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god


Posted Sunday July 6 2008, 7:17 pm

my dad is ALL about god and i am not really into god and stuff. Sense i am just a kid and my parents are divorced and i am forced to go w/ him even though i don't like it and he always takes me to church which i hate. he is also pulling my sis into it (who isn't even his kid)! nobody's w/ me except my mom who dosen't do the whole god thing and i'm scared to talk to him what should i do?>>>>

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I've been really freaked out about a lot of things......


Posted Sunday July 6 2008, 1:14 pm

(not sure if its th right topic)...and its bugging me!!When Im home alone at night i feel like someone is watching me in a creepy way...When i get into my car i feel like someone got in the back and we dont know and....when im at a store or walking home from school i feel some one might kidnap me....when im asleep i feel some one will break in a kill my mom or me...sometimes when we get home at night and the lights are all out that when we walk in someone is in there and will try to kidnap..rape..or kill me and my mom...im afraid my mom will die because shes my bff and we couldnt be closer than ever and i feel if my mom dies my world would shatter and id think to myself i hav no reason to live and....well you know....i dont see myself livin...

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Should I move out?


Posted Saturday July 5 2008, 9:20 pm

I am a 17 year old young woman, who has a steady and loving, (but not yet sexual) relationship with my boyfriend of 18. We have been going out for a very long time now, and I know how silly it sounds but I really do think I love him.

My parents on the other hand do not. They don't even know I have feelings for him. The thing is, we were together for a bit and then I moved away, and we decided to cut it off. During this time I had a few non-serious relationships.

Three years later we moved back, and to my horror he and his ex girlfriend were having a baby. I decided to talk to him because a close friend told me that he hadn't been talking to anyone since they found out. To be honest it was heart wrenching to...

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Long Lost Dad


Posted Saturday July 5 2008, 8:27 pm

Okay i feel weird asking this but none of my friends can help so heres the sitch....
I am almost 16 * 2 months and six days* My real dad left when i was 3 and i havent had contact with him or his family since, now affter 13 years his mom * my grandma i guess* finds me on myspace and wants to be my friend and wants me to call her and stuff. I kinda want to but i dont know if i should since they didnt want to be part of my life for so long. SO yeah what would you do if you were me???

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what do i do?


Posted Saturday July 5 2008, 7:17 pm

my dad always yells and never listens because he thinks he's always right. He also get drunk alot and starts yelling and fighting. so most of my life is one big fight. when we are not fighting, im by myself. when we ask him why he drinks so much he say's because he was mad. my mom never cares about us unless it's convenient for her. she never listens, she never cares, and she even said these exact words," the world will stop for me when i want it to." but our parents think that we're little devils when it's really them and we're wrong because we are kids and they are adults. and my sister thinks she's gonna be famous! she tells me that she's prettier than me all the time. she tells me that i need to lose weight when she's actually...

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My Mum saw


Posted Saturday July 5 2008, 10:20 am

hi so my mum saw some girls clothes in my room and thinks i have been wareing them (i have not worn them they are my gf's she left here) what do i do or say to my mum

Thanks People

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sisters


Posted Friday July 4 2008, 10:56 pm

i have a problem. im the oldest, and of three younger girl sib. and my second sister always gets all the attention from the other ones. i feel left out. and shes like my best friend. so everytime i try to have fun i cant because shes allways the center of attention. even though they are supposed to be looking up at me not her. ehmygawsh. :( what should i do about this?

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losing someone


Posted Friday July 4 2008, 7:10 pm

I just found out my grandfather will be passing away soon. I cant think of any songs to listen to about losing someone special like he is. any ideas?



thanks

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My Mom Is Crazy


Posted Friday July 4 2008, 3:31 am

Im 13 i dont have a dad he left 4 years ago. Im not close with my family no matter how hard I try to be. Things are getting bad with my mom. Shes compulsive. Shes obsessed with her house. For example if i need something (clothes, things for school which i dont ask for these things alot) she always says she doesnt have the money yet she bought a $3500 floor & now shes getting our entire outside of the house done. And she just got a new floor 3 months ago and the outside of the house redone last summer. Shes just blowing money she claims she doesnt have. I cant live at home cuz she yells at me for everything. If i walk on the carpet after she vacums i get yelled at & its the same thing if i get finger prints on the mirror. its stupid....

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my stepfamily


Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 5:31 pm


so ive asked questions on here before about my stepmom and family sit or whatever but here I am again. so..
Im supposed to be going to my dads in Nevada in like 2 weeks. im way excited because i love my Dad and miss him like crazy. I also love my stepmum but havent been real close with her and want to be. any ideas of some fun stuff her and I can do together? My mom is still being nasty about mhy dad as usual but after tlking with a skool councelor and stuff i know she acts this way because she is kind of jealous that my dad has remarried and is happy and she hasnt done that yet so i just ignore her. any ideas for stuff to do in that area? thnks!

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overbearing parents


Posted Tuesday July 1 2008, 10:50 pm

i really wanna put some blue in my hair. not the whole head, just like, underneath so it'll show when its up in a ponytail and when i straighten my hair. but my parents INSIST that i cant. how can i convince them to let me due my hairr???
HEELPP!

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Parents


Posted Tuesday July 1 2008, 10:48 pm

I am a 13 year old girl. My only wish for my parents is that they could have been better discipline wise. There is still time for that to happen, but I don't think it will. Now don't think I am some spoiled little brat. I may be a lot of things, but that sure isn't one of them! I never have been as I have a genuine like for people and treat them with respect. Also my parents did not spoil me. I like to earn things. Believe me, I have been punished. And if I feel I deserve more I punish myself. Trust me on this too, if I started sneaking out and sleeping around, they most likely would send me away somewhere. But I just wish when I was younger (like 5-9) that they're punishments were harsher.
Of course, my mom went into deep depressio...

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Questioning the defenition of bisexualaty


Posted Tuesday July 1 2008, 5:34 pm

I have recently told my mom i am bisexual. I have a girlfriend she doesn't know about. But occasionally i am attracted to men, and i have had boyfriends. she says bisexual means to have sex with men and woman. I say it means to able to have a relationship more than friends with a man and a woman. Well me and my girlfriend are both 'bisexual'. We are also both virgins. so how is it my mom thinks shes right? I need the right definition, or if my mom or me is right. Please-------help!!!!

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Trust


Posted Tuesday July 1 2008, 2:59 am

14/female, almost 15 in 4 months! :) .. Well, how do i get my mom to trust me with my guy friends. Which by the way are all like 16, 17, 18. Thanks! (:

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How far is too far?


Posted Monday June 30 2008, 9:09 pm

When its comes to parents snooping around in their kid's business, how far is too far?

A few months ago I found out my own mom had searched/read my diary, any school notes from friends hidden in drawers, snooped onto my Myspace, Facebook, and Xanga, and even talked to some loose lipped friends about things I had done when I had given her no previous reason to not trust me. It has even gone as far as her texting my boyfriend and asking how far we've gone.

For a while, I wanted to appear more bad ass so I faked things on my Myspace and Xanga lying about sneaking out, drinking, sexual experiences, smoking etc. to fit in with friends. Well my mom found these and grounded me for weeks when in reality I hadn't actual...

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mom answers Q: is she right


Posted Monday June 30 2008, 1:20 pm

I have currently exclaimed to my mother that I am Bisexual. I am recently a virgin. However she says that 'bisexual' means to have sex with a guy and a girl. I think it means to be attracted to girls and guys (like liking them). But she says i'm wrong. I have a girlfriend(i am a girl), and she doesn't know about it. I am not a lesbian, i just like girls and guys. I ve had boyfriends, and now i have a girlfriend. Is her answer correct or is mine.

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acceptance is questioned


Posted Monday June 30 2008, 12:51 pm

i recently told my best friend im bi along with a few other people and now i sorta have a girl friend so i guess if i dont want to completly hide the fact that i have one, from my parents and be all suspicious so i probably have to tell them...i just dont know how. i could just randomly tell them and i think my mom will be ok with it but im a little worried about what my dad will say and they probably wont let my girlfriend stay over since now they just think we're friends. anyway i will eventually tell them so if anyone has any suggestions how that would be good.
-and another thing, i dont care that my peers know or anything, im just freaked out about my family knowing------please help

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Parents=SEX?


Posted Sunday June 29 2008, 12:12 am

I have this thing with my parents having sex when i am home its never happened but i am always it will. they havent done it for awhile i knwo this for a fact. but this all started when i went through my moms inbox & my dad her were sending txt messages that said " do me" "blow me" "lick me" i comfronted my mom about this & she said it was a joke but now i have grown father apart. i just dont know what to do i balled my eyes out i can tell you this. PLEASE HELP!! what do i do do i tell her it still upsets me?

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my parents!


Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 11:50 pm

15/f
my parents are so strict,
i dont know what to do to change it.
i got 2 a's on my report card and the rest b's and tehre mad. they dont want me to have a bf cause im "too young", even though everyone else has one. and the other day i couldnt sleepover at my friends cause my mom didnt know her, except fro teh fact she saw her late at night with guys.
they suspect i go out and drink, or they think i hang around wtih people that do(but they do)but they know im responsible, like they dont trust me at all! like they dont want me to drink at all, even thought i KNOW they did when they were my age. there so strict and its not like they just get over it, like if i had a boyfriend theyd go tell all my aunts...

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summer homes


Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 4:00 pm

i wanna convince my parents to buy a summe home in pensacola florida
or someone around there
and i want it to be like off the ocean or close to it with a pool
but idk what to google
cause i try like second home in pensacola florida but it doesnt give me like the right thing
and idk what you would call it.
and also the houses are realllly expensive cause its buy the ocean
and also we would buy it with my aunt and uncle
helllllllllp!

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