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stepmom.
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 5:44 pm
i hate my stepmom. i kno hate is a strong word and well, my feelings are strong. she is sooo mean to me!! she doesnt like abuse me but the things she says really hurt. she always calls me fat (im 14 5'2 and 97 lbs.) and maybe thats fat but i dont think she needs to remind me of it every single day. i cant have friends over because she is sooo rude to everyone. i cant talk to my dad about it because he doesnt want to deal with it and i cant talk to her because she doesnt care. how can i ignore it? and pleaseeee dont say to talk to my dad. i really dont know what to do anymore.
thanks
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I HATE HER!
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 1:31 pm
13/f
My little sister always gets the attention and love! I'm serious! My sister does something, I get blamed for it! Everytime my parents leave me and my sister alone, my sister actually bites me! Then when my parents get home, they bring something for my sister, but not me! Then I tell them what my sister did, but they say, "Honey, you know your sister would never do that." Then, my sister tells my parents that I bit her and punched her. I get in trouble! I need advice on how to control my stupid sister! If it helps, my sister is going to be 11 in 2 weeks.
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Pregnant with a jerk for a boyfriend....long sorry.
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 1:15 pm
I am 7 months pregnant. I love the babys father, he was great for a while. Then I got laid off for being pregnant and couldnt find another job. He works non stop and I know he is stressed from it. His son is coming out to vegas for the summer in 2 weeks. The problem is as of lately he has been making me feel so horrible that its driving me into a depression. lets put it this way, he is screaming at me about going over my 1000 minutes because I am the one that does bills over the phone and deals with bill collectors. Then tells me he is setting us up for less minutes. He yelled at me while i was at the hospital , and basically laughes at me when i am in pain with all this....he is so incompassionate. Then while we were leaving the hospital h...
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my mom smokes cigarettes
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 12:03 pm
my mom smokes cigarettes and i really really want her to quit. ive told her how she can die and possibly me and ive told her to stop uncountable times and she says OH WHEN IM READY or NEXT SUMMER and it never happens. she tried quitting multiple times but gives up, we have patchs and she doesnt use them
what can I do as a 14 year old to stop her?
any facts that might scare her possibly?
ANYTHING, HELP <3
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Parents
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 3:25 am
My parents are fighting every second day my mum has wanted a divorce ever since but she dosnt divorce him because they come bac to tlaking again but he hits her sometimes and i dont want her to divorce him even though he hits me and her but i love them both i couldnt stand them being apart and tell me its wrong to hit a women seriously please i just want to get the idea of divorce out of my mums head all i ever do is cry =[?
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spying on brother
Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 12:20 am
is it weird that i get horny spying on my brother when he's masturbating or is it just curiosity?
i dont want to feel this way but i dont knwo what to do.
please help!!
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Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 10:32 pm
So I have this friend. Lets name him John
John and his younger sister, Jill go to a different state a plane ride away to see their dad since their parents are divorced.
John and Jill have not seen their dad in over 2 years.
One day while they were down at their dads house, Jill comes over to John and tells him she thinks their dad is not a good person.
Now their mother does not like the dad at all ( I do not know why) but from the way it sounds is asthough she is lying to both kids saying that he is not a good person and has been for 12 years or so.
Jill is convinced that he is(maybe from hearing it so many times from the mother).
John says that from the two years that he has not seen his father,...
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obese .
Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 7:16 pm
ok ` so my brother . he`s 28 , got 2 kids & a new born bbabyy . hes obese & my uncLe died of a heart attack because he was obese . & he is Like that greatest brother ever ` he works ALL the time & trys to take care of the boyz to . & his wife Kerry doesnt do shit around the house or anything . so its Like aLL on him ..... i wanna teLL him he needs to do sumthnig but i heard you cant heLp someone to do sumthing unLess they also put effort in to it . i just dont know wat to say to him , im scared he`LL take it the wrong way . or just get pissy with me ''// i Love him so much , yaLL just dont know ` & i dont wanna Lose another Loved one for sumthin that can be done
so PeoPle PLEASE ...
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Was I wrong?
Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 11:54 am
ok so i recently stated going out with this girl..it's been like two weeks. Sometimes ss well cool with me, other times she's all mardy. sometimes she says she loves me, sometimes she says she doesnt. i really like this girl but shes really beginning to get on my nerves.
urgh..
do you think she likes someone else..?
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Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 10:47 am
my brothers are ruining my computer!
my brothers, play these games, that i know have viruses because my protection stuff, tells me. and i try to tell my mom, and shes like whatever dont worry about it. i dont care if it breaks, then they cant go on it. but HELLO. what about me? i mean i hardly go on, but on rare occassion, i like to. and that tottaly isnt fair that there breaking it, and ruining it for everyone.
what should i do?
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Change me :(
Posted Monday June 18 2007, 9:08 pm
i need bigg help. i got in huge trouble awhile back & my mom moved out to my grandmas house in the country. and my mom gives me chances to prove her i can move back with her. but every time i get a chance i fuck it up. like last time i came home drunk. && she says i`m to wild. i have a boyfriend up there and i love him to death. i wanna move up there but i need to change before august. i dont see what i`m doing wrong. i`m the average teenager. yeah, i party, i drink, and i hang out with guys. but who doesn`t. i used to not be like this until i got in high school. how can i change ? someone please help
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i need to get out of my house
Posted Monday June 18 2007, 6:52 pm
15/f/va
i have been having major household problems and i need to get out of my house. but even though i dont think she cares, i dont want to hurt my mom or offend her by leaving. and even if i did, i dont know where i could go. i dont have any friends and my boyfriend's family won't take me in.
where can i go? what can i do? can i legally get emancipated?
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Privacy
Posted Monday June 18 2007, 6:32 pm
What do you guys think about parents reading personal things? I came back from being on AIM & left my convos up. I noticed that one of them was scrolled all the way up, which I did not do. My mom randomly sat down at the computer I'm guessing. I know what most of you might say. She is my mom & has a right to watch over her kids & I did leave the convo up, but shouldn't there be trust? I would trust her not to go through private conversations. It isn't the fact that I had something personal, but I was talking with one of my guy friends about his gf & I don't know, I think it's a bit rude & an invasion of privacy. I wouldn't go through her emails. If I talked to her about it, she would just say "what, what don't you w...
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FORGIVE? FAMILY ISSUES.
Posted Monday June 18 2007, 3:41 pm
SO AS a mentioned before.....
my parents are divorcing. my mom took all ehr anger out on me and YELLED at me. told me things i shouldn't nor want to know. and made it as if it was my foult. then i cried. she apoligized i did nto frogive. called me next day apoligiing... i didnt forgive. now i feel really bad i know it wasnt technicoly her foult shes under a lot of stress i know she loves me but i cant forgive her, i jus cant i dont no why! like my body wont let me. how do i forgive her? what to i say without soundign to cheesy/corney. im not like htat.
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My mom somtimes drives me NUTS!
Posted Monday June 18 2007, 12:48 pm
My mom is kind of weird in my opinion. First of all she judges my friends a lot and I dont like it at all! Second she si always giving me advice on my period. Im 13 and I never had it. Shes always telling me "oh its going happen soon i can feel it!" and she asks "do your breasts get tender?" and stuff and I dont like it! If I tell her to stop, she will ground me and say that I was trying to boss her around. Can someone PLEASE help me?! Thank you so much!
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Dads Changing
Posted Monday June 18 2007, 1:21 am
My dad has been acting all mean lately. He used to be so nice and we would always hang out. Like tonight, I was in his office because he was trying to fix my computer, and then he said I have to concentrate, get out. So I was with my dog and I was about to leave when all of a sudden he tried to kick me and hit me. He NEVER did anything like that to me and he doesn't drink or anything. I ran to my mom in her room and he was about to throw my computer. He also canceled our trip tomorrow. It was really hard to breathe and my mom said he was very mad to. I'm really scared and sad. Now my trips canceled because my stupid dad. No offense but I think I hate him. I hate my dad!
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really important- family crisis.
Posted Sunday June 17 2007, 11:54 pm
15/f
People-
I am not such an openminded girl. But ive been living with this cruel load on my shoulder for the past 10 years. That load would be my father. Hes amazing person and i love him but hes not th e best father and husband. he never hurt me GOSH NO! but hes never home, never drives me anywhere never does the father stuff and my parnets rarley talk. my mom tries to get my dad to go out to dinner he wont. this has been going on for a really long time. like i wont care to speak back to my mom but to my dad im petrified! i dont know why! i do everythign with my mom and i feel really bad for her. until i found out recently that my mom finally did somehting about it. she started (without telling any of her 5 kids, we...
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partyy madness
Posted Sunday June 17 2007, 6:37 pm
soo lastnight there was a party. and it was awesomee.i had so much fun.everyone was dancing/grindingg..and i was partying with my bf.we didn't make out or anything b/c theere were some parents tthere.but w/e. ANYWAYSS my x boyfriends mother[ who im friends with..b/c my x and i are still friends] she called my parents and told them there was dirty dancing going on! my dad came at like 10. [when everything was dying down] but im soo embaressed. that mother told my parents i was one of themm.and i think my parents are like dissapointed in me.is there anyway i cann earn their trust backk???
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i dream of him every night!
Posted Sunday June 17 2007, 10:40 am
is it normal to dream of someone every single night? has this happened to anyone. ever since ive liked my best friend,ive dreamed about him every night for the past 5 months!! why does this happen? and he doesnt like me as more than a friend. he told me that. how do you know if you're falling in love with your best friend?
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Grandpa Died
Posted Saturday June 16 2007, 8:30 pm
This will sound horrible but here goes the story. I was and am not really close to my dad's side of the family. I'm in total love with my mom's side but I basically loath my dad's side of the family--not my dad, though. It's mainly b/c his family hates us b/c of my mom--long story short: they hate us and they're total bitches to us. Anyways, well, my grandpa on my dad's side died today.
With the exception of our family, the rest of our whole entire fmaily lives in S. Korea [We live in US] So my dad is going to fly out there tomorrow or on Monday so he can attend the ceremony thingers. Well, the problem is that I feel really bad b/c I don't feel anything about my grandpa's death. I mean I was never close to him, I talked to h...
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