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I Dont Really Know What To Do!!!!!
Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 3:45 pm
Well my grandma lives out of state so she e-mails me to see how i am doing. Well at the end of the school year she asked me how my last set of grades were because recently i told her i would probably finish with straight A's but i ended up finishing with all A's and a B. So when she asked me how i did she was saying how proud she would be if i got straight A's so i told her i did. And now she said she is going to send me big gift. idk what to do!!!! Please help!!!
-NayNayBby
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i got in ALOT of trouble!
Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 12:15 pm
14/ female.
okayyyy, so me and my friend like six months ago smoked a blunt at my house and took pictures doing it.. i know dumb idea, lol. so yesterday she saw them on her photobucket and decided to put them on her myspace. well, my brother has her as a friend and he saw the pics of me and her, and he copied the pic and sent it to my mom!
so my mom told my dad to loook at my friends myspace, but me and her had deleted it, but we didnt notice it was on her album cover, soooooooo we got screwed.
my mom had a talk with me and told me that she was upset and hurt that i did that but that she wasnt mad, but i did have to be grounded. ):
it wouldnt bother me much to be g...
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My Family and My Privacy
Posted Wednesday June 25 2008, 7:49 pm
15/f
Everybody has their own privacy limits.
My mom and my dad both sneak on my computer and look at what i do!
So does my brother.
My youtube account has this really big love speach and i poured my heart out in it. I like to keep myself annoymous and i dont like anyone to know who i am. My parents looked at my whole youtube account and theyre always asking me if they an use my computer.
I have no problem with that, but its not like i do anything bad.
Its just like your parents looking at your diary you know?
It feels really uncomfortable.
I have a boyfriend named dannis (well call him that for now)
They dont allow me to have a boyfriend (which brings me to my next subject)
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Posted Tuesday June 24 2008, 10:42 pm
A few months ago, i wrote on here about my mixed family.( I married my high school sweetheart after we both had previous relationships and children from them. Her kids were absolutly wild, never punished for anything in their life, just completely wreckless) Now my worst fears have come to reality and i am now facing a teen pregnancy with the youngest of my step daughters. Of course she is hysterical about the situation and wants to get an abortion. I am entirely against that and would never let my sons think that this is a way out of this kind of situation. her mom (my wife) is saying that she can do whatever she needs to do. Do i allow her to have the abortion or make her own up too her mistake?
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mom being a jerk
Posted Tuesday June 24 2008, 6:43 pm
I'm an 18 year old male, just graduated from high school. I made the mistake of speeding one too many times, and as a result, my license is suspended. Luckily, it got suspended right after I quit my job.
It's now summer. Naturally, like every other graduated senior, I like to stay out late with friends and my girlfriend. My mom has told me to call her when I end up staying the night somewhere, but I haven't been doing that because I don't want to wake her up (she wakes up early for work and needs her sleep).
She told me today that I need to get a job and come home by 1am every night. She is unwilling to take me to a job, so I don't know how I'd get there with a suspended license. And 1am? I'm 18, for goodness s...
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this is new to me
Posted Monday June 23 2008, 11:31 pm
Well, i have this best friend who is a guy. we met a couple years ago and get along great. he recently asked if it was okay with me if we could be friends with benefits. i like him a lot and so i agreed. neither one of us really wants to date, and we want to see how this goes and maybe we'll hook up later. =]
well, the thing is, i've never really done this before. my question is...are there any kind of "rules" or "establishments" that follows being friends with benefits? i don't understand really how it goes. (and yes i've had bf's before so i'm not completely clueless). the idea is new to me, so i just need some info.
16/f
thanks. :)
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how do i get my mum to buy me a mobile
Posted Monday June 23 2008, 10:10 pm
hi im not sure if this is in the right category but my mum wont get me a phone
ive tried everything but she wont seem to get me one
most of my friends have them and i want to keep in touch with them by textin and stuff but she keeps sayin u have to wait for christmas but that is 6 months away and i cant wait that long so can sum1 help me plz
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Posted Monday June 23 2008, 5:19 pm
im in foster care and my my real mum dies only last week i have councelling and professionsal help but i feel my life is going so wrong i was in hospital over an overdose im not feeling sorry for myself and please dont tell me its going to get better i want advice on how to die ??!
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do you think im talented i have bad nerves?
Posted Monday June 23 2008, 3:27 pm
this is a poem i did i have bad anxiety its not about me its one of these poems where you need to think what its about in a life situation im fifteen =] thanks
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Its only a voice she crenched with fear Dont make me feel superior Im only here.
Dont mutter my words dont Violate my space Dont touch my tears Dont Look at my face
Because Ill smile when Im Hated and ill frown when im not . Ill retaliate to your speech because when your so cold i feel so hot . Let me be here forever let us hold hands and open arms wide in this beautiful weather
she quoted and then sang she laughed and then smiled . For the ...
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my cousin
Posted Monday June 23 2008, 2:10 pm
basically my cousin had a bad start in life and ende up living with my family. everything was great, she found it hard to make friends with people though because she is always negative. if it was never her way it was no way, and she was abusive to everyone. you try to help her, give her a better life and it is just not good enough. we've been to doctors and they say her past life really doesnt have anything to do with how she is now its just because she is always negative. for example she doesnt understand that if you are going to be late - contact your family, or the fact she wanted to go to a friends house - she's only met once and then go home with the friends dad - a man we have never met. She thinks we try to destroy her life and she n...
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I dont know what to do=[
Posted Sunday June 22 2008, 7:51 pm
my situation is difficult im fifteen
and sometimes i feel im treated unfair
i suffer with bad anxiety causing me to drop out of school
and go to a hospital school
ive suddenly made friends with a girl my family used to like she shoplift. lied . backstabbed but she was my best friend and i made friends with her again
i feel like my social life is bieng ruined because of my nerves
and i feel like everydays just the same tbh pleas e help!
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DON'T KNOW IF I SHOULD LEAVE MY KIDS DAD
Posted Sunday June 22 2008, 5:42 pm
Hi, My current husband, father of 2 of my 3 kids is starting to treat me wrong. I am currently with him because I have a 7 month old baby. He started treating my 8yr old from a previous relationship bad. I can tolerate him treating me bad, but not my son. He is just a kid and he shouldn't take it on him. My son told me today that he kicked him and he denies it. I don't know who to believe and if I ask my husband he gives me grief. I have been with him since my son was 3yrs old. I don't let his real dad see him cause he wasn't there for me during the pregnancy.
I dont' know if I should believe my son or who...
Should I move out on my own?
Things are pretty bad now...Please advise.
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i hate my family
Posted Friday June 20 2008, 4:23 pm
i hate my family they are always so mean to me and i dont know what to do. i watch my neice three times a week for like and hour not adding the time in the day when my bitch sister is here and i get paid 5 dollars every time but when i get in a fight with my sister my mom always gets mad at me and i gte in trouble and its soooo not fair. i feel like running away but i know i would nt be able to survive im sooooo sick of my life. i dont know what im supposed to do. what do u think i should do!!!!!
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Destin florida vacation.
Posted Thursday June 19 2008, 8:54 pm
so my family and i are going to destin for vacation. and were looking for things to do. our youngest is 15. we'll be staying in the sandestin resort. I was wondering what good prices for renting jet skis/waverunenrs are. and possibly the best places to rent them from. also if you have any other recommendations on what to do while staying in destin that would be great! all help is wanted.
thanks in advance! =)
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My Sister
Posted Thursday June 19 2008, 3:36 pm
I'm 16/f and I'm through fighting with my sister. She's 19 and I'm to the point where I'm just done. I can't argue with her because she's "always right". I can't talk to my mom because she's kind of upset that we fight all the time. My dad is getting sick of it to. I could say I'm not the bratty sister til I'm blue in the face but if I'm a brat then she's just awful. It will be the simplest thing and she goes off on this rant about how I'm incompetent to do anything and I will actually agree with her, but she keeps going. It's like talking to someone who uses their age and their one-year college (and driving!) experience, against you to the point where she honestly believes I'm an idiot. My question is How do I stay out of her way...
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what do i do about my parents?
Posted Thursday June 19 2008, 2:55 pm
okk, i am indian and i am a teenager, and i am 14 years old. My parents are lyk really strick, now its summer holidays and my friend is having a party today,so i asked them if i could go and they said no! IT always lyk this they dont let me hang out with my friends, and i am a teenager and i want to hang out with my frinds. THey believe that having friends is a bad thing and they are going to ruin my life or something. And they dont even know my frinds they are really nice and stuff. But i tried explaining to them and they said no u have to follow our indian culture and blah blah. and i was lyk how i culture realated to hanging out with my friends. I feel trapped they dont let me see my frinds or even go to the movies with them. So what do i do to let them go a little easy on me? plz help
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Posted Thursday June 19 2008, 8:13 am
16/f. I just found out that my mom cheated (or wanted to cheat) on her boyfriend of many years. He is in rehab for drinking and driving and has been in there since about late fall of last year. My mom is 36 yrs old and likes to party on weekends with my best friend's mom and some other people. That doesnt bother me, I like seeing my mom have a good time but my best friend told me last night that she overheard her mom talking about how my mom wanted to hook up or did hook up with my bfs mom's boyfriends friends. (Sorry for the confusion lol) And I've been thinking about it since she told me and it really bothers me. I never saw my mom as a cheater. My mom lives with in my grandparents basement but has an appartment that is for her boyfriend ...
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LAW
Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 2:53 pm
I am 17 years old. I was 16 when this happened, i went to Andover, Ohio with a friend to get her computer fixed. (an hour and half away) My father new, who i was with, where i was at, and had a number to get a hold me at. He called the cops on me because i didnt get home until late it took for ever to fix her computer. He told the cops he didnt know were i was he didnt have a number to reach me. ( it was in his cell phone and written on the board at my house.) basically claimed i was missing. when i returned home i got out of a car in my parking lot and walked to my door and a cop pulled up who had been sitting in the parking lot waiting. well now i have to go to court on monday.
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my stepmom and mom
Posted Tuesday June 17 2008, 6:55 pm
I need help. So my dad got remarried like 5 years ago. Well, my stepmom is kinda cool. She really tries to be nice to me and my sister and i like spending summers there. Well, id like to be closer to her but my mom all she does is talk bad about my stepmom. She is always making nasty comments about her and my dad. I love my dad and my mom and my stepmom and I want a relationship with all them. How can I get my mom to stop talking about my Dad and stepmom? Ive told my school councelor and she told me that its really bad to say hateful things about the other parent to the kids. I told my mom this but she does it anyway. I need advice
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Should I go on a planned family vacation or help my mom?
Posted Tuesday June 17 2008, 6:18 pm
My family (husband and 2 kids) have not had a real family vacation in 8 years. My kids asked to go to Disney World. They are ages 15 and 12. I booked a 1 week vacation about 4 months ago. We are scheduled to leave June 28th. My mother has since been diagnosed with stage 4 ovarian cancer. Her surgery is June 27th. My only sibling is flying to NJ from CA to be with my mom. I told my husband to go on the Florida trip without me because I felt that the right thing for me to do would be to stay with my mother. He is refusing to go without me and blaming me for ruining our vacation. Is it right for him to blame me? We can’t cancel without losing a lot of money. We will not be able to book another trip anywhere in the near future because fuel pr...
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