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Friendship
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i can only have awkward conversations after this hook up


Posted Thursday November 20 2008, 2:36 am

ok so im a boy whose 14 in 8th grade. i met this cute 9th grader one friday at lunch at school. the next day we hung out with a few other people and ended up with a 20 minute h/u. everything was going fine until i tried talking to her on aim. ANYTIME i say ANYTHING bascially she makes it totally awkward, and when shes not making it completely awkward, shes making an excuse to leave (shower, hw etc...) but then she stays on aim and facebook after that. also shes the one who starts our conversations sometimes, so i dont think shes just trying to avoid me. she said she just wants to be friends now, but doesnt seem like it when we talk.

(btw im 2 days older then her)

i need to know whats going on here! my min...

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What does my friend mean when she text this?


Posted Thursday November 20 2008, 12:16 am

I got an odd text from my ex boyfriend of a picture of a teddy bear hugging a heart. It seems too romantic that I didn’t understand why he sent it to me. He said before to me that he still liked me last year I just hope he got over it because he just not my type anymore. I text to my friend about this and she agreed that he needs to move on. I text her “I rather date a girl than a guy again” (btw I am bisexaul) she reply “if you do that, then who should I date?"…um okay what did she mean by that? she not gay ...i think? i should've ask her about what she meant but i ignored it but this just happen yesterday and its been bugging me. we are 21 years old. i did have a thing for her but that was years ago i told her about it but ...

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Mixed Signals


Posted Tuesday November 18 2008, 4:37 pm

To all you girls out there, I have a question/scenario. Here is your chance to give some good advice to a confused man. I had been dating this girl for about 4 months. Everything thing was going FANTASTIC! I played it cool - didn’t rush anything - Just had the most amazing time together. I came over a couple of days ago and she did a complete 180 on me and said it was not working for her anymore. That’s fine, we all go through it – Here is my question: She also told me that when she realized that she loved me - she realized that she could not be in a committed relationship. How do you take that? What do you do about it? Should you do anything? She said she was in basic panic mode and felt uncomfortable in any relationship. She had bee...

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what to say?


Posted Monday November 17 2008, 8:04 pm

my friend cheated on her boyfriend. her boyfriend forgave her and they are on a break now. so i want to have a talk with her but i dont know what to say to her. we already know she made a mistake and all that stuff. but now i want her to make sure she appreciates everything her boyfriend is doing. for example: he is still talking to her, texting her and appreciates her. i just want to talk to her about that and remind her. how do i do that or what do i say?

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Posted Monday November 17 2008, 7:02 pm

I'm in a relationship now with a boy named Greg, we've been dating for about a year now. Before Greg and I got together I was dating a boy named Jason. Jason was my first love, we went out for about 3 years on and off. Jason and I went our separate ways and he got a girlfriend as well. Over the summer, he broke up with her and I was on a break with Greg and Jason and I ended up hanging out. It felt like old times and he told me he had feelings for me again. But of course the inevitable happened and we both ended up getting back into our former relationships again even though we said we weren't. I'm totally fine with it and everything but he ended up going away to the Army after summer.

I was debating on whether I should writ...

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Wanting Whats Wrong ?


Posted Monday November 17 2008, 6:46 pm

Well , I was in a relationship for a year & 3 months ... he Broke up with me 5 months ago .. Me and this guy Jason have gotten really close over the months and we're like the BEST 0F FRiENDS , we know everything about each other . Well he dated this girl for a year & 8 months , she broke up with him I believe in the begining of October fest. My bestfriend dated my ex in August and that killed me [ ofcourse we're not friends anymore! ] -- Well n-e ways ... Me and Jason hang all the time , well our feelings [ both ] are kinda growing more than " best friends " . I really don't wanna hurt Liana [ his ex ] but she broke up with him .. I know how it feels but I think it hurt me way worse because I was still in love with Justin...

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my friend read a text message about her what should i do


Posted Monday November 17 2008, 3:20 pm

so me and this girl never really got along we are kinda just friends because we hang out in the same group and its better to be on good terms with each other. well today i texted my other friend saying how i think shes so annoying in lunch every day becasue she always brings up a story about when she was drunk over the weekend or something and im so sick of hearing it because she never really drank and this year she does kind of to fit in with the cool crowd and she thinks shes so cool and she read it and she got shocked and like mad and shes like im just never gonna talk to her anymore .. i know her she will probbaly im me or text me and like confront me in some harsh way saying im 2 faced bitch and all this stuff .. i dont want to just si...

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she makes me upset


Posted Sunday November 16 2008, 3:07 pm

18 years old female.
i'm in college but i commute so i don't really get to live the college experience and its like 30 minutes away so i don't like going out there to party. but one of my best friends did stay and goes to a community college so i always have her to hang out with. well i usually don't do much during the week because i have a lot of homework and i have a job so i look forward to the weekends. well i always hang out with my friend because there is nobody else to be with? and i mean i can trust her with everything and she is so nice but she is probably one of the most boring people i have met. she doesn't like to meet new people, she doesn't really like going out much. her fun is me going over there and watching like a h...

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My best friend, a bitch?


Posted Saturday November 15 2008, 10:42 pm

17/f

I have a close group of best friends & I think I favour one more so than the others, except now she has started to argue with me about everything & ditch me for some other girl. I have tried to talk to her about it and say that this isn't know things usually are between us but she just doesn't get it; consequently, she started to bring up a bunch of topics of how I 'get on her nerves' .. except her reasons all basically relate to me being stronger academically than her, which I don't flaunt. I just don't get it.

I'm pretty sure she will end up completely ditching me, then I'm moving away next year so I guess I'll never see her again. Is this normal? I feel so frustrated by this whole situation. I d...

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my seemingly sad friend


Posted Saturday November 15 2008, 7:51 pm

15f

hey so one of my best friends always seems unhappy. like when i see her in class or in the hallway she just looks really pissed / sad. so, naturally, i ask her what's wrong and she gets annoyed because it's just her natural expression. but sometimes, she tells me something that's bothering her. i don't want to constantly ask, "what's wrong?" cause i can see why that's annoying and yeah i'm not expecting her to be smiling 24/7 but how am i supposed to distinguish between when she's just neutral or when she's mad / sad? do you really think that's her natural expression... ? like she beams when she's laughing but otherwise she just looks pissed, and this is especially frustrating for me when i comment on som...

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she hates her


Posted Saturday November 15 2008, 4:50 pm

Okay so my friend Anna moved away a few years ago. While she was here she had a best friend Stephanie. Right before Ana Left her and Stephanie got in a huge fight and never talked again. Im stil best friends with Anna but have recently been hanging out with Stephanie a lot and were becoming good friends. I tell Anna everthingg but im really scared to tell her That im hanging out with Stephanie. Do you think its wrong im hanging out with Stephanie even though her and Anna are complete enemies. Or should i just tell Anna the truth.

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Why do YOU look up to your friends?


Posted Saturday November 15 2008, 10:37 am

For our project we're supposed to answer these questions and one of them is who do you look up to and why.

I decided on friends but I can't really tink of a reason WHY. I know it's there but I can't get it out >.<

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Help?


Posted Friday November 14 2008, 9:16 pm

Umm... I'm a really shy person and I was wondering if anybody can help me become more talkative and less shy. Maybe even some reasons why I'm quiet. Well thanks to those that can help.

With love,
~!MysteriousGirl!~

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crazyness, want him to want you.


Posted Friday November 14 2008, 5:13 pm

ughhh! i am so angry! dont you just hate it when people you want to like you, don't. i use to be friends with this guy and now, im nothing to him.
how would you deal?

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Friends


Posted Friday November 14 2008, 2:10 am

14/f

I have a lot of friends. But ever since we started high school we started splitting up more. I don't really have a problem with it anymore. Me and my friend still hang out with a couple of our other friends. But its kinda getting old. I want different friends. I don't want to lose these ones but its just not as fun as it use to be. I find it more fun to be with different people I met this year. I'm not a person who talks a lot. But I can if I wanted to. All my friend does is say, "oh you don't talk at all. you need to talk more...ect." Its getting annoying. But its always at the end of the day when I'm tired. She doesn't get that. She talks a lot like non stop. I mean I love her and all its just idk. She says I...

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My Very Best Friend...


Posted Thursday November 13 2008, 1:32 pm

My very best friend is not the same...he became a person i dont know anymore...weve known eachother for 8 months weve become really close he became the bestest friend i have never had...only it feels he threw me away for another..yes it's a girl who i cannot stand we have never ever been friends and she totally wont give up and right now she has won i just can't seem to understand i have tryed to talk to him and spend more time with him...i dont wanna lose him but what more can i do...he'll leave me for her when were right in the middle of a convo and this makes me soo angry and upset and all my girlfriends say "dont let it bother you" or "make friends with another boy" it's not easy he is my best friend and i cant let t...

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torn between 2 results


Posted Wednesday November 12 2008, 7:52 pm

i have this friend who is 2 years younger than me (i'm a senior in high school, she is a sophomore) and we constantly fight.. sometimes we'll go 2 weeks without it but other times it's every other day. she made a huge mistake in the past and she knows it and we haven't been the same since.. and now we try so hard to keep this relationship together. but so many times we question whether it's worth it. we try to take breaks or say we aren't friends but it never works because neither one of us can last without the other. but now she has admitted to knowing she's an awful friend to me and always has to confess to something. i'm so tired of being hurt by her and having to forgive her... and i really just want to say we shouldn't be friends and s...

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Birthday party ideas!


Posted Wednesday November 12 2008, 5:32 pm

16-female
turning 17 soon and wanting to throw a party for myself with only like 5 people and 2 of them being guys one my boyfriend and one my best friend the others are girls my age we are all about 16 years old & there isnt much to do we have gaming systems at my house lik 2xbox360s an xbox and a ps2 but one of the girls doesnt like video games cuz they are nerdy and what not so i dont know exactly what we can do besides go hottubbing in my hottub....its going to be sometime in december hopefully when its snowy.

Please helpout with ideas i dont really want to go out and do things i need indoor ideas!

thanks =D

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Help with teenage guys


Posted Wednesday November 12 2008, 4:20 pm

13/F

Okay well i'm in 8th grade and i really like these two guys but they're really popular, so i rarely ever talk to them. Sure i've texted oen, though he has no clue who i am, but during school hours i am very shy towards guys "higher in the food chain"

Anyway, what i want to know is how to be friends with them with out seeming like a total nervous wreck.

Please Help Me!!!!

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what do you think about this?


Posted Wednesday November 12 2008, 3:13 am

lets say you made this new friend whos new to the school 4 months ago you guys talk during before and after 2nd period class because you guys got a class but cant really talk to eachother because of the teacher and sits far away from eachother. When you guys talk and walking to class with eachohter everything is fine but when her other friend named alexa sees my friend jennifer the alexa starts talking to jennifer OR when jenniger sees alexa, she leaves me and start talking to alexa and we couldnt finish our conversation this happens a lot of times, but im thinking they talk more than we do but is this rude? and what do you think about it?

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