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i need totally help plz
Posted Monday February 1 2016, 7:10 pm
so I have a problem with a girl so lets call her Bella So it all started the day I told her we cant be friends with her anymore because of this incident where her mom is saying all badwords to my brother for no reason so I wrote something that looked like if I was threatning her so this is what I said " I don't want to hurt you in a way I could". I know I was so stupid to say that and what I ment to say was I don't want to hurt your feelings and I got all the blame so I'm restricted to talk to Bella and really she is taking my friends and making a new squad and she is stealing my memebers and I want to punch her and so now she is all boasting about her new squad members so I need advice on what should I do and don't say talk to h...
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My BFF wants to be me?
Posted Monday February 1 2016, 5:34 pm
Me & my bestfriend have been friends since Middle school (shes always been insecure/threatened type inside and out), & i guess you can say she's ALWAYS been jealous of me for example, she'd always get mad and annoyed that if a guy she liked thought i was hot so she'd always tell them something like "but she said you were ugly" or something worse. she'd also always try to find a way to bring me down physically and/or mentally. I guess i can say she has gotten over that from what i can see for myself (idk what she says behind closed doors) so NOW lol, she would say i dress to fancy or nice to go to a basic place & i would tell her that iam not a basic bitch i have to look good wherever i go and that she doesn't care abou...
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Should I initiate to start the conversation?
Posted Sunday January 24 2016, 5:01 am
I have this guy friend who I met on a game online 5 years ago. Even though the game shut down, our communication continues (not that communication that we talked everyday). We never meet because we're far from each other and we had phone calls maybe 3 years ago together with some friends.
Then 2014, I studied to a place that he can reach, but still we never meet. During my vacation (december 2015), we became closer, we chat 24/7. Then new years, he said he likes me, and I don't feel the same. He said that its okay and lets stay the same but everything's awkward. Then he's asking if we can meet. I refused because (1) i never meet someone I met online (2) he likes me (3) I'm an introvert. No one's initiating the conversation ...
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I need some gay friends
Posted Friday January 22 2016, 12:35 pm
I need some gay friends will anyone be my gay friend?
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Difficulty making / keeping friends
Posted Sunday January 17 2016, 7:14 am
I'm 20/ f
I have trouble getting in touch with friends who used to be in my life. I go to Uni and live there and everyone seems to have a group at home too.
With me I kind of feel people have moved on and I haven't in the past made an effort to keep up with them. I've lost so many pals from them moving away or me moving away..
But I also feel that it shouldn't be me all the time who makes the effort.
What should I do? I am worried after uni my friends won't keep in contact. Also sometimes they organise things last.minute so I struggle to go to things. Does it make me look like I'm not bothered?
How can I make more friends? I know uni do societies but you go and ev...
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Friendhsip
Posted Friday January 15 2016, 2:01 am
I think if I've learned anything about friendship, it's to hang in, stay connected, fight for them, and let them fight for you. Don't walk away, don't be distracted, don't be too busy or tired, don't take them for granted. Friends are part of the glue that holds life and faith together. Powerful stuff.
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The one who loves you is the one who cares for you////
Posted Thursday January 14 2016, 9:06 pm
The one who loves you is the one who cares for you////
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Will he ever get some courage and ask me out?
Posted Wednesday January 13 2016, 7:05 pm
im 32 and he is 27 he is a store manager at a grocery store...from the looks of things he is doing quite well for himself. well ive had a couple of customers ask me was I his girlfriend..i said no.....and he looked up at me and then put his head down....anyway he is shorter than me im 5'3 and he is 5'0 and he is fluffy ( I normally don't date men of that stature ) but if he was to ask me out id give him a chance, he seems like a very nice guy..he picks on me constantly, he knows I like to cook so now he asks me what am I going to cook him......lmao.....even my brother was like that dude wants you.....well today I went up to him and I was like, hey and he turned around and stared at me with this shocked/stunned looked on his face and I said ...
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Why I am allowing myself to be so abused
Posted Tuesday January 12 2016, 3:04 am
this guy hustled me for $7,500 and hid out of state for a year when I finally got him to court. I thought I was going to die during that whole year, I thought I was having a breakdown. I finally served him out of state with a law suit and I didn't think he was going to show for court but he did. We went thru a mediator and I agreed to settle for $5,000 with him paying me $200 a month. Since he has gone back to his state I have allowed him to call me and I could kill myself for even speaking to him because I really despise him. He has the nerve to talk about his girlfriend. We were never really a couple though. He wanted me to think we were at the time. I would never ever want him in my life but yet I don't want to feel rejected. Why ...
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I can't invite friends over because I'm ashamed of my house
Posted Monday January 11 2016, 4:11 pm
I live in a small shitty 2 bedroom apartment, It's condition and furniture is really bad, I really hate living in it. I never invited my friends over, I have been friends with them for 5 years and never invited them once. It's really bad I can't invite anyone, also when they visit my neighborhood I just meet them in the streets and they keep hinting how they want to come over. I keep making up excuses. My parents are divorced and my father doesn't pay anything. my mother is struggling on her own, I am so sick of getting scared if they ever decide to just knock on my door. I hate this life what should I do?
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My Emotional Problem
Posted Sunday January 10 2016, 4:18 pm
I had this friend that we'll refer to as "Ryan". I met Ryan 2 years ago and we didn't really talk until 2014 when I decided to talk to him more and more often. Then August of this most recent year I was dumb enough to make up something by telling him that I wanted to have sex with him. We didn't talk for months and this month his friends told me that he said that he didn't hate me but that he had no interest in communicating with me. I'm not satisfied with that because no matter what I do I still have the thought of it stuck in my head and it's hurting me emotionally and he's just ignoring people that bring it up. I'm also a guy if that's helps with anything.
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advice please!
Posted Friday January 8 2016, 7:19 pm
Embarrassingly I'm 21 and female, terrible self esteem, but I dont find that a problem, as the they say, if you haven't got the confidence fake it! Well here's thing I find myself soo lonely, I'm nearly always broke and I live on my own, I want to hang out with people and make friends, but I dont know where to start, friendships use to come easily, but now, as I've drifted from my last friends I realise I need to make the effort, but I never know what to talk about.. I would invite people to go places but I never have money! On advice on how I can go forward, what I can talk about, any fun/interesting things to do for free? I need to stop being such a loner! Life is so boring!
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Left out friend.
Posted Sunday January 3 2016, 2:06 am
Hi so I have a friend who is in the group of friends that I'm in. She is such a nice and loyal friend, but the rest of the group don't really consider her their friend. Now don't get me wrong my group of friends are really nice and caring, I don't know why they don't but they don't really invite her to things that we do. When I did stick up for her and try to tell them that she should be invited to these things they just didn't really say anything because they don't like drama. So we have organised a big get together that everyone in our group is going to, but the person who organised it didn't invite her. I asked her if she invited her and she said that it's too many people. I think I will just not go to this gathering, and do something wi...
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Friends forgot about my birthday?
Posted Thursday December 31 2015, 11:12 am
So you've probably seen some of my questions about how I don't have any real friends and today being my birthday just proves what kind of friends I have. I don't hype up my birthday because if you're my friend you would've remembered like I get it sometimes you have a lot on your mind and forget but this happens every single year, if I don't tell me friends "hey today's my birthday" or if I don't text them the day before "tomorrow's my birthday" I won't get a birthday wish. The only person that's not in my family that wished me a happy birthday was this girl who I don't even talk to anymore, we drifted apart I tried keeping the friendship with her but she stopped cause she has more relatable friends now. Every time it's ...
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How do you stop being friends with someone?
Posted Sunday December 27 2015, 12:12 pm
I'm 13 and I have a friend. She is really nice and I enjoy spending time with her, but she is completely obsessed with me. She follows me around everywhere and is constantly texting me. She is nice and all, but I need my space. Me and my best friend are trying to have a conversation, and she feels the need to know exactly what we are talking about, and in detail. She can't not know something about me and its starting to creep me out. She is always texting me. I know its quite mean, but sometimes I say that I have to go just to get away from her. I want to still be friends, but not that close that she basically stalks me. What should I do? She is also always touching me. She will grab onto my arm or hug me or whatever. This seems so weird to...
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accidental sext
Posted Sunday December 27 2015, 1:11 am
Hi I am a 14 year old boy. I met a girl 4 months ago and she has feelings for me and I guess I like her too.she has so many problems she has been through a tough break up and she lost a close friend who I like. I've been trying to bring them back together but while texting her to make her feel better. Because she has juristically changed. And she told me she isn't a virgin. And I freaked out and the conversation went on then I told her my sexual fedishes and she said she was getting horny then we continued and I came. She wanted to date after but that was an accident. And I didn't answer what should I do I haven't dated for years and tho is all new to me.
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My Friend Cameron or so I thought?
Posted Thursday December 24 2015, 12:59 am
Hi,
My name is Tyler and I have a friend by the name of Cameron. We've went through so much pain forsaken events between each other such as fighting with each other, cussing at each other, upsetting each other, and more. He claims he's straight but I just don't see it but yet again I've never seen him in a relationship with a guy. Anyways, so it's around Christmas now and tomorrow is Christmas Eve so I don't expect to have this answered before Christmas Day but he told me personally in a private text message that he had depression and that he was just being mean to everyone/thing because he had such a thing. He recently graduated from my high school this past June and I didn't really see him that much after he did and I do m...
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My Lesbian bestfriend who had a crush on me
Posted Wednesday December 23 2015, 3:48 am
I was fifth grade when I noticed that she's doing
weird stuff around me.It stopped but until now she's kissing me in the forehead,"accidentally" moving closer to me and I don't know if she still likes me.If she does,What should I do?
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no friends
Posted Sunday December 20 2015, 2:24 am
24/f
I seem to always have had a hard time making and keeping friends. Im 24 now and it just feels like if I try to make friends with other girls Its forced. The few friends I do have have kids or their always busy. I have a coworker whose said she wanted to hangout, but she never texts me. And if I text her she doesn't answer. She has a daughter as well. And then there was this other girl around the corner from where I work and I gave her my number and I never heard from her. And this one girl at the gym who works there gave me her number and it didn't seem like she wanted to. Whenever we talk it's always me texting her. The last time we talked I texted her and she said she was going to the gym, and I said that i might go but I didn...
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My Friend Is Constantly Attention Seeking
Posted Thursday December 17 2015, 6:49 pm
I have bad anxiety and I put a blog explaining why anxiety made me leave school so that people wouldn't ask questions, a few weeks later a guy I've been friends with for years but grown apart from came to me saying he has depression. I didn't think anything of it until he came to me everyday saying he wanted to kill himself, and then came to me with a knife saying he didn't dare cut himself so wanted me to do it, and asked for tips on the best way to do it. Ever since then I haven't wasted my breath on him, just listened. Nothing he says ever adds up: he was taking 20 anti-depressants a day, he said his doctor diagnosed him with depression and then told him that he was wrong and then re-diagnosed him and then told him it wasn't, he said tha...
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