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summer
Posted Friday June 15 2007, 9:34 pm
so i guess.. four years ago my family life just.. messed up.
i dont live with my mom and im a teen so its really hard.
she doesnt even live in usa with us
she lives in south america.
and so, i tried getting a job thing here but i cant because im british. they said i had to renew my citizenship, and i had to make my birth certificate american.
wtf?
so since its the summer
i cant get a job
so i have to go to south america
and stay with my mom
for 2 months.
thats the whole summer..
i hate it there, i hate paraguay.
my mom is always busy she has no time for me.
she got all these surgeries and never told me.
like my whole relationship with he...
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i dont know what to do anymore.
Posted Friday June 15 2007, 7:30 pm
15f im sorry if its long please just bare with me i really need help.
i cant stand living in my house anymore. my mom only comes here just to argue. she says ive changed alot and i know i have but thats all part of growing up. she always hits me and im sick of it. i dont know what to do. i want to leave so badly. she tells me that she doesnt love me as much as she used to. and that really hurts me. i just entered highschool and life is getting so hard for me. my grades are getting low, my boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me, my family is falling apart especially my mom she comes to my room to hit me or to scream at me everyday. she argues so mmuch. i cant stand this anymore. i ahte living here. i hate my new school i jsut ...
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THEY NEVER STOP!!!!
Posted Friday June 15 2007, 1:21 pm
13|f
My sister and my mom are always whining. A couple of mintues ago my mom was saying, Guys you have to throw paper plates in the burn bag not the garbage!
My sister was saying, Sissy, come play with me again! Im bored! get off the computer!
WHY?!?!?!? They never stop whining! I never whine that much. Its just so annoying. somebody give me advice to stop their whining!!!!!
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stupid man!
Posted Friday June 15 2007, 12:15 pm
ok, i'm gonna tell you straight out, i have alot of money. I'm 15/f and my mother's family is very wealthy. I'm really not a snob or anything, i don't have fancy designer clothes, i'm down to earth and i do community service and donate time and money, and such. The problem is, there is this guy that works for my family. He is 27, and a few years ago he was hired to clean our house once a week. Well me and my sister go to school that is 30 minutes from our house, so a lot of days he also drives us, which is really annoying. For the past year, he works like full time for my parents, he cleans our house like EVERY DAY! he walks our dogs, runs errands, helps with landscaping. It's ridiculous! I hate it, plus he is a total show off and is always...
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Tongue Piercing
Posted Friday June 15 2007, 11:41 am
So I really want to get my tongue pierced but my dad says no absolutely not. How can i change his mind so he'll let me?
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I HATE MY DAD
Posted Friday June 15 2007, 7:29 am
Ok well it's almost my grad and i'm very stressed so I cry sometimes.
Sometimes i can hold it in and just need to be alone but when he sees me liek that he always goes in and bugs me about it til i talk and if i open my mouth at that momment then I cry.
When I cry he yells at me for crying like "what did i do?!"
He makes it seem like the ONLY REASON I can cry is if someone yelled at me.
I don't know if I can get someone to explain it to him that some girls are stressed and it's ok to cry and give them some space but everyone in my family is like that so I can't get them to.
And definitely nto my either because I dislike him so much now that if he steps into...
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acting weird
Posted Friday June 15 2007, 6:07 am
my brother has been acting strange latley.
Im not sure if its because of the death of my aunt, who my family was really close too. But that was 2 months ago, so i dont know why hes being weird now.
Like heres a example
my brother: "why are you up so early?"
me: because im gonna ride my bike to school with some friends
then my brother just like stood there
and hes like "no"
and im like "yeah"
hes like your gonna ride the bus or get a ride from me.
Im like haha no.
but idk and he is just like worryed latley about everyone and everything like he was like to my mom when my dad just left to work. Call dad. and stuff?
weird<...
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eh. problems at home
Posted Friday June 15 2007, 12:04 am
well me and my mom we have our moments where we dont get along very well
i really dont like her that much, well at all and i dont want to live here anymore
so she yells at me for stupid things
so she was jokingly going to hit me right
but then i grabbed her armm and twisted it. ok i want to emphasize jokingly.
so then 5 minutes later i jokingly slapped her face but i barely touched her at all! she flipped out and was like IF YOU EVER DO THAT AGAIN YOUR GONNA REGRET IT. then i was like umm no i wont regret it or somethhing i dont remember but i guess it made her mad bc she punched me rly hard and it like broke my thumb or something...idk but it really hurts so i punched her back but not as bad and shhe jus...
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Decisions, self-happiness or others.
Posted Thursday June 14 2007, 11:18 pm
Okay, well this is as basic as it gets.
I have two choices, one go to a [certain place]
for 3 days and be happy with my life. Because i REALLY REAALLY would like to go to this place.
The thing is that there are other certain people that don't want me to go, for personal safety and such. Even though i know nothing bad is going to happen.
The person said that if i go, it would never be the same with us again and so on.
But i still really want to go.
I just don't know what to do.
:[
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family fighting
Posted Thursday June 14 2007, 5:59 pm
my family is fighting alot lately. Ever since my aunt died (april 8) :( my dad has been smoking alot more, which isnt good. He trys to quit, but it doesnt work. Also like everyone just gets mad at everyone alot now and idk what to do
Ideas to make my family happyer?
We all miss my aunt alot, she was really close to us. But idk why is my family acting this way, so am i and i dont even know why. I think most of it is me, i dont know, but i always get mad at the simpilest things with my parents.
Help
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my mom & her 5 b/f's
Posted Thursday June 14 2007, 1:24 am
My profile got all messed up and i had to make a new. so here it is again.. And thank you for your answer i did read,(soundz like pink, i think thats who answered..)
Any way i was lucky i saved the question on my computer so it is the same.
I'm f/14.
I know this is really long, and probably confusing but please read it and it and try to answer! THANX!!
When I was little my biological father had to move to Kentucky.He never moved back. My mom was about 18. Well he was out of the picture for a while.Then theres the guy we lived with and he was ALWAYS called DAD!(His name is Charley) Then theres Mike my dad for 7yrs. (He was my bioloical father until i was 7.) Then there's Brad a guy who passed away...
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alcoholism
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 5:32 pm
i apologize in advance for the length.
i'm 17/f. i don't like drinking. i don't find a point in it. my mom and my sister drink all of the time. it makes them do ridiculously stupid things; typical when you are drunk. my mom has done things like walked into doors, broken valuable things of hers, fallen down the stairs with my cat in her hand, and so on and so forth. my sister is only 19, and she drinks almost every night out of the week. her and her boyfriend broke up over her heavy alcohol use. now, my boyfriend is starting to become a big alcohol user. when i try saying something to them, they say i'm preaching to them, or i'm making everyone mad by preaching to them. what can i say? i'm so sick of everyone telling me i'm pr...
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Birthday Presents
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 3:18 pm
Hi,
My sisters 13th birthday is coming up, and i really have no idea what to get her. She likes shopping, those weird sayings like, "Brown eyed girl meets Blue eyed boy" and stuff like that. We have a pool but I dont think that she would want a raft..... e already have 2. I REALLY dont know!!! Please help!
THANKS :) :) :) :)
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dad.
Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 12:32 am
we have a laptop, and i didn't set a account for my dad yet so he has been using guest.
silly me forgot my password, so i went on guest to do some research. i guess he didnt know how to delete history..and i found some very nasty things.
not porn but like stuff about other woman like "desires" and more nasty stuff..i don't know if i should inform my mom.
he has asked me numerous times to delete the guest part of the computer, but i keep saying its for guests (haha)
so should i tell my mom
i don't wanna be the reason for any friction.
i'm SO scared
help?
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Adoption
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 11:41 pm
When I get older, I want to adopt a child. Does anyone know how I can do that or what I will have to do?
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My mom, & my mom's 5 b/fs!!!
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 8:38 pm
I'm f/14.
I know this is really long, and probably confusing but please read it and it and try to answer! THANX!!
When I was little my biological father had to move to Kentucky.He never moved back. My mom was about 18. Well he was out of the picture for a while.Then theres the guy we lived with and he was ALWAYS called DAD!(His name is Charley) Then theres Mike my dad for 7yrs. (He was my bioloical father until i was 7.) Then there's Brad a guy who passed away, who i thought was just my mom's friend until today (6/12).then theres the current step-dad for the past 4-5yrs. Who is living with us, his name is Josh.
Your probably thinking 2 things!
1)What does this have to do with her life now?
&...
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Big Families?
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 7:33 pm
Does anyone on here have or is part of or know a big family?
And what do you think about?
How big is your family?
What do other people think of big familes?
Ok! Thanks!!
Abigail
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my parents are SO ANNOYING
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 6:03 pm
how can i convince my parents to let me get a cell phone? my mom and dad have one, my older sister has one, and im like the only one except for my baby brother that doesnt have one! and im a 7th grader and like everyone has a cell now except me. and its hard to talk to some people who may not have AIM or something.. plus cellphones are just cool. i mean i dont even have an ipod, pet, or other special privileges other kids get. or maybe i just live in a rich area.. i dunno but often its just not fun.. i always have to listen to the radios like mostly online cause i have like one CD which my friend burned for me.. my parents have like 200 cds and us kids, have like none. its just really not fair.. and like how can i convince them to get me a ...
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Convincing the parents..
Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 4:44 pm
Well, I've been making freewebs sites for a while & got myself a subdomain a while ago. Now I really want to buy my own domain. The cost is no big deal, I can easily pay it myself. However, it has to go through their credit card & then I would pay them cash in return. So they need to know. How should I ask them? They're kind of weird about those things & might see it as stupid & might not like me having my own website. What are some things I can say to convince them to let me do it? I was just going to tell them i wanted my own space to do whatever with, it's cheap, & I've been reading about them & experimenting with free sites, etc. Any ideas?
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is there a way??
Posted Monday June 11 2007, 5:32 pm
Okay my mom has had the worst marriage with her husband. He has left her twice and they have only been married for four years. He's been gone more then he`s liver with her. He always finds women off the internet off them find a mate type things. && my mom will think everything is fine && he`ll up && leave. there is so much more that goes on at home when he`s here. when he lives her he basically lives off her because he can`t get a decent job basically because he doesn`t have a highschool diploma. he always calls me names && tries to put me and my brother and sister down. my mom is in such denial its not even funny she trusts him way to much he has stole alot of money from her and she still gives him her bank ...
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