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New friend
Posted Monday February 9 2009, 11:42 pm
I'm a 17 year old guy..
About a year ago I lost one of my best friends who I hung out with all of the time. We quit being friends because I was an annoying obsessive suffocating friend. Recently I became friends with a different person. How can I be sure not to annoy this one like last time?
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friends
Posted Monday February 9 2009, 6:29 pm
I am 16 and my best friend is 15, we have been friends for a long time and she stayed ths night at my house.We both have had sex with our boyfriends before. Well she asked to "eat me out" and i said yes. i liked it,but i like guys and i am not bisexual. so why i did like it?. should i talk to her about it? what should i do?
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Betrayed
Posted Monday February 9 2009, 5:45 pm
I went out with this amazing guy a month ago. Or at least, I thought so at the time. We only dated a month because we both thought it wasn't working out. Well now, a month later, he's telling people we had sex. I'm only fourteen, a freshman in highschool, and this is ruining my reputation. People are now thinking I'm a whore. I know for a fact he started the rumor, because my brother was in the room when he said it. He was not kidding around, he was bragging about it. My brother and I are best friends, and he's the only person I completely trust, and I have a difficult time trusting people. So, obviously, my brother was very pissed that this boy would do this to me. I confronted this boy and asked him and he's denying it! I can't even belie...
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party
Posted Monday February 9 2009, 4:26 pm
okay well my boyfriend is having a party in two weeeks and i really am excited. The only bad thing is is that all his friends do drugs and drink. My boyfriend dosne't do these things but he still will allow it at his party. I have 2 problems
1. I cant tell my parents because they would not let me go if that stuff was going on there. i have never been to a party like this before so i am kinda nervous myself.
2. My friends are super good and won't come of there is drugs and alcohol there either so i will be by myself. My boyfriend is super popular and it is his party so he will be mingling with others there to. Not just me.
So what should i do?
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Dealing with death
Posted Monday February 9 2009, 2:06 pm
My Friend has a boyfriend called Callum.
They were best friends before hand :)
But out of the blue his dad died 2 weeks ago.
She doesn't know how to be there for him.
I've told her she just needs to be there for when he is ready to talk about and not push him to far. I told her he isn't going to be himself for a while so always take it into consideration if he not in the mood to hang out or whatever,
but I really want to help her.
Because everytime something bad goes wrong in a relationship for her and she gives up. This is a very hard thing for her to deal with. She's not at all emotional - What advice can I give her to look after her boyfriend? What should she do to make sure he's ok?
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My ex-girlfriend
Posted Monday February 9 2009, 1:10 pm
So, I'm in such a wierd place right now, any advice would be great.
18/m
My (first) girlfriend broke up with me a few months back, and she wanted to stay friends(so did I), but she hasn't made a single effort to stay in any part of my life. Not one call, anytime we've talked, it's because I texted her. I haven't even seen her since a couple weeks before we broke up.
I miss talking to her and I miss having a girl, but I don't want her back. Even before she dumped me she was never around, she basically dumped me in her mind and let me know over the phone later.
Part of me wants to still talk, she was my only friend outside of my family, but the other part says 'screw you, I'm worth more than that, i...
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bestfrined thats a boy
Posted Sunday February 8 2009, 4:42 pm
okay well my best friend is a boy and he likes me and has sence 8th grade. but i dont see him like that but everyone says we look cute together but im just not into him like that. but he has this friends Behzad and hes cute and so much fun to hang out with. and well i think i have a samll lil crush on him. and we hung out on friday at the park in our hood. we laughed alot and had a blast but it wasnt just us it was with my friends. and one of his. how do i know if i really do like him and how do i let my bestfriend down and tell him i like his friend or should i not tell him and forget behzad?
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back stabbing
Posted Sunday February 8 2009, 4:38 pm
okay so i broke up with my boyfriend the other day and my frineds tell him everything about y i did it and that i told them what we had done. how do start to trust them after they do that i mean they told alot of ppl about what happend and now i feel like everyone looks at me weird. how do i get over it when all my friends did this to me?
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a friend that i like
Posted Saturday February 7 2009, 7:54 pm
theres this girl at my school that is my friend but i like her more than that and she is going out with somebody. what should i do
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Is it because of gender that my friendship is dying?
Posted Saturday February 7 2009, 3:41 am
14/f
I've been friends with this boy since I was in kindergarten and we were really best friends all the way up to 6th grade. Last year, naturally, we weren't as close but we remained good friends. Now, I understand that because I’m a girl he doesn't feel completely comfortable being "best" friends like in kindergarten due to horny 14 yr old boy issues, but I still believe we can be friends. He's into this blond (the hottest girl in school) and has ditched me to spend time with her. He knows he's not going to date her; he just hangs around her because she's hot. He knows she's a (in his own words) "a dumbass". She's also unpleasant and arrogant. Not to mention slightly narcissistic. So anyway, he’s dit...
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friends?
Posted Thursday February 5 2009, 3:57 pm
ok so i got this bguy friend and he has a girlfriend
anyways he has hit on my before and said that he wanted to go out (this was while he still was goin out with his gf)
anyways she told mo to not talk to her boyfriend anymore and i did
but now he wants to be friends and i wanna be friends to but i dnt want to make hos girlfriend mad
what do i do?
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Texting someone for advice
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 8:06 pm
Is there something where you can text someone and they give you advice? Like an actual person. Kind of like chacha, but chacha is always sooo formal...someone who will talk normally. Has to be in the united states so it doesnt cost me money. And no additional chargers to or whatever
thanks =D
16/f
mel<333
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my best friend got a boyfriend before me
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 7:46 pm
My best friend got a boyfriend a week ago and were 14 .we ve been best friends since grade 2 and shes had a lot of boyfriends and i havent had one yet and ever since she started to date him shes been blowing me off .She used to pick me for everything and now she always talks about him and is always with him.Eveyone At school is like "when are you going to get a boyfriend " . Ive tried to send her hints that its bugging me but she doesnt see it that it is .
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fake bestfriend; drama
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 5:09 pm
my so called best friend is really annoying she lies about stupid stuff all the time to try and get attention or to impress people. she will try and say something to make you feel bad and make her look like shes better then everyone else. shes not popular at all and not a whole lot of people like her.. she always has to be right, she complains about everything and if i say no thats not right then she'll get mad and say im not stupid i know what im talking about and or that I always have to be right which isnt true and during practice i had hurt my elbow and she said stop being a baby you complain about everything that didnt hurt as bad as my arm did.. just stupid stuff and im really sick of it, i like her cuz shes not always like that but i...
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I thought that no matter what we would always be friends, What do I do?
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 1:53 pm
I’ve been really close friends with this man for several years. We run in the same circle (of friends) and have the same passion for the arts. During the past few years, I’ve expressed my feelings to him, which are more than just friends. His answer is always…I love you, with no further detail. I’ve asked on several occasions, Love me how? As a friend, like a sister? How? He clams up~ No answers.
A few months ago, we were talking on the phone and he blurted out, “I love you, I really really do.” Then hangs up the phone. What am I suppose to do with that? Again, what does it mean. I blow up…..I ask him, what does it mean, no answer. I proceed to ask him to stop screwing with my head. If he is going to be ...
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What Happens whena friendship falls apart because of love?
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 1:35 pm
I’ve been really close friends with this man for several years. We run in the same circle (of friends) and have the same passion for the arts. During the past few years, I’ve expressed my feelings to him which is more than just a friendship (I love him). His answer is always…I love you, with no further detail. I’ve asked on several occasions, Love me how? As a friend, like a sister? How? He clams up~ No answers.
A few months ago, we were talking on the phone and he blurted out, “I love you, I really really do.” Then hangs up the phone. What am I suppose to do with that? Again, what does it mean. I blow up…..I ask him, what does it mean, no answer. I proceed to ask him to stop screwing with my head. If he...
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how do you earn trust?
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 3:25 am
what do you have to do to earn their trust and show them that you can be trusted?
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I'm a younger (52) having a problem with an older (86) friend neighbor
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 1:43 am
In my apartment complex where I live for 18 yrs, I met an older lady about 6 yrs ago. I have been pretty close to her...she says friends, I think neighbor. I live alone, divorced, no kids. She was married 46 yrs, 3 kids, doctors etc... she has a good financial situation when her husband passed, I live on ssdi right now. It's not about money...she does alot with her kids, grandkids, I am always alone. I have alot of health problems but she doesn't believe me cause "I look so good".
She demands my time, makes me feel guilty if I don't feel well, basically she doesn't believe me so, again, makes me feel guilty for not being there for her whenever she wants. And when I start spending more time with her, then she says I'm buggin...
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Feelings for best guy friend
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 5:42 pm
(16/f)
Hey everyone.
Basically, i have feelings for my best guy friend. We've met in September and have been so close ever since. He likes this other girl, also my good friend, and is always constantly talking about her to me, asking me for advice on what to do and everything. No one knows how i feel inside and i don't know what to do. We have such a wonderful friendship and i would love to keep it like this. He's such a great guy, and i don't want my feelings to ruin anything. I really do want to have JUST that friendship bond with him, but i can't control my feelings. I'm trying to stop my feelings but right now, it's so hard. I'm really trying to be that best friend in his life, and i just want him and I to ...
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Babysitting Business
Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 6:47 pm
This might be long...
My friend, I'll call her K, and I REALLY want to create a baby-sitting business. She can be irresponsible sometimes. We are really going to do this, but I have a few questions.
1. When would be a good time to start
2. A name? We had Iris Sitting Club because we do mother's helper, babysitting, and pet-sitting. Help?
3. Is 2 members enough? When I was little, I read the baby-sitters club books: this is the same thing except with mother's helper and pet-sitting
4. Any ideas? We need all the help that we can get!
5. There is an auction at my church, a service auction. We want to auction off a package of services, but how would it work? Which member? How much initially $ wise? How long?
HELP!
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