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Stuck in the middle...
Posted Monday July 7 2008, 3:23 pm
Okay, my boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks now. I'm very happy and so far our realtionship has been practically perfect. The only problem isn't really a problem between us but between my friends and I, particularly my best friend. My best friend, I'll call her Lexi, isn't really as into guys as my other friends and I are. For a while we were both single and together constantly which is why we got to be best friends but now I have a bf and I think she's getting mad at me for wanting to be with him and talk to him a lot. I know that boys come and go but friends are forever but I love hanging out with my boyfriend becuase we don't see each other very often. What should I do?
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do I go or not?
Posted Monday July 7 2008, 10:10 am
Ok, well after a long and complicated story streching out for months, me and a 'friend' are barely friends.
We used to be best friends, now we'll rarely talk on the internet, and if we do it's forced and awkward.
Anyway, I try and move on, and I will admit she's not as petty as she used to be.
However she still has this constant need to show me I'm not welcome in her friendship group (Who were my friends at one point, and a few of them were friends with me before her) as well as try and compete with me over who has more friends.
In a few days there is a meet up with a few people, because a couple of people from town are in our town. People they know have been invited and I was one ...
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Posted Sunday July 6 2008, 8:06 pm
What is a true friend ?
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should or shouldnt i?
Posted Sunday July 6 2008, 8:02 pm
ok so a while back, i asked my boyfriend if he'd have sex with me and it kinda drew him back, and he didnt say anything. it kinda hurt, cuz im allergic to rejection. :(
anyways, he told me later that week that he wanted to try again so i know hes interested. but the thing is i dont really know how to get it started. i dont like any type of oral sex and the only foreplay ill try is being felt up. but i really hate my body. im not fat or anything, its just im FLAT. i have no bust and i hate taking my shirt off. so im just asking, like, how would that work in bed? and ALSO, what would i need to do to ask him? and how do i prepare myself? thanks!
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what should i do
Posted Sunday July 6 2008, 5:29 pm
So my friend is starting to hang out with this girl i really hate. the hate part goes a long way back but i just know that the girl she is friends with now is so mean to both of us. Last year she called her and swore and was making fun of her and i stuck up for her. Now she is blowing me off. I told her that i really hated the girl and she blew up at me saying stuff like while shes my friend now so back off. And when another one of my friends went out with this boy who she did not like she told it to her face. and i mean bad! What should i do?!?!
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need help
Posted Sunday July 6 2008, 4:57 pm
My (ex) best friend doesnt like me buause she thinks i changed and that im not the old person i was and i still want to be friends with her but she doesnt what do i do ?????
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Posted Saturday July 5 2008, 9:29 pm
Me and my best friend got innto HUGE fight.. i wish we were friends agian but im sik of being the firts one to say soryy all the time so you get it? and she acts like she dont even care and stuff and we havnt ever gottin into this long of a fight our longest fight was like an hour its been 2 days and it was over somthing soooo stupid.. see what happen is i got online and she complains all the time in her pro like..im so sad or i cant trust n e one ect. you know and well i always tryed to make her happy well i got online saw her pro said i love him and i cant trust n eone and stuff well i asked who you like you can trust me i wont tell n e one and then out of no where she gets mad and starts yelling at me and durr im gonna get yelled back.....
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Creepy Internet Dude going out with Friend
Posted Saturday July 5 2008, 9:18 pm
Okay, I have this friend and she's driving me nuts. Well actually, first I should probably tell you she's an Internet friend of mine. But we're really close, we've known each other for years and we've talked on the phone and such. (And I love her like a friend I know IRL.)
Well anyway, back to the problem. She found this online guy who she's decided to start 'going out' with. She's *TOTALLY* serious about him and completely infatuated. The thing is that he's 17 and she's 14. Not only that, but he is SO creepy. He calls me a bitch a lot, even when I haven't done anything. Like once I was talking to him on YIM and I stopped for a second because something else caught my attention, and he was REALLY mad, he cussed me out and ever...
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I have a very good friend & I think he's gonna overdose.
Posted Saturday July 5 2008, 9:16 pm
I have a very good friend of mine who I haven't known very long but we have bonded like no other. We both have problembs in our lives but his our way too serious for me to give any real advice. I know he wants my help whenever I look in his eyes. He's basicly telling me to help him every time we talk, but he's scared. He was recintly in a mental Hospital for attempting. I need to help him on my own though because He will never forgive me if I tell his parents or anyone else, but I would rather lose this friendship and save his life then sit here and watch him die, knowing that I could have helped. His newest thing to do is ?coridicin? aka CCC's, a coughing med. He's been taking about 29-32 every weekend and he has been in intensive care fro...
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what do i do
Posted Saturday July 5 2008, 8:33 pm
i am a 13 year old girl and i feel left out and i feel out of place like i am a rebel and i feel like im diffrent from everyone else and it is hard for me to be myself around anyone ecpecially my family and friends so can u tell me how to feel free to be myself and live up to my family legacy of rebeling?
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hate
Posted Saturday July 5 2008, 8:22 pm
So i have this friend well i dont want her to be my frined. ever since i knew her shes ruiend my LIFE! so i want to tell her how i really feel but if i do shell get so mad and shell tell all her friends and then thell get mad at me. and i told her before but it didnt last long and after i told her a lot of relief was left off.
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competition
Posted Saturday July 5 2008, 8:13 pm
heyyy..ok so my best friend and i are both on varsity cheer at sour school..and were a lot alike in our personalities, and our talent level like for tumbling and just everything..and she gets REALLY competitive with me. to the point where she doesnt even talk to me at tumbling or at practice. i dont know what to do because i admit im kinda jealous of her and shes clearly jealous of me but its kind of hurting our friendship and it makes me really upset. do you know anything i could do? thanks...
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mistake
Posted Saturday July 5 2008, 4:28 pm
I have a long story and at this point i've resorted to advicenators to try and help me sort it out...pathetic, i know but hey...i'm not above it haha. it's really long and all and I sort of prefer to keep it private so let me know if there's any way you can help!
you can IM me on aol instant messenger. my screen name is bubbly1282
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Ive lost my closest friends, should i try to get them back o
Posted Saturday July 5 2008, 4:25 pm
So long story short, i did something i shouldnt have dont to my best friend. and now her and my closest friends either hate me, wont talk to me, or are not as close as they used to be. my old best friend has a new best friend too. ive tried a couple of times to say sorry and make things right but they already seem to be used to everything with out me. i really miss them but it would be hard for all of us to be together again and the truth is i dont feel like i have any other friends that would accept me as well as they did.
so should i just leave it and try to find a new group of friends or keep trying to make it better?
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Can I still be friends with my ex?
Posted Saturday July 5 2008, 1:38 pm
We broke up after dating for about 3 weeks. Before then we had known each other for about 6 months and we talked to each other about everything, he was pretty much my best friend. Right after we broke up, we didn't talk for awhile and I missed him a lot but I thought I would get over it. Then he started texting me again and we were getting back to being friends, and it wasn't so awkward... until he told me he wanted me back. But a couple weeks after I turned him down (reason being I have a new bf), he started telling me about this other girl that he wants to ask out, and he wants me to help him "get it to flow". So... he asked me if I would go on a double date with bf with them. Do you think he's really moved on and that thi...
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what should i do?
Posted Friday July 4 2008, 10:57 pm
I have a friend that is always breaking up then BEGGING to be my friend agian. should I stop her for good or just live with it and stick it out?
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friends
Posted Friday July 4 2008, 10:53 pm
okay so my one of my best friends is really emo. and my other friends are really preppy and they hate her. they always tell me not to be her friend, but i can't just stop being her friend just because she's emo. so what should i do?? Help!!
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friend who lies about everything
Posted Friday July 4 2008, 10:40 pm
I have a friend who is married for 5 years and having an affair. She confided in me and I as a friend listened....however the affair got way out of hand and I told her to stop it would be the best for everybody. She got mad after I told her that i told my husband. She in turn then started using me as an alibi and her scapegoat. So now she has turned the whole situation around and is telling her husband that it is me having the affair. I hate her ..so my husband sent some info to her husband annonymously...and she still turned everything around and is blaming me. My husband and i know the truth but there is no getting through to her husband because she is so manipulating. What do i do know?
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i cant live without my bestfriend/lover?!
Posted Friday July 4 2008, 10:38 pm
hi there,
okay well..iv'e had this guy friend. "bestfriend" for about two years now, and he's great. He's actually more then great he's the best! he makes me laugh like no one else, im comfortable around him, and we just get eachother. we've never been more then "bestfriends" even though it always ran through my mind & some people would request it. i don't think nor do i believe there's anyone else out there that can make me happier then him. PROBLEMS.. hah number ONE he says he "hates me" i guess it goes with his mean humor i know he doesnt mean it. and he says it a lot. i know he's joking, we used to fight a lot about this "joking" that would upset me because it would go to far.. anyways ...
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how to talk to this shy guy
Posted Friday July 4 2008, 8:37 pm
I know this ex-colleague of mine but not really that close to him. I think i have a crush on him but i dont really know if he likes me at all.
He's confident, witty and a workaholic.
However, he gets shy/uncomfortable, when i ask him simple personal questions for eg: Do you go for swimming. I think he has a problem of talking about himself to new people or just not that friendly.
So one day, i gave him some sweets via his secretary (i didnt really know him that well at that time in office) and he was quite startled and stared at me and waited for me to say something when i bumped at him at the doorway.
He had those puppy eyes..but didnt say word!.
I pretended not to appear interest...
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