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Terrified, in need of help.
Posted Friday December 25 2009, 8:43 pm
I had protected sex with my boyfriend three days after the end of my period. I am not taking birth control. It's been over a week and a half and for the past couple days I have been experiencing side cramps, bloating, and back aches. I am terrified that I could be pregnant. People I am talking to say that I am not pregnant and that I am convincing my mind to believe I am and anxiety is what is causing these pains. I might have swollen breasts but I can't tell. I have decided to not have sex anymore because it is not worth the agony. I don't want to be told to see a doctor. I'm looking for personal opinions that might be able to put me at ease. Please help. I'm so scared.
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I.just.don't.like.sex.
Posted Friday December 25 2009, 7:42 pm
I don't like sex at ALL and I feel that my girlfriend is really pressuring me into it. I told her my past experiences led me to be this way (among other things) and I don't want to hurt her feelings. How can I tell her to just back off?
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What can Happened?
Posted Thursday December 24 2009, 5:07 pm
i was in my friend msn and i was cheking his mail because he told me to. i was scrolling down and clicked on the mail and i saw 3 pictures of a girl with bras and panties only...if i report that what can happened?
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if you commit suicide is your will and testament still uphold?
Posted Wednesday December 23 2009, 10:04 pm
I am alone in my room and I cannot kick the thought of suicide. Now that I have had some time to think things through ,commiting suicide needs to be planned. Recently I was found hanging from my belt in a closet and I think it should've been planned properly. I was so close .my body got numb and I didn't feel a thing. Unless you have really felt like this you cannot understand what this feels like. Someone who is for real about committing suicide does not care anymore about how it will affect the rest of the people around you. So do you think my testament will be honored if I ignored everyone when I was here?
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i hate my family
Posted Tuesday December 22 2009, 4:18 pm
I am 15/f and i hate my family. This isn't a "teen rebellion" thing, i cant stand it here. My only sibling is in college, and when hes gone, its better but still bad. When hes home, my life is hell. Im sensitive and he makes fun of me and my insecurities, he embarasses me in front of my friends, he drinks and yells at me, and i hate it. My parents are always fighting because my mom tries so hard and it stresses her so she takes it out on me by yelling at me and teling me in worthless and she doesnt want me here. My dads an alcoholic and drives when drunk and he totals his car a lot and we have money problems. Every night i cry myself to sleep and i want to get away from here. I cant live here, its killing me. Ive wanted to commit ...
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rape
Posted Tuesday December 22 2009, 6:11 am
15/f
he's 18 in a month, i just turned 15. i went to his house and we were fooling around. he never forced anything on me so when i suddenly yelled no and wait and he did it anyway i...well it hurt...and then i went numb. afterwards i couldn't walk and my voice was shaking and my entire body trembling. i tried getting away but somehow my legs gave out. then he realized what he did and apologized over and over again. i said it was ok....he wants to meet next saturday. after he did it my entire body was trembling and i was breathing so hard i couldn't cry. i was just.....idk. i know it was my fault for not being more assertive. but i didn't expect him to. he knew i didn't want to and apologized afterwards saying he was sorry fo...
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can a virgin be pregnant
Posted Tuesday December 22 2009, 5:48 am
i had sex with my girl and sperm entered through the entrance of the vagina but the penis did not penetrate the hymen.can the girl be pregnant?
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I'm not a tease, I want him sexually.
Posted Monday December 21 2009, 12:25 am
19-female. I think I made a mistake and I honestly don't know how I can fix it. So i'm going to say first off - don't tell me not to do anything, etc. I am 19 years old, I do make good decisions but I just need advice on one thing! So please just answer the question without the preaching. :) I'll return the favor since it may be long ..Thanks!!
So i've had a crush on my friend for about 3 years now. He's honestly the only guy that I can trust. Me and him, we're both attractive to each other, its apparent and we have messed around before if you want to call it that, he's felt me up before .. we flirt nonstop like physically we just have fun with each other but about two years ago is when he first tried really getting with me, ...
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Discharge
Posted Sunday December 20 2009, 11:13 pm
Ok this is gross but I'm going to be detailed lol.
20/f
I seem to have a lot of vaginal discharge. There is NOT any itching, burning, pain, smell or anything like that, just discharge.
Here is for the more detailed part, it is white/clear when it comes out but when there is some on my underwear and it dries it is yellowish.
I guess the reason it bothers me is because it gets a lot on my underwear and I don't want my boyfriend to get grossed out by it.
I've had this for honestly as long as I can remember and so when I recently had a pap smear I didn't mention it because I didn't really think about it as abnormal until I heard some stuff about discharge lately. The pap smear came back normal.
Any thoughts?
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what are my chances...
Posted Sunday December 20 2009, 8:37 am
so say your on birth control and then you needed to take a medicine pill that would cancel the birth control but you still took your birth control everyday. you have sex he cums in you more than once is it like cummin in me like regular sex with nothing for protection?
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sex..question?
Posted Saturday December 19 2009, 11:18 pm
so...this may be an awkward question, but, how come, whenever you have sex, it kinda, hurts a little bit inside, and makes it feel like you have to go to the bathroom??
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that was fast
Posted Saturday December 19 2009, 9:57 pm
me: 17f
him: 16m
so, ive been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months. and all we have done is make out, he feels me up.. and thats it. like nothing sexual. but today, i went over his house and we were making out.. first, it was just me like on his lap, then somehow he ended up laying down and i was straddling him. [he had jeans on, i had jeans on] and we kept making out. then he was like, here, lay down. [we were on a couch] and i was like.. uhm, where. and he was like, ontop of me haha. so im like laying ontop of him and we're still making out.. and then like idk, hes feeling me up all over. and i kissed his neck and i think he kinda like, shuttered. then after a little we kinda just stopped, and like we sit apart.. an...
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from my sister(twin)
Posted Saturday December 19 2009, 9:11 pm
When is it a great time to have sex?
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On Yaz, used a condom but worried about pregnancy
Posted Saturday December 19 2009, 1:35 am
I have given a lot of thought and my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We are both each others first. I have been on Yaz now for almost 2 months because I used to have a VERY irregular period. We had sex for the first time in November and then about a week before that first period (on the pill) the condom slipped off. I did get my period on the 4th day of the placebos, it was heavy and dark for about 5 days. For some reason this month though, I have had breast tenderness and I have had to pee a lot plus just lately I haven't been feeling well. I am supposed to get my period next week but I'm nervous that I might somehow be pregnant. I have a pregnancy test but I don't want to take it this early since I know it's not as...
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pain before sex
Posted Friday December 18 2009, 4:05 pm
hey see I am kinda worrying because I am a virgin does it hurt to have sex for the first time??
someone who has please give me advice on how it feels.. because I think my friend is wrong
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Pressured into sex.???? help!!!!
Posted Thursday December 17 2009, 4:47 pm
I think I am being pressured into sex.. I have a boyfriend who just wants to have sex sex sex sex sex SEX!! and I am getting tired of telling him no! I am too young I am only 14(8months). we been together only 7 months and all he ever ask about is sex sex and more sex.. what do i do??? I feel he is not going to respect me if do manage to have sex with him after a while....
I NEED HELP !
Im NOT readyy!!!
-Jay Help!
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ejaculation for girls?????
Posted Thursday December 17 2009, 9:51 am
16/f
weird to say, but is it normal for a girl to erect just like how guys do? i hear that it's like wanting to urinate, but for some odd reason it never happened to me before.. i still don't think it does? but ever since i took plan b.. after sex, white stuff comes out of me.. it's not liquidy it's more like kinda gooey or something? i can't really describe it.. the only thing that worries me is that it comes out ALOT. not as much as it did a month after i took plan b, but it still comes out. is that normal? did plan b do something to my body?
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Masturbation Ideas
Posted Wednesday December 16 2009, 8:34 pm
What Are Some Diffrent Ways To Masturbate??
Good Songs While Doing it?
lol, Just Curious:)
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Suicide
Posted Wednesday December 16 2009, 7:53 pm
I'm seriously contemplating suicide right now, and have been for a long time now. I'm not at all happy with my life, and I'm tired of people saying that you can "change" your life to make you happier, or whatever.
I've taken lots of courses, and read lots of books on self-improvement, and things to make you happy. And so far, it's been all bullshit as far as I'm concerned. They only give me temporary hope, and I'm back to feeling how I was.
I seem to stop the people closest from me to do what they want. I get in the way with of my brother, mother, stepfather, and father. I generally don't get along with people, no matter how much I try to ever since I was a kid. I don't see it changing any time soon.<...
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I need advice about my vagina...
Posted Tuesday December 15 2009, 10:40 pm
ok so i'm really embarrassed to ask this but i've got this dangly thing kind of beside my vagina. it's attached to my labia but i can't feel it or anything.And it's not like that on the other side...i really hate it...is this normal or not?
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