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freindship? FREINDSHIP!??!?!!!? (long one sorry)
Posted Friday January 9 2009, 10:03 am
im so f*kin p!ssed with my mate right now... a couple of months ago he got back in contact with some girl from school (blah blah they had sex and wernt even going out with eachother and they wernt even going out and he ballsed it up basically) ANYWAY! last night he got all depressed about her not loving him back and other things besides (kus he says he "loves" her) and i got one of my freinds in a joint convo between me and him she helped as much as she could have helped over msn. and he started blaming shit on me! saying stuff like "Well if fatass here would go party with me i might actualyl meet more people" i got erally annoyed with that but i didnt say anything too bad just you freekin what mate you better shut up, ...
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gift for best friend
Posted Thursday January 8 2009, 8:42 pm
14/f
My best friend's birthday is coming up soon. It's a guy by the way. I love him so much (like a brother) and I'm just not sure what to get him. He doesn't want food. I'm just trying to think of something really cool that he'll love and doesn't exceed 20 dollars. I dunno. Any suggestions? Has anyone ever gotten something a guy loved? I don't want to get him something he'll just say is cool and never use. I want something that he'll be really happy about and actually really like. I can't order online. Nothing like a photo frame or a bracelet or something. Help!
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Any Advice On This?
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 7:34 pm
Okay, so friend and I were friends with a now former friend for about three years almost. It would have been four if she did not blow her chances. A few months ago, she lost her temper with the both of us. My friend send her a package for her birthday in the Summer of last year. So this former friend got mad over that she had to sign it, but so what big deal? If you have to sign it, then sign it. Don't make a huge fuss about it, well apparently she did and she called us names for no reason as we didn't do anything wrong. Shes told us to stop writing to her(we were penpals before she did this) and said she would throw everything away if we sent her anything, etc. We have not send her well at least I have not send her a letter, etc since this...
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looking older?
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 4:34 pm
so i'm 18 years old, female
whenever i'm with my friends who are all younger than me, everyone thinks i'm always the youngest!! it's like an insult to me. once my friends were talking about going to the club and this one guy asked if i was going and he was like wait, are you old enough to go? and one of my friends was like ha ha she is the oldest one out of all of us! it just makes me feel sad. i don't want to look like a little girl, who would want to? to me, i don't think i look so young but everyone else seems to think so. it's not like a wear young girl clothes and i wear make-up and do my hair? it's just something that bugs me and it's kind of an insult everytime someone thinks i'm the youngest when realy i'm older than ...
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Difference between a boyfriend and a boy friend
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 1:10 pm
Can anyone tell me how to tell if a guy friend is a boyfriend or just a friend? Or...if he's neither or a little bit of both, what do you call that?
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she needs to qrow up.
Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 4:57 am
so i have this friend 'jane'
&&her mom does && does && does for her.
she does everythinq she says.
i mean i quess you could call her mom a sort of 'push over?'
then my friend [13years old) starts screaminq && pouts.
im like wtf dude?
i tell her to chill out ; butt she acts like thats okay for a thirteen year old qirl to do.
its almost like when you see a qirl in a movie yell at her mom.
she trys that butt she looks ridiculous.
what do i tell her so she can stop makinq a complete fool of her ; her mom ; && me in public?
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I don't deserve friends
Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 12:41 am
17/f
I feel a way I shouldn't: my friends are annoying and boring. Perhaps I don't deserve to have friends if I continue thinking like this. I have really had enough of them though. I enjoy being a leader but they have really begun to follow my every move and I cannot get away from them. How do I fix this? Thanks.
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4 year difference...
Posted Saturday January 3 2009, 2:03 am
so im 18/f
i have friends, but its that i commute to college, and i only talk to like two of my friends from high school.
i've been talking to this girl, emily. she use to go out with my cousin. she is in 9th grade though, in high schoool. i'm a freshman collge. the thing is, she gets me. she is the only one who understands whats going on in my life, because she is going through something similar too. i just feel weird hanging out with her though. i dont want people to be like wow she is hanging out with a freshman from high school, you know? but i love the girl, she is like becoming one of my close friends! like i said, i can trust her and i know she wont judge me. thats hard to find. but in my mind, i always ...
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have i been..molested...?
Posted Friday January 2 2009, 7:20 am
3 or 4 weeks ago, this is a long story, i'll try and make it short. My friend(no longer) touched me in very inapropriate places. My mom thought she was cool by letting me go with him places, im 15 and a half, and he is 18. Thts illegal right? And I didnt really want him to touch me, I was scared, and we were alone, and i was afraid if I tried to get away, he'd hurt me, and if I stopped hangning out with him, he would come and get me, or something. And I just told me mom..I was so afraid, but she realizes tht my so called friend was playing her. She feels horribly bad, but we both cant decide if we should tell my dad. For one thing, my dad is a police officer. Second, my dad already hated my so called friend and offered to arrest him before....
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Between a friendship
Posted Wednesday December 31 2008, 9:42 pm
Hey, im 16f.
You know how when you have a best friend and you tell eachother you will never let a guy come between your friendship? Well, what if your 'friend' totally dumped you as a friend for a guy... and on top of that, this guy she dumped you for is your brother! .. :/ What would you do? Obviously she never was my friend to begin with if she would do this.
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16 or 17 yearolds hanging out with 13 yearolds .?
Posted Wednesday December 31 2008, 1:25 pm
Hi im thirteen & i have these two guy friends that are older then me like one 16 and the others 17 . And they wanna hang out with me . But im not sure if i wanna hangout with them cause im younger and + my mom probally wouldnt aprove of me hanging out with them once she heres there ageses . Everytime they ask me to hangout with them i always have to make up an excuse that i cant that im grounded or something like that ... & there both nice . But i don't know what to do . ?
should i lie and hangout with them and sneak around or should i just keep putting them off . Please help ! Im in a giant state of confusion & id apreciate it greatley .
- torii babiiee *
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me and my mom's conversation
Posted Wednesday December 31 2008, 1:54 am
okay me and my mom just had a conversation about me having sex for the first time. she started crying and was upset that i had lost it so young. but we have such a good reltionship that it doesnt feel like it could affect us at all. shes been acting really close to me now but im kind of afraid she'll hold it against me. do you think she will?
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Jealousy or something else?
Posted Tuesday December 30 2008, 11:29 pm
I have this AWESOME friend of mine
Her name is K
and like days later me and my friends and K, we are gonna give each other presents
and my friend K sed she bought one of my friends something online and she didnt buy me anything online
I bought her something online :(
And I knew her first than the other friends. . .
So what do you think
Jealousy or something else?
Thank you for reading :D
And thanks for (if given) your advice
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Sleepover for new years
Posted Monday December 29 2008, 7:20 pm
Ok so i might have one of my friends stay over for new years! She is so excited to go but im kind of scared....this is the first time that im only having ONE friend over. usually i have multiples of friends stay over.i always thought that help..so im scared because im the quiet one.sometimes i wont know what to do or say...theres a new years party at our hs just to let you know.can you help me?!?:)
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Sick of being single
Posted Monday December 29 2008, 8:00 am
Im a 14f if it helps.. So recently I've started to like this guy again. I've known him for three years ablnd am just getting to know him the end of last year (school time so around April). I have a ton of crazy friends and he is definately one of them. We flirt. Every time I get a chance to see him actually :) He is hilarious and likes to joke around and whatnot. We have some things in common like football, music, ect. Sunday (27th) my best guy friend michael had a bowling party. ( he is the class clown and still manages to get straight a's and student of the year) Ofcourse he was invited and we got to bowl in the same lane and stuff. What I like about him is that if he...
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Please Help :/ Friends.
Posted Sunday December 28 2008, 5:42 pm
16/F
I really don't know what to do. I used to go to a school,and there i had a lot of (i thought at the time) Great friends. I pretty much went out every weekend and idk,i just had a lot of fun you know? i ended up getting transfered to another school. Over time (a kinda short period of time),i started to realize that those other people werent really good friends. Some pretty much forgot about me. And some,would do the occasional "Hey,How Are You" blah blah. Im a very friendly person but people at this new school i go to arent so friendly as i am "/ , so i only made like 3 friends. My problem isnt that i dont have as many friends as i used to (i dont care about that), its just that,my new friends dont really ...
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I have this friend... and she had a boyfriend...
Posted Sunday December 28 2008, 1:26 pm
Okay so here's the story. My friend, we'll call her Suzy, had a boyfriend, we'll call him Bob. Suzy really liked Bob, and Bob supposedly really liked Suzy so they started going out. They kept on getting into fights and breaking up and all that stuff. In the end, though, they always got back together.
Last night Bob texted me asking for advice saying that he just broke up with Suzy and then his ex just asked him out. He asked me what to do. I gave him the advice that I would give anyone in that situation, no matter if they were going out with my friend or my enemy.
I told him that it's his choice on what to do, and that if he feels really comfortable with his ex then he should go for it. I told him that it's his choice and that...
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My best friend is gone
Posted Saturday December 27 2008, 4:15 pm
I've known my best friend for at least half of my life and suddenly, out of nowhere, she's stopped talking to me. I saw her at school recently right before the break but she completely ignored me. I haven't done anything wrong. I thought she loved me but she obviously doesn't care. I keep thinking that maybe I did something terribly wrong without realizing it, but I can't come up with anything. She was going through some issues with a guy that she really liked who disappeared from her life, but I think that if something happened with regards to him, she would tell me. We never got into a fight and always understood each other very well or at least tried to, but I guess that our friendship is over now. I called her to see if maybe something ...
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How can I overcome the situation of total backstabbing friends?
Posted Friday December 26 2008, 4:45 pm
im a girl 17 from Hondurasand my bf is 17 as well. Here´s the deal. She had a bf called dorian. out of the blue he started texting me very weird, seductive, erotic texts directly saying that he wanted to have sex with me. Two other guy friends also did this on the same day. Of course I said no and I tried to ignore the situation and just let it go. I would´ve told my friend but i dont see her that much and i didnt have her phone but i did tell a very good friend of ours everything to ask her for advice. A few days later my friend found out and her BF is now blaming the whole thing on me. I talked to my friend and thank god she believes me because she knows me. She also told me that her bf said that it was all a bet between him and the oth...
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So I have this friend...
Posted Friday December 26 2008, 3:45 am
My best friend is in some sort of a self-esteem rut or something. He and I are both 17/M. He used to be a 24/7 cheery and funny guy, but ever since he started thinking about getting a girlfriend, he's gotten to be more and more depressing. I tried to help him out, you, know, pushed him to ask out girls he likes, but he would always just say something like "She'll say no. Even if she says yes, I'd be a terrible boyfriend."
Now, I'm seeing less and less of him because he's spending more and more time locked up in his room, being depressed. It sucks! I want my friend back and I want the guy to be happy. What do I do?
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