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Do I have to?


Posted Sunday December 2 2007, 7:52 pm

Sorry this will be kind of long.
I'm 15/f in my sophmore year at high school, and most of the girls in my school seem to have this mentality that if you don't have a guy or haven't had sex then you aren't normal. They use the phrase "You have to test drive the product before you buy it". Does that mean I have to put out just to be considered date-able, and pass school does that apply for any relationship? Even when I'm older?

Thanks,
AAf

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taking it further with this guy that i like


Posted Saturday December 1 2007, 8:50 pm

14.5/f

there's this guy that i have a massive crush on, and i think he knows that i like him.

- we make lots of eye contact
- we talk a lot
- joke around and goof off

basically we're always happy and stuff when we're around each other. i have a feeling that he might like me too. i'm not sure though, but how do i take it one step further without looking desperate? i honestly don't want to make all of the moves, and i want to let him make some moves too. maybe he just wants to be friends? i have no idea.. i really do want to be more than friends. help me please.

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dj am mandy moore


Posted Saturday December 1 2007, 6:22 pm

whos mandy moore dating? Is it DJ AM? or who?

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xtinas dad


Posted Saturday December 1 2007, 3:34 pm

what happened to xtina aguilera's dad? is he dead? WHY ? WHEN?

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my boyfriend keeps bugging me about sex


Posted Saturday December 1 2007, 2:02 pm

Ok we met on the internet and stuff he's really sweet and stuff but he likes 2 have sex WAY 2 much we met up @ this park and we were talking while standing next 2 his car with the door open and we we're talking about how much we love eachother and out of no were he kisses me about 10 times and I just ignore it but then he starts trying 2 get his hand in my pants but I wore a belt so he unbuckels it and starts fingering me 2 tell the truth it felt good but it shocked me and out of nowhere he gets on top of me and starts kissing me again I know he loves me because he writes me poems and stuff that leave me speachless and crys 2 me on the phone about how much he loves me. he's in the army I don't know what's going on I love him so much and I...

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my boyfriend is really scarying me


Posted Saturday December 1 2007, 5:19 am

Well he asked me out about 4 months ago and we had sex and everything but he's in the army and he's going 4 training and stuff witch I'm ok with he's helping free our contrey I'm proud of him but then he said he wants 2 go on active dutiy 4 3 years and I already worry about him like 24/7 I mean he's my life I'm just scard that he might not make it and it hurts but I would miss that he always wants sex even if I'm crying r something he talks 2 me and when I stop crying he asks me if I want 2 have sex its like he's horny 24/7

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I hate her.


Posted Saturday December 1 2007, 12:12 am

13/f
Ok so i absolutely HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE!!! this girl and all my friends are friends with her , and she doesnt know what she did (is what she says) but i think she does...
Anywayy, she is annoying and i hate the sound of her voice, the look of her face, and EVERYTHING ABOUT HER! every one keeps on telling me to forgive and forget or they say its all in the past. its really annoying me . what should i do?

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Small Talk


Posted Friday November 30 2007, 7:32 pm

Hi. (13/f)
I love to talk to people, but when I want to say something, I'm speechless. I just don't have any news. What kind of general stuff could I say? I read that talking about the news and stuff is good, like looking through a newspaper in the morning then using news as your topic of convo. I use that for long conversations with my hairdresser or people like that, but not with my friends. I just need unimportant things to say that are funny and witty and are interesting. Like I sit next my friend Jordan during art class at school, and the only thing I can figure out to say is how "wonderful" his drawing is. I just can't figure out something to say that's like interesting, but casual and kind of pointless, like interest...

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I need help about my boyfriend


Posted Friday November 30 2007, 7:23 pm

My boyfriend asked me 2 give him head and I did but I don't think I'm very good but he said that I was good but I told him I've been reading up on it (which I have) but this morning he asked me have I been praticing but I don't know what I'm supose 2 pratice on or how I'm supose 2 make him feel good

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Annoying


Posted Friday November 30 2007, 5:25 pm

Like alot of people at my school are saying that I am annoying and that is so not true and I am really upset. So how can I stop being annoying like really or how am I annoying.

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Too shy to talk to him


Posted Thursday November 29 2007, 7:57 pm

There's this guy in my Spanish class who I really want to talk to. I'm a freshman and he's a sophomore. He's really smart, funny, good at guitar, and cute. I can't say I'm in love because I've never talked to him, but it's like a little crush. I've been dying to talk to him since September and I still haven't said anything. I'm so scared that he'll think I'm a stupid freshman and he'll think I'm weird. A lot of people say he's nice though. What should I do? Please don't say, "Just go up and say hi." I can't do that. I guess I need some sort of an excuse.

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Move?


Posted Thursday November 29 2007, 6:43 pm

okay so i really like this guym but he sort of (please dont judge me as a labeler becuz im not) emo. But im going on a class trip with him and we r the only freshman going. so ill figure out some way to talk to him, but my friend thinks if we bond enough that i should kiss him.
HELP i hav no idea wat to do

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Posted Thursday November 29 2007, 5:10 pm

ok first of i am normally the one giving advice not getting it so

Ok I am what you call an ugly fat girl that has no fashion sence at all

but i have more guy friends then girl friends but i have a problem i know that one of them likes me and has a girlfriend that is one of my friends, and i don't like him, but there is another one that idk if he does or not but i like him and what should i do

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L 0 V E;


Posted Thursday November 29 2007, 5:21 am

THIS IS G0ING TO SOUND DUMB BUT.
what does the word L 0 V E;; mean?

how do you know you love some one.
i mean i know i love my friends and family
but like a boy?

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-H0W D0 Y0U TELL HIM?


Posted Thursday November 29 2007, 5:12 am

14/F.

hey :]
i like this boy, he liked me befor and i liked him tobut then he got a girl friend cause i was scared to date last year.

well now i [REALLLY] like him and im not scared of dateing how do i tell him i like him?

i dont want to make our friendship weird.

btw how can you tell fi a guy likes you?

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Girl


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 11:37 pm

Remember me? http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=517243

Well this problem was solved for about 6 weeks. Now I have found the same teeth marks on my boyfriend's armS. He told her to stop before and she did. But now she's all over him again [she's single again], like surprise attacks so my boyfriend can't say no quickly. She wrote on his binder and hand.. "I <3 ___ her name" i just don't know. sometimes i get jealous because i don't know what's going on over there. i want this to go away. any advice?

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how do i make guys like me


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 7:41 pm

ok so im in 7th grade and ive only had 3 bf mi entire life. how do i make guys like me and how do i ask guys out and not be rejected

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my teacher


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 1:05 am

My teacher is very annoying. One day, as soon as i came into the classroom, my teacher gave us cards and then she told us to go to the back of the room. If the card had a gold star, we would go into the front row. Anything without a star on it had to sit in the back. She said that the back row would get lower grades on their tests and they couldnt run (or vote ) for class presdient. So i got very mad. What should i do?

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A Change Of Pace


Posted Monday November 26 2007, 10:18 pm

Okay, so I've been single for well, a long time and the only two boyfriends I had, well, it wasn't much different from just being friends with them. Which means:
1. I haven't had my first kiss.
2. I get nervous and shy when it comes to that kind of stuff.

About a week ago I started going out with my current boyfriend. And he actually wants to do stuff with me, like, he invites me to his house and puts his arm around me and stuff.
He had another girlfriend that he went out with for a long time, so I'm sure he knows how to be a good boyfriend.
The thing is, I'm not really sure about how to react to that stuff. Like, I want to be a good girlfriend, but I don't know how. Like, I think he wants to kiss ...

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i get anti social sometimes


Posted Monday November 26 2007, 10:00 pm

for a while now I have been very antisocial when im in groups. Ill have a really good conversation about the same thing with a bunch of people. But i cant carry on a conversation very well. Im silent lately and i dont know why. When i do say things i sound like an idiot or ill say something stupid. I can think something in my head but it'll come out completely wrong and dumb. Why does this happen and how do i stop it and improve my social skills with anyone.Im not comfortable around people anymore I want to be though

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