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Bad Boyfriend and Pregnancy
Posted Monday September 17 2007, 12:31 pm
I am in need of guidance. I have one child that is seven months old and my doctors put me on the lowest hormone dosage birth control because I'm breastfeeding, but I'm pregnant again. I don't know what to do. I didn't miss any pills and I've been on the pills for about 4 months now. I can't afford another child and while the father and I are together, I'm not planning on staying with him because he isn't reliable and won't share the responsibilities of parenthood. I'm 24 and completely lost as to what to do. I really need advice. I just can't bring myself to talk to my family about this. Please help.
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HELP PLEASE
Posted Sunday September 16 2007, 4:00 pm
i want to know if i can move from my moms in ny state into pa with my dad. i feel that it is a better environment and my dad treats me good well my mom does but do we have to go to court or can i move my dad is the one who pays for everything mom doesnt do anything help im 17
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How to put it nicely?
Posted Sunday September 16 2007, 12:56 pm
Ok well my brother..well he likes to share a lot of good things but most of the time he kinda mis-hears the information so to others it sounds like he's bragging or boasting or showing off and then it comes out as if he's a liar.
Like this one time I got the highest test mark in my class and i said 85% but he though it was 95% and he told my friend and my friend congratulated me about it and I'm liek what? (cuz that test was like 3 months ago and he thought it was 3 days ago) so the person is like boasting brat..
Noone ever said stuff like this to him in hsi face but behind his back (to me). I want to tell him to like, shut up but shut up isn't realyl the word.
How can i put it to him nicely so h...
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bed times
Posted Sunday September 16 2007, 12:01 am
my dad insists that i be in bed by 10:30 on school nights. im 16 and i think this is rediculous. of course i can never fall asleep at 10:30 because thats too early so i normally just watch tv until 1:30 when i can fall asleep. he doesn't know this. he thinks i just go to bed and occasionally when he opens my door and i have the tv on he yells at me. i feel like a little kid. how can i convince him to let me stay up. it's not like i'd go to bed at 1:30 on a school night but he won't even let me stay up until 11 or 11:30. he over egsagerates about everything. if its 10:35 he'll complain because "it's 11 o'clock already and you're not in bed" there's a half an hour difference there buddy. please help me convince him because this is just rediculous.
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taken advantage of...
Posted Saturday September 15 2007, 3:16 pm
My mom and brothers won't stop taking advantage of me! It drives me insane. For example, my mom ALWAYS makes me babysit. She doesn't even ask me if i will, but says "hey i'm leaving now" and i get stuck watching my 2 little brothers. It's not that i mind so much to do it, but i'm tired of her just assuming i will AND not paying me or anything. It's stupid that I have to miss all of my plans while my older brother goes wherever he wants whenever he wants. How do i stop this??? I already talked to her about it a few times, but today, i woke up and there was a note saying she was at work and won't be back until this evening. So now, i'm stuck at my house (in the middle of nowhere) with nothing to do! this needs to stop.
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disfunctional family
Posted Saturday September 15 2007, 2:45 pm
my dad drinks alot. he thinks its stupid i want to go to college and study every night.
my mom is busy keeping this family alive working and such
and my brother only has time for his gf.
my sister is only 12. and she gets in trouble alot. she takes after my dad.
is there like some kind of phone number or something that i can call?..i just want to talk to someone. but i cant do that here.
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boobs :/
Posted Saturday September 15 2007, 9:52 am
my boobs just started killing today and feel like bricks and are very sensitive,and i think it might be a sign of pregnancy, how long do i wait to take a pregancy test for it to be correct ? i got my period a week ago, but do i still have to wait another month to find out if im pregnant ?
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Cell Phone
Posted Saturday September 15 2007, 12:52 am
Hey ya my parents got all pissed off because I didn't call them to tell them I was going to a football game. I didn't think it would be a big deal and they always taught me to be independent. The thing is though they like exploded when I got home in my face and took away my cell phone. What should I do. It has been taken away for like a week and I need a cell because I am very social. I need advice it doesn't have to do with my parents I just need a phone. Thanks.
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My mom wont take me seriously!
Posted Friday September 14 2007, 6:27 pm
I really wanna be wicca but my mom keeps acting like its a big joke!I search stuff about wicca everyday!It's so intresting!I asked my mom if she can search a wicca place nearby but she said I cant go to it!I REALLY wanna be wicca but i'm afriad to tell my grandmother because she's like a jehovah's witness and so am I but I dont wanna be it anymore!I seriously need help!
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sick of worrying
Posted Wednesday September 12 2007, 10:34 pm
14/f.
My mom quit her job of 12 years last year; she was a programmer, but they laid her off. Since the arrival of my baby brother, EVERYTHING has changed. We are suddenly needing a lot more money because we moved into a house, and my mom took a job as a waitress at a local restaurant. She comes home and complains about making only $50, and the most she's ever made without working double shifts, would be $80 on a FRIDAY night. I'm so worried to see her like this. She's a very strong woman and I try to help out when I can with my baby brother. Sometimes it's so, so hard, and with going into my freshman year and starting tennis at the school, we had to put my brother in a (home) daycare. Up until now, I've watched him ever sinc...
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..she may NEVER talk to me again
Posted Wednesday September 12 2007, 6:57 pm
my aunt gave me some money to keep. ALL was well till prom came and I needed to buy a dress. My mom's poor..and I don't have much so i used some money. BUT stupid me bought not one but 2 expensive dresses. Then my mother asked for money (as a blackmail scheme)..and igave her. Stupid of meI know but now I owe my aunt about 2/3 of the money. She might want it soon, and I'm afraid she'll never want to talk to me again if she does find out. What to do? (Please don't tell me tell her because that's a bit out of the question). Should i try hard to put as much back in and how do i save? i don't get much money..so help!
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convine mom
Posted Tuesday September 11 2007, 6:11 pm
female how can i convince my mom to let me have a party for my 14th birthday? pleasee can you give me some advive :] thankss
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im 18 yrs old and im dating a 21 yr old
Posted Monday September 10 2007, 9:21 am
can my parents get him arrested do they even have a say so in my life
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contacts...
Posted Monday September 10 2007, 6:58 am
well my parents wont let me get contacts unless i come up w/ a good reason of why i should have them instead of glasses..... any suggestions........
....please dont give the "oh ppl at skool make fun of me" crap cuz they wont believe it
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dances
Posted Sunday September 9 2007, 7:11 pm
would it be weird if you go to a dance with your cousin?? iam just wondering because i really want to know if it would be..but it would be in a friendly way..no attachment or else that would be weird to like your family member...gross..so if u think it is weird can you tell me!!!
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can't lose weight.
Posted Sunday September 9 2007, 11:43 am
Well a few weeks ago, my dad got put on house arrest for extortion, and so I don't exactly want my friends knowing, and it's kind of obvious why. But I want to lose weight. I want to go to th gym with my friend who's not a member, so I can take her, but my mom won't let me invite friends over. How can I lose weight when I can't go to the gym without my friend? How can she lose weight? I hate going alone with my mom because it's so boring, but when I have a friend, it's easier for me to exercise. What do I do?
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i don't care what catagory, but plz read, it's death problem
Posted Sunday September 9 2007, 11:40 am
13/f
My dog just died. I' mreally sad. I feel funny inside too. I don't know what to do. I don't want to forget him, but I feel hurt. Like someone justkicked me in the stomach. My question is: Where was God? Hm? Answer that? Where was Mr. Hig hand Mighty?! Answer that!
--Izzy Uchiha! T/_\T
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my sister
Posted Sunday September 9 2007, 1:16 am
sorry for making this long
ok my older sister is married and has two kids which makes them my neice and nephew and i've never even got to meet them my nephew is almost two and yeha i really want to see my sister and my brother-in-law and my neice and nephew i havent seen my sister or brother-in-law in like 2 or 3 maybe even almost 4 years well they live in Hawaii and i live in Wisconsin but she always takes time to go to texas or california to see my brother-in-laws family we've asked her to come ou here but she always goes to texas or something how can i make it clear that i want to see her i mean we've all told her we want to see her you know but she doesnt listen and doesnt get that me and my other sister nad my mom and d...
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i dont have a dad!
Posted Saturday September 8 2007, 9:18 pm
Ok well....I am 14 years old and a girl if that helps....My parents divorced when I was 7 and my mom and dad both got remarried. well i hate my stepdad. my stepmom is ok i guess since i never see her. but anyway, my mom and stepdad had 2 kids. my mom and dad had 2 also. me and my older brother wich is 16. well my stepdad, lets call him Fred, he treats me and my brother like crap but he treats his 2 sons like they are angels. I dont get it. I am not close to my dad at all. i rarely see him. im closer to his parents than him. I see all these little girls holding their daddy hands or riding on his back while i dont have a dad bc my dad nor my stepdad cares about me and the only dad i have is God. and my mom is a huge christian and she and my s...
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No boyfriend yet
Posted Friday September 7 2007, 8:40 pm
my parents dont want me to have a boyfriend, I really like someone and he asked me out but my parents think i'm too young (high school sophomore). Talking about it doesnt solve it too. Shoulld i Go behind their backs?
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