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Friendship
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Annoyed by my best friend


Posted Wednesday July 16 2008, 8:37 pm

Okay...so all of a sudden, i've become annoyed by every single thing that my best friend does. she's seriously the best friend i could ask for, she's honestly such a good person and just a sweetheart... but lately, she's just been getting on my nerves. we've been friends for years and i don't know what the hell has come over me. its not anything she does..its just her in general. her personality, the way she talks, the things she say are all driving me crazy. i feel so much anger and frustration towards her... and now shes just torn apart because she can tell i'm pissed and she has no clue why. she actually started crying the other day because she feels how distant i've suddenly become from her. what the hell is wrong with me?!?! every idea...

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Should I do anything?


Posted Wednesday July 16 2008, 6:12 pm

I used to be best friends with this girl up until about 1 year ago. We had a lot of problems in our friendship, because we had differing ideas about where we wanted to go. She was hell bent on becoming popular, whereas I was not. She basically kicked me out of her life.
On top of that, just recently, she dated my ex. She was my best friend while we were together. That really upset me.

Anyways, I've noticed this, for a long time. My former best friend is lost. And I mean that. She is utterly, and completely lost within herself. She pretends to be happy, and is trying to promote this happy, "sexy" (wearing revealing clothing) version of herself.

Other people may buy it, but I don't. I can see ...

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lying.


Posted Wednesday July 16 2008, 6:01 pm

14/female.

so i have this friend that kinda lies about stupid things... uh, what should i do about it?

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met these guys..


Posted Wednesday July 16 2008, 3:28 pm

16/f
so me and my friends were at the beach the other day and we met a few guys and they gave us their number and then asked us to hang out later that night but it was getting too late so we just told them we would call them another night this week. so i think we're gonna call them today. they go to a different school and they don't live THAT far away. but anyways we're not really sure what we should do with them. because this would be the first time we hang out with them.. any ideas?
we already have...
- park
- mall
- movies

thanksss :)

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am my biosexual boyfriend gay?


Posted Wednesday July 16 2008, 12:50 pm

I am female, 21years old and from South-Africa. My boyfriend was biosexual before we've met,as he told me.We have a serious relationship know and i love him alot,butI am scared he will turn gay after a few years. Should i rather leave him know,or just accept him for who he is?

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Friends talking about guys I like... practically in front of


Posted Wednesday July 16 2008, 12:46 pm

I'm walking down the hallway on the way out of a small after school function where a guy I liked was present with one of my best friends. While we are walking, she starts talking (not quitely, mind you) about how weird I get around the guys I like and remember that one time...? I tell her to hush, and she laughs loudly and informs me that no one can hear us. The hall is quiet and a handful of people from the function are walking behind us! Ack! Another scenario: friend and I are in a school room when "the guy" and some others come in to talk to the teacher across the small room. "The guy" talks. My friend comments that indeed he has a deep voice. Again, ack! She laughs a little and tells me that they wouldn't know what w...

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im starting to really hate her!?


Posted Wednesday July 16 2008, 9:27 am

okayy. there is this girl and she has been my best friend since she was born. but she is stating to become very bitchy. she doesnt get her period and she is only in 6th grade.
but she was a big copier.
last year she copied me none stop.
now she isnt, but ever since she had these new 'friends' [i think they are using her] she has been not talking to me like i'm her friend.
she makes me feel like crap sometimes.
but its not like i can just ditch her.
our parents have been bff's since 7th grade!
what do i do?

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I just want to know my friends care


Posted Wednesday July 16 2008, 5:50 am

I feel like all my friends are moving on without me, and while I keep in touch with their lives online, none of them seem to be in communication with me for too long.

I keep trying to get together with them, and spend time with them, and I know that they're busy, but I feel like I'm not important anymore. I'm prone to depression already, and I'm worried I'm sabotaging my life by trying so hard. But at the same time, I try hard because honestly, my friends are as important to me as anything.

Someone, tell me how to make myself important to my friends. I've tried my hardest to always be there and help out, and I'm not sure if it's helping me at all.

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help, xboyfriend problem!


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 8:51 am

okay so i'm fourteen and my boyfriend broke up with me about June 29th. We were in a really tight relationship, i could tell him anything, but all we really did was kiss, we never made out or anything. when he broke up with me i got really sick, didnt eat, and everytime i stood up i was dizzy. i have kinda moved on, i started dating this kid on the 8th, but we broke up on the 19th, due to we thought we were rushing things. now my exboyfriend (greg) is acting like a huge ass, like he was when he broke up with me. he told me to fuck off and stuff when i just texted him hey. he texted me last night saying "hey just so you know i got a new girlfriend" and i think it's my friend rachel! rachel is not really a good friend, because she t...

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ways to be not as annoying


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 5:19 am

ok so some of my friends that are mostly girls (but im a boy) are starting to say stuff to me that im getting really annoying and i want to try to stop being annoying cause i like this girl but she thinks im a it annoying so my questions are
a.what are things that guys do to annoy girls

b.what are ways for a guy to stop being annoying

c.what do guys find annoying that other guys do
and..
d.what can i do to stop being annoying to other guys

btw any other information would be a great help
and im 13/boy

thanks

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Controlling "Outbursts"


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 12:00 am

15/f
Alright so my friends and I got into this huge fight way back in February. It was pretty much an explosion you could say. Well now I'm finally getting over it and getting back on my feet because things are finally settling (I had a lot of psychological issues because of this huge explosion). But still, whenever I'm around these people once again at a party or something (where its just me and them...no one else), it's like I can't control my emotions. For instance, I'll start crying just out of the blue because I can't handle being around them because it brings back so many painful memories (and good ones too that just make me miss even more how things were). Or I'll just start laughing at something funny that one of them say, bu...

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X,Y,Z,A,B,C AND ME!


Posted Monday July 14 2008, 10:48 pm

This year everything started out great..It was september and it was me and Xand Y and Z. Anyways Z starts being a jerk so her and Y get into an arguement. Then comes A, she joins are group but by November is gone. Then second semester B comes and everything is all good. But by the beggining of March trouble cpomes at us...we all begin hurting eachother and ruining eachothers lives. Then every thing is all good. But by the end of the month things go again...this time C gets involved and tells me not to be there friends and that X is a good friend but not very trustworthy. But by april things are good. Then comes the blow out..it was me and x and it was bad. It went on for two weeks. Then finnally we resolved it. But once again X proves to be...

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my neaghbor


Posted Monday July 14 2008, 1:37 pm

hello there um i have a naighbor that anoys the hell out of me its not all his fault were both stuborn he is a scorpio and i am a virgo so we kinda mesh but the way he talks about black people and mexicans its not right and threatening to shoot pitbulls. im stressed from school 24/7 and he dose not help by yelling at me

stressed july 14 2008

p.s help!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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please just GO AWAY


Posted Sunday July 13 2008, 11:17 pm

14/f So I have this friend lets call her emma. Emma has no other friends other then me. She had in school friends that we hung out with like "our group" and stuff but they never call her to do anything unless i set up a group thing. She also has this friend lets call her Rita from another group who she kinda hangs out with but Rita has other friends who she'd rather hang out with. And last Emma has a friend named Haley who goes running with her for soccer. Besides soccer Emma has nothing else to do. She texts me every day trying to start a conversation, trying to ask me if i want to hang out. And when i do say i can hang out it's like she plans her whole day around me, waiting for me to call her to say i can hang out. I know i sho...

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can it really end just like that?


Posted Sunday July 13 2008, 11:03 pm

ok so ill apologize now for how long it could get but idk what to do anymore. me and my friends Abby and Claire, weve all been best friends for about 4 years now. and then all of a sudden Claire wont talk to me and Abby.

how we thought it happened was because Claire had her own group of friends in her sporting event, soccor. and me and Abby wanted to try it and try out because we have a really small school so there really isnt much of a tryout. so we were going to practise over summer. well turns out Claire never wanted us to be on the team with her for some reason, even though weve been so supportive of all her sports shes ever done

Claire has always been a girl who if she can get someone to laugh then she do...

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What do you all think?


Posted Sunday July 13 2008, 9:12 pm

So i have this REALLY great friend she would do anything for me =) and i am so greatful for that,but i find her doing things that get on my nerves. Like she will go days without calling me when she said she would call me right back,and when i ask her why she just says she forgot. (i can understand sometimes but she does it all the time)And also she will say she is going 2 her cousins house (witch we always go together)and she will call me so her mom will come get me 2 drop us off she ends up not calling,but then she calls from her cousins and she will be all like oh srry i forgot. It might sound stupid but she does it all the time and she always says that i am her bst friend in the whole world. So tell me what you guys think about this or w...

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birthday


Posted Sunday July 13 2008, 6:40 pm

what should i do for my 14th birthday?

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kissing girls


Posted Sunday July 13 2008, 1:46 pm

My best friend is always saying how she makes out her female friends all the time, but ive never kissed her before, for some reason i really want to, and like i dont know how i can get her to kiss me without asking and getting rejected, i really want to try making out girls, like wed jokingly just pecked eachother on the mouth to tease someone but like when that happens i get an urge to makeout with her. What should I do!?

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which friend


Posted Sunday July 13 2008, 2:44 am

My two best friends are fighting and i'm in the middle of it. They want me to choose sides. What should I do?

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Help me


Posted Sunday July 13 2008, 2:44 am

what if you ask someone out and he said something mean back would you still go for it.

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