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lost best friend
Posted Friday March 27 2009, 7:25 pm
i'm 14/f. theres this one guy i've been best friends with for almost 3 years. especially this year we've grown apart. we barely talk and i always feel like his last priority. and also i don't feel comfortable asking him for advice anymore because he yells at me and makes me feel worse. i really want to go back to how we used to be. and i've talked to him about it but it hasn't done much good. what should i do?
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My friend kissed me, and we are both girls
Posted Thursday March 26 2009, 8:48 pm
Sorry if this is too long, just want to give enough details.
I'm currently a freshman in an university and I've been friends with a sophomore girl for 8 months.
We have gotten really close. She is the type of girl that is very blunt and likes to speak her mind.
We are both very stubborn and reserved when it comes to our problems and feelings.
She just recently told me that she loved me, and considering the type of girl she is, it was a shocker.
We are always making fun of each other but we've helped each other like best friends.
I'm very picky when it comes to friends that I let in and get close, and so is she, in fact, she doesn't enjoy being around girls and she is<...
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What do I do!?
Posted Thursday March 26 2009, 2:00 pm
Okay so I was talking to my friend online, and her girlfriend pops up and asks me to go to a club with them.
It was kinda sudden, and caught be by surprise. I think it could be fun, but I've never been to a club before, and have no idea what to expect, or what to wear lol. I sort of define myself as a sort of nerdy/geeky guy, and usually wear just jeans, t-shirts and sneakers. I don't really have anything else.
I don't really know if I wanna go. I mean, I part of me wants too, but for some reason it just seems too weird
help?
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How come some people are good at keeping secrets?
Posted Thursday March 26 2009, 2:46 am
is it trained? is it rare to find people like that?
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can she be trusted after all?
Posted Thursday March 26 2009, 2:08 am
i have a new friend saly i met her 3-4 months ago and we got along a lot she tells me some of her secrets, but i havent told her any because i dont know if i could trust her yet and im waiting till i hang out with her, but to start out i told her about the some guys that are cute and yesterday, me and our new friend named ashley was walking to class and we saw the guy i think is cute and she says
saly:hey its james
me:i know
ashley:whos that?
saly:thats the guy she thinks he's cute, hes name is james
saly:haha remember what you told me about him? (i told her personal stuff about him)
me:oh haha yeah
saly:i cant tell you unless she tells you ashley
i know this is not a b...
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pushy guy friends
Posted Wednesday March 25 2009, 10:16 pm
(20/F) I'm the kind of girl that gets along better with guys than girls. I make guy friends quick and easily and I enjoy talking to them. The problem is, every guy friend I make now has an ulterior motive! Even a few days after meeting, they call all the time and ask me out on dates. I don't get it and I don't like any of them that way. I don't flirt, lead them on or even dress provocatively. I don't want to lose friendships by hurting them, but what are some ways I can stop this before it starts? How should I handle it when they do try to get closer?
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Former Best Friend
Posted Wednesday March 25 2009, 8:04 pm
Well I have this friend that I care about a whole lot. I've known her practically my whole life, but for various reason our friendship became problematic. One day I had agreed that I would make time so that we could go somewhere together because the guy she really liked was going to be there. I assumed she would go with someone else but as it turned out, she called me and I had made other plans. After that she transferred schools and I called her but she never picked up. One day after two months I finally spoke to her. It was a difficult conversation because she was telling me that I had changed over time for the worse. A while back I had poor self esteem and I guess I was a "poser" because of it. I took a lot of my frustration ou...
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borrowing
Posted Wednesday March 25 2009, 3:14 pm
i dont understand people.
how come people always come to me to borrow or use something?
like, someone once said, "oh i would ask so-and-so but so-and-so is too nice."
its not like i know the person any less than so-and-so unless the borrower just felt more comfortable with me? or doesnt care about.. i dunno.
i dont get it. what are your principles when it comes to borrowing other people's stuff?
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how to get closer to a new friend?
Posted Tuesday March 24 2009, 2:53 am
how can i be better friends with a new friend that i made recently?
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how can you open if..?
Posted Tuesday March 24 2009, 2:51 am
im a secretive person, and i dont like telling how i feel or basically open up/secrets so i keep stuff to myself. People blabbed my secrets in the past so im really paranoid about it till now. i dont really trust anyone, but i would like to believe some people can be trusted but how can i open up if they cant keep secrets? i keep getting those impressions from other people that they might not be able to keep secrets. But i wanna have a close friendship with my new friends what should i do?
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I need advice on a friend. Sorry if this is long.
Posted Tuesday March 24 2009, 12:45 am
I’m 16/f and I have this best friend Katie. (not her real name; she’s also 16) We became best friends in grammar school. We went to a small, private elementary school. There was another boy in our class, Ben. Katie and Ben never got along really well, but after 5th grade, they ended up going to a public middle school together, ended their feud and became friends (I was at a different school). She developed an intense crush on Ben and she firmly believed he was interested in her too. She made subtle advances but they never amounted to anything. Her friendship with him soon died after he became popular (in the time that I knew him, he was a friendless geek) and after he discovered that she liked him, but she apparently didn’t ge...
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Ex Friend
Posted Monday March 23 2009, 10:37 pm
What's the ultimate way to strate to an ex friend that you are completely over them, and dont care about anything they say or do? Like.. how would someone act? I want this person to feel like im the bigger person for not caring about the stupid gossip they start about me.
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'So-called' Friend
Posted Monday March 23 2009, 8:07 pm
WARNING: IF YOU DO NOT HAVE TIME FOR READING 3 PARAGRAPHS, THEN DON'T BOTHER!
I'm 14, but i usually don't interact with the whole high school drama thing. But, I have a complicated problem. So i had this friend, I'll call her M and my other friend, I'll call her N. So M and N are BFFs, and I'm friends with both of them. I had heard a lot of rumors that N hated me, but I ignored them. Then, a trusted friend, I'll call her K, told me what she wasn't supposed to tell me. M had had an AIM conversation with K about me. And she didn't like me. In fact, she said I was a follower, and copying her personality (BS). Worst of all, she called me selfish, and that really got to me. She said that N felt the same way. When M figured out tha...
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i hate him...
Posted Monday March 23 2009, 4:25 pm
right so i finnaly broke it off with my asshole "freind" (im 17 and a guy) he annoys me so much i hate HATE HATE!!!! him... he never took no for an answer i was allways wrong, even when i proved him wrong he started calling me shit. he's still trying to argue with me even though i told him to bite the big one.
apparently "im one in a million, his best friend" the bull shit sick list goes on and on... how do i tell him to leave me the f*** alone and then make him actually do it. he's like a super strength magnet that wont piss off when you want him to god damn he makes me mad
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Why All The Teasing? Should I Do Anything About It?
Posted Sunday March 22 2009, 9:05 pm
This is NOT a 'does he lyke me' question. This is a 'why's he acting this way? should I take action?' question.
I'm a girl who is 13 going on 14.
The guy the question's about is a boy who juuuust turned 15.
I've known this kid for a couple years now, our dad's have been friends since they were in diapers, all that happy stuff.
Before we never really saw each other often, but ever since he and my brother got to be better friends that changed... That was a year back.. Ever since then, he's teased me a bit, just typical playful teasing.
recently it's been more frenquent (every time I see him), and sometimes he crosses the line and makes fun of my behavior to a hurtful level, like "--Beca...
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A ****friend
Posted Sunday March 22 2009, 2:52 pm
I USED to have a girl i call best friend. Needless to say, i didn't realize that no such thing exists at the time, and worse i didn't realize how much I put into the relationship to keep it going. She lives in a book (literally she thinks this world is a fairytale) i am prone to be a stepover but i am not week i just don't know how to be in the middle... i am either so wicked or soooo nice. anyway i got in trouble needed her help (which wasn't worth the roller coaster ride she made me take). she didn't really help me out - i.e i didn't need her help i just told her in case something happens this this and that and it had NOTHING TO DO WITH HER at all!!!!! She then made it seem like i owed her the world and that i gave her so much to do and s...
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How to join this clique of friends?
Posted Saturday March 21 2009, 4:40 pm
There are these 4 girls in one of my classes and we're friends and stuff for the whole year so far. since the first day. I was friends with 1 of them since 7th grade though actually and two others I "kinda" knew. but they go and hang out after school but don't invite me. I mean they've been friends before I knew them, and like 3 of them went to band camp together so they always talk about memories from there and stuff. They're just really good people and are fun to hang out with but I dont get why I'm not like invited to go out and stuff with them. Like they talk about going to see a movie, and like Im there and its like they're talking about going to see it.. even though I said I wanted to see it too they don't ask me to go with ...
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Prom?
Posted Saturday March 21 2009, 11:57 am
I need some unique ideas on ways to ask a girl to prom! Please help ASAP!
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Friends that you don't want.
Posted Friday March 20 2009, 10:04 am
I don't know what to do with my friend!
I've been friends with this girl, lets call her Abbey, for a few years now. In year 8 we became close because I had no one else to talk to. She was always a big girl so the guys we'd sit with used to pick on her a lot and make her cry so I'd always comfort her and make her feel better. She never wanted to move away from them though, mostly because they were the only guys that gave her attention, which is pretty sad.
Anyway through year 8 she was just a real backstabber, like convincing one of our other friends that i was very close to that i was trying to get with her boyfriend (of course i was not) which led to me and this other girl growing distant, and just not a nice ...
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When its over
Posted Thursday March 19 2009, 4:59 pm
16/f
I've been friends with this boy for almost 4 months. Its got complictated to the point where he tells me he loves me and we talked all the time on the phone and through texts and everything and we were both really close. Suddenly, about a month ago he says he wanted a break, not just from me, but from everyone he said. I told him that he could cause i just wanted everything to be back to normal but he ended up not taking the break because he said that "he couldnt not talk to me", upon hearing this i got extremly happy. But, ever since this time things have not been the same. I havent talked to him on the phone like we used to and he doesnt really text me at all...I usually text him in the morning to say good mo...
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