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I'm totally useless!!


Posted Saturday September 26 2009, 7:16 pm

I'll try to make an extremely long story short. First of all, I have TERRIBLE taste in men. My last boyfriend "Jared" convinced me that he really cared about me, in an effort to get me to allow him to move in with me. Of course, I fell for it, and he did. Then, he started drug dealing from my house. In the end, we got arrested, I lost my house and ended up moving back home, and he dropped me like a bad habit. 
I got quite the lucky break in that I was put on probation for four years with a differed sentence meaning that I can have my record cleared when I'm done. Also, once I've completed all my requirements while on probation (which I have), I can go unsupervised (meaning I don't have to report to an officer), and petitio...

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Pregnancy Test


Posted Saturday September 26 2009, 4:39 pm

I had sex last friday, when do you recommend I take a test?

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orgasm?


Posted Saturday September 26 2009, 12:44 pm

Whats the easiest way for a girl to orgasm without a vibrator?

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pleasure?


Posted Saturday September 26 2009, 2:07 am

This is pretty emmbarassing but im not afraid to speak of it. ive had sex with like 2 poeple only and a total of 15 times. ive done everything ya know ect. ect. but for the first few minutes of intercoarse its pretty good, then nothing. so thru all that time its not pleasurable at all. like theres no pain, just... dull-ness? like i feel nothing afterward then idk when to stop hah omgsh.
i hope that wasnt confusing.
is ther something wrong?
and weve tried ways to kick it up, but nope..

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hoping i'm just worrying too much.


Posted Thursday September 24 2009, 11:23 pm

ok so i'm gonna try and just get to the pointt. i'm really hoping i'm worrying way worse about it then i am because its stressing me out so much its making me feel sick. well..i kindof had, some sort of sex with my boyfriend today. I mean i say sort of because it wasnt in me. Ever. I had my pants down and his were down and they were rubbing against each other but i'm pretty sure i stopped all contact before cum or precum. I ended up giving him a hand job because well i cant leave my baby hangin lol but i'm just really scared that i could be the least bit pregnant. My period is in a week, what do you think my chances are at getting pregnant? "/

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for guys


Posted Thursday September 24 2009, 11:19 pm

guys why do you like boobs so much? i don't get it, they're just like fat sacs. i asked my boyfriend and he said they were "beautiful" hah but i think they're ugly...idk can anyone answer my question? lol

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pregnancy


Posted Thursday September 24 2009, 10:43 pm

ok. im going to get straight to the piont. me and my boyfriend use protection (birth control)but i didnt realize that the medication i was on causes bc not to work. so we usually use a condom but we ran out. my last period was aug 30 and i ovulated the 10th through 15th of september. we had sex on the 7th 10th and 15th (and he came in me)
i have been feeling sick having cramps headaches my boobs have been hurting ive been gasy and feeling sick. idk if im pregnant because i have felt all of those things before without being pregnant. i am waiting for my period on the 28th of september but i just wanted some advice on the issue. has anyone had an experience like this pregnant or not? thank you for the help :)

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masturbation=pregnancy?


Posted Thursday September 24 2009, 9:51 pm

im a 16 yearold girl and i know this may sound really dumb, but can you get pregnant from masturbating? i know it sounds crazy but i just want to know if there is anyway possible. im not an idiot, im just having pregnancy like symptons, and the only thing ive done is masturbate. so im just a little confused. thanks in advance.

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Sex/UTI?


Posted Thursday September 24 2009, 6:48 am

I just had sex this past weekend with my boyfriend for the first time. We were both virgins, both had been with other people sexually, and we used protection. Lately, for the past couple of days, I have noticed a very slight burning when I urinate. It hasn't been too bad until just today, when I woke up at 5 am with pain so intense I had to go out and buy some UTI medicine (AZO), assuming it was a UTI from searching symptoms online.

Is there any chance that I have anything other than a UTI? And how can it be caused by protected sex? We used condoms as well as lube, so I'm thinking one of the two things may have caused the infection. Also, is it necessary to get antibiotics to treat a UTI?

Thanks!

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On the brink of suicide


Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 11:51 pm

I have sat and thought many a times about the point of life. When one comes to think about it, life is jsut about the most pointless and meaningless thing there is around. We are born, we are stupid and useless. We work for many many years with minimal enjoyment, then we are again stupid and useless. I really don't get the point of all this s**t and it really is getting to me. I have thought about how we all really jsut WANT to live, we don't really need to live. What does this universe or whatever need with humans? We are a pointless existence. In the end, everything will be gone. When the supernova of our sun happenes, everything will be gone. What really is the point? no matter the little joys you may get out of life, I don't see the poi...

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sexually frustrated:(


Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 9:05 pm

19, female. i'm not going to beat around the bush; i am sexually frustrated!! the ONLY guy i feel comfortable being sexual with, i dont know if he feels the same! he's always giving me mixed signals and i'm definately not the girl to be like... "do you want to have sex already?!" haha. here are some signs he wants to sexually be with me:

1. MULTIPLE times he's randomly texted me saying "wanna fuck" and i'm always like yahh! but NOTHING ever happens, i only saw him once after he texted me and said it and nothing happened. the last time he texted me saying this was probably a month ago, maybe a little longer:(

2. my friend bought these mints at the sex store thats suppose to basically numb you...

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Am I too young?


Posted Tuesday September 22 2009, 10:00 pm

16female

Am I too young to be giving my boyfriend a handjob or getting fingered? I mean we've been going out 2 months and we hooked up about a month before we went out...I feel almost scandalous when I do...I keep doubting my morals, there's a piece of me that wants to fight my hormones. Any personal experience or advice would help! Thank you!

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pregnant?


Posted Tuesday September 22 2009, 3:43 pm

ive been taking the low ogestrel 28 birth control pill for at least 9 months
ive usually been pretty good about taking at the same time of day (within the hour or two)

i had protected sex on september 12
and forgot a pill last friday
so i took fridays pill and saturdays pill that saturday morning

i started the green pills that sunday (so the day after the saturday i took two pills)

i usually get my period 2 days after starting the green pills but it hasnt come yet
(today being the third day)

chances of being pregnant?
or could it just be that i took two pills so soon?

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It sorta goes everywhere


Posted Monday September 21 2009, 9:14 pm

So like i'm sorta new at this and i've given my bf a hj but like when he...ahem...finishes it kinda goes everywhere, i've talked to him about how to avoid such a mess but he just shrugs and says theres no real way to avoid it, so like what can i do to like contain this cause i've already had to like wash my sheets and his clothes a few times

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best friend?? i dont think so


Posted Monday September 21 2009, 8:13 pm

14-f

OMG so i told like my best friend about my ""one night stand" <--i dnt know why i put parenthesis....and she told like everyone, now everyone thinks im a major slut and all of the guys think that i would be easy to get in bed ughhh how am i supposed to fix this?>?????/? am i a slut?

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how do you know if..


Posted Monday September 21 2009, 6:59 pm

How do you know if a guy has an orgasm? And also I was wondering, last night me and my boyfriend were dry humping and it felt good for both of us so we did it a little more then he like stoppedd and i could feel his penis like tingling or shaking against my leg? What was happening? I asked him if he came he said no.

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i dont know what to do :(


Posted Monday September 21 2009, 5:58 pm

well, heres the story. my boyfriend and i had planed to have sex saturday night, the first time for both of us, but it went all wrong. he couldnt get turned on enough so we had to stop trying. now because of that he hates himself, he says to me that everytime he thinks of it he just wants to cut his throat. i dont know what to do anyore :( he wont let me help him and he refuses to talk to me about it face to face. he also wont tell me whats wrong. its now tuesday and all ive found out is that when i was trying to get him excited with oral sex he just felt nothing. he doesnt tell me what he's thinking either, i dont know what he likes and what he hates cause he wont tell me, he just lays there doing nothing. sometimes i can get him excited b...

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so worried


Posted Monday September 21 2009, 3:52 pm

okay so i was put on birthcontrol last tuesday. but i was on my period so my doctor told me to take two that day and then the next day take one in the morning and the next one at night then take it reguraly! so on friday my boyfriend and i had sex and he cumed not in me but the second time like hours later he did in me. well you can obviously know my question.! im just worried a bit or will we be okay?

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cutting.


Posted Sunday September 20 2009, 11:18 pm

Basically, when I was in fifth grade I began self mutilation. It's been on and off ever since then. I'm a sophmore now. When I was in sixth grade I was at my worst, I cut every day. I cut over everything, anything that somewhat upset me. Eventually one of my friends found out, told everyone and someone went to my school guidance office and they then called my parents and what not. My parents would try, they truly would. They put me in counseling but I just could not open up to them because I truly have no trust in those people.
In seventh grade, I barely ever cut. I think I did maybe about, 5 times at most. In the summer going into eighth grade I cut myself one time. During the school year I didn't cut a single time, but I did howeve...

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Is this dangerous?


Posted Sunday September 20 2009, 6:23 pm

17/F

Would it be dangerous for me, as a female, to masturbate with a vacuum?

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