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SOMEBODY SAVE ME! AAAAAHHHH!


Posted Tuesday March 11 2008, 1:46 pm

ok, I was with my much older 2nd cousin last night, he's 30 I'm 16 and I'm in love with him, he feels the same way. Anyway, I gave him a small kiss on the lips right, and before we knew it we were REALLY REALLY close to making out. WHAT DO I DO?

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Our Dogs Hate Each Other


Posted Monday March 10 2008, 11:03 pm

25/f


I am 2 months away from finally marrying the love of my life. He's also 25, we both have college degrees, great careers, money to spend, and plenty of love. The only problem is that we each have a dog. Both of our dogs are very friendly with other people and other dogs, except for each other. When we first introduced them two years ago when we started dating, they viciously attacked each other on site. We thought it would go away, but nothing has changed. I don't want to force either of us to give up our dogs, but I don't want to not marry over something as seemingly trivial as this. Any advice?


Thanks.

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overprotected parents


Posted Sunday March 9 2008, 11:25 pm

ok. im 16 years old living with overprotected parents. im the type of teenager that does real good in school & never gets into any type of trouble. im the nicest girl you will ever meet. but when it comes to going out with friends & things like that im not allowed to. [im not interested in any guys at this point either.] i get everything i want, but that. i tried & tried talking to my parents about it but they never listen to me. all they do is ignore me or do whatever they can to do to not talk about it. i mean im not the type to go out & drink & do drugs. i have too much ahead of me to ruin that. but theres times where i think of running away & doing whatever i want. i just want to b happy like the rest of my frien...

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lost parents' good luck charm


Posted Sunday March 9 2008, 11:30 am

my parents gave me a good luck charm which was a small statue of a god in my religion to take with me to the nj state forensics tournament on friday. well, as soon as they gave it to me, i put it right into my purse and put the purse right into my tote bag. not once did i take the charm out.

when i got back last night i was very tired and took out all my stuff in my purse & tote bag and put everything away in the correct spot. even when i'm extremely tired, i know i'd either put everything in the right spot or keep everything on my table, and i put everything away in the right spot & didn't misplace anything... i hope. well, this morning i was awoken by the thought... "why don't i remember taking out the char...

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Stupid parents...


Posted Thursday March 6 2008, 9:58 pm

Can anyone help me convince my parents to let me be me? They are like trying and telling me to live a decent life and doing what's proper for me to make me happy, but the problem is I don't like it! I wanna have fun and do what I wanna do. My style is emo by the way and my parents don't know that and I don't think I wanna tell them cause I don't think they will ever understand. Right now I'm trying to get a mohawk and color it blue but my parent's say no and I don't understand why. One, I don't care what people will think of me, and two just cause I'm looking like those teens that they see out in the streets doesn't mean I'm gonna be like them! And if I become one then it's their own fault. I mean not all teens are like that, there are some...

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who is he in relation to me?


Posted Wednesday March 5 2008, 3:26 pm

okay..lets say..im a girl..and my dad's brother's son (my cousin) has a son..

would that son be my cousin or my nephew..?

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Im absolutly miserable because of my mom


Posted Monday March 3 2008, 10:22 pm

Ok so for the past pear or so my mom has been very negative towards me... She is always putting me down and telling me I cant do things. I can even ask her a simple question without her turning it into somthing bad and yelling at me for it. I used to be able to talk to her and now Im afraid to say anything. I tried talking to her about it but she turns it all around and makes me feel guilty for telling her how I feel... Let me tell you that I have had depression since I was 12 and have gone through some very tramatic things that kinda makes fear anything sexual which my mom doesnt seem to care because her and her boyfriend are worse than a couple of hormornal teenagers and they are loud... It gets tot he point were I start crying and have t...

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INVASION OF PRIVACY


Posted Monday March 3 2008, 6:46 am

My brother reads my text messages
and it really pisses me off. I was going out with this guy Joe Hullenfield and he was like "Whose Joe H and why does he call you baby?"
Cuz i left my purse in the kitchen and he took me phone out.
i tell him to stop but he just keeps doing it
its so annoying and an invasion of provacy and im mad because i ddint want him to see any of my txts. and yes he read ALL OF THEM. not just that one.

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mom wont accept me growing up


Posted Saturday March 1 2008, 7:29 pm

My mom has a problem with me growing up. She wont accept that I'm not "her baby" anymore. I was very depressed last year, but I met my girlfriend and we helped each other through our problems. We've been together in love for 7 months.

My mom thought I was a virgin until she recently found out me and my girlfriend are sexually active. She went crazy and only lets us see each other twice a month; we've only seen each other 15 times in the whole relationship! And when we do see each other, we're not even allowed to be in a bedroom together at any time!

I feel like my mom is being really selfish, and not accepting my relationship even though its the first time I've been happy in years.

Wha...

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my brother


Posted Saturday March 1 2008, 1:19 pm

My brother is in 7th grade, turning 13 very soon, and has no interest in girls whatsoever. He also cries everyday over little things and is very sensitive, impatient, and self-centered. Is that normal and what can I do as an older sister (I'm 17), or do I do anything?

He is also homeschooled but he does Judo and swimming, so I guess he is a little socialized.

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I need to tell my mom...but how?


Posted Friday February 29 2008, 3:54 pm

I got my period for the first time back in November.
(i'm 14/f, by the way, 15 in a little over 4 weeks) Anyways, my mom doesn't know yet. I don't know how to tell her, because i'm too embarrassed! She said she's thinking about taking me to the doctor if i don't get it (or tell her about it) soon.

Any tips on how to tell her? Thanks soo much!!!!!!!

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My "evil" step-sister


Posted Friday February 29 2008, 7:13 am

I'm 16/f and I am adopted.

Well before I was adopted, my mom had three other girls. And now two of them are living back in the house and I swear the youngest of the three is determined to be mommy's little girl again. Any chances of me looking bad she exploits it. Even when my great-grandmother died the youngest told my mom that I was faking my grief and I was sent back to school with a slap. My mom for some reason always listens to those three and I'm about to lose it. How do I "fight back"? It's just hard to stand there watching your mom be used and you get heat every day.

Thanks,
Annoyed

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I nedd help cause my step dad and i can not get along!!!!!


Posted Thursday February 28 2008, 10:40 pm

My dad and i get into many fights and i mean were im crying and her is yelling at the top of his lounges at me and ive gotton to the point where im extremly scared of him. I really ned help please help me!!!!

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my brother looks at porn


Posted Thursday February 28 2008, 10:15 pm

ok my brother is in 7th grade and he is very curious. he always trys to look at porn but my mom always catches him. So tonight i turned on my laptop and a bunch of porn videos with boobs and stuff came up. I guess my computer died before it could get off the website. I don't look at porn but i am 100% positive it was my brother. also a website was up and it was a video game website. and i dont play video games. So my question is, should i tell my mom or not? i am thinking i should just so she knows he hasn't stopped.

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i think my mom is cheating on my dad!


Posted Thursday February 28 2008, 4:08 pm

I KNOW ITS LONG, BUT PLEASE PLEASE ITS VERY IMPORTANT PLEASE READ ALL AND PLEASE TRY TO HELP ME!
i dont have school for the next 2 weeks and today i went to see my mom at work when i got there she was talking on the phone in a veryy flirtatious way. if you knew my mom u knew she has a very strong voice and is often being mean to people. but on the other hand she was actually laughing at what the person on the other line said and was being verrry flirty and talking in a low voice. i listened more and i KNew it was a guy. i also knew it wasn't someone that i knew because that was not the way she usually talks to people. her and my dad have been married for about 19 years now. they always say that they dont belive in gettin divorce and ...

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Family Problems/Raising Money


Posted Wednesday February 27 2008, 5:11 pm

my mom doesnt want to pay for the big 8th grade trip at the end of the year thats going to be lots of fun, but she has already paid 100 dollars that cannot be retrieved again, but out of my money, since she was mad at me. like no matter what i do.. even when i try to improve my bad habits, she says shes satisfied but she is never satisfied because still today she is mad about the subject, because she says that i dont listen to what i have to say, and sometimes yeah i do talk back a lot which i guess i shouldn't do.. but sometimes like i dont want people to think the wrong idea of me.. so i feel that if i dont say anything back they just assume that i do what they're thinking? its basically a lose-lose situation. and i need the money by tomo...

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Brother blocked cousin


Posted Wednesday February 27 2008, 4:11 pm

Ok. So I (not so) accidentally logged onto my brothers msn (dont ask why) and I noticed that he had blocked my cousin. I'm dying to find out why! Especially since I'm currently having a fight (more like awkward tension) with that cousin.. what should i do?

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Getting mom something special


Posted Tuesday February 26 2008, 8:55 pm

My mom's birthday is soon and I want to get her something special. we've became really close so i want something with a meaning to it.
I am a bit low on money although i have my christmas money which i could spend but I don't want to spend it out.
She likes household stuff and jewelry. I could buy her a pair of earrings or a chain but i could also make something.
Is there anything I can make that will make her happy and that she can keep for a lifetime but will cost me not much?

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this situation is so awkward and it sucks...


Posted Monday February 25 2008, 6:43 pm

My boyfriend had been living at my house for almost a month. Everything was going great, he was getting along really well with my siblings and parents and everything. On Saturday my dad came home early from work and walked in on me and my boyfriend having sex. My dad got really angry and said "YOU CAN LEAVE NOW!" to my boyfriend and saying things like "HE'S NOT LEAVING FAST ENOUGH!" to me. I can understand how walking in on us having sex would upset him a lot and I understand that it's his house and everything and that we were being disrespectful and all, but at this point he still won't let my boyfriend back in the house and things are still really awkward between all of us. This SUCKS. I really miss my boyfriend living...

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Im Not A Little Girl....So Why Do People Treat Me Like One..


Posted Sunday February 24 2008, 7:29 pm

Look I Come From A Strict Family...
Both Of My Parents Are Teachers...
And Im 13 And Im Already A Total Party Animal...
But My Parents Wont Let Me Do Anything!!!
My Dad Will Not Let Me Talk To Boys...
Let Alone Have A Boyfreind!!!!!
And I Just Want To Be On My Own A Bit...
And EveryTime My Parents Say No....
We End Up In A Fight...!
What Should I Do...!

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