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UNFAIR
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 12:19 am
Okay so my friend asked me to go to wisconsin with her and her family this weekend and here i am all pumped up for it. I ask my mom and her answer is " NO." . Yup, thats all she says. NO. No reason to back it up. Which ticks me off might i add. She doesnt let me go anywhere. No concert,mall, or six flags. IM A FREEKIN TEENAGER FOR GODS SAKE. I am old enough to know not to go in strangers cars. I am old enough to know not to take "candy " from people i dont know. I AM OLD ENOUGH! She gets on my nerves. I have no clue what to do.
Oh, and shes those kind of moms who likes to IGNORE YOU while your talking which obviously donts help! UGHHHHHH. I NEED ADVICE. PLEASE!
thanks ill appreciate it.
depressed Deana.
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dad ..
Posted Saturday August 11 2007, 11:01 pm
so i have an awful relationship with my dad, like the worst .. we dont talk he says im a disappointment, my parents are divorced. my priest has become like my dad .. he is my best friend i talk to him about anything he is like a dad to me. i wanna get him a little something to show him i care but idk what. nothing like religious cause he prob has tons of stuff like that, but something special and personal. any ideas?
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my mom wont let me watch The Matrix!
Posted Saturday August 11 2007, 9:11 am
i mean, i watched The Matrix yesterday, when she was out, but i didn't really think it would be an issue, even though its rated R for Violence. It was really cool, and even the violence wasn't really scary.. I've been more scared in some PG-13 movies than the Matrix. And there was like 1 kiss in it, so I don't think it was also rated R for sexual stuff. so since i liked it, the next day i got the 2 sequels, and i just started watching the Matrix Reloaded. My mom came back from work and walked in the room RIGHT when Neo and Trinity were having sex. Geez, if i had known that was going to happen, I would have just skipped it, but no, my mom overreacted, and after finding out it was rated R, told me to take out the DVD. and since i got it from ...
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Help!
Posted Friday August 10 2007, 11:03 pm
Ok this is going to be kind of long because I'm going to sort of rant. But anyway all my life I've gone to a Catholic School and my family is like really religous and filled with good wholesome morals. I was raised and taught to be the same my whole life and up until now I haven't hesistated at all to play the "good girl".
But lately, I don't know what happened to me. I've taken a complete 180 degree turn and I'm sort of ashamed at who I've become. I'm sixteen and about to go in my senior year of high school. I've been drinking like a LOT and partying. I've been sneaking out, lying to my parents and everyone around me. I never go where I tell my parents I go, and usually end up driving out of town in the middle of t...
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Posted Friday August 10 2007, 8:09 am
my mom just heard me swear real bad. and now she wants me to think of a punishment. what do u recommend? maybe something a bit light. and she's also telling me that i've changed alot its like she doesn't know me anymore.please help.
Lulu
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Friend=[
Posted Friday August 10 2007, 8:04 am
Ok well her boyfriend came to school high right ? so now she wants to dump him and then she told me and when i saw him he looked totally fine hold on heres the convo lets say her name is Melissa
Me-You serious but when i saw him he was fine.
Melissa-He came at recess.
Me-I dont know but he looked fine to me
Melissa-So your telling me im lying great friend you are.
And i was just telling her what i saw i love her so much as a friend id do anything fr her but she blocked me and wont reply to my messages :( please any advice i need it so bad :(
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it is about my cousin.
Posted Thursday August 9 2007, 1:45 am
I am 15 and a female. my cousin and I are only a year apart.(he's younger) and I have always been sort of close with him and I liked that. I like being close with my family. but when I am with him it is different. I guess you can even say I have a crush on him & it has been harder to refuse with each passing year and whenever I see him. what should I do. im so confussed & I know this isn't right. Thank you!
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Cruise
Posted Wednesday August 8 2007, 1:38 pm
I am looking for a phone number for the Spirit of Milwaukee dinner cruise. I cannot seem to find it since the number listed on the website is not working. Please and thank you!(This is for my boyfriend..for our 1 year)
<3 always
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birthday present
Posted Wednesday August 8 2007, 12:38 pm
I have to get something as a birthday present for my 10 year old cousin, but i have no idea what they like or what they want.
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i'm so confused
Posted Wednesday August 8 2007, 11:21 am
ive been with my boyfriend for about 9 months and in the beggining i really didnt tell my paretns cause i didnt know how they were going to react to it. Now they found out and give me nothnig but a hard time about it. They like him and all and let me see him when i want but i hate hearing bout it afterwards. I really dont know what to do. i love him but im so sick of hearing it from my parents =\
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sister trouble... SOS
Posted Wednesday August 8 2007, 10:58 am
Well, I am not sure what to do about my sister. Ummmm, lets call her RAT, I love her to bits, but lately she has really been getting on my nerves, its just the things that she does and the fact that she cires over anything, its not like she is really little, shes older than me, she's 22 and a PICES. I know that RAT has her own problems but I think she uses me as an excuse to cry about her other problems, so its like everyone thinks that I have done something wrong to her when I really haven't.
I don't mean to hurt her and I hate it when she's angry, with me. Right now RAT isn't talking to me, what should I do, I feel like I haven't done anything wrong, but she doesn't understand that the things she does and the way she behaves hurts and annoys me - what should I do?
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i am worried about my little cousin shes changed so much
Posted Tuesday August 7 2007, 10:44 pm
i am 23 and im concerned about my little cousin shes 14. shes changed so much it just feels so different. her friends her clothes and how it seems like she just doesnt love me as much it just is all changed. we went to the mall and i was trying to find her different clothes she dresses like a grunge and all darks. she refused it all but a black and red bikini. then her phone rang and her ringtone gave me the chills and later on we went out to eat and she wouldnt eat and she seems so mad. so i asked her if shes haveing any issues and if she was gothic or anything. she got so defensive and angrier. i just wana know what happened to her does anybody think she got raped or is abused or anything else whats wrong i ask her she gets all mad.
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what should i do?
Posted Tuesday August 7 2007, 10:37 pm
it started to get worse a few months ago. but, its been going on for years now. my mom has always babied my brother. even though he is 3 years younger than me she has always done everything for him. picked up after him, made his food, got everything for him, let him do whatever he wants, he never gets in trouble, and he always gets his way. i always have to keep the house clean and he sits around making it harder. my dad has just started a few weeks ago about the whole baby thing with my brother. my dad takes him everywhere, buys him things, teaches him things, and does a lot of stuff with him. i've always been a daddy's girl and now i don't have that anymore. its like my brother is ruining my life. when my boyfriend comes over and we're ha...
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sleepover
Posted Tuesday August 7 2007, 2:00 am
im a 14/f and i know if youre gonna read this youre gonna be like wow
but i was wondering how i can convince my mom to have a sleep over with a guy
i probably wouldnt have it alone just us two cause i know my mom would say no right away
but im almost 15
and and seeems like all the other people get to
me and my mom have a pretty good relationship
but i was wondering how i can convice her?
oh and im not the type of girl that would be fucking him either haha
its just like a friend kinda thinggg.
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my mother...
Posted Tuesday August 7 2007, 1:54 am
Okay, so I'm 15/f.
I'm a vegetarian for animal rights reasons ONLY
And I'm also on this quest to lose weight. Haha.
So, what bothers me is my mom and how my dad gets easily influenced by her words. Here's the story:
Since like 6 years ago or so, I've been an overweight little kid. But at the beginning of 7th, I lost a lot of weight, thus being a normal girl with a little bit of luggage here and there. And I've pretty much stayed the same until now. Well, my mom always talks about how I should lose a little more weight and how perfect and pretty I'd look if I would loose 10 more pounds and drop to 110lbs. I have been trying to lose those 10lbs but oddly, my mom contridicts what she wants me to do b...
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troops in Iraq
Posted Monday August 6 2007, 7:21 pm
Does anyone know where to find names of soldiers in Iraq to send care packages to? Thanks a bunch for any help!
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My Family Is Driving Me crazy
Posted Monday August 6 2007, 6:04 pm
Okay, I am 15 and I am a female. I live with my mother, step-father, brother(11), and sister(16). My father died when I was 2 months old so I never really knew him. I am a different religion than all of my family, none of them attend any religious services but I do 3 times a week. It is so hard to get along with them because they talk bad about my religion and about me. I hate it and don't know what to do. My brother and sister are constantly stealing things from me and talking about me to my face! My mother is constantly yelling at me. Then my step-dad is always gripping about how he cleans all the time. I really need some suggestions to help me because I am running myself down trying to handle everything.
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Running Away
Posted Monday August 6 2007, 4:11 pm
I'm fifteen year old girl, and I really need some help.
I want to run away from home...I really do. My life...well, I don't want to tell everything...because...it's hard. BUt I think I can tell as much as I can. I have Chronic Lyme Disease, and so does my brother. My brother has had it way longer than I, and he isn't in a good place. He yells, he curses, screams at me and my parents. He even hurts me...like physical. He calls my mom names! And he treats her like s*it. He treats the whole family like this! He treats us as if we are his personal servants. My mom will be nice and get him stuff, and then my brother will yell that she doesn't do anything for him, and that all we do is yell at him and yadda yadda. I can't take it! He calls...
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please answer asap
Posted Sunday August 5 2007, 11:41 pm
tonite my stepdad was really drunk [[nothing new]] but im on vacation in south america with family and everyone was drunk too [[again nothing new]] and they were saying stuff about how i wasnt talking to the adults only the people my age and its soo stupid..but my sdadand me are alone
and my moms back in the u.s. working...
tonite he got mad and said i was acting bad the whole time which he didnt get mad at me once.
then he started to ask my cousin to dance with him and she said no and he started yelling at her and shes younger than me so i told him ''hey be cool theres other people to dance with and she said no, no means no '' yah know and he started telling me i didnt know anything and calling me stupid and stuff whic...
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step mom too skinny
Posted Sunday August 5 2007, 8:36 am
my step mom broke up and moved out of our house about 8 months ago. The split was really sad and rough for everyone in my family, but especially her. We didn't get along great when she lived with us, but now i try to see her every few weeks and we get along well. The thing is, she has lost A LOT of weight. She used to be average, but maybe a little chubby but she went on the south beach diet and stuff. I'm pretty skinny for someone my age (15) and she is skinnier than me! I'm really worried. When I'm around her she eats plenty, like icecream and fries and stuff, but why would she be so much skinnier than she was before the divorce? I don't see how she could be anorexic or anything, cuz she's like 50, but i don't know what to do. I feel rea...
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