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She is moving
Posted Tuesday November 11 2008, 9:33 pm
so my best firned since sixth gread is moveing we are not tenth graders..
she has been there for me during EVERYTHING! and two days ago she told me her mom kicked her out and she had to move accross the U.S with her other family... She leave next week and i dont knwo what to do because she is my best friend..
advice please
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HE IS DRIVING ME NUTS!!!!
Posted Tuesday November 11 2008, 8:51 pm
him 17 me 15
ok so for about a month now me and one of my best guy friends have been being involved....but not dateing....well for like 3 weeks now people have been bugging me about dateing him but he told me he dont want me to ask him out he will ask me out and so this keeps going on...well today we were hanging out with our other frineds and they started asking if we were dateing and he wouldnt say anyhting and I said no and he just sat there and kissed me...It's been driving me nuts because everyone keeps buging me about i and not him and he dont get it...should I just give up on the whole thing with him since I have been waiteing a month or should I keep going forth and being annoyed untill he asks...if he ever does
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what to talk about
Posted Monday November 10 2008, 3:35 pm
im 18 years old. so my problem is, i feel like i never know how to keep a conversation going! me and this guy always text, and first its the usualy, hey, whats up, what are you doing, oh thats cool. and all that boring stuff. well then usually he will say something and i will answer and sometimes he makes it hard to talk. because he will be like "oh yeah haha" and i'm just like okay well what do i say now? so i randomly start texting things and i feel like im a weirdo and just go from one thing to another. i want to keep talking to him, so i feel like i should try to keep his attention you know? sometimes we talk about sex, even though we have not had sex but it's just playful things like that. what are some cute, naughty or just ...
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jealousy.
Posted Monday November 10 2008, 11:31 am
what causes jealousy? i mean, i some reasons but i would just like to know what you guys think. i know its somewhat caused because people aren't happy with theirself, and they feel like everyone is better than them but what are some other causes? well thank you.
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I'm feeling down
Posted Saturday November 8 2008, 10:13 pm
Well, I usually don't like to complain, but maybe someone wants to listen and possibly help. I'm 16 and I'm just going through a semi depressive state at the moment. I feel moderately insecure; it's like I always have to prove myself to myself, because I want to be someone but I have no idea who I am supposed to be. I always hear that one has to "be themselves" but being myself has gotten me into this strange state in my adolescence and if I don't do something different, how will I ever leave this state? And because I constantly want to change something about myself, I kind of feel like a poser/wannabe type person. I'm not sure if others see me this way though because mostly I stay out of people's way. I'm pretty friendly actually...
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spending the night
Posted Saturday November 8 2008, 7:02 pm
If your friend wants you to spend the night with her, and you don't want to, what is a good excuse besides saying u are going somewhere the next day?? Please respond asap. Thanks!
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My bestfriend and I got in a huge fight over a boy.
Posted Friday November 7 2008, 11:34 pm
Well, I'm thirteen and my friend has a boyfriend, and I liked this guy and then I found out that my friend liked him too. So this guy asked me out and then the day he asked me out he was telling me that he loved me. I was shocked and didn't reply back to him. Then, two days later my friend and I called him and he was being very shy and quiet. So, then we both were not speaking because he wasn't and he said "God, ya'll are so quiet do you even have personalities?" We started laughing so hard. Then he hung up and she told me that she really didn't like him anymore, and I asked her if I should break up with him. She said that I should. So I only did because I didn't want to loose our friendship over a boy she doesn't like. So, I brok...
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I feel like im becoming detached from everyone!!!!
Posted Friday November 7 2008, 4:31 pm
17/f
So a few months ago me and my no ex had broke up. It hurt a lot and it still does but im better at dealing with it now... The weird thing is though I feel as if I have no feelings for anyone... Like friendship or anything. I sometimes find myself dreading to hang out with people... Normally Im a very affectionate person and love to get out with people. Im a very social person. All this started happening after the break up. It's weird because Im trying to get out there and im trying to like new people and stuff but it's not working I just feel like no one matters anymore. I tried detaching myself from my ex but I feel like I did with everyone around me too. It's weird....Any ideas about whats up with me?
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how do i cope with this?
Posted Thursday November 6 2008, 4:18 pm
my best friend, who i've known since i was 5 years old, is pretty much ditching me because it's her last year of highschool. i'm 16.i mean,i know shes having fun with all her senior friends,but i feel like she likes her new friends better and doesn't care for me anymore. i'm always the one calling her, always the one there for her. every time we hangout, its ALWAYS her friends hanging out with us! its NEVER just me and her, and if by some chance it is, its just different. I feel like i've lost a part of me, but i don't know what to do! She got mad at me because i didn't hangout with her one time,when she's always the one blowing me off. she makes me feel like its my fault. I'm like the friend she hangs out with when she has no one else, and...
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I feel lke an outkast
Posted Thursday November 6 2008, 1:57 pm
okay. so I have this abnormally large unhealthy obsession with the jonas brothers. like massive! like every other word in my vocabulary is jonas related. and well I have a couple of friends that like them, then a couple that don't. well I talk a lot about the jonas brothers I can't help it. and my friends are telling me to shutup cause im annoying and stuff lately I've just been feeling like an outkast like I don't fit in anywhere. can someone please help me! thanks in advance
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my best guy friend always does this..
Posted Wednesday November 5 2008, 8:43 pm
19 year old female. my best friend is 18. we've been friends for years now, i trust him with everything i have but i'm one of the most sarcastic people you will ever meet, he knows that. well tonight he was texting me and somehow got confused on what i was trying to say and i was like you are so slow and he was like no i'm not i'm just confused, what were you trying to say? well then i got confused and i was like, now i dont remember, because you confused ME now. i was just like, your always confused, everytime i say something i have to explain it to you! and he was like because you say weird stuff. then i was like well then maybe you shouldn't talk to me anymore if i say weird stuff, keep in mind i was being SARCASTIC, and i didn't know wh...
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using me
Posted Wednesday November 5 2008, 6:28 pm
You see, i have this friend witch at the beginning we werent really friends. But then her and her bestest friend had a small argument, so they werent talking to each other. Thats when my friend and I "were" very close. But now they arent mad at each other anymore and i am glad about that and at the same time I feel used because my friend is talkning to her and not really to me, WHAT SHOULD I DO? should I just let it go or do something about it?
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my friends mom died recently..
Posted Wednesday November 5 2008, 1:40 pm
im an 18 year old female. well within the past three years i've known these two boys, one is 16 and one is 17. i'm not like best friends with them, they were just, friends you know? they're known to always have the party at their house. i use to go over there ALLL the time, this summer i was over there a lot too. i was always the one to go talk to their mom and dad. they have been through problems though, the dad is pretty much an alcholoic and has been through alot and the mom tries to keep everything under control, but it's just not possible. well for some reason i stopped going over there a few months ago and just today i got a text saying that their mom died. i was just in shock and my heart completely dropped. i feel so, weird? it's un...
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Some Friend...
Posted Tuesday November 4 2008, 10:01 pm
Im 16f and live in a small town. I had a kidney transplant when I was seven, and have spent many years in the hospital. I have only had one true friend because of this, and she dumped me for my brother. Now I am a loner once again like I was before I met my 'so called friend'. We did EVERYTHING together and she even said we were best friends. I guess my brother is easy to flirt with or something. He is a total jerk to everyone in my family. We can't stand him most of the time, because of his drinking and attitude. I just hate that she dumped me as a friend for him, and now I have to see her everyday at school knowing she betrayed me, and seeing her when i come home because she comes over every night to be with him.. its just heartbreaking t...
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i can't stand my best friend.
Posted Monday November 3 2008, 8:17 pm
15/f
me and my best friend have been friends for about 3 years. We pretty much do everything together and we normally always have a good time. we never even really fight. lately though she has been getting on my last nerve. she just does stupid annoying things all the time like we were at a sleepover with some people and we were all talking and she just started playing music on her phone and singing and it was really annoying. and she always tries to do things for attention and she is a downer. everytime we hang out with a group of people something is wrong with her, i can't stand it anymore. she like changed over the summer, and is more immature and gosh i don't know what to do. i mean if i lose her as a friend, i really wou...
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Okay.. So my "best friend"?
Posted Monday November 3 2008, 3:13 pm
Alright.. background on this story. My best friend (let's call her "A") goes to this camp with my other good friend ("B"), and they goes to church with everybody from camp. Long story short, "A" met this boy who's currently her boyfriend of 3 months.
Yesterday, 11/3: "A" went to church, & I guess she got to 3rd with her boyfriend...right outside of the church doors. Gross, right? She's never been so bad, I don't know what this is coming to. And the reason I'm so pissed is because she didn't even tell me.. I heard from "B".
What do I do? Should I be mad?..
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Do you think this is mean?
Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 6:01 pm
okay october 31 was my friend's birthday, and i told her im gonna send a myspace comment saying happy birthday so i did and it was long message and a birthday funny picture and i send it at 12AM sharp but the thing is she didnt even apporve my comment and didnt even say thank you until now yet she approved her other friends birthday wishes and said thank you to them is this messed up or what?
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Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 3:46 pm
When i'm around the guys ive had any type of relatinship with i become loud and obnoxious(if i have classes with them) My personality changes and i dont mean for it to. One guy told me he likes me again because ive been less ditsy then usual. but i know i do it alot and am ditsy and obnox. i really dont mean to please help
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Helping a friend in need
Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 1:05 pm
I have a really good friend, a best friend you could say, who is really troubled at the moment. It has to do with a guy she really cares about who moved out of state and who will probably not stay in touch because it's super long distance and because he said he doesn't want to talk to people because it'll make him miss being here. It's hard to know what to do or say to her because she just seems so hurt and affected by it. It seems like I can't say or do anything to possibly make her feel any better. /i hate seeing her like this. Does anyone have any ideas of what I can do or say? Has anyone else ever been in this situation? Thank you.
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depressed?..
Posted Saturday November 1 2008, 8:44 pm
18/f. let me tell you a little about myself...
-i go to college 20 minutes away, i commute.
-all my friends left me to go to college EXCEPT
one
-i've never had a boyfriend, yet i've been told i'm gorgeous too many times to count
-i'm outgoing when i want to be and overall i'm a nice person
-i have trust issues but i open up to people way too easily
-i miss high school, those were the best times of my life..
thing is, i feel like im depressed. since all my friends left for college i dont do ANYTHING and really i'm getting sick and tired of it. i go to school everyday, come home take a nap, do homework, watch tv and go to bed. on the friday's usually i'll hang out with my friend ...
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