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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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getting out more?


Posted Friday July 4 2008, 1:46 pm

i don't really like my friends and i want to meet more people and get out more, i hate staying inside.

any suggestions/tips/ideas?

thanks!

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I'm in love with my Best Friend...Help!


Posted Friday July 4 2008, 10:58 am

Basic Question: I'm in love with my best friend who is a guy, should I tell him?


Details: Okay, so this year I had my first "guy friend" and he is really nice and we talk on the phone all the time.I moved away and so now we talk on the phone even more.I really like him as more than a friend and he is my first crush i have liked for more that looks it being he's not hte most beautiful guy, he's kinda a nerd but that is beyond the point. For a while he was going out with this one girl so I had to pretend completely not to like him. Now they have broken up it's been about a month and from what he is telling me it wasn't a very dramatic break up. I really want to tell him and but I'm horrid nervous it will ruin ...

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My sweet 16 - candle dedication


Posted Friday July 4 2008, 2:21 am

i don't really know what to say for my candles. and who to dedicate them too... its a really hard decision and i dont want anyone to get upset! what should i do?

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adding friends.


Posted Friday July 4 2008, 1:10 am

some people on myspace i don't know very well. what are some things to say when adding them? and what are good conversation starters?
thanks in advance :)

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Dropped by friends


Posted Friday July 4 2008, 12:10 am

Has anybody ever been dropped by your friends? Like, they just completely ignore you or stop contacting you, etc? Because my friends did that to me several months ago. And when I say several, I mean several. I've gone now a very very long time without the support of my friends. I was just wondering if a similar situation has happened to any of you, and if it has...what did you do? How did you cope? And anybody who really has been through this knows that it's not as simple as just finding new friends. It just really really isn't. Because there are a few people within this group that I'm still a little close to, but there are others which just hate me completely for some reason that I don't understand. And I still want to have some friends, ...

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idk what catergory/


Posted Thursday July 3 2008, 5:14 pm

wellll, i asked my best friend to sleep over sunday night righT? so she askefd her dad. he ALWAYS says yes. but he said no..and then told her he heard bad stuff about me. so today seh asked him if she could sleep voer and he said he heard i smoked weed. which i dont. ebnver ever ever ever tried it and never will. she kept telling him it wasnt true and he doesnt believee her at all. he wont believe anything. what do i do.?! i basically cant hang out with her noww bc of it,. helppp me

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my friends dad


Posted Thursday July 3 2008, 3:35 pm

Hi um...
My friend.. Bill.. his dad and his dads girlfriend just broke up and Bill's wicked upset. His family has like no money and his real parents are divorced. I know its really none of my business but I wanna cheer him up. I don't really see him but we can IM and e-mail. What should I do? Anything will help. Thanks.

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how do i deal with a friend that does not care what you do anymore.


Posted Thursday July 3 2008, 2:13 am

what should i do if a friend that use to care about you and help you out when you needed it, now he will never help out when i need it or if someone else does.

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my ex


Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 8:44 pm

ok so I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago and I told him I just wanted to be friends. now I am going out with someone new, but anyways he is always saying how he misses me and wants me back and how he loves me. I think love is a very strong word.We were dating for like 3 weeks and he told me he loved me the 2 week. That kinda freaked me out. And he always wanted me to send naked pics and have sex with him. I never did and that is 1 reason why I broke up with him. He says since we are not together he wants to kill himself. What can I say to cheer him up and help him?

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My mind keeps thinking I'm moving soon....


Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 1:34 pm

So here goes:
My dad was in the military for a long time. Several decades you could say. So, my whole life, we'd move around to a new duty station every 2-4 years. I'm fifteen now and my dad finally retired. Now I'm living in my 'permanent house'.
But I'm coming up on my fifth anniversary of living here and I'm feeling antsy. Like, I feel like it's time to just get up and leave you know? This is the longest I've ever lived in one place...
I feel as though I've subconsciously already 'prepared' for the move that just isn't going to happen. I've had falling-outs with most of my friends and I've gone through and gotten rid of stuff in my room that I don't feel I need wherever we're going. But we aren't going anywhere. I st...

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intimidated


Posted Tuesday July 1 2008, 6:48 pm

In school im really shy and now that im starting high school i want to make some new friends but the problem is that i hate going up to people and talking to them, i feel awkward and out of place. It's like "hi" and then this long awkward silence, i get all intimidated and i don't know what to say or talk about. Can someone give me some starters on how to approach people and what to say.

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Are me and my bff fading away or do we just need time off each other?


Posted Tuesday July 1 2008, 12:00 pm

Okay Me and my bff are reallllyyy close we go everywhere together almost always think the same things and like finish each others sentences and have sooo much alike.Before we would talk the wholee day since like 12 all the way to 12 am like n total we would talk 4-6 hrs but know like we dont tak that much we talk like 20 minutes the whole day.And im always the one that has to call her for we can talk and if she calls me she calls me until like 4pm and she keeps saying shes busy and we only talk 20 minutes ten she ends up saying always i have to go..umm take bath idont know like if making it up soo are we fading away or does she want time off help!!

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something gone wrong


Posted Tuesday July 1 2008, 1:30 am

ok i need help
i really dont know what to do
ok so my best friend b decided to talk to the guy i likes friend n. she wanted to see if she could find out anything and set up stuff to hang out. so i could hang with the guy i like. well things went really wrong. for me that is. because the girl and my best friend talked for about 2 hours and the girl was already asking her to hang and spend the night and stuff. which is ok i mean cuz my best friend would bring me too. then today the girl invited my best friend to go hang with her and the guy i like and a couple other friends. my friend didnt end up going, she couldnt. it just hurts cuz i wanted to be the one invited places. and i dont want to tell my best friend not to go hang ou...

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?


Posted Monday June 30 2008, 11:27 pm

i dont get it. my best friend has two best friends, me and some girl i dont know at all. she says that she likes me alot more then her other best friend, and she always talks about her other best friend. but like, when i look at her myspace, [my best friends friends myspace] my best friend will leave her all these comments, like oh my gosh lets hang out soon! oh yeah, i have a story to tell you!!! oh my god, i know i love youuu. thats so funny! and she never leaves me comments like that. i mean, i dont use the computer much, and hardly go on myspace, but i dont think ive ever heard that come out of her mouth before to me. and then she leaves this girl picture comments and will be like, you look so pretty here! i love it. i never get stuff l...

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friends, my ex and a very tough situation


Posted Monday June 30 2008, 10:03 pm

ok well this is a tough situation,me and my ex broke up about a month ago after about a year and 9months. it was heart breaking and very hard for both of us but we were just fighting so much and we werent happy no more so we called it quits. we have decided no to talk as much but we still do once in a while. we both still care about eachother very much though. ok this is were it gets hard,in skool we have the same group of friends so we are all pretty close and well one of his friends likes me and well we stared to talk and we ended up kissing. witch was a mistake because we didnt think of wat was to follow that decison,but i liked it. well my ex found out and was furious he has threatend to fight him. ok we will give him a name because it ...

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friend in need


Posted Monday June 30 2008, 4:38 pm

I was wondering if I could make a suggestion for a friend in need. She has terminal cancer and the doctor says there is no hope for her. Her and her husband have lost everything they own. He can not work for having to stay with her 24/7. She loves having family and friends over and the place they live in now they can't do that. She loves having her watnots out and love seeing them. I wish I could give her a wish of having a place of their own and being able to have all of her favorite things that she loves out to look at in her last days. Wish that you could do something for her.

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Conflict with friends


Posted Monday June 30 2008, 3:13 pm

Okay so basically here's the deal: I feel torn between two groups of friends that were once part of one big group. I will give them fake names because if they go anonymous you will all get confused. So one group consists of Lily and Nathalie, and the other group consists of Erica, Mary, Leslie, Yolanda, Dana, Mindy, and Milly. Some people in the Erica group are upset with Nathalie because she has a big attitude problem and complains a lot, and just takes a lot of things too personally or sees too much, to the point where she brings drama all the time. Yesterday, we were in the lobby of Mary's building and she and Erica asked me to give them "juicy gossip," meaning they wanted to know what Nathalie says about them. So I told them a...

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annoying firend i want to leave me alone


Posted Monday June 30 2008, 1:27 pm

I am in highschool and in the begining of the year, I met this girl. As time passed, she grew more and more annoying. She is an attention junky and will do anything to get noticed. Some of the things she has done have been extremely embarrassing to the point when I ask myself why do I know her. She won't leave me and my friends alone and we have gotten into many fights. I am sick of her and I don't want to spend the rest of my highschool career with her by my side. I wish she would just leave me alone. She is dreadful just to speak to on the phone. What do I do? I have already tried telling her I don't want to be her friend. Please ~~~help!

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what do u think


Posted Monday June 30 2008, 12:30 am

ok so i was txting my friend (shes about to b my step cousin) and she said she had a docters appointment and i said ohh why? and i sorta kept bugging her cuz it was bugging me and she goes: (my name) please nobody knows about thin except me my mom and my dad okay.
and i really wanna know!! shes 15
what do u think?

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Backstabbing.


Posted Sunday June 29 2008, 11:23 pm

Well, I was always the girl who loved school. I had a lot of friends and always had something to do. I had this best friend and me and her was with eachother 24/7. She was like my sister. Well things happened and we kind of drifted apart. She started talking mad crap about me, and made the entire school hate me & want to fight me. I didn't do anything wrong to her. She just got a little jealous when I started dating my boyfriend. Now she keeps sending me threatening e-mails and I don't know what to do about this. I've ignored her, and tried to forget about it but she just won't let it go. It's getting ridiculous. Please any advice besides telling someone or turning her in.

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