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so confused, always getting let down..
Posted Saturday November 1 2008, 6:10 pm
im an 18 year old female. i have a best friend, whose a guy. we've been best friends for years now until he got a girlfriend. now i only talk to him maybe once a month texting, barely get to see him and it really does upset me ALOT. last weekend he texted me and we talked for two days straight about so much stuff and last saturday he texted me at like 11:00 and wanted me to come over because his parents were gone but i couldn't. well i guess you could he wants to mess around. don't judge me. anyways he was like lets do something next weekend (meaning this weekend) and i was like okay well you can see me but not DO something with me (meaning sexually) and he was like ok how bout both. and i told him i was going to have my period haha. and he...
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We might date?!?!
Posted Saturday November 1 2008, 5:57 pm
Him 17 and me 15
Ok so my BEST!! guy friend and I might end up dateing. We have liked each other on and off for 3 years. Resentaly we have let our friendship turn into somenthing else and we started makeing out and hugging all the time. He has even giving me his hoodie when it was freezing cold out. We have become VERY! pertective of each other and wont let anyone near the other while we are around. I have more then deffantly fallen for him but should I risk our friendship? We have known each other for 3 and a half years and we have liked each other since day one. But he has also been my best friend since day one. I am confused on the fact of if I should date him and risk our friendship or say no and risk a wonderful thing.
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I'm confused about albsolutely everything...
Posted Saturday November 1 2008, 3:18 am
M/16
I'm so far stuck inside my head. I can't think straight anymore. I feel like I'm just fading away, I don't find any kind of reason to keep waiting to see whats next in life. I've waited for all too long now and I've been growing tired. Every time I find some hint of hope something tears it away from me and I have to crawl back once again into a mode of depression. Though I never act upon them, I've had thoughts of ending everything or though what if I never existed. None of my friends help me or notice when I've left my guard down and exposed how I feel. I'm even being rejected by others whom I thought were friends. I'm practically abandoning hope on myself. The only thing that's made me truly happy was when I had a girl...
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anti-social?
Posted Friday October 31 2008, 7:24 pm
I'm in college and I have a few good friends. I'm not shy, I'm just very picky and cautious about befriending people and trusting them. I do not go out alot. Some college girls like to party, but I'd rather just relax and watch a movie at home. I'm not incredibly social, and it's mostly because I choose to be this way. Is this a really bad problem/issue? I've had boyfriends and big groups of crazy friends before, but now, I'm more into family and studying.
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dropped like that?
Posted Thursday October 30 2008, 10:22 pm
[veerry long)
so my friend 'sue' is dating a boy named 'kyle'.
they've dated before but he cheated on her.
theyre now back together.
he makes her so happy.
and yeah im happy for her and stuff.
butt when i walk up to them in the halls she looks at me like im stupid/annoying? its confusing.
my friend 'josh' came up to me and started talking to me...
this is how it went
josh:wow. sues become a real bitch ever since her and kyle got back together.
me: yeah shes changed alot ever since he came back in the picture.
it got out to her.
and she asked me if i really said that.
i told her yes.
and shes taken it way out of proportio...
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Posted Thursday October 30 2008, 9:46 pm
anybody can help me?? because i am really upset because my BFF replaced me just because i moved here in america... she have a new BFF and just left me alone, now i don't know who my bff is... my whole life was ruined because of this!! i don't know even know who i am anymore :(
**sad** **crying**
t_t can you heal my heart?? can you plz help me?? i really need someone that can give me some advice. what should i do??
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sick of her shit
Posted Thursday October 30 2008, 3:12 pm
so i have this friend. we have been friends since like 6th grade, were in 11th. anyway..she honestly treats me like shit. i dont know why i am still friends with her. well no.. i take that back. i do know why. because if i ignore and just dont want to deal with her anymore she will seriously make my life a living hell. she has done it before. she acts like im not even a human. ive been the one that has been there for her since i dont even know. she is crying, im there triyng to help her. but when I am crying or something is wrong with ME, god forbid she takes 5 seconds out of her life to help someone with a problem and that its not all about HER all the damn time. i dont know what to do. im sick of it. when i get mad, i just ignore her. im ...
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me and my best guy friend!!
Posted Thursday October 30 2008, 12:21 am
SORRY SO LONG, BUT I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT IF YOU COULD HELP!
im 18/f, my best friend is 17/m.
keep in mind i've never had a boyfriend...
anyways we've been best friends for about three and a half years now. its a complicated situation. we tell each other alot, and he helps me through everything and i'm always there for him. he has a girlfriend of two and a half years. i did fall for him, and never did move on, but really nobody knows that! anyways we don't really hang out at each other's houses alot. when we see each other it's at my cousins because he is their neighbor (my girl cousin is 18, boy is 16) and me and her are like best friends! and him and my boy cousin are really close too! so thats why like...
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me and my best guy friend!
Posted Thursday October 30 2008, 12:15 am
SORRY SO LONG, BUT I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT IF YOU COULD HELP!
im 18/f, my best friend is 17/m.
keep in mind i've never had a boyfriend...
anyways we've been best friends for about three and a half years now. its a complicated situation. we tell each other alot, and he helps me through everything and i'm always there for him. he has a girlfriend of two and a half years. i did fall for him, and never did move on, but really nobody knows that! anyways we don't really hang out at each other's houses alot. when we see each other it's at my cousins because he is their neighbor (my girl cousin is 18, boy is 16) and me and her are like best friends! and him and my boy cousin are really close too! so thats why like...
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stealer?
Posted Wednesday October 29 2008, 9:11 pm
Ok so my best friend and I hang out all the time and we tell eachother everything. Lately a lot of my stuff has been missing, some of my favorite shirts and a special necklace that I got from my great grandma. I honestly know that I had my shirts in my closet and my necklace on my dresser. I know that they are not lost, i looked everywhere. I have a feeling that my best friend stole them. a few months ago she stole my other friends shirt and my friend found out and took it back. But my best friend swears she didn't steal it and it is hers. I really think she stole them and I really want them back. How do I find out if she stole them? And if i ask her how do I get her to tell the truth? Please help!
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lier lier
Posted Wednesday October 29 2008, 4:15 pm
I Have this friend she is 14 like me. we hang out alot but she lies sooo much. its not little lies either there is many many things she's done. she lies to everyone.she tell my secrets to everyone and tells everyones to me. most arnt my secrets she lies and tells them i have done something that i have not. she's is bi. but she tells everyone she is not. i have no problem with bi people i am not bi myself. she has tryed kissing me and she's tryed humping my leg.i said no. i told my friends about this..they dont belive me she did some things with one of my other friends (like made her do it) and then got mad at her for it. she lies and lies and she tells me to my face that she will lie if she wants to get out of something. so you get that sh...
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alchol
Posted Tuesday October 28 2008, 8:45 pm
whats good to mix with vodka?
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Should I Tell Her?
Posted Monday October 27 2008, 7:34 pm
Hi, so my best friend is going out with this kid, and he's really nice to her. I recently made a new friend, and she's really awesome!
However, she likes my best friends boyfriend, and he likes her back. So, I've decided to stay out of it. But, even though I'm friends with the boyfriend too, i just found out that HE'S CHEATING ON MY BEST FRIEND with my other friend. I PROMISED her i would not tell a SOUL and i always keep my promises. But, the boyfriend found out, and he called me really upset saying how bad he felt & how he was an asshole. SHOULD I TELL ME FRIEND HE'S CHEATING, OR STAY OUT OF IT, like i promised. But, if she finds out, then she'll be really mad that she couldn't trust me to tell her that. =/.
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liking a guy more than just friends
Posted Monday October 27 2008, 6:25 pm
i have this guy friend we recently stopped talking and seeing eachother as friends now we just write eachother. i guess he kind of new i liked him and he didnt so he stopped us from seeing eachother. i told him afterwards i did like him but he doesnt that way. so now we just write and are still friends. i still like him more than friends can something work out later on
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Is this insane
Posted Monday October 27 2008, 6:09 am
I used to date a friend of mine, and then we broke up, then stayed friends.
Then one day, we had a fight, and we've been antagonistic to each other since.
I tried a long time ago to mend the friendship to no avail, and settled on just hating.
It's been over half a decade now, and since common interests and such keep making us encounter each other, I'm getting tired.
I'm tired of being afraid of being hurt emotionally by her, I'm tired of being angry with her, and I'm tired of hate. Honestly, if I don't drop this negativity that's weighing down on me, and wearing down my self-esteem and my psyche, it will probably kill me.
I'm debating just sending an email or somethi...
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UGH. she is soooooo jelous
Posted Monday October 27 2008, 5:17 am
Okay So i have two other best friends, T and L ( T is a guy L is a girl)
SO right, anyways we hang out all the time,( T is my cousin) and it's usually me in the middle, me and T usually hang out together and L gets so jelous!
Sometimes she misses like two or three days of school for now apperent reason so when she comes back T will make a big deal. I AM SO SICK OF HER>
she claims i like T. HE"S MY COUSIN. OMG .
What do i do?
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its time to say goodbye?
Posted Sunday October 26 2008, 8:17 pm
okay so me and my so called best friends arent getting along to well. we fight alot over boys and other things. okay so i decided to have a get together u could say of them all and well we went to six flags. and my so called best best friends crush was there and he wanted to see ME and her so we meet up with him and he huged me first and i got cold so he was worming me up by holding my hands then he satrted holding my best friends hands so i droped his. and then she made me sit on all the rides by my self so she could sit with him. that pissed me off so then he droped her hand and picked me up and was holding me. well my crush was there too, but when i saw him he was hooking up with some random girl! witch pisses me off but yea. so me and ...
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Birthday ideas?
Posted Sunday October 26 2008, 7:34 pm
I'm turning 18 in like 3 weeks.
still debating on whether or not i should even have a party. but if i did, any ideas?
it would be on a budget, and no house parties. lol
probably something small, like 10 people? or just like 3-4 people. but no in between, you know?
kay thanks in advance. ill rate :]
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I'd like to make a move, but I'm not sure how. Kinda new at this.
Posted Sunday October 26 2008, 10:17 am
Alright guys, there is this girl I truly adore. The same one as usual, of course. She's currently dating a guy, but I think I'm pretty sure she still has feelings for me in that way, infact we're kinda talking last night about didn't foreplay, other sexual type of things, ect. We usually have those "interesting" type of conversations when we talk late at night, and we just blame it on us being out of it, delerious, ect. Although, she did say she enjoyed the conversation.
Anyway, during the day that we talk, she doesn't act the same at night, she's a bit more quiet, and doesn't mention those type of things. However, she's told me several times that I'd get a 2nd chance providing they break up.
Well, I'...
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best friend, boyfriend, to nothing?
Posted Saturday October 25 2008, 2:54 pm
i had this ex boyfriend, who turned into my best friend let's call him, neil. and the thing is that, 3 years of us being best friends after... we liked each other again. so we were about to go back out until things went wrong. when we were 'dating' or 'talking' however you want to put it. he just started working at this new place and i found out that lately he's been flirting with other employees and grabbing this one girl's butt. so it went all awkward after that, but he didn't take it that awkward... so instead of sitting with him lately at school, i sat with our friend.. let's call him, ben. and then if it wasn't for neil... i wouldn't have sat with ben or gotten to know ben alot better. so then i started liking ben more. and it was righ...
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