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Cocaine
Posted Monday July 21 2008, 12:48 am
Hi, im a 14 year old girl, and recently a group of people i used to hang out with have been doing cocaine. The only reason i ever hung around them was because I was dating one of the people who does cocaine the most. I was very deeply in love with him ( i know, im young, and im not trying to be like those silly 9 year old girls who claim they're in love with everyone. I was really in love with him and it was a serious relation ship) hes changed completely and does coke alot. I dont really care about the others. They are my friends..we..aquantences..and all, but I know none of them will ever listen. They love it tooo much. And even if he's with other people who are in love with him and care about him, im happy hes happy, but I still worry ...
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A World War with my Best Friend!
Posted Monday July 21 2008, 12:42 am
I am in a HUGE fight with one of my best friends at school and she is a really complicated person to get along with! Fights with her are like going into world war! I already said sorry and she isn't cracking! This was all over a HUGE misunderstanding about this boy but then we brought up other things like how we were never really were friends and sometimes I just find myself crying over it all! What should I do? I really don't want to lose my best friend!
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anxiety
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 4:09 pm
16/f. i have really bad anxiety. and im suppos to get medication soon. but i think i will start school before i get it and itll be really hard for me to make friends.. because i get really nevous and when i talk i sound like im in special ed, but im actually really smart or i sound just really quiet and squeaky..and its also hard for me to smile unless someone says something thats funny. i dont smile that much, never have really.. even when i was younger. when im with a friend, im not nervous at all but i dont have any. lol :(
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significant other
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 3:40 pm
define significant other.
and can anyone give me examples also.
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Dude, what's with all the fighting?
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 2:28 pm
Okay, so my friend, lets call her "Luna", and I got into a stupid fight last month that only lasted a day.
The next day, my other friend, "Jamie," kept trying to start stupid fights with Luna. Now they've been at each other's necks since the fight Luna and I had and they always bring me into the fight. I always tell them to stop the fighting and how I feel about it, but they don't lisen and expect me to choose a side. What do you guys think I should do?
I'm 13 and a girl.
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More fights!
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 6:34 am
13/f Okay, so ever since 6th grade started my friend, lets call her Theresa, has been having some kind of rivalery with another person in our click. In 6th grade it was my friend "Lily" and the two were always at each other's necks with the dumbest arguments you can think of. Then, in 7th grade Theresa stopped arguing with Lily and started to get into fights with another girl in our click "Traci." Again, the two fight like 5 year olds. Now that we're going into 8th grade, we think Theresa is going to do the same thing with another person in our click. What do you think we should do?
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The Fights
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 6:26 am
Okay, so two of my friends, lets call them Maddy and Jenny, have been getting into a lot of fights lately about the dumbest things you can imagine (once they got into a fight because Jenny wouldn't share her chips). Everytime they fight, they drage my other friends, lets call them Tya and Linda, and me into their fights. Then, when we refuse to take a side, they somehow manage to twist our words for them. This fighting is really getting in between our group, what should we do?
By the way, I'm 13, a girl, and going into the 8th grade.
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My friend
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 2:48 am
My friend has lied to me so much. I don't even trust her anymore. So we were gonna tell each other who we like and she said she would tell me if I told her first. So I did. She lied to me and told me she liked another guy. She doesn't know that I know she lied to me. I found out and I can't exactly tell her I found out because of how I did find out. And she likes the same guy as me. I wouldn't care at all if she likes the same guy, big deal. But the thing is, she lied to me. And she told her other friend who I like and that she does too. They were talking about me and I always talked about him. Like how he talks to me and stuff and that she thinks I'm lying about that. I don't know what to tell her or what to say. Please help me! I'm so con...
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Party for a friend
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 4:57 am
Hey, I'm not sure what catagory this really goes under but here goes..I just finished my job that I had for the first half of the summer, and made some really good friends who are all my age. One of the guys birthday is coming up in the beg. of August. We all want to hang out and we're using that as the reason haha. I think we're going to do something at my house, but I just want it to be relaxing, nothing too expensive, and nothing "cute"..it's a guy's birthday haha. I don't want it to be awkward and people to just be sitting around..so any suggestions for what I can do to make it a little more fun for everyone? (there are about 10-15 of us) Thanks so much!
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Best friend
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 1:42 am
Me and my best friend have been close for about 7 or 8 years now. We have had a pretty good friendship, with the occasional argument here and there, but very seldomly. Anyways, me and my boyfriend(my child's father) broke up 3 months ago and he moved out. 1 month ago, he moved back in and we are trying to work things out. Now, when my boyfriend was gone, me and my best friend pretty much talked on the phone everyday for hours at a time. Now that he's back, we don't do that as often. She used to come over every single weekend. She is also the god mother of my son. Now that my boyfriend is back, obviously, it is not right to still have her over every weekend. My boyfriend and her are fine with eachother, except my boyfriend feels she shouldnt...
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Am i just REALLY bad luck?
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 12:52 am
Ok for some reason when something goes missing, people blame me. Even in my own house. Like 2 years my best friends parents started to tell everyone in our naberhood(i know its not spelled right) i stole from there house because everytime i left something was missing. But Never in my life have i ever stole anything but 1 guys heart ;) And that doesnt count. And then my best friend started to hate me. Well then no one in the naberhood would hang out with me. And this was a white family and im half black..(no offence to anyone.) and then 4 months later, they found all that stuff. There dog hid it all. By then all the parents in the naberhood hated me. Well like today i was on a MMORPG i play. And one of my friends, the minute i logged on he w...
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sick friend
Posted Friday July 18 2008, 7:00 am
I have a friend who has trouble with cutting. What should I do? I really want to help her, but I don't know how.
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best friend and her boyfriend
Posted Thursday July 17 2008, 5:32 pm
i have an absolutely beautiful perfect best friend ha. and my closest guy friend is her boyfriend. they are perfect for eachother! hes my neighbor, and we hang out alot. but trust me we are NOTHING more than friends. we USED to like eachother, but were way over that and she knows.hes a GREAT friend that i can trust with all my heart too. so i dont ever want our friendship to end. i dont know if i should get any closer with him because i dont want to make her mad that we talk alot. but when we talk it about her or one of the guys i like. it doesnt seem to bother her but i hope one dy me and her friendship doesnt get torn apart because of it.
should i remain as close to him as i am now?
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Don't want to offend my friend.
Posted Thursday July 17 2008, 4:02 pm
17/F My friend is a Jehovah's Witness and really tries to convert me. I am Jewish as in heritage, but I've come to the conclusion that I am fine without a religion. I don't need to be led and that's final. If I tell her I am content with my religious choices...will she still be my friend? or should I just continue to turn down invites to her congregation...I've been there before, so I have given it a try.
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Now what?
Posted Thursday July 17 2008, 2:42 pm
*sigh* ugh ok so I wasn't going to even ask this on here because I thought I had it figured out. Well at least sort of, or I thought I could do it on my own but now I'm not so sure. Ok soo here's the situation [i apologize in advance, it's gonna be long]:
This past Sunday I was supposed to go to this screenwriting seminar in the city. And if you know me, you'll know how much this would mean to me and how important it is to what I want to do in the future. Put that on top of the fact that it was FREE. But anyway I was pretty excited for this for a while. This was my chance to hone in on my craft and actually get the chance to at least do something meaningful this summer. The only problem is that I'm not the best when it comes ...
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She wants to fight me, But i dont belive in fighting
Posted Thursday July 17 2008, 1:57 am
Ok so i had a friend. lets call her Megan. Megan is black. And i am half black half white.(not meaning to offend anyone.) And like a month before school ended we got into an...argument. And she was reallt mean and yelling and stuff. And we were going to fight. Well i never thought fighting was the way. I think that in the end, things are just as bad as before. So of course she wants to fight me anyways. Plus i play select soccer, and my life is centered to that. And getting into a fight could get my in trouble with my team. And everyone wants us to fight. I just dont want it to seem like in chickening off. I mean if thats what i takes, ill do it, but is there any way to get her to understand that i dont want to fight. I mean i forgot about ...
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hes 19, im 16
Posted Wednesday July 16 2008, 11:42 pm
im 16 and i was at a local show (a.k.a concert) and i met a guy who was 19.its a little less then a month later and we talk on aim and texting like everyday. he wants to hang out sometime but i told him cuz of the age diffrence i'd have to ask my mom. but my mom is GOING to say no. and i dont know how to convince her. i'll feel dumb telling him my mom has to go with us or somtin. but my mom is REALLY REALLY protective. everyone says give up and dont bother. but any ideas how to convince her?
were just friends-nothing more
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bad influences
Posted Wednesday July 16 2008, 10:21 pm
i have a wonderful friend that i love with all my heart. but her and her old friend became really good friends again. and im okay with her old friend but i think shes a bad person for her to be hanging out wtih. i mean she smokes and does drugs. and has a reputation as a hoe, and she lies ALOT to my friend. dont get me wrong i think shes cool and everything but i just dont want my friend to turn into her or get her reputation. any advice?
thanks
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fun things to do when you hang out at home.
Posted Wednesday July 16 2008, 10:20 pm
16/f what are fun things to do when you hang out with friends at home.. when my friend comes over, my mind goes blank lol. [something besides video games, movies, make-overs, nails...]
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fake friends=[
Posted Wednesday July 16 2008, 9:49 pm
13/f
i have an old friend that i had for about 3 years in middle school and we were very close. almost like sisters. wel we had a few fights like most friendships and that was fine and wed stop talking every once in a while. she would get mad at me for talking to ANY other girl and thats what bothered me the most. i dont know if i should let it bother me so much that we r not friends anymore. but i am a little scared on her reputation now. shes been smokng and shes only in 7th grade and shes becoming a WAY different person
now that i have new friends though it doesnt btoher me that much. but it wouold be nice if i could talk to her and just be cool
any advice?
thank u=]
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