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ugh omg
Posted Monday July 23 2007, 5:24 pm
ok well saturday night my mom was really really REALLY drunk coming home with her friend. i know this because my friend was watching the car pull in and noticed they were both drunk. they ended up leaving while drinking so i called my mom and told her to get her a** back! welll her and her friend went upstairs and were at it. they both were loud and um yeah so now i havn't talked to my mom since saturday night. what should i dooo?! it's so awkward !
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They Act Like They Hate Me!!!!!!!
Posted Monday July 23 2007, 5:21 pm
13/f
Today, my friend and I got on teh computer. My sister was on first, but then when I went back to the computer, my friend was on, so I thought she let my friend on. Then my sister started saying she hates me, she wishes I would die and stuff like that. I tell her sorry, but sh esays rude things again then runs into room and starts crying. I let my friend hang out on the internet. I'm not blaming it on her, but yea. Then, my dad comes home and I start singing some song. Then, I ask my mom for some dinner cuz it was dinner time. My dad tells me to shut up and that I'm so annoying I should just die. THEN, my mom says soem rude thigns to me! I'm really upset. What the fudge did I do?!?!?! I wanna know what to do! I've already...
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daughter is leaving tomorrow
Posted Sunday July 22 2007, 6:13 pm
awhile back i entered a question about my 20 yr old daughter leaving back east to live with her father. well, she has asked my 18 yr old son to go with her, supposedly just for a few weeks, but i am extremely uncomfortable about this. i did not yell ar anything but the ex husband does nothing except try to brainwash them while they are there. they are leaving tomorrow and i can't help but feel abandoned by my kids who i've suffered and sacraficed to support all these years. i can't even look at my daughter, let alone say good-bye to her. i am so disappointed with her. i'm sure my son feels as if he is in the middle of all this and it breaks my heart that her and her father are going to try to talk him into staying there instead of coming ba...
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Hair
Posted Sunday July 22 2007, 8:11 am
Arghh! So pissed off.
I want caramel highlights in my hair and my DAD !
won't let me and i really want them i have tried everything i told him everyone in my school dyes there hair and he goes well thats them what can i say or do ='[
Thanks much.
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Ugh..
Posted Saturday July 21 2007, 7:31 pm
Alright well i want my bellybutton pierced soooo badly.
...But my parents are dead set against it.
My cousin, who is a year younger than me, recently got it done.
I want it so badly.
I'm 14..
...What can I do!?
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LONG BUT I NEED ADVICEE!!!!
Posted Saturday July 21 2007, 2:04 am
It might be long but please read, i need your advise, I'd appreciate it soo much!!
okay, so i have a family of 5. A sister who can be a snob, and is 21. A brother who can be nice and caring and is 18. And a mom and dad, and well.. me who is 14.
My mom is always paying attention to my sisters problems and not mine. Yeah, my sister has alot of problems but i need some help sometime too.
How do I get my mom to open up to me instead of telling her??
I dont have a good relationship with my mom. Shes not a friend or best friend , shes just my mom. And i've always wanted to be closer. We do have those " cute, daughter and mother" times but i want to be able to talk to my mom abo...
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What do i do?
Posted Friday July 20 2007, 2:24 pm
im 17, im very responsible, im in el paso texas for the summer--i paid for it! i worked all year long to visit my boyfriend. now my mom "let" me go which was cool. but now shes going to call the cops on me to make them send me home back to washington can they do that? because i went a little over on my phone bill which is in her name and im sending her money little by little but now she says if i dont send more than 100.00 shes going to call the cops and MAKE me come home. its just plain bullshit i dont know what to do, any advice for parental bullshit? shes crazy if i dont call her everyday she sends the cops over -.-" bullllshit.
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I am left out!
Posted Thursday July 19 2007, 4:36 pm
female
My step sister is turning 16 this weekend and i am having my biggest birthday too, the next week. And I am totally left out. This birthday is really big for me. And believe me I am totally happy for her, she has gotten a mustang and money and a that. But I feel like I am getting the short end of the stick. I have tried telling poeple how i feel but they said that I can have my chance to shine.... but thats ALL poeple talk about... yes her b-day is tomorrow but mine is a week from saturday. Mine is big TOO!!! why can't poeple just see that.
please help me. I dont think that I am jealous or anything. Cause really I am honestly happy for her. But what about me. Tomorrow we are going out for a "...
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Moving In With My Dad
Posted Thursday July 19 2007, 1:23 pm
Okay, I need advice right now! Im moving in with my dad. I called him to come get me and my stuff, but i havent told my mom yet, and he is coming in an hour, im just really scared and i dont know what to say... someone help me???? I need answers now!! Please.
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I wish I know what to say and help My aunt
Posted Thursday July 19 2007, 1:09 pm
Okay.. My aunt who is in her 50's lost her son last summer.. he hase a little girl about five years old.. and live next door to my aunt. anyway she still have thoes days where she hase doubts and want her son back. he die age 36 and luckima i can't spell it. and thing is that she so sad sometimes i wish that there something i tell her help her and she can have good days and enjoy it to.. plus abou little girl she very smart. she only 3 year old she lost her daddy. she remebers him and everything.. she stay with my aunt 3 days week becouse her mom goes night classses. she seem doing okay. she already know him for 5 years since they had little girl. anyway I love and enjoy talking to my aunt. we very close. thing is my qustion is there a site...
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Advice on getting my ex-boyfriend involved with his child
Posted Thursday July 19 2007, 1:46 am
My ex-boyfriend of more than 3 years really isn't sure he wants to be involved in our unborn daughters life [due nov. 4th]...i really wish he would be because i would hate for her to miss out on anything like this...i want her to have a father...even if he and i are not together...i really need advice on what to do and tell him to convince him that being involved in her life is the right thing to do and that we need to think of our daughter regarless or our situation...we've talked about this extensively but he is still unsure...i really want my daughter to have her father...please what can i do??? help....
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i love you
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 11:07 pm
idk why but ive never been able to say those 3 words to my parents.. or even to my closest friends. i mean.. i dont have the type of friends who'd say that all the time and i wasnt brought up that way either. i mean, obviously i love my parents and my good friends.. and i've tried to work up the courage to say that i love them.. but then i chicken out.. like i feel like its so cheesy or something since my parents never really said that though i knew they loved me and my siblings. how can i get better at saying it? cause my dad is in a different state right now, working on a new company, and sometimes i miss him and i think of calling him and telling him i love him but then i also think thats too mushy for me.. and ive never said it before t...
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drug addict dad
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 8:18 pm
okay so my dad is a drug addict.
and everyone yells at my mom and tells her to divorce him and everything,
but what tey dont get is that hes a good guy.
just not when hes on drugs.
i remember one time he ran me and my mom out of the house and we camp back like an hour later and we walked in the door and the lights were off and he had thrown everything all over the floor,he was sitting on the couch and he looked so mean and angry.i was so scared.and when he does dugs it makes me feel like im not good enough for him and he needs drugs to like make him happy or something.i just want him to stop and i tll him that but he never listens and just says whatever.and he already has a brain tumor and a tumor on his hip,but ...
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my mother...
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 4:56 pm
ok so im 15/f and im getting really pissed at my mom because im not allowed to see any guys. like not just date but hang out with them. if i go to any of my friends houses and there are guys there, im not allowed to go. and im not allowed to go to MY BOYFRIENDS HOUSE!!! im so sick of her and when my sister was my age, she could do pretty much whatever she wanted. i just dont get it.
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is my mom being paranoid?
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 2:28 pm
Well, I am 5''3 and 13 years old and all my mom can ever talk about is my weight. In summer 06, she told me that i looked to heavy. I was 122 lbs, so i lost 20 pounds. then she complained that I looked to skinny. Right now I am 107 and she keeps bugging me that I look too skinny. She wants me to gain 5 lbs, but I dont want to. I like the way I look right now but my mom doesn't respect that. Whenever I wear a swimsuit, all she can comment on is, "you look too skinny". It's really annoying and I wish she would just let me stay at the weight I feel right at. I just don't want to listen to her complain anymore. What do i do?
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How do you deal with a mom who is criticizing, rude and....
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 1:52 pm
and constantly compares you to another sibling, calls u stupid, fat, ugly (about every time she sees me)....like, everytime theres a TV ad for a skincare line or something she says, 'you should get that!' (cause i don't have such great skin) every 5 seconds ...she loves it.
always talking to me and staring at my acne and/or saying, "what is happening to your face?!". and shes always like, you look so ugly right now!
or she even tells me to shut up randomly, sometimes even wanting to get violent....or 'why don't you get your eyebrows done? (ur (my) sister) is so much prettier, why can't you look like her', etc.....'ur so dark (wtf?) and ugly'
she is bipolar, for real. i can't take it anymore. <...
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stress
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 1:12 pm
14/f
Lately I've been stressing over everything in my life and its getting to the point where I'm starting to get depressed more often and moody. I'm stressing over trying to get into a top highschool where only a few get chosen......stressing over this boy who has a girlfriend but I just can't seem to get him out of my head no matter I do he's all I think about....stressing over issues in my home I feel like I can't go to anyone for help because I feel like they get bothered with my problems. I don't know what to do how do I handle my issues normally without depression or mood swings or stress?
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mom vs. boyfriend
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 9:38 am
my boyfriend live's with me. i'm 16 and he is 18. yes, i know he shouldn't be living with me, it's a long story. we met when i was 14 and he was 16, a couple months after he moved in and my parents didn't have no problem, now me and him argue alot, and my mom always just happens to hear everything we say. my walls arent sound proof so she can hear what we say. i know me and my boyfriend shouldn't argue but she ALWAYS runs to my dad and i get yelled at. i'm writing this, this morning because me and my boyfriend were arguing [ not loud ]. and my mom went over across the street and told my dad, then he came over and started yelling at me. which left me crying while my dad and my boyfriend left for work. i screamed down the hall " ...
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my sister is mad at me!
Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 10:37 pm
(SORRY THIS IS SOOO LONG!)me and my sister tell each other almost everything and were good at not telling anyone else.its just that shes good friends with our god mom and sometimes shell tell her things i have told her thinking our godmom wont say anything.well most of the time it ends up back to me cus our godmom starts asking me questions about it.well anyway i recently got a bf who works at my school over the summer and i go there everyday cus my dads the principle.well hes 18 and im 14!im always talking to him on the phone and one day my sister askes me who was i alwys talking to on the phone and i told her it was none of her buisness and she got super mad and was like why wont you tell me! then she said well i guess we dont even need t...
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i HATE my brothers friend so much and hes always over!
Posted Tuesday July 17 2007, 7:28 pm
ok i hate my brothers best friend joe. i fight more with his friend then i do with my brother. joe knows i hate him i make it clear to him and he says im a emo bitch. IM NOT EMO. i...do cut and wear black daily. but im like half and half happy or sad. am i emo? i say im not. although im not sure. and hes always over! once we went bowling and i had 3 friends and my brother had him. joe says were all emo. well 2 of my friends like attacked him when he said it and i walked up. i fight with him atleast 3 times as much as with my own brother and joes so nice to parents. my brother and him are 15 and my friends are all 13 14 or 15 im 14 soon im 13 soon 14. my friends are all probly emo or goth or punk or skaters i guess since stereo types are eve...
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