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best friend vs new friends
Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 11:39 pm
ive had the same best friend for 5 years now. weve had a few falling outs and we have always gone back to eachother. shes outgoing and makes friends easily where as me, im outgoing but i am not good at meeting people on my own (my friends are jess's friends) (jess has everyone over cause she has an amazing basement to hang out in) (i have no where for groups of people to hang out in) jess is wanting to have closer friends than just me. i would like to too. i am afraid to DEATH that i will loose her and i honestly cant imagine that. another problem is that jess always asks me to come over a few hours before she says to go over so if she doesnt call me that night, i dont go anywhere. i wait for her to plan cause its her house and shes the one...
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bestfriend and his new girlfriend?
Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 10:48 pm
okay, so i've been the best of friends with this guy name Caleb for about three years now.
i've always had feelings for him, but that's besides the point. He's a virgin, never done anything and well, his girlfriend on the otherhand, is a differnt story.
She's done it all, with several guys and he doesn't seem to care. at first he was just like whatever about her; and now he's telling me he's inlove with her. He's adorable and i'm happy for him, but he could do a lot better. she's a major whore, and he just can't get that through his head. she's just going to hurt him and he won't undertstaand that. any suggestions of me trying to talk him into breaking up with her before she hurts him?
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best friend to best enemy
Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 4:38 pm
I had a best friend who was a boy and I could tell him anything. We would hang out all day and in school pass notes and stuff, but then my other friend made a rumor about me that i liked him. He heard and it was a little awkward for a while and eventually got back to normal. That week another rumor was set about me and he wouldn't let it go. I asked him why he was upset with me and he said "The rumor" and walked away. He ignores me online and when I call him he doesn't pick up. He doesn't seem to care about me anymore. I try talking to him all the time but he is too caught up with being in the popular group to notice me and I was wondering how I could get him to talk to me. Some of my other friends think I did something to him and...
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new school
Posted Monday February 16 2009, 9:54 pm
ok so ive been home schooled for 2 or 3 years but now i go to a normal high school (im 13/f) and my cousins go there to so i hang out with them and there friends but i dont like there friends and there to old for me and im to shy to make some other friends so what do i do??
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What Should Be Done?
Posted Sunday February 15 2009, 8:48 am
You were working out a problem with friend or yours. He/she gets angry because of a few emails because you were telling him/her how you felt and all. You have this friend on your friends list. Boom this friend deletes you and your other friend for no reason. But you look back at the problem and see what went wrong. you find out you and your other friend are at fault somewhat, but the other person is more at fault for deleting you for no reason. Then you apologize to your friend that deleted you for no reason in an email, message, letters and did two cards and sent them in the mail. There is no reply to the emails or anything, but you were told it takes a while for your friend to get things. Does this mean things are okay between your frie...
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need peoples' opinions!
Posted Saturday February 14 2009, 8:01 pm
long story short, my best friend was acting really strange and un-like her usual self, so since i know her myspace password & email i logged into her account. I read her messages, and found out she had been forwarding some of the private, personal messages i sent to her, to other people! she was also talking really badly about me to behibnd my back.
My question is, do you agree with my being mad at her? I mean, she asked me what I thought about this guy, so i messaged her the answer, and then she forwarded my message to him! thats just one example. shes telling people things ive done and said that she promised to keep quiet. so, who is wrong here?
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Is it time to move on?
Posted Saturday February 14 2009, 11:17 am
Okay, I've had a best friend for three years. When we met, we were both the same. Awkward, losers with no social skills trying to find our way around. That was three years ago.
Since then, I have "come into my own", per se. I really like making new friends and stuff like that. However, my best friend hasn't changed a bit, and is starting to bother me. I've mentioned it to her before, casual suggestions, stuff like that, but nothing works.
It's really becoming a problem, because at this point, she doesn't have very many friends, so she sticks by my side. I love her, because she's always there for me, but she's anti-social and has NO idea how to act in social situations involving more than one person. E...
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PMS mood swings?
Posted Saturday February 14 2009, 7:41 am
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we made up AGAIN, but the next day we went to my house to play. But, she started to get really moody again. We decided to go downstairs to take some pictures and i suggested that we change our clothes. We changed and then Lo said, 'nevermind, i'm not going.' so we went to find Fi and asked her to come with us. We asked lo again if she wanted to come, she said no, even if shes gonna be alone at my house. So we went down and took a bunch of pics and had lots of fun, but when we went back up we asked if lo wanted to leave with Sarah, Dion and Fi. She said she'll go herself. THIS IS MY HOUSE, does she think if she wants to stay she can stay?! So after that sh...
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Clingy friend....
Posted Saturday February 14 2009, 12:49 am
17/F
I have known "Ashley" as an acquaintance for a couple of years. Last semester, we had an art class together, and we gossiped and talked a lot because we didn't know anyone else. I was never really close to her at all. However, at the beginning of the semester, I was very kind to her and invited her to hang out once in a while. I don't know how it happened, but now she won't leave me alone!
For instance, I invited her to my friend's swim meet, and she keeps calling it 'our thing' and she acts as if it had always been our thing (even though i used to go alone). She's constantly inviting herself to places with me. Like, today I had a movie date with my best guy friends, and she tagged along without...
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What are they doing?
Posted Friday February 13 2009, 6:37 am
For the last couple of days my friends(girls)are pulling out a notebook and when they do i have to leave. Are they writing in their diary, pushing me away, or doing somthing else? By the way I'm 13(m).
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My best friend is being a bi*ch (really long story)
Posted Friday February 13 2009, 3:36 am
I'm 13 and I have 5 best friends and in the group there's Fi, Sarah, Lo(my best friend), Dion and Nicole.
2 days ago while me, Lo and Fi were having lunch together (Dion has 2 sides, one is mine and the other is another group, so at lunch she sits with them, Nicole eats with Sarah and another girl.) So me and Fi were talking and Lo was really quiet, so we asked her what was wrong but she ignored us. We talked again and then asked her what's wrong again but again she ignored us. Then someone told us that she was mad at us because she thought we acted like she wasn't there, which was totally untrue. Then me and Fi sent her an apology sms. She replied with a 'what the??'. Then at choir practice she made up with Fi by asking Fi to sit w...
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So i just found out..
Posted Thursday February 12 2009, 9:04 pm
That my friend was taking naked pictures of herself. And im superr worried because i had NO idea she would do thiss. but i know because she sent it to a guy, and then the guy sent it to me. And i saw her face and everythingg..and i still havent told her because i dont think i should. But do you think i should talk to her about this? Or just leave it alonee?
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my friend's diet
Posted Wednesday February 11 2009, 10:49 pm
Hey I have a best friend who eats not so healthy food. He wants to play college baseball and in addition I am worried about his health. He is about 6 foot but I think 300 pounds. I am really worried about him. What can I say or do.
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married friends who cheat
Posted Wednesday February 11 2009, 5:40 pm
I am a 38 year old female.I have a long time friend, who I have worked with at two separate jobs. We both have older children. We have been involved in our childrens activities, and we have done a lot together such as shopping going to the beach and just hanging out. I have so much fun with her.I caught her having an affair with someone that I knew. Then, she confided in me, and told me of many, many affairs she has had. To the tune of about fourteen. At first I was angry but she would tell me, I was her best friend, and she needed to talk to me. Then it became like a book, I wanted to know more. Now, I am sick of it. I do want to be friends with her, because we can have so much fun and I am loyal to my friends. But it sickens me because of...
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ex best friend going to my church!
Posted Wednesday February 11 2009, 4:12 pm
so me and B were friends for three years, and then she started really messing up her life. she even ran away once, and her whole family was on my case because they thought i was hiding something, which i wasnt. i was just the last person to talk to her.
so a few months ago, im at my bf's house and she calls and starts yelling at me because i didnt tell her i had a boyfriend. which, to me, thats no big deal. she dates a new guy every week, and i dont even know about half of them until their long gone. and like i really care, anyways...
and then about a month ago, she texts me asking if i wanna come over. i told her i was staying the night at my bf's house. and she gets pissed and tells me that im neglegent and t...
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arguing.
Posted Tuesday February 10 2009, 10:59 pm
my friend, ashley, and i argue ALL THE TIME. i dont even really know why anymore. we'd been friends since about a year and a half ago, and we have these arguments, which turn into fights because i get pissed do easily. then when i get pissed, she gets pissed and it turns into a fight, and we end up not talking until the other one apologizes.
our most recent fight was because she said something and i commented on it, saying something i thought was true, and she proved me wrong and then we argued about that for a while. (this was on AIM) and then she wanted to change the subject cuz she was getting mad. so then she said something about herself, and i commented on that, but she misunderstood me, saying that i didnt know everythi...
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me and my bf`s freindship
Posted Tuesday February 10 2009, 9:31 pm
my name is alexus my question is me and my best friend have been friends for a year and a 1/2 we are like sisters but i feel that sometimes i love her more than that. A few months back i started having romantic dreams about her and me. Lately i have been wanting to tell her, but the fear of loseing her as a freind has held me back. Your the only person i've told. please help me.
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best friend is having a really rough life at the moment
Posted Tuesday February 10 2009, 9:24 pm
im 17/f best friend is 16.
3 years ago she smoked pot, not everyday but a lot. And last year she drank with me like lots of teenagers out there. Her parents(dad,step mom, birth mom already knew) found out around new years and she's been grounded since. they also called my parents and told them but my mom has done worse and said she'd feel guilty if she punished me.
So now her step mom tells her that it makes her sick to look at her, her dad says shes the biggest disappointment of his life, and her mother says shes an ungreatful spoiled B****.
Shes not a bad kid at all, she gets all A's and B's in school. She quit smoking because she hated it, she probably has one drink twice a year, she doesnt stay out late,...
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guy friends
Posted Tuesday February 10 2009, 8:11 pm
i have a friend and he is my best guy friend and i had a thing for him awile ago, he knew i did but he was dating someone then. Now he is not,so i wanna get him a gift for V-day,but i don't waht to think i like him becaue i don't. should i get a gift or not?
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partyyy
Posted Tuesday February 10 2009, 6:38 pm
ok so me and my friend are having a valentines party any ideas what to use as decoration please we don't have any money so hand made things would be great also she has a bf and u like one of his friends how should I address this?
13/f
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