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my mom is verbally abusive
Posted Sunday February 24 2008, 5:34 pm
My mom really does seem to yell at me alot. Today, we had grocerys in the car, and they feel to the foot of the backseat, like they do, and she got out of the car, and started yelling at me for it, and she almost hit me with some plastic wrap box!!! She was like " GROW THE FUCK UP SHELBY!!!!!" " ITS NOT FUCKIN FUNNY!!!!!!" And then she started yelling at me so loud that when she got done, she couldnt even talk barley cause her voice was so cracked.I am seriously done with all of her shit. She thinks she's the greatest mom ever, but she needs to stop treating her kids like shit if she wants that title. One time she hit me, because I asked her to help me find a pair of my shoes, but that was kinda along time ago, so that d...
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a good first impression?
Posted Sunday February 24 2008, 11:41 am
how do i make a good first impression on my boyfriends family. hes met my parents. and my parents like him. so i want to make a good first impression on his. ideas?
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sib fighting
Posted Sunday February 24 2008, 1:00 am
im 15 my brother i 13 and my sister is 12 and we fight constantly over really stupid stuff. on weekends we drive 2 1/2 hours to watch my cousin play hockey. my uncle sometimes comes down to watch his son play and when my uncle is here, he drives "the kids" me my bro and sis, to the game. when he drived, its very rare that we fight and argue, we just sit back and chill, my brother up front talking to my uncle and my sis and i talking. but now my uncle hasnt been out here and my mom and grandma have been takking us; omg we fight like crazy " turn your music down" "shut up your so annoying" "your fat" "your flat" "your short" the entire weekend. i honestly act way older than 15 and o...
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I dont want to move
Posted Friday February 22 2008, 4:16 pm
Im 16 going on 17 in less then a month. 7 years ago My mom pulled me away from my family to live out in another state for a guy she met. They have been divorced for two years now and I sort of built a new life here with friends a school and a boyfriend. I feel comfortable in my enviroment and safe. Now that shes lost her job and husband she feels like giving up here and now wants to drag me back to my home state for the easier way out. Im unfamiliar with my home state and feel like I don't fit in anymore. Im sick of being dragged around for her sake. She already wont let me apply for an art school I want to go to. I feel like I wont be able to do what I want in life. I dont have my permit or anything yet I'm sort of just stuck.
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loss of both parents
Posted Thursday February 21 2008, 8:27 pm
i lost my mom a few years ago. & my dad isnt goin to last long. i have a 6 year old sister & im 16 years old. what will happen to me & my sister if my dad dies? where will we go? will we go into foster home? will we ge split up?
please only answer if you know.
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GROUNDED!!
Posted Thursday February 21 2008, 8:19 pm
Well me and my friend invited two guys over when they werent supposed to. and we got really drunk....
my parents came home early and found out.
got pissed off.
and i guess im grounded for eternity.
any ideas on how i can get degrounded? lol
i dont like bein all locked up in the house.
it SUCKS.
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Whose Responsibility?
Posted Thursday February 21 2008, 3:08 pm
I have an aunt who is mentally disabled. She constantly needs someone to take care of her because she can't do anything on her own. She used to live with my grandfather, who took complete care of her. Now, my grandfather passed away, and everyone's wondering, who's going to be respinsible for her now? She has five older brothers and three older sisters (including my mom), so our family is very large. Anyway, now my uncles are litterally trying to push the responsibility on my mother. She's doing practically everything for her! But I know that my mother can't handle it because she can hardly take care of me and my two sisters. But for some reason, my uncles think that my mom is the best person out of EIGHT FREAKIN' PEOPLE to take care of my ...
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TELLING MY PARENTS THE TRUTH
Posted Wednesday February 20 2008, 7:55 pm
I'm going to the doctor friday for a virginity test. I don't want to break my mom's heart. Is there anyway I can make it seem like I'm a virgin? They are checking physically..any advice?
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MOVING
Posted Wednesday February 20 2008, 10:52 am
20f
ok so i am not sure how to break this to my parents that i am moving out into my boyfriends families house. I am moving anyway in june into my own apartment while i go to cosmetology school. Yet to live with my parents is like to not go to the psych ward its crazy. I Just know that in my heart that this is the right thing to do i have been thinking about it for a couple of months now and i believe this is my time. The problem is what is great for me isnt for my parents they are all about waiting to get married. my older sister moved in with her boyfriend and they got a divorce two years later because of his gambling problem and they see the same happening to me yet i am not planning on living at his parents house for five years l...
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my mom
Posted Tuesday February 19 2008, 9:45 pm
i asked my mom if she could take me to my boyfriends house, and she said no so i started to flip out at her. so i called my boyfriend and said sorry i cant getta ride there. and he said why so i explained to him what my mom said. and then my mom grabbed the portable outta my hand and threw it out the window. then she said "give me your cell phone" i threw a fit and ran upstairs and locked my door and texted my boyfriend saying "my moms going physco, shes taking my cell away, ily" and then i went to my bed to 'fake cry' "dont take my cell away stop it!" and she knocked my door down, and started crying "laura, i cant tell you why, but i need your cell phone, i cant tell you, ou wouldnt understand, i cant te...
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Fighting
Posted Monday February 18 2008, 10:31 pm
13/f
My family is always arguing and yelling. Once my parents were fighting and my dad almost left, I was in my room crying. But of course I think everybody would be. Well then they worked it out and he stayed but lately they have started fighting again and then my little 11 year old brother is getting in trouble everyday. Which makes my mom always yelling at him and then sometimes things come in with me and I start yelling because everybody else is. I hate it! I have cryed every single night that I can remember. I have cut myself once but not badly. I also promised myself I would never do it again. So that isn't much of my problem. I have tried talking to them about it but they are never happy and they never want to talk to ...
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MOM Trouble.
Posted Sunday February 17 2008, 11:20 pm
Me and my mom are kind of close. We get along soemtimes but not really. I can't go to her for anything. She gets really involved in my sisters life and i think its weird. So i don't go to her for anything. But then she wonders why i don't go to her! I really want to take acting lessons and possibly model. i also kind of want to be in a pagent. i just can't get up the guts to tell my mom this. what if she doesn't think i should? HELP PLEASE!
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it drives me crazy!!
Posted Saturday February 16 2008, 10:11 pm
im 16/f. my dad drives me insane. we both have high tempers and can get mad really easily. he flips out over everything! if his mail is not separated from the rest of the family's mail, he complains, he complains if im not in bed by 10pm (im freakin 16) i wouldn't be surprised if he called my dorm while im in college next year asking if i went to bed on time. he never ever thinks hes wrong. when he gets mad he always throws my stuff. he doesn't do anything around the house. all he does is the laundry but he barely does that! the washing machine does the laundry but he demands food and coffee from my mom all the time. once she was sick and in bed and he was lying next to her watching tv and he tapped her on the shoulder non-stop for an hour ...
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cant stand my dad
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 9:18 pm
I do not like my dad at all. And, I dont know why. I never want him to go anywhere with me, talk to me, or anything. Its really strange, cause I cant think of why. I loveeeee my mom. But, whenever my dad tries helping me with stuff I just roll my eyes and say nevermind. The only thing I can think of is maybe because he is the one who straps me with a belt for a bad grade, or for a phone call home from school.
I hate him.
Is this really strange?
Any suggestions or advice?
Thanks
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i can't get along with anyone
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 3:57 pm
16/f
i can't get along with anyone i live with, my parents are devorced and i don't get along with either of them, then there's my sister who i can't stand, so they'll yell at me annd throw me out to later apologise and make me feel horrible for wantingto move out... how can i deal with getting thrown out all the time and then feeling bad about it?
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Mother Daughter relationship
Posted Thursday February 14 2008, 7:20 pm
I'm 14 and I'm a girl. Me and my Mother don't get along that great. Everyone so often we'll have a nice conversation, but she treats ne like I'm 5. I tell her not too all the time and I scream at her because my anger rises so quickley with her and she doesn't do anything when I yell at her. And when ever I talk to my sister, even when it isn't a bad conversation she gets mad at me for talking to her? And then I yell at her again, and she does nothing. I always feel so guilty, help?
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Help with runing away
Posted Thursday February 14 2008, 8:11 am
hello so i need to runaway from here (my home) i love my family but latley they have been asking the world from me and even when I talk to them they still dont stop my mom had surgy (historectmy) and my dad hurt his back so i know i should help out but when they werent hurt they still asked us (me and my sister) to do it all i guess when my other sis was here Kas it wasnt as much but they still didnt do anythin I cant stand it Ash can leave after this year to college and I have 4 more years any help on all this i really think runing away is the best thing to do but were to go what to do i mean i cant just walk out but i cant live on the streets of sesser so what can i do if i do run away
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lost in touch?
Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 4:17 am
1 month ago i went back to the philippines and i got closer to my cousins and when i came back in US we would chat everytime they go on yahoo messager and we would talk to each other a lot but now, one month later when they are on yahoo messager they dont IM me anymore, as in we have no communication that much as the time passes by whats going on here? did we lost in touch?
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Brother-in-law
Posted Tuesday February 12 2008, 5:36 pm
My sister "Mary" has been married to her high school boyfriend "Kevin", who is 2 years younger, for almost 2 years, both are in their early 20's. Even before they were married Mary has supported Kevin because he believes that all the jobs that are available for him are beneath him. He is passive aggressive and manipulative to Mary and makes her constantly worry about how she won't upset him, she even goes as far as sitting in her car in front of their house and blows her nose as much as possible (she is very allergic, especially to cats and dogs which he insists they have) because he finds it disgusting when she blows her nose. He loses his garage door opener and car keys so he doesn't have to look for work or visit ...
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asking my mom for birth control. this is long just help plea
Posted Monday February 11 2008, 8:29 pm
Okay, sooo here I go. sorry if this is long =/
me and my boyfriend just recently started having sex, it was both of our first times by the way.
Yes, we use a condom. EVERY TIME. I'd refuse to and he says hes not that stupid anyway especially since his dad got some girl at 17 pregnant with no condom like that. (Hes 17 almost 18 in july and im 15 almost 16 in september)but anyway when i get my period, my cramps are horrible, my period is for about 8 to 9 days and sorry for the over share but i bleed really heavy. yes i am a heavier girl and its normal to bleed heavy when your a heavier girl (i'm 5'2 or 5'3 and about 183 lbs. yes i know i'm overweight and i need to find out a way to get rid of that too but i have a size F...
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