I'll start from the beginning.
About 6 months ago I found out my parents were having marital problems. I was really shocked because everyone looked at my parents as the "perfect couple" and so did I. My dad was always my best friend. Everyone knew I was his favorite and he spoiled me so much. and then I found out he cheated on my mom with a 28 year old nurse he works with. I was crushed. He moved out just to clear his head for 3 months but he promised not to see this girl. Right before christmas my mom got a strange feeling and went to a restaurant near his work and she found my dad and that girl at the bar. After that my dad begged to come back. So we let him. It was great for a while unti...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
guys answer this
Posted Monday June 4 2007, 4:29 pm
so this kid liked me. and i liked him we went out and he broke up with me and im still not over him he has this never ending crush on this one girl which she just teases him. and i was wondering from A GUY. A GUY. why do you have crushes liek that i mean i know girls do to but it seems to occure more with guys. have you ever liked a girl and dumped her and liked her again?? if so what did she do to catch your attention, how does any girl catch your attention.??
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
SNOOPS.
Posted Monday June 4 2007, 2:59 pm
omg i went to log onto my account today when the computer starts and i clicked my username and it went right to my username! i have a password and i didnt have to type in the password.. somebody obviously changed my account and made it so i dont need a password. and whoever it was had easy access to my aim, myspace, yahoo, photobucket, and all of my accounts. it was definitely my parents snooping around. but i wanna catch them red handed so they cant deny it. whats proof that they did it besides the fact that my password was deleted? also, whoever it was deleted my history so i cant check if they went on any websites.. computer wizzes please help!
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
just need to convince her!
Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 9:08 pm
I really want a sidekick 3 so badly. I mean i'm 13 and i'm willing to pay every penny for it and even the bill which would be 50 dollars a month. My mom is basically not letting me get it because of the 2 year contract. She doesn't believe I will have 50 dollars every month to pay it. Well I have a mothers helper job and the lady calls me AT LEAST once a week and I get paid 6 dollars and hour. Also I work there anywhere from 2-4 hours. She's like well you don't have a JOB. I'm like well you need a real job to pay water, electric bills and mortages and taxes every month, not a little cell phone bill. Please don't say I might go over my minutes cause I just won't. Is there ANY ANY way I can show my parents I WILL have 50 dollars a month to pa...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
My 14 year old cousin is talking to a drud using 17 year old
Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 8:54 pm
my cousin is a good girl who has a lot of friends, is popular in school and gets great grades. Shes hanging out with this one girl Jenni who is a complete slut (but shes ugly as hell) and is getting Jackie(my cousin) to talk to these older boys on myspace. Shes talking to this one kid whos 17, dropped out of Highschool, does drugs, sells drugs, and has sex. Apparently he came to her house once with pot and a condom and was talking to her outside, but no one knew it ever happend. Me and her are really really close and i am always trying to protect her but now shes growing up and doesnt want me to protect her. shes lying to me about ahnging out with boys, even when they are boys in her own grade who i dont mind her haning out with. I dont ...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
Parents Taking Anger Out On Me
Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 8:49 pm
My parents always take their anger out on me.
My dad has been doing it for years, so I've gotten used to it.
Lately, my mom has become irritated with my dad,
and it seems like every day, she finds something to yell at ME about,
when I know she's really mad at my dad, not me.
She'll yell at me about the dumbest things like having too many files on the computer.
A few hours after she yells at me, she apologizes,
and asks if I accept her apology, which I don't,
because I think that's unacceptable that my parents can just take their anger out on me.
Do you think I should talk to my parents, or at least my mom about this?
I really think we need to go to family counseli...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
I'm really worried about my cousin!
Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 3:31 pm
My cosuin is almost 12 years old and she's very small for her age. She's only 4'8 and she's very very skinny. (The small height runs in the family) Last weekend, I saw her at a cookout and she told me that she'd hadn't eaten in almost a week! I'm worried about her because she won't tell her mother and father and she's already really small and I'm worried that she might have a problem if she doesn't eat! Should I tell her parents or let them find out?
Shannon
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
Cousin = love, hate, envy, pitty..
Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 2:37 pm
I have so many mixed feelings! But mostly I'm jealous of her. We've been best friends since we were born, everyone thinks we're twins, we love eachother to death. That is not fake! I do love her more than anyone and would risk my life for her! And that makes me envy her EVEN MORE! Because I know anyone would - the girl is perfect! Who wouldn't love her? She is soo pretty (in the obvious way AND the not so obvious way, she can be compared to any celebrity and she'd win) she is so smart, she has a double major - biology and pshycology! She has won so many awards for sports. She volounteers and helps out whenever she can. She is a good christian, a great friend (always there for me), awesome sister, and amazing daughter. She is never ungratef...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
Oops??
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 9:19 pm
Ok so I was at the mall with my family because my mom had this idea that we should have a family day. Anyway on while we're there I saw some girls from my school that I know hate me and would just ignore me otherwise i'd have said hi. But i tried to hide and no they didn't see me but my parents say I'm not allowed myspace if any drama happens and I wanna know if that counts did I blow it?
thanks in advance
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
somebody help
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 9:33 am
i think i just wanna leave this world and
never come back. i HATE HATE HATE HATE my
family.you just dont know what ive been
through. its untakable. i just turned 13
a couple of months ago and im too young
to be dealing with this. my parents are
cheap selfish people and they wont buy
me ANY clothes. and thats against the law
you know. they have to provide me with clothing
but they dont. i already have 2 jobs but obviously
they cant pay for all the clothes i want.
all of my clothes have rips in them and they
arent even summer they are longsleeves and i
think im gunna fricking sweat to death in them.
this just isnt fair to me. i already pa...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (7) ]
iam tired of being taken advantage of
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 10:38 pm
my name is Rachel and iam 18 years old and my cousin traci always bosses me around and she's 15 years old and if i don't do what she says she says she won't speak to me again what should i do?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (8) ]
overprotective parents
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 10:31 pm
13/f
The whole school is going on a field trip to this lesiure place called Holiday Hill. I was planning on wearing my new bikini but my parents won't let me. I'm not going to be the odd-one-out wearing a 1pc or tankini. I was planning on wearing it or changing into it there but is there because of this, but how can I talk to my parents about this? What do I say?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
beach... house... dreamlife
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 6:51 pm
where can you buy houses like near beaches like this? http://a913.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/00639/21/96/639036912_l.jpg
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
Trust
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 11:19 am
my name is Rachel and iam 18 and i smoke and i get the ciggerates from my cousin but the thing is she didn't know that i got them from her until this morning and now she is pissed off at me becouse when i was 17 she let try smoking becouse i was curious and wanted to know what it was like but she made me promise to never do it again so i promised her i wouldn't do it again but now she won't even speak to me becouse she's mad becouse she thinks my mom'll find out that i started smoking at her house and won't let me come back anymore and she thinks i hate her but i don't .I don't know why i wanted to smoke i didn't know it would make my cousin this mad at me becouse we've never even had a fight before in my life becouse we used to be so clos...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
My nephew
Posted Thursday May 31 2007, 10:45 pm
This question is for 23 year old males. I have a nephew who is 23 and is the following normal behavior for a 23 year old. I am very close to him (and have always been close to him as well as his 16 year old brother - my other nephew) but he doesnt call me anymore or IM me any more and the only time we we spend together is at family functions. He lives only 5 minutes away. Does he do it because he thinks it annoys me or is there another reason? I am really hurt and I love him (as well as his brother - my other nephew) HELP
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
i want my baby pict !
Posted Tuesday May 29 2007, 10:20 pm
SORRY THIS IS SO LONG!im 14 and when i was born my mom put me into a foster home(couldnt take care of me)(i have 9 blood brothers/sisters) and when i was 4 i was adopted and given to a great family.the problem is the adoption people said that they lost the photo album with my mom/grandma/and me in it.my foster mom had baby pictures of me but when i left she wouldnt give me any of them because she was mad that she couldnt keep me(leagal reasons).the youngest pict i have of myself is when i was 4 right before i was adopted(school pict) but i really want to see baby pict of me and also pict of my mom/grandma.for some reason my parents get mail from the adoption adency(its like a bill)and i was curious so i took one.i have the name of the agenc...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
Moms and teenage daughters
Posted Tuesday May 29 2007, 6:27 pm
This is a question for teenage girls. My daughter and I have always been very close. She's always been very open with me and willing to share things about school, friends, boys, etc. Now that she's 13, though, things have changed some. Sometimes I can tell she's upset about something, but when I ask her what's wrong, she doesn't want to talk about it. I realize this is normal, that she wants some privacy and doesn't need her mom butting in on everything. But I also know it sometimes helps to talk about things instead of keeping them inside. I want her to know that I'm here for her and that she can tell me anything. Should I keep trying to get her to talk, or should I just leave her alone and hope she'll open up if she needs me?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (11) ]
tired of being taken advantage of
Posted Tuesday May 29 2007, 2:41 pm
I now have a daughter N Law that doesnt like me. We are oil and water. When she comes to see her dad, she ignores me...even at my birthday party..she came out of duty but didnt even say hi. However, when she wants her hair cut, she asks me to save her money and do it. I sacrifice my husband being home every Friday to go to spend time with his grandson (her son) and we also watch him often overnight to help her out...however I am tired of being taken advantage of. If we talked I would have no problem with it, but her blatent rudeness has gotten on my last nerve. She takes advantage of her dad too but he loves her and its his daughter so he doesnt seem to care...but I DO. What should I do? Do I tell my husband I dont want to be taken advant...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
Why..?
Posted Tuesday May 29 2007, 10:52 am
Alright, so.. my grandma died.. and I really really really loved her. I'm crying my eyes out right now, and I feel so incredibly horrible. All she wanted to do was see me, but I couldn't make it.. I really couldn't without jeopardizing my own life (long story, but trust me there was no way) and my mother told me that when she heard I couldn't be there, she was extremely depressed.. and died the next day. But now, the real trouble is.. Why didn't I call her?! I guess, in some way I was naive and thought she would get better and I would be able to talk to her later.
But I am so stupid. She didn't get better at all. I can't deal with myself now. I feel so guilty for not calling her when she needed me. Of course, I did try severa...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
|