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Weird Dreams


Posted Monday November 21 2005, 12:14 pm

This might sound a little whack, but I've been having these mad dreams. Let me explain...One night, I was working on myspace, and I saw this really cute guy that just "popped up". I was like, OMG! HE'S GORGEOUS! And that night, I had this dream where I was in the woods and this guy came up behind me, and it just just really romantic, and he surprised me by taking me to a water fall and eating lunch. Then we kissed behind it, and just...hung out. Then we starred into the sky and crap. Well, when I woke up, I saw this friend request from him, so I looked at his profile...and in his WHO I WANT TO MEET section, THAT'S WHAT WAS THERE. MY LITTLE FANTASY/DREAM. Almost exactly like it...and I got a little freaked out. I keep having dreams...

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Posted Sunday November 20 2005, 10:33 pm

I am a dark, pessimistic, negative person. I feel totaly hopeless and that both the good and evil forces are against me. I try to be the positive, outgoing type, but that realy isnt me. Im realy pained inside with doubt and hiddin secrets. I have a crush on someone and today I was thinking about the girl, the way she acts when I flirt with her, the way she is so outgiong. Those happy, warming feelings turned cold. I have been doubtful about myself, I feel like I cant start a close relationship, not even a close friendship. Its more than that, but it would take forever to explain things. I feel weak and helpless. Can you help me?
--Caden--

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i stopped... now what?


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 2:03 pm

13/f
i used to cut but i stopped. i hardly ever did it, like, maby once a month, i dont know. but whenever im really upset, i feel like doing it, but ive tought my self to not cut and read the bible instead. but i feel like i should still talk about it. noone ever found out and i dont want annyone to ever know, but im wondering if theres some type of email or something where it can stay a secret. thanx i rate high


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What's going on with me?


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 9:25 am

Well I'm a 16 year old girl.

Ok. To be blunt, ever since I was about 6 I have been praying that my parents or someone would abuse me or give me a reason to run away and never come back. I am trying to end this cycle but nothing has helped so far. I guess ever since I was little I never felt good enough for someone to love me. When I was younger I was always causing trouble in order for them to get sick of me and tell me what I already believed was true. Is there something I can do to end this cycle?

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i dont know what to do


Posted Friday November 18 2005, 11:59 pm

ok, i hope someone can help me here. a lot of people say that im always "out of it" or that im sort of in a trance or something. how do i get myself to be more alert and not so bored?

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i hate my life.


Posted Friday November 18 2005, 9:35 pm

I hate my life. Here's a little bit about it.
I have un diagnosed a.d.d or adhd, i'm 14, I ive in the stupidest town ever, i suck at everything i do, i <b><i>hate</i></b> my family, i do not work up to my potencial, i'm ugly, i'm too skinny, i'm not allowed to have ''too much fun'', i'm not allowd to have a girlfriend, i'm constantly depressed, i dont have any friends because i'm too much of a ''geek'', i get many racist jokes cracked about me every day.

i just dont know what to do, i just got in a big fight with my parents and I didn't realize until now, just how much i HATE my life.

please help me.

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scared of dying young


Posted Wednesday November 16 2005, 4:23 pm

i want to know how old i will be when i die. i dont want to die at a young age. here lately i have been so worried about it. can you help me out?

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Depression


Posted Tuesday November 15 2005, 8:50 pm

F/15 I think I am suffering from depression, Im not talking about "I not myself today" kind of sad, but I have felt like this for a long time. I feel abbandoned and angry at myself for being a failure. I feel like everyone who I was ever close to has left me and I have no one to talk to. All of my close friends are gone and I only have a few friends that i really dont know that well. I having a hard time dealing with the deaths of several classmates and I have been thinking about death alot lately, I want to see a therapist or a doctor, but I am terriffied to talk to my parents...they see me as perfect because I am the oldest and they have such high expectations for me. How can I talk to my parents about recieving treatment?

-Scared and Alone

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Suicdal??¿¿??


Posted Saturday November 12 2005, 4:47 pm

well i started writing poems and songs about sucide and dieing and cutting and popping pills! im sucidal?? PLZ HELP!!
(( and plz dont tell me to go see a counslar or therpist because my family doesnt know and i dont want them to find out))

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well ....


Posted Saturday November 12 2005, 3:40 pm

ummm what are the first signs before getting your period?

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feeling like crap


Posted Thursday November 10 2005, 4:06 pm

anyone know any mental pick-me-ups for someone who feels really depressed? (foods, activities, etc. don't tell me to "count my blessings" or "see a therapist" or "love myself" or something.)

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My sister


Posted Wednesday November 9 2005, 10:20 pm

My sister is really depressed lately, and I'm really scared for her. She is pretty okay around me, but everyone else, (even our own mother and best friend) she won't crack a smile!!! I think it might be a 12 year old thing, but I'm a happy person who never really gets like that. I usually understand things, but I don't understand her! Tell me what to do.
Aunt M.

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fathers death


Posted Wednesday November 9 2005, 11:04 am

Okay, so I'm dreading next week. Its the 5th anniversary of my dad's death. And for this last month it seems like everything i look at or touch reminds me of him and i just break down crying...but its been five years i mean im almost 18 i shouldnt be acting like im 5, right? I have the support of my boyfriend, but my family isn't here to support me, they dont and havent liked me since the day my dad passed away. I'm not thinking about hurting myself in anyways...its just that my heart hurts terribly...is this normal?

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i can`t take it anymore.


Posted Tuesday November 8 2005, 5:29 pm

I've been having alot of problems with my life latley ; and it's all starting to really weigh me down.
1) I was diagnosed with scoliosis the other week. Now I might have to get a brace or even surgery.
2) Today I went to the dentist to get my gums checked out before I got braces on. Turns out my lower gums are weak and I need surgery to fix them. Then I need two permenant teeth pulled then I will finally get my braces on.

3) I'm going to be kicked off of the cheerleading squad cause I will be missing 7 games during my recovery from the surgery. I will also miss several practices with my every other week check-ups on my back.

4) My dad's getting a pay cut in 2 weeks.

5) We're movin...

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How to shake this?


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 3:50 pm

I feel numb. I can get out of bed, go to work, joke with people, do things I love, and still feel this way. I just can't seem to shake it off. I feel hollow inside, and I don't really know WHY.

Sometimes I only sleep 2-3 hours a night. Other nights I sleep 12-13 hours. I also do not eat properly anymore, even on my good days. Some days I'll just eat an apple for breakfast/lunch and about 1/3 of my dinner. I just don't feel hungry. But even when I am starving, I fix up a big meal and try to put the food in my mouth, but I have to stop because it makes me feel like vomiting. Believe me, I fix meals every day and try to eat snacks but most of it ends up in the trash or back in the fridge. I don't think I am fat, in fac...

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Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 3:49 pm

ok... im f/14 and weigh 109.. i was anerexice in the summer and in the begining of the school year... and weighed 102... I have been eating and as u can tell i have gained weight.. But yet i still have the thought that im fat in the back of my head... but as im eating i am getting told i look to skinny more often then i have befor.... i got told i look disgostingly skinny...? but i wiegh 109? idk im kinda confused.....

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Interview About Teens And Mood Disorders With Expert Online


Posted Friday November 4 2005, 7:31 pm



I felt everyone who may be suffering from a mood disorder or mental health issue should know of a taped and archived intereview with Karen Liberman who is the executive director of the Mood Disorders, Association of Ontario, Canada.

Ms. Liberman has severe depression herself, and runs a million dollar agency. She breaks down the stigmas, lies, ignorance and answers hard questions on what mood disorders are and are not. Celebrities are mention for a while as is the fact mood disorders begin in children at age 16 usually but often before and or present and full blown but not noticed.

If you have mental health issues or fears this 40 minute interview may be extremely helpful to everyone here who m...

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helpp


Posted Friday November 4 2005, 5:50 pm

Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.....I'm not too sure if i am a guy or a girl, it's really confusing and my parents wont tell me. So how can i tell if im a guy or a girl???? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!

plzz no stupid answersss

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is it normal


Posted Thursday November 3 2005, 8:43 pm

ok well I have been talking to myslef since I was about 6 or 7 and I seriously feel like I'm talking to someone else. I ask myself questions and then give myself an answer all out loud. When I think these I can't come to a solution, but when I talk to myself out loud I feel like another person is talking to me. I find myself looking in magazines and saying out loud and pointing as if I'm giving another person a visual "I'm her."(on that I also find myself choosing who I am in a movie show anything even books... what could that mean) And then I sit in my room and I act out diffent things talking to myself and then talking as if I'm another person and I can get so into it that I get angry or upset I can even cry example: (I have don...

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this has to do with love life family health and alot more


Posted Thursday November 3 2005, 7:06 pm

I just wanted to get this off my chest and I wanted to know if it seems as though I'm going through alot for my age...I'm only 13. Here goes.
I did drugs (cocaine, and pills), I was constantly getting in fights, I've been to court 11 times, arrested 3 times, longest was for 7 months, I've been taken away from my family for a little while because I needed "help", I had a boyfriend for three years,then we got into a fight because he was moving, as soon as he left my house after the arguement he got into a fight with these people, got hit in the back of the head and died before I could say sorry about the fight, I never told my parents, they still don't know about it, after that I started to get into cutting, then I tried to k...

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