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Bulimia?


Posted Wednesday July 19 2006, 12:06 am

Ive always had low self-esteem but for the past few weeks it has really hit a high point. About two weeks ago I ate too much after being on a great diet and losing almost 15 pounds and I weighed myself for the first time then since I had lost weight and i already gained 2 pounds back. I know it wasnt much but it made me so upset that I decided that I would just throw it up and just not eat for the rest of the night. Since then its become a habit. Ill eat a regular sized meal and then throw it up, eat later in the day, keep it and just not eat again. Some days I dont eat at all because I know that I will just want to throw it up later. I really scared myself and Ive been okay for the past few days, but I dont want to feel like I need to thro...

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Im so bored it is driving me crazy!!!


Posted Sunday July 16 2006, 5:07 pm

Ok...I have this issue...I am SOOOO bored... I mean..I am basically a loner so I dont go anywhere...now I am dog sitting so if i do go somewhere I have to take hte puppy with me...I just got a new cell fone but ive already explored it to the fullest and i have nothing to do. I cleaned my house yesterday and I am dead sick of the computer...does anyone have anything on ideas of what I can do...??? Plz help!

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sleepless


Posted Sunday July 16 2006, 5:30 am

okay, seriously.. i must be an insomniac. it's 5:27 am and i cant sleep, i cleaned my whole room, bathroom and kicthen to give me something to do, and im hyper as ever still, for the past 2 months i have not been able to sleep, and when i do sleep i sleep to much, what is rong with me? am i going insane???


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don`t know what caterogry. 34c? too big?


Posted Saturday July 15 2006, 12:02 pm





i am a 34c and i am 13 years old. 5 feet tall . and way around 107 . personally i tihnk that it to big and all the guys stare at them . i mean i know that i am pretty . i`m not conceited but i`m honest . i want guys to look at my face more . and i do wear revealing shirts . yeah lol but i`m starting to cover up more and realizing that more guys like me for my face lol . any ideas on how to get them to notice my face more instead of my breasts? thanks a bunch<3


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Scared


Posted Saturday July 15 2006, 12:06 am

Ok... I am in a bad way. I am constantly telling myself something is wrong with myself... I have a disease, or I have cancer, or something worse, and it spirals. I can never shake these thoughts, when I know in reality that I am simply a normal, happy, and healthy human being. But, because of these thoughts, it has been noted that I am slowly spiraling into depression, when I seem to already have a bi-polar disorder, and I have been told that those two do not make such a hot combination. I really wish I could stop these thoughts, and get my life back on track. I used to do all these activities... Almost every sport I could get my hands on, student council, energy club, drama camp... and I just suddenly dropped out of everything. I want my l...

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sporting advice for a non sports person


Posted Friday July 14 2006, 3:43 am

Hey howzitgoing?
having had a disasterous childhood and now in the sixth year of clinical dysthymia and the third year of psychodynamic psychotherapy im just starting to ask questions about self... To develope the self i need a sport to play that will keep me interested and exercised. Im not much of a sport type person but have good gross motor skills and more brain than brawn but can use the brawn when needed..
Thanks ...
Tasman

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social anxiety


Posted Thursday July 13 2006, 7:17 pm

Sorry, this may be a bit long...

I have a non-severe (or I don't think it's severe) case of social anxiety. I'm 13/f and I've always been very shy...I'm not the people type and I don't really like talking and dealing with people too much. I don't like going places by myself and I don't like picking up the phone OR drawing attention to myself. Usually I have some one go with me all the time to places and talk to people for me, and everyone is starting to get annoyed with the fact that I always need them for simple things. My mom recently got me a book about it and I don't like it AT ALL because I don't understand it...so now she wants me to go to a counselor!!!! I DON'T want to go to any shrink whatsoever because I don't think...

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Posted Thursday July 13 2006, 4:25 pm

When I go back to school I want to be changed. I have good looks, but I have very low self esteem. My last year has been very rough dealing with my friends starting drugs, sucky boyfriends, and just family/money problems.

I want to come back this year with confidence and a happier personality. I don't have alot of friends because we've all just gone our own way. How can I reevaluate myself and be proud of what I have, and act and be more fun to be around? Thanks.

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im EXTREMELY selfconcious!


Posted Thursday July 13 2006, 4:11 am

everytime i am around people, im constantly looking in mirrors and if i see a major flaw i cant have as much fun the rest of the time im with them if i know i cant fix it right then! also when i dont have makeup on or it rubs off because of sweat, im embarassed and dont want guys to look at me and i kinda sit there staring into space. i also look in my reflection into car windows when im walking to my boyfriends house..and its gotten so bad that last week i saw my reflection and realized my makeup looked orange so i ran back home and told him i could hang out anymore!! how do i stop obsessing over looking bad? well.. ANY advice on this topic will be appreciated!

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left out and ugly


Posted Wednesday July 12 2006, 9:56 pm

i always feel so ugly my friends are gorgeous and have boyfriends no matter what i always feel left out or outta place what do i do to gain self respect and a more pretty appearance

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Worried about my Mom


Posted Tuesday July 11 2006, 4:52 pm

My dad pasted away from leukemia 4 months and 10 days ago (March 1st). Well right now, we're (my mom, brother, and I) in Ireland visiting family. We've been here for about 3 weeks. Well for then past 2 weeks my mom has been acting very different and forgetful. When she goes to do the dishes or something, when she's done, she'll come and sit down then get up and say that she needs to do the dishes. When she gets into the kitchen and sees that there are no dishes (because she already did them) she'll ask "Who did the dishes? I was about to do them!" It's so weird. She'll also repeats herself all the time and never wants to go out or do anything.


We're all so worried about her but we don't know what to do. My f...

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Fear of Dogs


Posted Tuesday July 11 2006, 12:06 pm

Hey everybody! I'm 14/f. Well, I have a fear of dogs. It's just that when they get close to me I'm so afraid and start to take off. Once when I was a young kid, my next-door neighbor's dog Kiki was chasing after me and I literally thought that it was going to kill me. I don't want to be afraid of dogs because I think they are the cutest things ever, especially puppies. Does anyone have any advice on how I can overcome my fear of dogs...I would really appreciate it! Thanks.

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What is wrong with me?


Posted Tuesday July 11 2006, 5:41 am

For the past few months, I've been feeling sad very often. I'm 15, female, and I guess I feel sort of alone. I constantly think about death, how I don't have many good friends, and how I don't have anything I really need to be happy.

I'm also on a diet, I've lost 20 pounds, because I think I need to be skinnier.

I guess what I'm asking is, am I depressed? And do I need some sort of help? My mom knows how I feel and she is always lecturing me about it. I just want to know what I can do to not feel this way.

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INSICURE


Posted Tuesday July 11 2006, 1:14 am

everytime i look at everyone i feel like they got something id ont im very insicure and i wanted help on being more secure any ideas?

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i keep on changing...what is wrong?


Posted Monday July 10 2006, 3:23 am

ok...here is how it is...i used to be a happygolucky child then my cousin changed and i acted cool like her but i was so young people thought it was cute...but now i am wearing pink clothes...listening to green day....and hard rock!!!!!! what is wrong with me? and sometimes i want to dye my hair black somtimes i come to my sences and say ..no i would look bad with it...then i turn goth and get moody...then another i am happy sweet loving child..which should i choose..and why am i going through this because i need to make a decision because i am getting new clothes and it would be stupid to be totally opposite..my friends think i am weird because i always have opposite feelings one day and another..goth..prep..punk...prep..punk..goth...it ch...

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HAVE YOU BEEN THIS WAY B4?


Posted Sunday July 9 2006, 10:39 pm

Have you ever felt like youre standing in the middle of a desert and you don't know what direction to run? Have you ever been so lost you almost killed yourself?
Let me kno!


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going into bulimia or however you spell it


Posted Sunday July 9 2006, 8:20 pm

well is it a mental illlness going into it? and not stopping? or going into then stoppping once you have reached the weight you want to be which is normal size?

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help


Posted Sunday July 9 2006, 7:37 pm

my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and just here lately i've been real tired and hungry all the time and I havn't been doing anything to cause me being tired all the time like yesterday I was asleep all day from 12:00 untill 10:00pm what could be causing this and how can I stop it?
Iam really worried is this anything I should be worried about?

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Should I see a therapist or not?


Posted Saturday July 8 2006, 4:33 am

14|Female...For about two years ever since I found out my dad cheated on my mom...my life has been completely different, i use to feel really confident about my body but now i dont, i feel over weight and ugly (even though im 89lbs)I also have really bad trust issues now..I dont want to be like this anymore I want the old me back, My mom says the best way is for me to talk to someone about it but I cant talk to her because I know that it will upset her about the dad thing and I cant talk to my older sister because she will think im just going through some teenage stage...my mom suggested I see a therapist but i dont know if I want to or not because it just seems weird telling a stranger my feelings...and also I know they cost alot of money ...

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don't know what got into me


Posted Saturday July 8 2006, 4:24 am

Is this something wrong with me?

It's not a constant thing, but I have some real problems with anger at times. For example before.. Mom and I were in the car and I was crying.. been bogged down by stress, friends issues, and a recent breakup. Then I totally lost it because I felt she wasn't listening to me. I started throwing everything everywhere and kicking and screaming, telling her to listen to me. she tried to act all "calm" about it and even tried to change the topic and ignore what I was saying. I got mad and told her to stop being calm and lose the tone. I got even madder, and then something snapped. I put my fingers in the car window, and pushed the button up until my fingers got caught and kept doing it ti...

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