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Dad.
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 12:55 am
My dad told me that, he sees his girlfriend's daughter who's in my grade basically more then me. I mean, it wasn't my fault my parents got divorced in the first place I was like 2. Anyway, I havn't seen him in 3 months,
I feel so guilty for not seeing him. And I miss him, a lot. I've cried a couple times. And I want to see him, but everytime I'm about to call him, I keep hearing all this stuff about his girlfriend's daughter (Who happens to be in my grade, and gorgeous but really mean).
Anyways, my life kind of feels like a cinderella story but different. I'm not feeling sorry for myself or anything. I just don't know how to talk to him about it, I feel like he doesn't love me. I don't really even know him.
Any adivice before I start like, balling on Fathers day?!
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He Is Cramping me.
Posted Monday March 24 2008, 10:24 pm
This is really long. but it would be easyer if you knew the whole story
Ok so i have this awsome boyfriend and i like him. ALOT. i mean we have talked on the phone for 6 hours and never had nothing to talk about. but the things is. he ALWAYS wants to hang out and he ALWAYS wants to talk on the phone. and on myspace hes always emailing me. like around 20-25 emails a day. and he bought me a necklace and i dont really want to take it because i dont know if i can stay with him. im a very different girl then what he thinks. he only knows one side of me,the party girl/friendly/prepy side. because hes really shy. he doesnt know that i just get really sad and it takes me a few days to get out of it. or sometimes i go days without really talk...
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I need advice
Posted Monday March 24 2008, 7:15 pm
My mother seems to have control issues and I don't know if she is mentally ill. I am an adult, I do live with my parents but I am working on moving out, actually getting married. She says the most hurtful things to me. Today, she was suggesting that I go on a vacation with my guy friends, I told her I don't know; he is saving for my engagement ring and I am saving for my house. She was still encouraging me, saying, "you will have enough for a house someday." I was like I am saving for a couple of years not some day. She was like, buying a vacation wont affect it. She looked up how much it cost and my boyfriend we there. he waid maybe, we were thinking of spliting down the middle-both paying our own way. She told me I should just p...
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Smelly Family
Posted Monday March 24 2008, 3:43 pm
I do not know what to do anymore, dropping hints, etc... how do you tell a couple of your family members that tney have very bad BO and that they need to shower daily, every time they visit our furniture needs to be disenfected and deoderized, then to top it all off they always seem to stay a day or 2 longer then they say.
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baby names
Posted Sunday March 23 2008, 1:25 am
idk why but i was bored and came up with future baby names even tho im 14. i know its really early but what do you think of these names so far? and any sugestions to add to make the name better or anything?
GIRLS:
-Roxanne Rae (i like Roxanne cuz i could get the girl "roxy" clothes from pacsun and it sounds all firey and stuff. i'd prefer a better middle name than Rae though.. and please dont say a name like "marie" oh lord.)
-Cameron Jade (what do you think? ive always liked cameron, and jade's one of my fave types of green
BOYS:
-Julian Antione (Antione sounds alot better than Antonie(sp?) IMO. and the Julian part is from "Julian Casablancas" from the stroke...
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he made everyone think im a whore
Posted Sunday March 23 2008, 1:09 am
my ex bf is telling everyone that me and him did all kinds of things and now everyone thinks im this huge whore and stuff and idk what to do!
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parents wont let me go on mission trip
Posted Saturday March 22 2008, 2:31 pm
okay so my parents wont let me go on the mission trip at my church to build houses for the indian people. my pastor is paying for me ($50) because i dont have the money to go right now. well when i talked to my mom about it she asked my dad who said no. but i really really really want to go because i love helping people like that. its over spring break (5 days) and my pastor and almost all the grown-ups from church are coming (which is A LOT) but she (and he) still wont let me go ! how do i convince them to let me go ?????
any help is GREATLY appreciated !
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Athlete
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 10:11 pm
My sister is an athlete, shes usually the lowest person on her team, as in not so good. She does track and cross country. The problem is after she smells so bad, and she will smell up the house. My mom is a single parent and cant smell for a dollar. I told my sister she smelled and I got yelled at. When I have to take showers after her Im afraid I smell terrible and I drown my self in perfume. I live with the grossest people around. Help, what can I do. Im a clean person and I dont want to smell
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Im gonna do it but I need help
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 2:03 pm
Idont care what you people say im goint to runaway idk when all i know is it will be after my sis leaves for school i cant stand my house and my families all i want are tips on how to make money and get a place to stay i dont have shelters around or anything of the sort i have some good older friends that are alduts and they may keep me for a night or two but not long enough im 14 and this isnt rebellion like some of you say it is i love my family but i cant stand it any more and i live in sesser a small town in il so i just want to know how to get out of here please
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She always wants to be around me
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 4:44 pm
ok so i have this friend. Lets call her "Jane" Well jane is always wanting to come over and when she does all she wants to do is look threw my clothes and my shoes. And stuff. And when i say lets do something shes like do you have any money and when i say no shes like well i dont know what to do then. and she is like always cramping me. I NEED MY SPACE FOR OTHER FRIENDS!!! what should i do?
-cramped
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separation
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 4:35 pm
i have some questions on separations so if anyone can help me out that would be great
okay so my mom wants to divorce my dad but he is very religious and dosent believe in that so she is trying to geta legal separation so she can get him out of the house so here are my questions
what if after this whole thing he still dosent leave? jail? a fine?
he makes alot more money so would he get custody of me?
would he get the house?
how expensive will this all be for my mom?
well thank you for your time and i hope you can help me out
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REST IN PEACE
Posted Saturday March 15 2008, 9:32 pm
i lost both of my parentss
& i was wonderin if you knew any good REST IN PEACE SONGS
other then the ones ..
slipped away
ill be missing you
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?!?!
Posted Saturday March 15 2008, 6:17 pm
I AM SO EMBARRASED
i dont go on here much but i went on the otha day and forgot to log off, my sis posted this thing about how she had sex with my best friend and all this shit i cant look at him or my sister the same at all she knows i saw it
what do i do?
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PLZ READ THIS PLZ PLZ PLZ
Posted Thursday March 13 2008, 7:46 pm
hey guys:
i have no choice to do this for advices, i have an older sis, she is married but now she came back to live with me and my parents cause of some reason. 1st of all she decided to marry EARLY b/c she said she found her love of life, and have a kid rite now, she dropped her college b/c of him and her kid, she made her choice!!!!!!! well now she decided to cont with her education so she came back home so my parents could help her take care of her kid! but thats not the onlything she want, since i follow my parents will i go to college i be the BEST I COULD possiblly beening, but my parents seems like her a whole alot better,i need a car to drive to skool and im gonna pay for it, all my parents do its use their credit (since i ...
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how to deal with a theft.
Posted Thursday March 13 2008, 5:34 pm
HELLO,
My 16 year old neice stole my daughters $350 sunglasses she bought with her own graduation money at a family x-mas party. This week I saw my neice wearing them. What to do. Parents are unapproachable and can be hostile. What should we do?? Neice is in counseling for similar issues.
Carol
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My Dad Hates Me.
Posted Wednesday March 12 2008, 10:32 pm
So, I don't actually believe my Father hates me, but he's deffinetly not like he usto be. He says I've grown up to be a bitch, and all this stuff and he's always accusing me of things I didn't do. He's accused me of stolen beer, messing with the thermostat and missing packs of ciggerettes- when I have two other older brothers who smoke, and drink! I'm 14, I don't drink, I dont smoke, I don't steal I don't anything and my Dad always yells at me. When I ask him for political help for my homework like the war in Iraq, and Isreal and Arabs he yells at me for being soo stupid I don't know, well that's why I go to him! So he can shead some light on the situation and explain things to me. I dont know why he always yells at me. Last year he had a h...
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girlfriends daughter controls her life
Posted Wednesday March 12 2008, 9:31 pm
im 28 and my girlfriend is 32. she has two girls daughters one is almost 2 the other is 14. the 14 year old has a father that is not in her life. her step dad (father of the 2 year old) who she didn't like past away. she tells her mom that she cannot see me. how could I make this better? we really want to be together.
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brother problem!
Posted Wednesday March 12 2008, 9:18 pm
14/f
Hello peoples!
mmmm, well heres the thing.
i am the youngest in my family, and i have two older brothers, one 16 and the other 18.
the one thats 16 isnt much of a poblem, but my oldest brother is ALWAYSSSS in my buissness.
its so annoying. how do i get him to stop?
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Mothers Day
Posted Wednesday March 12 2008, 2:22 pm
I know mothers day is far away but i just like to plan things out before hand. So far i know i want to get her one of those edible arrangements there pricey but so cute. I want to get her something else what can i get her thats not so much. i was thinking about personal m&ms. but i dont know. she likes anything really candles and stuff but she ordered A bunch just today big ones. Help please. Anythingg will be helpful! :] Thankss.
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My relationship with my mom sucks.
Posted Tuesday March 11 2008, 10:41 pm
Hey, im 14/f. Me and my mom kinda have a really bad relationship. Ofcourse, being a daughter I want to have a mother to count on and be able to tell her my secrets w/o her yelling or getting upset with me. I would like to have a nice mature conversation with her telling her that i wish to have a mother daughter relationship in which i dont have to be scared to tell her things nor do i have to sneek things by her. I also want her to understand that i am in deed growing and need to be allowed to do more things and have more priviledges. PLEASE HELP. HOW DO I TELL HER ALL tHIS IN A MATURE WAY? Thank you veryyyy much. :)
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