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he hurts himself


Posted Wednesday February 24 2016, 10:46 am

I ama girl from Bangladesh. I am 17 yrs old n my bf is 25. We love each other like everything. I was in an abusive relationship the for 1.5 yrs n he helped me get out of it. Now we r together for the last 5 months. We know each other for about 2 yrs now. My present bf is jst perfect. N i love him. He treats me like a princess and plays wid me like a doll. He has a stable job n is too handsome. Bt d prob strts whnevr i get angry wid him he hurts himself. He doesnt tell me anything. Whenever i am angry he says sorry even its my fault. Bt it hurts me if he hurts himself 4 me. How can i tell him not to hurt himself?


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Let the past make you better not bitter


Posted Wednesday February 24 2016, 1:39 am

20 year old female, usa.
I just got in a new relationship a couple of months ago. It's been almost a year since my last boyfriend of two years and I ended things. I haven't had the best experience with guys in the past, I somehow always end up getting hurt/played. My current boyfriend is honestly the best, he's seen me at my worst and yet still remains by my side. So why do I feel like somethings missing? He's not the type of guy to show me off to the world, and I love showing him off. Its not like he keeps me a secret either, everyone knows we're together. I've fallen for this guy but for some reason I seem to feel like it's one sided. Maybe it's the fact that I'm so insecure about myself due to getting played so much in the past. I...

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Needing Advice On This


Posted Wednesday February 24 2016, 12:35 am

Having written to him before, a local weather man said twice he is interested in reading some stories of mine involving him. The thing is, he will know it's me, etc and having to write on behalf for others for different people has my mind going to send or not to send. I have feelings of being ignored. Printing isn't an option til next week and a friend asked what he wanted to do with no answer or luck. My friend feels if I don't send them as she told him we would be sending the stories that are done that I would send them. My friend thinks by not sending is being dishonest and lying and what not. Should I still send? Just wondering. Thanks!

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how to detach from my relationship?


Posted Tuesday February 23 2016, 7:35 pm

i have a very lot of anxiety and i worry a lot in our relationship. how do i detach from him? like i want to still love him, but i want to detach in the way where the things he does won't upset me and i could care less and still love him as much as i do now. he doesnt do bad things, its just he chooses games over me sometimes and doesnt do stuff the way thatll make me feel like im important to him. i dont want to try to chahge him to make me happy, so how can i detach where those things wont bother me? can you please give me steps and tips pretty pretty please???

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asking for a girl's number


Posted Tuesday February 23 2016, 6:08 pm

12 year old female. There's this girl in my classes (7th grade) who is really cute and nice. I met her this year and we've become friends. I recently started following her on Instagram and she has a picture of her kissing two friends. It's a very edgy photo, one of her friends is in a questionable position. Someone commented that it's a lot like her in the bathroom with *insert the girl's name here*. I sent her a DM asking spam for spam, I figured that could start a conversation. I figured that one of these days I'd post a tbh so she might like it and I could Dm her something (not confessing my crush) and leave heart emojis at the end. Perhaps she'd say something back. But if I want her to like it quickly before I have to "tbh" a ...

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Gym Buddies


Posted Tuesday February 23 2016, 11:16 am

My boyfriend and I have been together for about nine months now. He is a smoker and I have expressed my dislike for it very much and how I just want to keep him around for as long as possible as I have experienced quite a few of my family members passing away due to smoking and he agrees, he said he wants to stop and I would be the perfect motivation to do so. He has since joined the gym, he says working out makes his desire to smoke very minuscule and I am so proud of him for that.

We were watching a movie the other night when he brought up the idea of me joining the gym with him. He has expressed numerous times that he does not think I am unfit or overweight, he just thinks that since he is quitting smoking for me, the leas...

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Posted Monday February 22 2016, 6:41 pm

i frequent my bank, and there is a new teller there and ive notice she is always eager to help me and if I don't go to her window she gets upset and wont speak to me, or if I don't speak to her she gets upset....today I called the bank and boy was she extra happy...I can feel her just smiling in the background....wth...should I ask her what's up or just leave it alone? my bro thinks she is prolly bi and has a crush on me....she is younger than me I do know that much.....and she comes off as freaky.....what do u all think is she just being friendly or does she like me like? thanks

SO should I give her my number or wait to see if she's gonna ask me for mine....im not an outdoorsy person but I wouldn't mind chillin with her


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Converting to Buddhism.


Posted Monday February 22 2016, 6:11 pm

I've been seriously thinking of becoming Buddhist. How long should I study before I make the life-changing choice?

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Posted Monday February 22 2016, 4:00 pm

Sometimes I finger myself when I'm horny and I go back and forth, like a male is fucking me and one day I saw my own cum on my finger while I was fingering myself like fucking myself. Will that make me pragnate?

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would you report them?


Posted Monday February 22 2016, 10:54 am

let's say you went to a grocery store and you mistakenly dropped a glass bottle on the floor and it broke open and one of the cashiers call you crazy in Spanish and the other cashier laughs and says yeah in spanish....(assuming you don't speak nor comprehend Spanish) but you do, would you report them to the corporate office if there was no manager around? it's like todays cashiers etc fail to realize that If they didn't have customers at their store they wouldn't have a paycheck.....

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How can i help both my friends who are into each other


Posted Monday February 22 2016, 6:44 am

I have this guy friend, (that i really like but i'll save that for another day) who likes to talk with me about a lot of things. Recently he was talking about my good friend Kristina and how he thought she was moving too fast. Kristina has been hugging him a lot and holding him arm (almost clingy if you get what i mean) and laying her head on his shoulder in church. For my church that's really awkward and jaedon (the guy friend) finds it all too awkward and fast. he also said that he thinks they haven't been talking long enough. So i thought about telling Kristina, but i have never told anyone anything jaedon has said to me privately. They are both my friends and whenever me and him talked before it would always be someone i had no relation...

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Fearing That Your Husband is Having an Affair


Posted Monday February 22 2016, 1:59 am

What do you do when you fear your husband is having an affair? When there have been signs for a considerably long time? There have been all kinds of little things such as that he's been incredibly secretive. He never tells anyone where he's going when he leaves the house or where's been when he comes home late. When anyone asks, he asks why they want to know. If you ask again, he flips out and starts screaming, turning it into a huge fight for absolutely no reason at all. He claims that he got angry and started screaming because whoever asked him used a "hateful" tone of voice even though they didn't and even if they did, he still blew it way, way, WAY out of proportion. Also, what if your daughter said she's seen him flirting wit...

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why do i miss him?


Posted Sunday February 21 2016, 9:19 pm

Hi everyone, I am 20 years old. I dated this guy who is much older than I am for about 10-11 months. Him and I lived together, and things fell apart. Even before we lived together him and I would fight. We would argue about my friends texting me late at night, we would argue about me falling asleep on the couch to early, we would fight about dinner, we would fight about my family, we would fight how if I didn't do anything around the house, but when I would do things around the house he would feel bad. He didn't like my family very much, he called my family names, he didn't like my friends very much, and anytime I would se them (which was not often) I would be very anxious, and would always try to be home as early as possible because I knew...

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How should I do my hair?


Posted Sunday February 21 2016, 8:57 pm

First, I don't know what to do to my hair this week. Any suggestions????

Second, i'm going to a wedding this saturday, how should i do my hair?

btw, i'm 12

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Posted Sunday February 21 2016, 7:42 pm

So me and my boyfriend were having sex and he nutted in me. My period came on the next day after we had sex because it was time for it to come on. Is it still a possibility that I can get pregnant or am I okay being that my period came on the next day ???!!!

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Help making a huge decision to move across country


Posted Sunday February 21 2016, 7:26 pm

I'm in desperate need of advice. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now and I love him and he has been there for me and has helped me through my addiction. I'm a recovering heroin addict but my family hates my boyfriend because we got into a physical altercation once in front of my 8 yr old daughter and as a result my daughter now lives with her dad. My boyfriend has never used drugs and he wants me to move across the country with him to start my life over because I recently just started staying with my parents again to get clean. However my older sister is getting released from the hospital soon after getting an infection from drug use and my boyfriend and I are terrified of her being in the same environment as m...

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I need friends!


Posted Sunday February 21 2016, 6:11 pm

Hi I'm in highschool and I have some pretty good friends. The thing is none of them are really close friends. I never go over their house because I'm not a very interesting person. And if I invite people over my house there isn't much to do. If I had friends I would like to do fun tumblr kind if things but my friends aren't really that type and even if I made more friends around school there aren't many people at my school that seem like they would like to do stuff like that. What do you reccomend I do?

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Should I always be this bored and irritated?


Posted Sunday February 21 2016, 6:00 pm

I don't know if this is teenage hormones or if I'm generally just someone who gets bored super fast but being bored is getting annoying. At home id rather hangout with "friends" but as soon as I hang out with them I get bored and wish I was home then the cycle continues. Nothing really exciting happens in my life and I never get to travel so I'm always stuck in my small little town. I also feel like I never really fit in with people I wouldn't consider myself antisocial but I get annoyed with the people I know really fast. Nobody really texts me unless they want something and when I text them some of them don't even reply, so I just stopped texting people in general but then I get annoyed and bored because no one texts me and then...

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Realationship


Posted Sunday February 21 2016, 2:30 pm

Do you guys think if a 13 year old is talking to or dating a 15 year old is it ok


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Misterious boy


Posted Sunday February 21 2016, 1:08 am

I step out of class for a brief moment, im very focussed on where i was headed too, i was causally listening to music going up the stairs. When i hear a "sphhhh". I look down the stairs and see a boy looking at me at first he had a blank expression and he winked at me. I was flattered and suprissed that someone was calling me just so they could wink. I look down smile and continue to go up the stairs but i stop and look back for one final look and hes grinning and i smile back once again, we didnt breal eye contact at all. It was like the cutest thing, ive never met him but have seen him around my school. Im sort of hoping to see him again, and will he recognize me or even care. I dont know..

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