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My SISTERS EX


Posted Monday January 4 2016, 4:45 pm

Hii,

23,F.

Lately I've gotten close to my sisters ex who treated me like a little sister for years and everything was fine until 1 day we are sitting in his jeep and the roof top was missing so I was teasing him saying my back was soaked and he asked where and went to reach for my back and the next thing I know we are kissing. NOW. My sister and him were never official and it was only for a couple months and she broke things off with him 4 years ago, she's now happily married and she's actually friends with him. Would it be wrong for me to pursue this?

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He says he can see a better future without me


Posted Monday January 4 2016, 11:35 am

22/f, 29/m

Our relationship is a bit complicated. We had a lot of problems in the relationship due to trust issues. He broke my trust several times. He lied to me, hid things from me, and said things to his ex-girlfriends that he shouldn't have said. Because of that, it caused me to be anxious and insecure in the relationship.

He broke up with me a few times last month in December and the official break up with on New Years Eve. He told me that he still loved me and that maybe later on, we could try again. We even agreed that neither of us would date anybody in January and he even wanted to keep seeing me from keep me from moving on. I was feeling very conflicted and confused from what he was saying and doing....

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Posted Monday January 4 2016, 10:14 am

I am currently in a situation where I have to with my family for a few weeks and it's hard for me because I can't stand being around them. I need to block out their sound with headphones or else I go absolutely nuts and my anxiety level hits the roof. Finally I've found something that calms me and gets me out of my head: Netflix. As soon as an absolute miracle like this comes in to my life I have to give it up because the internet doesn't work in my room, which is my only place to be alone. What are alternatives to using the Internet, that will get me out of my head, give my mind something structured to focus on and is easy?

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nervous?


Posted Monday January 4 2016, 9:43 am

so i kinda like this dude..???
i want to chat with him (text) but i mean like we often chat too but its like maybe few days a chat?? sometimes i wanted to text him but im too nervous... im scared that he'll ignore my message and cant seem to think of a good topic to start the conversation...
any tips on starting the conversation?

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new year bf trouble


Posted Monday January 4 2016, 8:23 am

So i will never hear from him again and we hav been seeing each otha a year and 8 months chatting everyday bt lately i dnt knw what happend we hardly spoke nowadays he would stl ignore my text bt then reply randomly..i was so clingy at once but he still showed up mayb he was just using me..so was that was the last time he i heard frm hm on new year and eventhough i wont text first and just leave hm alone i stl wont hear frm hm ?? Will he even notice if i just remove myslf nd stay quiet instead of hm doing..wl he even miss me..im jst asking though and if he shows up what must i do

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new years eve pleas help


Posted Monday January 4 2016, 1:48 am

Hi i recently posted a question about my ex boyfriend on new years and what happend..well the following day i texted hm to say sorry for phoning him and that it wont happen again he must njoy hs weekend..he then texted back and said that he was stuck in the middle of nowhere without diesel so he wasnt in the best mood when i phoned i then asked hw did he get home,he read it but did not reply..later the night i wen on whatsapp and saw that he blocked me from his one number i then inboxd hm on fb and askd if hs whatsapp is working coz i cant see hs number and then he said its cause you did the same thing you just done a few minutes ago so i axd did he block me and he said yes i then asked so what does that mean and he told me it means nothing...

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We slow danced now what!?


Posted Monday January 4 2016, 12:24 am

I recently met this guy at university... We went out for coffee and for walks almost every day 9 times in two weeks. Then he asked me to slow dance with him at the school dance. This caused conflict as there is another one of my friends who apparently liked him. Anyways, the guy and I went out and he said that he just wants to take it slow. He recently came out of his one and only relationship (a short 6 month relationship) and I want to respect his space. He never was intimate with her or kissed her so I am pretty hopeful. I am unsure of what to do next... I keep remembering the dance and all of our conversations. I have never dated anyone before and would love some pointers. He seems like a great guy! He had his head on straight and i...

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I am unsure what is actually going on with me.


Posted Sunday January 3 2016, 5:01 pm

I have crushed on this guy since 7th grade. He's absolutely perfect. We started talking last summer, but then I went back to my ex and told the guy I was talking to that my ex came first because I had strong feelings for him, even though my ex was not the better pick. So i left the other guy hanging. Me and my ex broke up and then I started talking to the other guy again. I was head over heels for him, even when I was with my ex. After we talked for a while and got to know each other, we started dating. We have been dating for almost 3 months. He's so amazing. He's the perfect guy. But i'm not sure I want to be with him anymore. I have doubted this since a couple days after we started dating. When he's away, I always have thoughts about bre...

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He dont want to have sex...


Posted Sunday January 3 2016, 3:24 am

He don't ever want to have sex anymore unless we are drunk. He says he is always tired.

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Blackheads


Posted Sunday January 3 2016, 2:19 am

I have asked a question on here before about this, but I have blackheads on my nose, and I have tried the biore nose strips, but they didn't work. I have tried them several times, and have made sure I have used them properly. I've also tried to use a DIY scrub with nutmeg and a little bit of milk, that didn't really work either. Are there any suggestions on what will get rid of these black heads?? Thanks!

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Left out friend.


Posted Sunday January 3 2016, 2:06 am

Hi so I have a friend who is in the group of friends that I'm in. She is such a nice and loyal friend, but the rest of the group don't really consider her their friend. Now don't get me wrong my group of friends are really nice and caring, I don't know why they don't but they don't really invite her to things that we do. When I did stick up for her and try to tell them that she should be invited to these things they just didn't really say anything because they don't like drama. So we have organised a big get together that everyone in our group is going to, but the person who organised it didn't invite her. I asked her if she invited her and she said that it's too many people. I think I will just not go to this gathering, and do something wi...

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It seems like he cant stand anything i do.


Posted Sunday January 3 2016, 1:39 am

It was great at first but now any little thing i do he cant stand it or it annoys him. He acts distant till it is time to lay down and even after that he is right back to the distant act. I caught him in a lie the other day by telling me he didnt go to his friends house when he did.He said he didnt want to tell me cause i would be mad. Im so confused because this is never what i expected from him.

Im 21 felmale and he is 27 male

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Anxiety at 25 weeks


Posted Sunday January 3 2016, 12:39 am

I'm a ftm and I'm 25 weeks pregnant and I've suffered from anxiety since I was a little girl. Through my pregnancy I've had stress and a ton of it but nothing triggered me. About 2 days ago I went to the hospital because I had a panic attack I couldn't catch my breath and I was shaking and nauseous and a crying mess. I've never really had panic attacks where I can't take a deep breath. I got released the told me it was all my anxiety because my lungs and heart were healthy. When I got home and the days passed every day it'd happen throughout the day and sometimes I feel like I won't be able to catch my breath and panic and it gets worse, has this happened to anyone? Any tips :(

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developing feelings and not sure if they are mutual


Posted Saturday January 2 2016, 7:35 pm

21/f
So about a week ago I stepped out of my comfort zone and went on a blind date with someone I met online. I have never done this before and I was so worried that he would look nothing like his pictures or be really weird. He picked me up and we went for drinks and it was so easy to talk to him and everything felt so natural. He was very open and said he has met up with 2 other girls about a month ago on a blind date and it was very awkward and nothing ever happened. One red flag i discovered was that he got out of a 2 year engagement about 4 months ago. When he dropped me off he kissed me goodbye and texted me right away saying he had a great time. He lives about 5 hours away but was in my city because all of his family lives her...

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Why do people care so much about when I sleep?!


Posted Saturday January 2 2016, 12:30 pm

I like to stay up at night and sleep during the day. I wish sometimes that I could sleep all day, but for some reason people act like I just killed their entire family if I sleep past 11am.

I don't understand why it's such a huge freaking deal? I still get everything I need to get done and more, I just do it at night instead of during the day.

In fact, I think it's way easier to do things at night because you're not constantly waging war against mobs of people to get your grocery shopping or other errands done. I mean when I have to go to work or class I still get up for that, but as an adult I feel like it's my right to make my own schedule! Most of the time I wind up awake by 10am anyways because if I sleep...

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new year new me right....?!


Posted Saturday January 2 2016, 11:41 am

so i have this recent crush which i know we will never be together since we are like 10 years apart and living in different cities... ive often dream of him but i try not to think of him during the day although 90% of the time everything that i do will make me relate to him...
so since its 2016 new year, are there any ways to forget this crush?

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any good recommendations??


Posted Saturday January 2 2016, 11:19 am

hey guys i was wondering if u guys have any song recommendations about heart break and like love hurts and stuff? i know there are loads but maybe something similar to gnash and blackbear's style??
thanks guysx

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My Bf ignores me


Posted Saturday January 2 2016, 5:51 am

Hi!I am a girl of 20years and I've been trying to be in a serious relationship but I keep on failing. I am in a relationship for 1 month with a guy who is 24years.I thought he is serious but I was just fooling my self.I love him so much and I told my family about him. my bf don't talk to me and I did nothing wrong .I tried to talk to him but he don't care.I tried to raise this issue to him but he keeps on ignoring him.he dont talk,call,texts or reply nor answer my calls.I don't know what I did to deserve this and I don't know what to do.please help me and give me advice

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Can I realistically afford my college's tuition if I also work?


Posted Friday January 1 2016, 9:54 pm

My college's tuition (including dorm) is going to be about 18k a year. I also have to pay a car payment of $300 a month and insurance of $120. So if I'm rounding up my expenses would be around 23.5k a year not including gas and some food expenses though I'm on a meal plan for 7 meals a week so I wouldn't have to cook that much as I usually only eat twice a day.

If I work somewhere between part-time and full-time can I afford my college's tuition?

This would be in the state of Florida...

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I got 99 problems, but a crap ain't one...


Posted Friday January 1 2016, 6:18 pm

For some reason, i can't take a crap. Can you tell me what i need to eat to fix my diet? Thank you.

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