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Turning Myself Around
Posted Sunday February 17 2008, 9:08 pm
Okay, so I've been a bit of a tomboy/goofball since the 3rd Grade. I love hanging out with guys (and I have WAY more guy friends than gal friends), I joke around a lot, and I'm a bit clumsy. But this isn't what I really want. I can't get dates, because guys usually thnk I'm joking when I say I like someone. It drives me crazy and I can't go through a day without thinking: "Am I ever going to get a boyfriend like this?"
So I want to turn my life around. The problem is I am NOT suitable for absolute girly girl. I mean, I want to change out of my old pants (meant for guys) and things but I don't want to be a pink loving, make up applying, small dog loving girly girl.
So... how can I start changing my lif...
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stalker
Posted Sunday February 17 2008, 5:24 pm
Okay this dude flipping got my number (i dont know how!) and he thinks i like him but i DONT!!!! He is really making me mad and said "you know you want me and im gonna pimp you next"...What does pimp mean?? this guy rides my bus and he touches me on the shoulder and my hair and i tell him to stop but he is just in my face even more!! How do i get this freaking wacko job to stop!? Thanks
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flirt. but taken
Posted Sunday February 17 2008, 10:34 am
okay so this guy i've been talking to since like the beggining of february has a girlfriend.
and they've been dating for like 2 years and last night i sent him a picture.
it wasn't revealing or anything but it was kinda..
ya okay so then he kept trying to get me to send him another and i can't.
i can't just be the one to break up a couple of 2 years and i dont really care if he ever talks to me again but what should i do if he asks me again??
b/c the last time i said no and reminded him he has a girlfriend..but idk.
thank you
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how do I talk to him???
Posted Saturday February 16 2008, 5:49 pm
Okay pretty normal story I guess I like this guy we go to school together well we go to the same school. I don't have any classes with him but some of the people he talks to are in some of my classes (so I guess they hang out or something) every once in a while he will like stare at me and when ever I see him in the hallway he will look at me then start talking to the closest person near him I don't know how I should talk to him I am pretty much the shyest person ever I have no clue how to ralk to anybody so what should I do???
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more socail
Posted Thursday February 14 2008, 8:21 pm
I use to be very talktaive and now I haven't have alot to say and not much open I use to be. I don't like to gosspic and repeats things and don't like scarism. sorry I am bad speller. but i do miss talk about stuff.. I mean i read magazines and watch tv and news. try to read jokes but some times I don't know if i am saying right things sometimes. there any sites I go to help or someone give me some tips?
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Not afraid to be different, but others won't accept
Posted Thursday February 14 2008, 7:02 pm
Hey, I am 14/f and currently in grade 9.
When i made the transition from middle school to high school, i hardly knew anyone. Now, i know more people, and more comfortable. I am a really niice girl, smart and pretty. It took me a whole to realise it but i finally did. I'm pretty, but not like other girls. I have a huge nose, which takes up most my face. The other girls look so perfect. I have learned to work with it, and try to beautify myself more. Now, i do look pretty but not the way guys would want. And another thing. Im different. I am not like the other girls at my school. I am really smart, respectful to everyone and all the teachers, and i do not have a rep as a whore or anything. I seem like a nerd to people, and what...
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theres this boy...
Posted Thursday February 14 2008, 2:20 am
he sits up front of me in a class. i am 17 and he is 16. He isnt that cute but i have this crush on him. i think why i like him is because you see im not exactly the perfect person, and he seems like he is. I've gotten into some drugs and stuff like that and he doesnt even drink or do anything bad. i dont know. but i feel like i am a good girl when im around him. the problem is i dont know if he likes me. how do i figure it out? like he flirts with me and everything in school and when we see eachother at parties but when i try texting him he is really short.
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it wrong isn't it?
Posted Thursday February 14 2008, 1:34 am
okay, my best friend, "jenny", she dating a guy name "james", i met James last year and we talk and i sending him my nude pic, for now we stopped talking, of course, but jenny dating him, i told her it gross that a guy saw your best friend's nude thing, she thinks nude pic thing is nothing, cheap to her, but not to me, james knew me and saw my nude and now he dating my best friend, i felt like gross.
what you think? it gross huh?
help pls....
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Don't know what to do.
Posted Tuesday February 12 2008, 8:25 pm
Hello...I am 14 and a guy... and I don’t know what to do...I haven’t had a girlfriend yet...which sucks...well I kind of did but we broke up like in a day...when we never really went out...but I'm not one of the most popular guys in school...but I guarantee that 99% of the people in my grade know my name...and I am kind of popular with the "not-so popular" girls...like I sit with 4 of them at lunch and they laugh at my jokes and sometimes I cant figure out what to say...so I just smile and nod but all of them are really close friends...I even think I talk to them more then I talk to my guy friends...and it would be weird asking one of my friends out...plus it took me like a month to ask that "not real" girlfriend I t...
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lines on my face..not wrinkles
Posted Tuesday February 12 2008, 2:55 pm
well to start, i know i dont have old-woman wrinkles, im 16. but when i wear makeup and smile alot, i get these parenthesis-like lines on either side of my mouth. deep creases in my makeup. and not wearing makeup isnt the answer. whenever i rub my fingers over them to take them away, i get red streaks from where my foundation has been rubbed off and my natural skin tone shows through. is there anything i can do to make these lines go away, or be less noticeable?
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friends&bf
Posted Tuesday February 12 2008, 12:25 am
k so i have a boyfriend...but none of my friends like him, so im basically not allowed to hang out with him at school, because they will get all mad and just walk away and be mad at me the rest of the day. I dont wanna break up with him, because i really like him, but its getting annoying because whenever i get a bf, they cant seem to be happy for me. Im scared that this will drive me and my bf apart and soon end up in breaking up, and i REALLY dont want that to happen. School is basically the only time that we can hang out because i dont live close to him, and i have to busy a schedule to hang out with him after school.
Its really aggravating me, because its really hard having to choose between my friends and my bf, and my friends ...
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colleges
Posted Monday February 11 2008, 10:13 pm
I want to be an interior designer or a marine bioligist . How can I choose between the two? and what colleges should i go to
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How Do I Get Him To Like Me?
Posted Monday February 11 2008, 9:37 pm
I've known a guy for several years now (well, ever since the 3rd Grade) and I've never really paid attention to him. We tease each other and laugh at each other all the time. We've both had relationships come and go over the years, but our "friendship" hasn't broken yet.
Well, lately, I've been thinking about him more and more. And no, its not because we have EVERY SINGLE PERIOD together, its because he has a sweet smile, good sense of humor, etc.
Nobody knows about my little crush on him, even my closest friends. The problem is, we've been picking on each other for so long and I don't know how he'll react.
So, the question is:
1) Should I really be chasing after him? Aft...
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that guy in english class
Posted Monday February 11 2008, 8:22 pm
I am looking for some advanced flirting tips.
I go to an all girls' school and what has been getting me through the day recently has been my one coed class, 3rd period writing class. The kids are great and the coed class dynamic is such a relief.
There is this one guy who I have developed a crush on. He's a gentleman, his stories are hilarious, and I think he's a little shy/reserved like me. We sat next to each other a couple of times. He's recently been sitting in my favorite spot and it just works out that I get there too late to sit next to him. So how can I play up the seat thing in a flirty way? What can I do to hook this guy, and what are some specific flirting strategies? Give me the flirting GOODS!
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questionsss, help!
Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 7:46 pm
okay, well i have 4 questions in this one, so if you answer it please try to answer all three.
my best friend gets mad at me like every other day for the exact same reason, because i decided to sit with different people at lunch and talk to different people in the hallways. its been like this since like third grade. she has ALWAYS been extremely moody, its just getting worse and worse though. plus, shes always accusing me of things. i was about to totally tell her off on friday, but i knew i would feel horrible after i did. because once i do something mean, i regret it right after .but i truly don't know what to do anymore. ignoring doesn't work. i ignored her for a year and half and it didn't help. well of course, but we wer...
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guy trouble
Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 10:57 pm
ok so this guy recently asked me out. I said i wanted to wait a while. But the thing is, my best friend doesnt think i should date him. But i do really want a boyfriend. (my best friend is a boy and im a girl just for you to know) Hes best friends with this kid and he says he only goes after the "hot" ones. Should i follow my heart and go out with him anyway?
Or listen to my best friend?
Im leaning more towards listening to my best freind. Where will this bring me?
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What really matters?
Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 9:55 am
before I ask, I'd like to make a point: I am completely aware that males find sex important and especially in the teenage years. I know that alot of feelings could be driven by this (especially in the teens again), but if I were to say that my boyfriend and I have been together a year and still we have not had sex (we've been waiting for me to get ready and be prepared), would this surprise you? Given that yes, we are still in our teens.
My real question is, do guys fall in love easily? Or is sex one of the main things they go for? And if they do say, fall in love with someone, do they still scout about for other girls?
I am kind of looking for a link to my relationship - remember! A year, no sex... and we are ...
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SUGGESTIONS FOR MY BOSS
Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 2:28 am
I recently started working in a nursing home as a recreation aide. we do activities with the residents, etc. the staff was asked to think of ideas for activities the residents can do before dinner in the big dining room. it wil be a bunch of them. they said to keep it somewhat simple as in not a lot of setting up etc. someone suggested giving the residents jokes to read off. interaction in the activities is a plus. any ideas? i want to impress the boss lol
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Posted Friday February 8 2008, 8:44 pm
well so this year i somehow got voted the winter ball queen and my boyfriend jake is the winter ball king. but the day before we found this out i decided to break up with him. hes really started to get super clingy and hes all over me all the time which i totally cant tolerate and yes ive talked to him but it hasnt gotten any better. just i wonder if i should still break up with him before winter ball because of the court thing and all. but then again i definatly couldnt stand being his date to the dance. so idk what to do. advice please and thanks :)
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car damage
Posted Friday February 8 2008, 6:53 pm
While leaving school today, As I was pulling out of my parking spot, I hit another kids car. I pulled into the next available parking space, and got out of my car to go talk to the guy whose car I hit. Well he hadn't been in his car when I hit it, but he was walking toward it.. and he gave me a dirty look. Well he got into his car and left before I could even talk to him! I brought my car into the dealership, and they told me my damage was so little that I didn't even have to report it. There was just a little bit of paint chipped off. I know the kids first name whose car I hit... but I don't really know him. I don't know what to do ... He just left! The car dealership people said to just leave it be.. he's the one that left.. it's his faul...
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