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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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shes headed in the wrong direction.


Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 3:47 pm

ok so theres my best friend, we'll call her A. A was friends with another girl, B. were all seniors in high school now. so A & B were really good friends up until last year, B started hanging out with the popular party girls and started spending all her time sneaking out, drinking nonstop, and gettin herself into situations with guys and basically went from a good girl to a party girl whore. she did a complete 180, basically. so A told B that she hated the way she had changed and wouldnt be friends with her when she was like that. so they werent friends. This year, B stopped hanging out with those girls for the most part and came back to reality and stopped all the excessive partying, so A and B are friends again. well at the end of las...

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Stalker Friend


Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 3:38 pm

I have this friend who never leaves me alone. We went on vacation together over the summer and her family is pretty awesome. Well anyways its months later and she doesn't get the idea i need space. I don't want to be mean and tell her off because that would seem like i'm a complete bitch and was using her to go on a vacation.
Most of my friends can't stand her and shes very full of herself and likes to point out flaws on me sometimes. It gets annoying, she never stops talking about the same thing over and over. Lately she hasn't stopped talking about drugs and getting high which has gotten on my nerves. I tell her to shut up and i don't care about that and it doesn't interest me. But she doesn't stop.
Recently she tried...

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My friend and i are on and off with this guy...


Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 12:58 pm

My name is Rayelle I'm 13 and in the 8th grade. This is my story. My best friend has gone out with this guy, Dylan, about 10 times and it only lasts about a week or two, but this time she was going out with him and she started to like this other guy Jon and told Jon that she would go out with him, so basically she cheated on Dylan 4 about 3 days and then dumped Dylan. I was going out with Cody at the time, and the next day there was a football game at the HS and I met up with Cody, and Mak (my other friend). Dylan was there and Tucker too. At the game I hung out with Dylan. We talked and stuff about Alivia and everything that happened. After the game was over I walked with Tucker and Dylan to Dylan's house. When we got there we hung outside...

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Ex-boyfriend's friends are asking for my help dealing with him...


Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 9:50 am

Ever since we broke up (I dumped him) my ex boyfriend has been behaving rather badly. He’s been sleeping around and alienating his friends, and they keep coming to me asking me to talk to him.

I don’t really want to do that. I talked to him for ages while we dating about the way he treated his friends, about his depression and his bad habits. He fooled around before we were dating a lot. I’m not surprised he is doing the same things now… It’s not like it’s my fault he is this way: He was always that way. I feel like his friends just didn’t notice it as much when he was with me because I was dealing with most of by myself and without dragging them into it. But I warned them, asked them for help and they always ig...

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My friends


Posted Thursday October 9 2008, 7:51 pm

I'm losing all my friends because im annoying and the im always being a beep all the time how can i get my friends back or get new ones


P.S. almost everyone teases me cuase im short could u give me combacks to the teasing to

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what the heck???


Posted Thursday October 9 2008, 7:21 pm

Okay so first let me explain. I have two great friends, and we've been practically sisters and i know they always will be. Lets call my great friends, Lisa and Sue. There is another girl group at our school as well. They have some pretty mean girls in their group, but two of them are just ok (not very nice though). Lets call the ok girls Pam and Janice. Now, Pam has spread some pretty harsh rumors about Lisa, but Lisa says they've worked it out. However Pam still occasionally says some mean things about Lisa behind her back. Now Lisa, Sue, and I have always been civil to this other group, in fact Lisa, Sue, Janice, and Pam were all on the same XC team. they have all these inside jokes that they wont tell me and Sue even invited Pam and Jani...

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College Roommate


Posted Thursday October 9 2008, 6:43 pm

My roommate in college, Julie, never ever aknowledges me. I don't know what if she has a problem with me or what. When she comes home she goes straight to another girl to talk about her upcoming trip, her problem, or ask to run an errand with her. Of course, if noone else is around to do with she'll ask me which is almost never since there are 4 of us girls. I want to confront her because it absolutely bothers and annoys the hell out of me. I also feel she does not care too much about me.

(example when one of our roommates when for a check up Julie could not stop talking about how she hopes it goes okay, when it was nothing major it was just a check up on the knee, but when I had 2 appts for something very serious (that could...

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old guy best friend


Posted Tuesday October 7 2008, 7:01 pm

my old best guy friend use to be so close then we had a huge fight and now we tried being good friends again and he was my close friend for about a day and now things just arent working and when i try to talk to him about it he gets really mad and calls me annoying. He kind of is really rude to me and somehow i still love him as a friend and more. WHAT SHOULD I DO?(we used to hookup and stuff before are big fight)

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My Immature freind is bugging the CRAP outta me!!!!!


Posted Tuesday October 7 2008, 6:18 pm

Hi everyone! Well, I'm fourteen, and to pathetically sum it up, I've never dated, and/or gone on a date before. Alright, so I know the subject for my question (My Immature freind is bugging the CRAP outta me!!!!!) was really immature as well, but Any way, I have a freind named "Z". (Who's a boy by the way, this info is important later on in the story.) We really aren't all THAT close as me and some of my BFF's, but he's pretty high in rank. Well, I'm a christian, and I go to a youth group meeting every Thursday night and he goes too. A lot of the times, he brings one of my close friends "A" there with him as well, as they are friends too. Well, I had found out a few weeks ago that Z likes me from one of my best friends....

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i need advice!


Posted Tuesday October 7 2008, 3:54 pm

So me and my friend not talking because some people was saying that i was saying stuff about her and they almost ruin my relationship with my friend so i went up to my friend and we was talking but now we not the same we act like normal friend so wat should i do???

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Uh oh! truthbox tragedy :[[


Posted Tuesday October 7 2008, 2:41 pm

15/F
Not a tragedy, I just like alliteration.
Theres this kid in my gym class and hes my bestfriends OTHER bestfriends [aka, my ex enemy, now aquaintance] ex boyfriend. She broke up with him because he was willing to kiss another girl. I dont know the whole story. So he has a truthbox on myspace and I couldnt resist the temptation and said "I'm wondering if you're worth getting to know." Now look where that got me :/
For an entire straight week, thirteen replies later, he's angry with me! And hes STILL trying to figure out who I am. Why could this be such a big deal to him? He's one of the cool kids. He's probably not looking for a new friend.
He almost found out asking if my screenname had 'just' in it...

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Did I do the right thing?


Posted Monday October 6 2008, 9:55 pm

Well, I'll start with the basics:
My best friend and I have been best friends for a couple years now. She has MAJOR codependency problems and flirts with/dates almost every single guy she meets. She is EXTREMELY clingy, and always just HAS to be with me every second of every day, which isn't fair to my other friends. A lot of people chose to dislike her for these reasons, but I thought our friendship was strong because I could ignore these little things. She's pretty much trying to be me. She started to draw just because she found out I liked to doodle, she claimed to know how to play the guitar, just because I was learning. It's like she has no opinion of her own, she always agrees with what i'm saying! Example:

Her: ...

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what to talk with guys about


Posted Monday October 6 2008, 7:32 pm

what are some things to talk about when you're just getting to know a guy that you're attracted to? i dont want to be boring or have long awkward pauses (which always happens) so im kind of nervous


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My kind of friend? what?


Posted Monday October 6 2008, 4:20 pm

This is done by texting. My friend and I, but hes also a guy that I like. I did call him last night, but he didn't get my phone call cause he was on the comp.(we are both seniors in H.S.)
This is from today..after school.

me: are you busy tonite?

him: no

me: then I will call you tonite and hopefully I wont get your voicemail.

him: kk..why?

Me: fine...then I don't want to call you

him: no....are you going to tell me something important?

me: no..I just want to talk to u...friends call each other and stuff, but you never text me first..only once T.T

him: I do that to all my friends

me: ok well i'll take ...

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Trouble with Friends


Posted Monday October 6 2008, 1:43 am

Me having a lot of friend problems these days. . .

I hope you can help! :D

The story is:

I have a two friends and I LOvE them both dearly. One friend, she like my sister and the the other friend I love to talk with her and like play around with her.

You see the friend i see as a sister hates her because she think she's annoying or something.

The other friend doesn't know that.

By the way, the other friend has a friend named C and she my friend too.

C told me that she doesn't like the other friend because of something but I forgotted xD but but like she don't like something about her but she can't say no to her cause she a really NICE...

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what to talk about


Posted Monday October 6 2008, 12:09 am

WHAT ARE SOMETHINGS TO TALK ABOUT WITH A MALE FRIEND ON THE phone???...really dont know...cuz i kno he likes me...just what should we talk about???...thanx alot!!!!

xoxoxox

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Posted Sunday October 5 2008, 5:02 pm

14 Female
Okay so awhile ago in science me and my best guy friend Steven were joking around and he was like I bet you couldn't get me hard. So in the middle of class I tickeled his knee and was like "Does This Get You Horny?" and he started laughing and like groped my knee and I was like AHH NO. Lol it was awkward. Well over a week I kept going higher and higher as a joke, and we did joke about it. Then i guess my BFF Becky asked him if I ever got him hard-- and he told me that she asked that, and i was like LALALALALA i dont wanna know LALALALALA. Then last night he was like Katie- you have gotten me hard In Science class and I was like =OOOOO.
LAST TIME I JOKE WITH HIM LIKE THAT.
You dont get hard when we j...

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Again, Confused. Perhaps she likes me, again?


Posted Saturday October 4 2008, 1:05 pm

Yep, again the same girl I'm always talking about. I just adore the girl, and whenever I get into scenarios beyond my control, I ask the people who are experienced with this type of stuff.

Anyhow, we've been good friends for about 6 1/2 months now. We started out talking about casual stuff, harmless subjects, ect. Which grew into a bit more of a stronger friendship, and she's told me she's comfortable with me, I'm one of the few people she trusts. Anyhow, we tried the dating thing for about two weeks, and she was worried that one of us would be hurt in the relationship, incase we found someone else, or just ended up hurting each other, so we broke it off.

After taking a break for a couple days from talking, we ...

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The Evil shit's got her wrapped around his finger.


Posted Thursday October 2 2008, 7:40 pm

Okay.
One of my best friends(lets call her Amanda) has been going out with a guy(lets call him Adam) for awhile now. She's madly inlove with him. She's always got a smile on her face and is always in a good mood, in other words- Amanda is extremely happy with Adam.She was always talking about him before, I could tell something like this would happen. Even though i am the third wheel i am happy for her. I give them space to have time together and then come back some other time, and everything is fine and dandy.
The only problem is Adam.
It's not that i don't like the guy...i mean he does have a bit of history with girls but Amanda is his first girlfriend in a long time. She can deal with it.
But one of...

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Its Fadeing.


Posted Thursday October 2 2008, 11:06 am

Alrighttt, heres the problem.
me and my best friend for four years are fadeing BAD, because her "boyfriend" who play's her messes with other girls LET ME ADD SHE KNOWS HE DOES IT and she still is all "him him him" i love her to death but I can not stand him and i don't like being around him or when hes around meaning we HAVE no time to hangout. she always says we wont come over & then he does and i end up leaveing I'm tired of it, I'm about to just drop our friendship because of it. correct me if I'm wrong please. I just don't like him and him playing her & she wont listen to me either-



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