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Feel So Alone.


Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 1:32 pm

Let me start here. Before my friend moved here, I didn't have any friends of any kind. My parents were constantly argueing and fighting. I would lock myself in my room for 3-4 hours at a time and turn off the lights and just sit there. Read a boring book or try to do something that would make me a little happier. I don't and didn't do any sports. So then I started wearing black clothes. Then I got into rock and punk music for some unknown reason. I would Cry for no reason untill this girl who is now my friend moved here. Me and her became good friends. We had alot in common. Now I found out that she's moving thousands of Mile's away. I don't want the same thing wrong with me. I can't make any new friends cause I can't trust anyone.. Please Help.

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i dont know what to do


Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 10:28 pm

hi my name is jess im 13. well i constantly have these feelings that i wamt to die and i have no purpose for life. i play as many sports as u could think okso thats not really helping. i get really stressed easily and i cut myself once over a boy. I really need the best ways to handle it im getting really stressed and i cant enjoy myself. if theres any way i can handle it without having to talk to someone because i would sound stupid. please help
jess

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how do i talk about my thoughts?


Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 2:15 am

I am confused. I really need someone I can talk to about things, but I don't know who to turn to. My friends are great, but I just can't talk to them. My parents are great too, but I can't talk to them either. I don't know what to do. I was considering going to the school guidance counselor, but I'm afraid to. I'm sort of afraid of guidance counselors in general anyway. I really want someone to talk to about some things that go on in my head, but I am afraid to, if that makes any sense. I'm also annoyingly specific and paranoid about who I talk to. It has to be a person person. As in, someone who I can see who can be in the same room as me. Online stuff has never worked for me. And...it has to be an adult...or at least someone ol...

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did NOT know what this would go under..


Posted Monday December 26 2005, 5:33 pm

Lately ive been feeling really..just plain ugly. i mean sometimes i look in the mirror and im like wow im kindA pretty. but then like sometimes its like i see something totally different. i feel really self-conscious about myself when i go to school games. like hockey and basketball games. i feel like when people look at me..their lookin at my flaws. i know most arent lookin at me because they think im [pretty] well i shouldnt assume but you know. i hate looking at the super gorgeous girls..it just makes me really jealous..but then again when i see other people im that that i look the way i am. i mean i cant take what i have for granite. but i dont know what can i do to make me less self-conscious. and less shy and more outgoing and not car...

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please help me..please!!


Posted Sunday December 25 2005, 10:31 pm

ok.. this might be long.. so im gonna apologize ahead..

ok well im sooo stressed out i dont even want to live anymore..im sooo sick of everything cause of my friends and my family.. because my parents were divorced and are now getting re-married.. i always have to worryabout getting in fights with my friends because.. they just always wanna fight iwth me..and my mom is really mad at me and wont talk to me cause i said i hated my g-rents which is true.. cause all they do is find the negatives in me and judge me towards one little negative thing about me..and they dont even nkow me..and im sooo sick of being judge by people who dont know me.. and then there's this guy.. that i went out with but then he wanted to be friends exce...

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I Knew About It Even When I Was 6!!


Posted Saturday December 24 2005, 11:51 pm

Hey Guys, This Has Really been bothering me and I don't know what to do. I Knew what sex was when I was about 6 years old. I'm 13 Now. But I'm Worried that I wasn't Raised Right. I mean Most Kids don't even know what Making Out is When their like 7!! But I Knew! Was I or Am I Normal??? No SmartAzz's About This....Thanks

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wayyyy overstressed


Posted Saturday December 24 2005, 6:29 pm

hey you guys. im wayyyy over stressed and i really cant seem to find anyway to take my mind off things and just relax? does anyone have any tips? also, i cant seem to sleep anymore are there any tricks you guys use to get to sleep? please dont say go by some sleep aid or whatever cause my mom wont buy them for me. thanks

oh and im 15/f if that means anything. thanks!

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Should i let him go?


Posted Saturday December 24 2005, 10:15 am

I dont know what to do, in august i started playing this chat game called RUNESCAPE. well i am not allowed to play it anymore ( mom says it causes behaviorall probs) anyway but i met him on the game, his name is nick, aka oprah22 but well, i miss him like crazy, i cry whenever i think about him, I miss him so much i cant stand it. he was my online bf and...more than that, i wanta talk to him so badley. sometimes i catch myself crying because i think about him. Mom blocked the website and he gave me his number but my mom would KILL me if i e-mailed him. I need help!

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Posted Friday December 23 2005, 11:25 pm

ok well im in eighth grade and like im definately not overweight...and my arms are skinny and stuff and my legs are kinda muscular cause i play sports but you no how like you thighs are kinda fat well i wanna no like exercises where you can make them like muscluar.ooo and like my stomach im thinking of like just not eating because my stomach like kills me i always look at myself in the mirror and think just like uhhhh i wanna lose it and i cant!!!! sooo i dont no what to dooo!!!!
please help!!!

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Ativan


Posted Friday December 23 2005, 10:26 pm

what kind of anxiety does Ativan help with? What are the side effects?

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labels?? ill rate fives


Posted Tuesday December 20 2005, 9:05 pm

what does it mean when you are classified as a Townie or a Rude Boy?
thx

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do I have an eating disorder?


Posted Tuesday December 20 2005, 6:09 pm

I really don't like to eat -- I think it's a waste of time and I have always thought that. I eat the bare minimum to survive. Sometimes I get problems (headaches, mental confusion, memory loss, hysteria) because of my blood sugar dropping to nothing because I haven't eaten. I don't think I'm fat or anything, and my weight, which is within normal limits, has been basically the same since I was 14 (I'm 20 now, and female, incidentally). There are only about 12 foods I like and maybe another 12 I can eat but don't like -- the rest I will not touch no matter how hungry I am. Oh, and when I do eat, about half the time I get really sick later, not on purpose, very painful and embarrassing diarrhea and gas problems.

I honestly don...

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death


Posted Tuesday December 20 2005, 5:58 pm

my friend says shes gonna kill hetself how can i stop her without telling anyone

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reaching out.


Posted Sunday December 18 2005, 11:09 pm

Lately, I have had no purpose. I don't join after school activities and I don't really like to do many things outside of school. I just saw this movie saved and it got me thinking about thing. I never really was that into religion. I mean my family never went to church and we basically never practiced. I just want to start being a better person and starting up things to help others. Does anyone have anyideas?

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I sometimes wish i am more ill than i actually am.


Posted Sunday December 18 2005, 7:08 pm

I quite often wish that I am more ill than i actually am. I found myself wishing that I could be in hospital over a christmas at some point. I was always ill as a child and spent a lot of last year ill with depression and glandular fever and in a way... i miss it.

I find myself exagerating all aches and pains, I almost like the pain sometimes.

I feel so messed up, do any of you guys ever feel like this?

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Posted Saturday December 17 2005, 12:08 pm

i didnt know what category this would go in so i just put it here

ok well im 13/f and when i try to remember happy times in my life, like family vacations and stuff all i remember is bad times i can remember every bad thing that has ever happened to me but i cant remember the good things.. does any one know why

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Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 5:53 pm

Soo..years ago i use to cut, smoke, and do drugs. and i thought i got through it, but now..i want to do it again. im having cravings and i dont know how to stop it. how can i stop these cravings i am getting? they are really getting to me.

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So shy it's untrue


Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 5:31 pm

I'm 15/f and really shy. I can't phone people, answer the door, buy things from shops, talk to people I don't know well.. and basically stuff like that. Everyone else can do normal things like that easily but I can't.. my hands start shaking and my stomach goes all tight, I blush and I just wanna run away when that happens. I think I'm scared of people judging me or something. I know people won't really care if I make mistakes but I worry about things so much anyway that I can't talk to people.
I can't even apply for college because you have to have an interview! I probably won't ever get married or get a job and I'll be a huge failure just because I'm shy! I don't know if I can get counselling because how would they be able to help ...

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crazy


Posted Sunday December 11 2005, 9:58 pm

What are some ways to calm down and relax? School is making me CRAZY. I'm extremely stressed out and I just feel like giving up. HELP PleaSE.

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isolation


Posted Friday December 9 2005, 4:29 pm

can social isolation make you go insane?


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