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my daddy
Posted Saturday August 4 2007, 11:46 pm
okay so my dad is like in looove with his new wife. we just bought a boat and he told me that it was for him and his wife to spend time together. i mean all they do is spend time together. never with me and my brother.and she doesn't really stay home when it is time to like clean or work. and then again today we saw a little tiny boat and he said that, that was what we were going to get then i was like then we all couldn't go on and he was like it would only be me and my wife. i am just sick of it and it bothers me because before her i was daddys little girl. i miss that. what should i do.
sorry its soo long and weird.
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My messy siblings
Posted Saturday August 4 2007, 7:57 pm
I am 16 and my family consists of 5 other people. My siblings are really messy and our apartment is always disgusting. I clean a lot, but it doesn't make much of a difference. I talk to my parents about it, but they don't do anything about it. What can I do?
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show him im not weak
Posted Saturday August 4 2007, 7:29 pm
ok well heres the deal, my dad has a big temper problem but when he plays around like fight playing and i play back hes like oh, u wanna mess around and he gets out of control. he's never hit me out of anger, but tonite he hit me in the side of the head where my ear is and its been smarting for a bit. i want to show him im not weak and i mean business. does anyone know any moves in which i can best him. a behind the back arm hold would be great.
15/f btw. im sick of him being an asshole.
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stepdad
Posted Saturday August 4 2007, 2:31 pm
I have a stepdad, him and my mom have known each other for about 5 years, and they married each other in October 2004. Don't get me wrong, I like him. Except for the fact that he's super stubborn and always complains about everything. He pays no attention to my dog Daisy, and always goes 'DAISY GET OUT OF HERE' when there's food around because like all dogs, she'll hang around and wait for food to fall on the floor. And she immediately runs to her cage, almost like she's scared of him. Even his friends wives have told my mom about how he treats her like sh*t and doesn't seem to care. He works hard to provide for our family, he works from 9 in the morning to 10/11 at night. I am grateful for how much he does for our family, but now my questi...
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my dad...
Posted Saturday August 4 2007, 11:39 am
my dad is really nice to me and everything and he does alot for me but when my sister or mom get him mad he takes it out on me...what should i do? how do i get him to stop? please don't say talk to him cause i already tried that and he said he wasn't taking his anger out on me. thanks.
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arab culture
Posted Friday August 3 2007, 6:24 am
i am from an arab heritage.... i am so confused about my culture... is there anyone out there who could tell me family traditions?? i am caught between west and east :S
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it's getting on my nervessssss
Posted Thursday August 2 2007, 10:34 pm
13/f. going into 8th grade. alright so my parents still treat me like i'm in 3rd grade. i go to bed on 11.30 on weekends & so far this summer [wtf?] and 9.30 for school. i can't talk to any boys on the phone or online, or just in person without my mom being all like ooo you like him or bs like that. my dad doesn't let me go to any sleepovers. or overnight field trips for school. i seriously cant take it... i tried talking to them 39925983 times. what the heck should i do ?? :[
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sweet 16th
Posted Thursday August 2 2007, 7:11 pm
alright. my 16th birthday is in three weeks, the week before school starts. last year i had a quincenera(kinda like a sweet sixteens but for mexicans or hispanics) my parents spent alot of money on it and it was beautiful and all so originally i knew i wouldnt have a big sweet sixteen or anything. the other week my parents also bought me an expensive gift and i told them that could be my birthday present. okay problem is i still wanna do something(at least small) with about 10-15 of my friends for my birthday! but i dont want to ask my parents for money or anything very big. got any ideas?
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Babies last name. HELP!
Posted Thursday August 2 2007, 6:25 pm
I am about ready to have a daughter anytime. But I am dreading it. Not because of labor, but because of the question "Whats the babies name?" I have her first and middle name picked. However her father and I arent married (yet). I want her to have his last name. So does he. But my parents are threatening to disown me if I dont give her my last name. They said not giving her mine will make things complicated for me (Like doctors, and legal things.) if he and I split up.I dont know if I should believe them or not. But they will scream at me if I dont give her my name. I wont give her 2 last names even though I could. I just want her to have his last name. He is her father and thats how it should be. Im so frustrated and stressed ove...
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Leaving..
Posted Thursday August 2 2007, 6:06 pm
My Mom keeps saying she's leaving. She's so selface and blames everything on me. Jason and Scott( my brothers) ones a drunk the other can't hold a job do nothing wrong and when they do they shuve it onto me. I got an air conditioner and I have to share my room with My brother Jason. He broke my alarm clock, my light, destroyed my favorite books and I just want to go a night without crying. Im 14 I want my own room.. he messing with my pads and tampons, whips my bra's at me so I kicked him out and he broke my door! And they dont even care..
My cousin Laura said a while ago when she got her new apartment Id always have a place to stay. She lives 2 towns away tho how am I gunna get there? ANd she has a kid anda boyfriend and a life t...
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What would you do?
Posted Thursday August 2 2007, 4:34 pm
So recently me and my friend got some alcoholic, it's more of the girls drink..Anyways and we had a lot left and put it in a bag and I had in my closet and my mother found it, and I never really get caught doing anything bad so she called me into my room and asked why I had it and how'd I get it?I said from noone and no reason and she had a very death like look.So she was looking for a bag and she told me how could she trust me ever again and she was going to tell my father.And went downstairs.She came back up again to clean a bit and told me why I had boose hidden in my closet.I don't remember what I said back but then she came in my room again looking for a bag still and at the end she was like.. I can't believe you.You thought I would ne...
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smoking
Posted Thursday August 2 2007, 9:44 am
how can i get my dad to quit smokeing!?
hes been smoking for about 13 years
and im realy scared to loose him, since i just lost my aunt because of lung cancer.
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My Mother
Posted Thursday August 2 2007, 1:24 am
Last night my Mother threatened to leave. Now I'm afraid one night she just wont come back. I have an older friend that has offered to let me live with her not as a joke, but not wicked serios either. My Mom threatens to leave yet I can't..
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cousin
Posted Wednesday August 1 2007, 11:02 pm
My younger sister is pregnant,and I am so excited! Upon finding out this great news, I started to plan a baby shower, as I feel it is my place to give the shower plus I want too. At some point my cousin called me to let me know she was giving the shower and I could help her. My sister and cousin are not close. They have spoke twice upon learning of the pregnancy. Once at my daughters graduation, the other at a funeral. I called my cousin and told her it means alot to me to give my sister and new niece this baby shower. With alot of attitude she agreed that I could plan it, and requested that I plan it around her volleyball schedule and her brothers birthday. I think she is being rude, and I am soooo annoyed. Am I overreacting?
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Two in one
Posted Wednesday August 1 2007, 6:53 pm
Okay I have two question.
1.How do you become less shy,like I wanted to give a guy my number but I never talked to him and then so then when it came time to leave I did NOTHING. about it and I was just wondering how do I become like not as shy,like is there any east tips or something?
2.I am going to a different school and I'm going to be a freshman,and I was just wondering if its HARD to go into a different school,because the school I use to go to I've been going to for a long time.
Help me? Please.
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Invisible.
Posted Wednesday August 1 2007, 2:14 am
I'm tired of promisses that can't be kept. I want my Mother to look at me, and actually see me. Know me, not like a daughter but as a friend. Understand what Im going through, and make everything okay. She's never home, never talks to me like a person. She's always yelling at me for things I didn't do or should've done. I don't have a room anymore, ever sence my friend let me barrow a spare air conditioner my brother has moved in on me. I told him I want him out now, leave out of my room and he laughs at me like I can't do anything.. I woke my Mom up hoping she would do something like an idiot and she was like One niight he's fine on night he's not he's staying in here! And im like fine im sleeping in his room.. noo ur sleeping in your room...
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My mom
Posted Wednesday August 1 2007, 12:00 am
How can I get my mom to trust me more.
She's really strict, and she wont even let me go to the park sometimes because she thinks im "seeing guys".
Which sometimes I am but who cares its not like we do anything.
Ive tried a lot of things and shes just getting worst.
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trust
Posted Tuesday July 31 2007, 9:53 pm
does anyone have any ideas on how to get my parents trust back?
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mom
Posted Monday July 30 2007, 8:33 pm
The week of August 20th I am taking vacation. My mom wants to go visit one of my aunts who lives in Cape Cod. We were talking about dinner time at restaurants up in Cape Cod. My mom says that I should order what I am going to eat and eat what I order. I took this to mean that I should eat everything on my plate. So I said to her that you cannot control the portions given to you at a restaurant and does she expect me to eat everything on my plate.
My mom said she does not expect me to eat everything on my plate, but what she is saying is that I should not order five items if I only want four items or order the five items and only take two bites and leave the rest over. She told me that sometimes I order three vegetables...
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sexually assualted
Posted Monday July 30 2007, 6:50 pm
im a female and 18 years of age
i lived with my mom from the time i was born until i was 13. then i went to live with my adopted dad because was a physically and emotionally abusive person. well, when i was 17 (i am 18 right now) i went to visit her and her husband, which is my step dad, because i thought maybe she had changed. what happened was she abused me again, and cut me with a knife. also, she let my step dad try to rape me while she helped. even though all this happened, i still have feelings for her and i feel bad getting her in trouble. is that wrong? should i go through with the court and press charges?? some good, honest advice would be really helpful.
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