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Ugh... SO not the "highest form of flattery" :/
Posted Monday May 4 2009, 7:37 pm
I have this friend. Well, we USED to be best friends. However, throughout a couple years, I've kind of matured a bit and learned a lot and what not. She hasn't. So we're growing apart. The thing is, she is and always has been copying me. When we first met, she made friends with all of my friends. She got her hair dyed and cut to match mine, she was interested in all the guys I was, she called us "twins" all the time, and she basically did ALL the same stuff as me ALL the time. Yeah, yeah I know it's supposed to be the highest form of flattery, but to me, it's the highest form of annoyance. I don't know why I put up with it for as long as I have. Well, over Christmas I got a brand new phone which I had been waiting FOREVER for. It ...
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My friends boyfriend hates me
Posted Monday May 4 2009, 4:46 pm
Well my best friends boyfriend and me used to like really close then recently me and him grew apart and he has been a complete ass to me. He asked my friend not to talk to me that much anymore and if she listens to him i dont know what im going to do. But she would never break up with him and if he said he was going to break up with her cuz of me i no she would never talk to me again cuz she really loves him. what do i do?
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if you have a problem.....?
Posted Monday May 4 2009, 4:26 am
if you have a problem would you want your friend to force/get it out of you or just gives up and wait till you tell them? and why?
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Do they all hate me?
Posted Sunday May 3 2009, 1:31 pm
I have this group of friends that dont go to my school that i love to hang out with. yesterday we all went to the park and got pretty drunk. I ended up making out with this guy for ages. He supposedly had forced this girl to have sex with him quite a while ago and that girl was really angry at me. Now shes still really angry at me for making out with him. Everyone wants to go out in a couple of days and i dont know wheter to go or not because that girl has turned a few people agaisnt me.I really like that group of people and i think this girl is blowing the whole situation out of proportion , when really its nothing. she wasnt dating this guy, infact she hates him because he 'forced' her into sex. I really dont now wheter to go out with them or to just leave that group behind ?!? help. :(
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What to do when you cant handle whats going on with your life?
Posted Sunday May 3 2009, 6:23 am
my friend is really stressed and sad she said handle whats going on with her life right now what can i do or any advice to help make it feel better?
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Birthday Party Help
Posted Saturday May 2 2009, 9:49 pm
16/f I want to have a big birthday party this year to make up for my complete lack of a party last year. The problem is that I don't have anyone to help be plan a party, and aside from that, I have a limited number of friends who don't know one another very well and belong to different cliques. Is there a good way to bring all my friends together for a party with minimal awkwardness. Also, any sort of party suggestions are welcome.
PS- my birthday's in two weeks but I'd probably having the party the week after that.
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Responding to Compliments
Posted Saturday May 2 2009, 1:14 am
21/f
Sometimes people tell me I am pretty/gorgeous/beautiful and I don't know what I'm expected to say. I just say "Thank you" now but it feels so awkward. I feel like they're just trying to build up my confidence because I am very fat. It kind of insults me because I don't want somebody to lie to me to try to make me feel better. What should I say? How should I get over being upset about it?
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Why is it so hard to talk to others and to make friends!!!
Posted Friday May 1 2009, 4:52 pm
I'm a 15 year old girl.. and it seems like ugh. I dont know. I dont have much friends because I have friends in different cliques. I'd love to have 1 clique but its not like that right now. im so happy to move next year cause im sick of how it is in my school. but when you have friends in diff cliques they hang out with their cliques and then i end up with nowhere to go, feeling like a loser. i mean i used to kinda have a clique last year but its so hard to find such genuine friends. im a good friend to everyone, but like it depends if they want to be friends with me. maybe people like people who are like hard to be friends with? i dont know. people think im eccentric and stuff sometimes and i know im like that, i like how i am and stuff, s...
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Posted Thursday April 30 2009, 9:57 pm
hey, there are this 2 gurls ,one of them is balck and huge and the other one is skinny and long hair. when they see me give a kiss to my boyfriend they always sem to say something. and in class sometimes they look at my friends and me and they start mumbling and then they start laughing. i dont know whats soo funny. i dont want to go up to them beacuse then the whole class will know . thats how loud they are. if you were in this situation what would you do ?
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HOW TO PAY BACK OR DO ANYTHING AT ALL????
Posted Wednesday April 29 2009, 7:45 pm
Well I have these guys who are like my brothers and they go to my school I'm just a grade lower than them. Well this week was just typical with them we'd joke around and hang out, but today they all of a sudden don't wanna talk to me. I text one of them and asked why are you mad at me and he replied quote "Im not mad im juz done wit u" what is that suppose to mean? and I replied wut u mean. (He never replied)But I haven't done or said anything to or about them and I mean NOTHING if I did I have no clue what it was, but I know how they joke around even on serious occasions and I thought 15 year olds would've grown up by now and that maybe they're playing about the whole situation. How should I react to this because deep down inside...
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should i dismiss her out of my life
Posted Monday April 27 2009, 5:21 pm
well i met one of my ex-besties on my birthday we was thick as theives i even began to diss my best friend for her i mean i loaughn i cried and everything with girl so out hte blue she calls me and says i dnt think this friend ship is workn out i mean it hurted but al along i knew it was coming when she became back friends with her other friend so then she tried to say when i didint have nobody she was there 4 me but the thing was vice versa i mean she contradicts herself everything she says i do wrong she does the same thing im jus wondern if leavn her in the past is a good idea
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how do i deal with my friend?
Posted Sunday April 26 2009, 5:44 pm
i have a best friend. she is always there for me and i trust her with everything. i often hang out with her alot. She is fun sometimes and a copy cat the next. she is always wanting to get the same things i want and crushes on the same guys i like. i try to be a unique person but, i cant when she gets everything i get. how do i deal with her?
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my best friend
Posted Saturday April 25 2009, 5:13 pm
14/f
i'd known my best friend ever sense we were in kindergarden but didnt start actually becoming frineds until 3 grade then in 6th grade we were inseperatble. ever sense we entered high school. she's getting on ym nerves and acting like a total bitch. everythime were eating lunch. shes makes all these comments and mocking all ym new frineds. like this one girl she was haveing problems with this other girl there were frineds but she like pissed her off for no reson and know she is sitting at our table. the girl is really nice and has some problems and can somtimes be anyoying. but my best friend keeps making all theses commt and shizz and its really anyoying me becasuse she doesnt even know the whole story. and its getting onmy nerv...
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guy ive know for like 2 years?!!?
Posted Friday April 24 2009, 9:23 pm
13/female
Okey dokey...I've know this guy for like 2 years now and we pretty much everything bout each other! He's a few years older then me and I really like him! Right now we are just extrem good friends! He has a girl friend but yet we talk on the phone for like 3 hours every other night or so and we talk about how we wanna have sex with each other and everything! So what should I do?? Lol
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A BOY I LOVE
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 12:34 am
OK SO HERE I GO I WAS DATING THIS GUY FOR ABOUT A
YEAR,THE DAY BEFORE V-DAY 2009 HE TELLS ME THAT HE
IS IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE AT FIRST I WAS LIKE SPEECHLESS,THEN THE NEXT DAY IT HIT ME I GOT MAD THAT I TOLD HIM OFF HOW BIG OF ASS HE WAS TO DO THAT TO ME.So a few months later he text me and
wanted to stay friends i agreed to stay friends i dont know why mabe because part of me wants him back.But now things are ackward because he will text me and ask me to go hang out with and he will this person he left me for.So how can stay friends with him if i am always going to feel ackward when i am around him.. i dont know what to do please help me....
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can someone tell me who's right!?
Posted Wednesday April 22 2009, 9:15 pm
So my friend is considered a so called "slut" just because she had sex with her boyfriend, i dont care if she did or not. But everyone is telling me she's not innocent. Am i just not looking correctly?? By the way im only 13 n a half and so is my friend.
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my gay best friend and i have had an intimate moment.
Posted Wednesday April 22 2009, 5:41 pm
i'm a female who is 20 and my two best friends i talk about in this are both 20 and gay.
About six months ago, i was having a HUGE fight with my best friend. The next day I asked my other best friend if I could come and stay the night because i was just emotionally a wreck and he knew the whole entire story. He said yes, so after he got off work at 11 i went down to stay with him. He's gay and has been my best friend for about a year and a half now. my other best friend (the one i was fighting with) is gay also.
anyway, i went to his house which isn't unusual, considering i'd stayed at his house a million times before. he has a little twin size bed and we usually cuddle in it and go to sleep. well, we wer...
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my bffe is going off with this girl
Posted Wednesday April 22 2009, 4:21 pm
my bffe chloe is going off with another girl called tania and she is gonna get into trouble and im just afraid that my bffe will stopping being my bffe. me and my bffe have been friends for 12 years and her mum doesn't like this tania girl. and to be honest i don't shes always threatining me and shes always telling chloe to start with me and just today chloe started trying to hurt this little girl i just want my bffe back not this horrible plastic slut and i want her to just stop being evil and saying she hates her mum for no reason. the reason i hear you ask why i hate tania is because today she pulled the handle down on the quad door and i was stood there and i banged my elbow and i fell and i was upset and in class she said to me that wa...
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Posted Wednesday April 22 2009, 2:20 am
hey!
ok so on myspace i wrote am happy and am better then you . and thiq qurl started qoinq crasy and she put "girl am way better than you. there aint a person thats better than me so take a gun and shoot youself." i was like omg is this gurl nuts or something. nd i didnt wrote that im better the you because of her but i guess she thought it was for her. i wanna ask her wats her problem but i dont want her thinking am visiting her profile .
what should i do ?
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best friend stealing all boy intrests?
Posted Tuesday April 21 2009, 9:33 pm
ok so my best friend seems and i are extremely close.she knows well everything about me and the same goes for me and about her.well it seems as though every time i tell her i like again she seems to be crushing on the same guy lets say a day or two later.she even sometimes tells me the same day i told her.it started about last night at first it didnt bother me much.we are some kids and boys dont phase me.but then she started doing it to my other friends.even our one friend who rarely admits her feelings or such.thats when it started really making me mad.then i got over it.well now i like this guy new guy we will call him pretzel boy(he works at a pretzel shop haha) he is 17 and im gonna turn 15 in a few months so only a few months.well now ...
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