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Mental health
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flashbacks from rape


Posted Friday March 24 2006, 4:27 pm

okay so its been a over a year and a half and im still having flashbacks about when i was raped at a party and they dont seem to be getting any better. i think in the past week i've had all my teachers come up to me and ask whats wrong and some even went as far as to tell the guidance department. my friends have also been telling me that i have been "zoning out" and i dont hear a word that they say to me. i mean im not trying to look upset (in fact im trying to look happy) but its just so hard with the rape like repeating over and over again in my head. i cant sleep anymore and im even starting to fail some subjects in school. i thought that it was supossed to get better since its been so long but it seems like its getting worse. ...

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OCD??? srry very long but plz read


Posted Thursday March 23 2006, 7:51 pm

I think i might have ocd...cuz like weird things happen to me like i was sitting in my room and i coodnt concentrate on anything but washing my hands...i started shaking and i got dizzy until i washed them and this morning i was getting my deoderant out and something in my cupboard fell over and i closed the door.....i walked away but all i cood think of was fixing it and it started to drive me crazy and i had 2 fix it and like it happens all the time
another thing is that when im setting my alarm at night i check 500 times to make sure its right...and when i put on my leggings or socks i have to make sure that they're even on the bottom or it will drive me crazy and im also obssessed with making sure that the doors are locked nad ev...

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OCD tests


Posted Thursday March 23 2006, 7:08 pm

Does anybody know a website that has test to find out if you have OCD?? plz help thx:D

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OCD


Posted Thursday March 23 2006, 11:50 am

I think i might have OCD

-Ive got a habit of washing my hands after everything or whenever touching something. Even when im by a sink i wash them.
-If a word comes into my head, i have to say it otherwise i panic, no word in particular just anything.
-I brush my hair every 5 minutes.
-I look in the mirror all the time
-If somethings out of place i have to move it back.
-I have to double check everything like make sure the doors are shut.
-When i touch something i have to touch it with my other hand aswell so its equal.

and so much more

what do you think?

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OCD???srry its long but plz read


Posted Wednesday March 22 2006, 7:46 pm

I think i might have ocd...cuz like weird things happen to me like i was sitting in my room and i coodnt concentrate on anything but washing me hands...i started shaking and i got dizzy until i washed them and this morning i was getting my deoderant out and something in my cupboard fell over and i closed the door.....i walked away but all i cood think of was fixing it and it started to drive me crazy and i had 2 fix it and like it happens all the time

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depression


Posted Wednesday March 22 2006, 7:26 pm

What are the symptoms of depression?

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cutting


Posted Wednesday March 22 2006, 7:22 pm

I used to cut frequently, but then I stopped for a long time. I was doing really well and learning to deal with my feelings in other ways, but just the other day I was in the drug store and I bought a package of blades and went home and cut myself several times. I have been doing ever since. I have been feeling pretty depressed lately. There has been a lot of stuff going on in my life and I don't know how to deal with it. I know that I shouldn't cut myself, but I feel so much better. It really helps me deal. Where can I go for help with stopping cutting. I cannot tell my parents and I am so afraid of telling my friends. Please help. I really don't know what to do.

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cutting


Posted Wednesday March 22 2006, 4:37 pm

Okay, well i dont have a bad home and im not severely depressed but i get upset easily and sometimes i do feel depressed. Last night i cut myself 4 the first time...do i need help..am i crazy...i cant tell my parents....what should i do?

plz help

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cutting


Posted Sunday March 19 2006, 6:46 pm

hey my name is chel and well i used to cut but then i stopped for like a year now i started again and i really want to stop but i can't what should i do?? It's because like my best friends always gets the guys i like to like her and i get stuck with no one liking me and thinking i'm hot. But then i have this kid that like LOVES me he has for 2 years but i just don't like him that way plus he's WAY to young for me..and the only reason why i started cutting was b/c i wanted to experimenting with other things to cut with..and it's way easier with a razor but for some reason it doesn't hurt me at all but it bleeds like CRAZY...HELP ME!?!?

From, CHell

**********I'LL RATE HIGH PLEASE ANSWER!!!!*****

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nervous


Posted Sunday March 19 2006, 6:18 pm

I get extremely nervous about everything. like if i was trying out for a team in school, i get extremely nervous and i can hardly focus. or even something stupid like going to a teacher for extra help. sometimes im so nervous about something that I cry about it and cant gain control. it makes me sick, literally, like if i was about to do something nerve racking. what should i do?

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Do I Need Help?


Posted Friday March 17 2006, 8:10 pm

i think im emotionally disturebed because everytime my cousins come here there suuuuper annoying that u dont understand i feel like there little devils that came to earth to ruin my life and i just feel like killing them and if i cant kill them i kill myself i think i have seriouse problems!!!HELP PLZ CAUSE I DONT KNOW WAT TO DO AND I FEEL LIKE CRYING

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I'm nobody


Posted Thursday March 16 2006, 12:35 am

13/f. Every day, I feel so lonely. It's like I'm an inanimate object. Nobody ever even seems to realize I'm alive. Nobody cares about me at all. I have no friends except my parents---that doesn't count. I try to make friends, but nobody ever gives me a second thought. In fact, I haven't had a single person at my house since I was 9. Nobody ever considers my feelings; if anyone has seen "Chicago," I feel exactly like the person singing "Cellophane." I cry like crazy every single evening at bedtime. It makes me want to do something outrageous just to see if someone would notice. Sometimes I wonder whether anyone would notice if I died. 5's to anyone who seems to emphathize...

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Posted Wednesday March 15 2006, 7:55 pm

how do you fake sick to your dad??

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Ugly.. (sorry about category)


Posted Wednesday March 15 2006, 6:10 pm

Okay i've got a really bad confidence problem.

I feel ugly ALL the time and get jealous when i see pretty girls, i wish that was me.

But like.. im not the ugliest person ever but im not pretty either.

i really need a confidence boost im going on holiday soon with a mate who i totally have a crush on but im gonig to be so ashamed of my looks and body and im going to be totally embarrassed.

How can i get my confidence level up and feel beautiful?

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Laugh in a sad moment?


Posted Monday March 13 2006, 3:36 am

Hi, this is going to make me sound really messed up. Sometimes I laugh uncontrollably when a situation doesn't call for it. Today for example my parents were fighting, and I just started laughing. I didn't find it funny at all and I was really upset about it, but I couldn't stop it. It also happened once when my friend told me her mother died.. I laughed as I told other people, even though i felt awful about what happened..
Is there something wrong with me? I hate not having control over my reactions like this.

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should I go for it?


Posted Monday March 13 2006, 2:20 am

I have a chance to be on the Oprah Winfrey show. She is looking to interview people with a mental illness and I have schizophrenia. I have been published in other magazines before for how I have managed to live with my condition; but have never been on television.
Some of my friends are telling me to go for it; but I don't know if I want this much exposure. Does anyone have any reasons why I shouldnt go on the show? And Pros or Cons? I havent made up my mind yet!

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confrontation


Posted Sunday March 12 2006, 8:04 pm

I have a confrontation problem. Meaning that I don't know how/can't confront people. Sometimes this is okay, but I can't even tell people when I'm mad at them and it only ends up hurting my relationships with people. Is there any way that I can overcome this problem? I'll rate high for good answers. Thanks very much.

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depression


Posted Friday March 10 2006, 11:26 pm

Lately, I have been concerned that I may be depressed. I've looked into it and I seem to have all the symptoms. I feel embarrassed talking to my parents about my concern. I feel weak and dumb. Can anyone suggest anyone that I can talk to about being depressed besides my parents, teachers or guidance councellor? Thanks.

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Didnt know what category this would go in...


Posted Thursday March 9 2006, 10:39 pm

Ive never really told anyone this but here goes... I am 13/f and I like hollister, abercrombie, etc., I have alot of friends, I have a boyfriend, all the usual. Anyways I dont know how to explain this but I feel like a boy. I wear girl clothes, and I like boys and stuff(im not lesbian) but inside I just feel like a boy. I think its really weird. I used to wear guy clothes and stuff but that was when I was younger. Do you guys think this is weird or what? Is there like anything I can do to fix this annoying problem? Or at least I hope im not bi...

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OCD? i know this is long but PLEASE read!


Posted Thursday March 9 2006, 7:02 pm

i can't describe these annoyances that i experience daily so i'm just going to give examples of what happen

*yesterday my mom came out of the bathroom and the door closed behind her but i could only here that it hit the door frame and didn't like lock all the way so i'm sitting there holding myself against the couch until i couldn't stand it any more i had to go and pull it shut

* my brother asked for some gum (it was orbit) so they have rows of gum right? well i was having the hardest time deciding which piece to give him.. i just closed my eyes and grabbed one and it happened to be on the back row... well after i handed it to him i had to take the last one from the front row and fill in the missing space in t...

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