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My up and down Friendships
Posted Wednesday October 1 2008, 4:39 pm
I was friends with this girl name Alison online for 3 years.We were pen-pals and I called her and she called me.She and I both wrote each other letters to each other's houses. We had plans to meet in real life but I changed my mind.We are no longer talking to each other.I have blocked her yahoo email address.How do I stop trying to be friends with Kathy and Alison when they both does not want to be my friend.I have a bad feeling that Kathy is going to do something bad to me.I have a feeling she might call the cops on me for trying to talk to her online out of the blue.I am not stalking her in real life or harassing her online.What are some signs of a person harassing or stalking a person online or in real life?
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When she needs her friends most, they aren't there.
Posted Wednesday October 1 2008, 1:50 pm
I'm a freshman in college, and about a week into school, one of my friends was raped. understandably, she decided to take the semester off to heal. When she told her best friend about what happened to her, the friend stopped talking to her all together (up to that point, they had talked multiple times a day, every day). Now she's home again, and another friend is taking time off just because she hates her school. This girl heard what happened to my friend through the grapevine, and now refuses to talk to her as well. My friend already blames herself for everything that happened, and it's just terrible that the people who are most supportive of her right now are back at the college she left behind, the people she's only knew for about a week...
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my friend and her boyfriend
Posted Wednesday October 1 2008, 12:32 am
first of all I'd like to apologize for any spelling errors, I'm on my iPod touch and sometimes it corrects my words to be the wrong word.
So I'm a senior, 17, female. But this isnt completely about me. Its abut my friend and her boyfriend. Let's call them B and G. (my friend = G. boyfriend = B.) k well the have been dating since like march I guess. But they had previously dated. So it was like a month they never kissed or anything. G was B's first girlfriend. Then they broke up and G dated two other guys in the five month period. Then they got back together in march. It bothered me just because they would celebrate anniversaries counting from when they first date so in April it was their six month anniversary. Even though G d...
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my ex bff is soo annoying!!!!
Posted Tuesday September 30 2008, 5:52 pm
my used to be bff and me are having a fight. so in choir there is a thing called solo and ensemble and we've been working on our ensemble song with alot of hard work! i don't even play the piano and it took me 3 days to find out the rythm and it took ALOT of hard work!! seriously!!!! btw i'm 12 years old. well anyways so the day before the solo and ensemble contract was due (after my choir period which is 4th) she says "ummm i'm not gonna do an ensemble anymore i'm just gonna do a solo!!" btw she BRAGS ALOT on how good she sings cause when she slept over at my house she sang a song and i said "you sounded like christina aguilara!!!" and now she tells everyone she sounds like her!! and she forces it out when she sings so ...
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i'm crying right now...
Posted Monday September 29 2008, 7:40 pm
my best friend and i just had a really big fight. and the fight was about how i frustrate her because i have low self esteem. ='[
i don't know what to do. i've been crying for an hour now and i feel so helpless and lost. most of my friends get annoyed with me i think. because i'm stupid and dumb.
see? low self esteem. i can't help it. it's not a problem that i can just make up my mind to fix. it doesn't work like that. i don't know what to do and i feel sick and lost. the person i'd call to talk to about this would be her, but she's the one that hurt me. she's basically all i have left. the other two people i want to talk to just to talk to someone won't answer their phones and i'm just so sick right now.
i don't know h...
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not a real friend
Posted Monday September 29 2008, 5:11 pm
so i have this friend, we'll call her sally. well sally and i have been friends since 6th grade, we are now in 11th grade. in 8th grade we got into a huge fight that lasted like 6 months. we haven't really gotten into any huge fights since then, but lately she has been treating me like shit. she acts like im not even a friend to her. although i do nothing wrong to her. EVER. im never rude to her. im ALWAYS there for her. shes never there for me when i need someone the most. she gets mad at her "best friend" well call her suzie, well they've been friends for a while but suzie always ditches her and is rude. and she gets mad, complains to me about it. she has no idea how she acts to me but everytime i try to talk to her about it she...
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What do I do about my friend?
Posted Monday September 29 2008, 5:10 pm
About my best friend.
Lately, I'm growing increasingly annoyed with this. We've been best friends for two years, and as I grow up, I find more and more at fault with her.
She is completely incapable, socially. For A person like me, who loves to go to parties, she is the worst person to have as your "wing woman". Meaning, she follows me around, and whenever I'm having a conversation, she jumps in and just mimics what I say. Basically, she's a leech.
She says she is "proud of her awkwardness" and believes that every teenager goes through it. Hers is the bad kind. Not the lovable, awkward kid with glasses. But the awkward that actually makes everyone feel uncomfortable. She is in...
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BESTTT friend to bitch.
Posted Monday September 29 2008, 3:30 pm
okay, so ive known this girl for since 6th grade. were now both in 10th grade and we have been on and off. the reason why, is guys.
okay. so now THIS time a guy that she likes [she never told me that she liked him] likes me, and he told me and i told her. and honestly, shes being a huge bitch[sorry about the language] about this whole situation. shes getting so many people involved and getting all these people to hate me. the guy likes me because im laied back and im chill, and shes just always buggin' and shit.
shes in this situation where she likes about 3 or 4 guys. justin[the one that likes me], noah, grant and her BOYFRIEND! jake. their currently on a break, and their not going to get back together.
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Do people really need others around?
Posted Monday September 29 2008, 3:22 pm
Do you think that people need social interaction to get by? Or could someone get by being alone? As in no friends, and pulling away from family members.
I ask because lately I've been having a way easier time being alone because people I get close to only end up hurting me. But then again, I'm pretty lonely. I can't really win either way. =\
I just wondered what your opinions are.
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Explaing This To Him.
Posted Sunday September 28 2008, 9:33 pm
Okay, recently my best guy friend came out of the closest. Meaning he likes men. I have no problem with that, I'm 100% understanding or atleast I try. But now that I know that he's gay he feels the need to rub my leg constantly and is like you couldn't get me hard and doesn't stop at rubbing my leg he goes right up there and I continue to freak out. Well not a lot of people know thats he's gay, but I have a lot of people willing to kill him cuz he makes me feel uncomfortable.
I've tried explaining that i dont like rating guys with him- and I like a guy Cole and I see him flirting with Cole and COLES STRAIGHT. It makes me really mad and I try to explain things and it doesnt work.
He knows I like Cole. And he jokes about tryin...
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best friends; hanging out w/ friends
Posted Sunday September 28 2008, 3:43 pm
11th grade girl
i talk to a lot of people. im friendly. im even on the vball and lacrosse teams. but i dont know how to make myself a permanent part of their "group".
i dont hang out with any particular group. i never hang out with the closest thing to a group i have - recently they went to applebees and didn't invite me. they said it wasnt on purpose though.
it's like when people have parties and get togethers, they forget to invite me. or when people list their top friends on myspace or facebook, im not on it. i guess it's bc i never hang out with them?
it sucks, esp. since it's 11th gr and it feels like i dont have a sturdy group of friends. i never went to homecoming ...
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I feel like he wont talk to me
Posted Saturday September 27 2008, 3:46 pm
A year ago i was in eigth grade and a new boy from the seventh grade moved from minnesota to iowa. he hated it here and people would make fun of him just because he was new. I kinda thought he was a little attractive. So one day i say hi. and the next thing you know we always make jokes around each other. Then girls start thinking hes really hot and start hanging with him. So we kinda talk but not as much. Then my friends start to make fun of him while i dont talk. so then he'd ignore me on myspace. the last time he ever said anything to me is on the last day of school. Now im in 9th grade and he goes to another school thats 15 miles away. I've sent him messages on myspace like hey how have you been....jw... or.......wats up.....and he...
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my friend & my other friends
Posted Saturday September 27 2008, 10:22 am
15f
i have one friend and we're inseparable. except she's not really friends with the clique i'm in with these three other girls, with whom i'm going trick-or-treating with because our costumes match.
i am, in fact, pretty much closer with that girl than the three other girls, but since they invited me to do the costume-matching with them, and i didn't have any prior plans, i said i'd do it with them.
i don't want my other friend to ask me what my plans are for halloween in case she expects me to do something with her. i'd feel really badly because i would rather hang out with her for the night or go trick-or-treating with her. i can't bail out on my three friends, either. and i'm not even su...
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She won't stop.
Posted Friday September 26 2008, 3:33 pm
Kayla will NOT leave me alone...
This girl has been driving me insane. It all started with when I was going out with my ex boyfriend. When him and I started going out we would say that she would be out to "ruin our relationship" because she was jealous. Well ding, they both got drunk one night and hooked up. It was ridiculous, but I forgave him and just moved on. She was all nice to me after that, so whatever. Now that boy and I broke up recently, and she is still out to get me... not even kidding.
I met this kid at a concert I went to, who is friends with my other friend. Him and I have been talking a lot and have been doing pretty well, but of course here comes Kayla. She calls him all the t...
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losing her?
Posted Thursday September 25 2008, 5:08 pm
so my best friend is completly sprung over this guy.
and shes i guess you could say obsessed.
and hes the same way about her.
but now she ignores me completly.
and when im talkin to her and he walks up..
i feel like a 3rd wheel.
so i just walk away.
its getting annoying.
any help?
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I'm Worried
Posted Thursday September 25 2008, 8:19 am
My friend, she's really cool.
She's really funny.
But I'm worried about her.
You see when it comes to her home life, she just
shuts off. She'll never talk about anything
personal. And she always wears this jumper, even
when it's stinking hot!!
When we were changing for PE one time, I saw her
take of her jumper and I saw lots of scars on her
wrists and arms.
I know she saw me looking, and it's really
awkward between us now.
I want to say something to her.
But i don't know what.
I don't want to say something like "If you want
to talk, I'm here" because the school councilor
has said ...
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18th birthday party
Posted Wednesday September 24 2008, 2:43 am
17/f/australia.
I'm turning 18 in just under a month and my mum suggested that I rent out an apartment and have a few people over for a party.
I know its a bit lame but i have traditional values like wanting to spend my 18th birthday with my family but i cant have it the day before coz another girl at school is having her birthday party and i can't have it the day after because everyone is going away to camp. I guess it doesn't really matter that much but the main problem is i am worried that it will be a flop.
I mean, what are we actually going to do, just sit around? I will probably only invite 10 people and only about 4 will be staying the night. I've only just moved to a new school so i am still a bi...
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love... triangle?
Posted Monday September 22 2008, 2:04 pm
okay, this guy x and my friend y have got off a few times, but shes been with other people in between, but he's not cause he quite likes her but she just uses him because he's there. and i've liked x for quite a while, but i have no chance with y(i've known him all my life and we're quite close) but i hate when i see them together or people are talking about them. and i've been really bitchie to her recently because of it; i don't mean to be but i can't help it. what should i do?
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Field Trip Drama
Posted Sunday September 21 2008, 8:34 pm
Okay so I've got these two friends Jessi, and Kayne. And last friday our school had a field trip. Well on the field trip we had to be split into groups.
Niether kayne me, or jessi had the same group so the field trip was pointless. Well anyways on the bus on the way there jessi and kayne sat by each other and it was cool they talked to me, no problem there.
However the thing was that when we got back onto the bus they sat by each other AGAIN. Only this time they didn't talk to me once till half way back to school. Kayne said " hey how was your group today" and then before I could say horrible he and jessi were back together chatting. They didn't say another word to me after that. so once we were at school i...
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Sex, Ciggarettes, And Cutting.
Posted Sunday September 21 2008, 11:35 am
I have this bestfriend who I absolutely love to death. She's 14 years old. She started smoking at 13 and she won't stop. She will seriously do just about anything for ciggarettes. She smokes sooo much. She's always coughing, I told her that it's slowly killing her but she won't listen! She gets persuaded so easily. I'm afraid that next it's gonna be drugs. She hasn't had sex before, But she's done everything but that! And i'm afraid that soon she's gonna take the next step. She always sneaks around with guys who are WAAY older then her to the point where it's illegal. She also cuts for stupid reasons. Her parents know that she does and they didn't really do anything about it when they found out. The last time she cut herself was because her...
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