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I just found out,
Posted Monday May 25 2009, 3:42 pm
I just found out, that my BESTFRIEND is bi.
I mean, i thought she was for the longest time, and i did ask her, but she got super mad at me and said no. But, she told this girl she was hot/cute and she was embarrassed because she told her. And then she asked her if she would kiss her. But i dont know. I mean, i kinda want to forget about it. But when i see her, it reminds me again. I dont want to ask her, again though. But then i do. I mean, what should i say to her?
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i need advice about a friend
Posted Monday May 25 2009, 3:09 pm
okay so i have this really really moody friend and i call her my "best friend" but she doesnt think that about me. infact she doesnt even want to be my friend. but i have done everything for her, i have protected her from rumors, i have fixed her relationship with her boyfriend multiple times, i have comforted her and givin her advice a whole lot, i have always been there for her when she had no one else to turn too. and to add to that she doesnt trust me alone with her boyfriend EVEN though hes ONLY my good friend. i mean i have helped them with their relationship. and the worst part is though i still want to be there for her and be her best friend. and i have no idea what to do?
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So sick of it
Posted Monday May 25 2009, 2:50 am
out of all my friends, i'm the one they go to when they are having a hard time with something or need someone to be there for them. I love doing this.....its one of the things I'm good at.One of my closest friends...we have been friends since sixth grade, and now we are in 10th...she is starting to irritate me...the only time she ever wants to talk is when she has problems....never asking how i'm doing or wanting to hear about my love stories too....my other friends come for help and stuff, but at least they ask how i'm doing and how everything is going you know....am i weird? I don't know..what do you guys think about this? a part of me wants to confront her about it....but you know....i want to make sure that its the right decision...
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Is my BFF moving too fast?
Posted Monday May 25 2009, 1:48 am
14/f.
One of my closest friends, Cody, is like my younger brother. We're very close, and I'm worried about him.
He's my age and he's a stoner, which I have no problem with since I am, too.
But, he's already having sex. He's already had sex with two girls! One was Arlena, who we all now hate, and the other is his current girlfriend, Alicia. I know it's his life and everything, but he does it SO OFTEN. Like, every Wednesday. One time, she was actually freaking out because she thought she was pregnant. He's a good person, though. He loves her, and he talks about marrying her and all that crap.
But should I tell him to slow down or what?
Thanks in advance<3
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bruised friend
Posted Sunday May 24 2009, 8:32 pm
i have a very close friend who is sometimes physically abused by her mother. i, outside her nuclear family, am the only person who knows. her mother scratches at her skin and hits her, only on fridays so the marks will be gone by monday. she also yells at her far more than normal in front of me even and criticizes everything she does anywhere. my friend also is severly subservient as a consequence and apologizes for trivial things very frequently, among other things. i think these are signs of mental abuse, from being so traumatized. i would do something about it as soon as i found out, except that i think, and i know my friend thinks, it would cause more problems for her in the long run. we'll be off to college in one moe year. she also ha...
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he doesnt talk to me no more...
Posted Sunday May 24 2009, 4:48 pm
13/f
so my friend Ahmad and I are pretty close although we've only known each other for about a year. I have felt a stronger connection with him before but have gotten over it. It continues like that currently still. So him, my bff jeff and i were sitting on my porch when we starting talking about relatioships and first kisses. Me and jeff already had our first kiss, but Ahmad said that he didnt and hasnt had a girlfriend since the 2nd grade, he's cute and sweet (like a teddy bear), but that's when i blabbed out that someone liked him. He was dying to know who. So later that nite he txted me begging to kno, two days later i finally told him. Now he wont even txt me back! Im afraid our friendship has ended. He's in 10th grade, im in 8...
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I think I love my bestfriend?
Posted Sunday May 24 2009, 2:53 pm
14/f.
Okay, so. I have this best friend, Andrew, and I've liked him since about 6th grade or so. Shitloads of people says he feels the same since he apparently "acts" like it. I've sorta seen it, too. Even my grandmother thinks so.
5/22/09 my other BFF, Cody, and I got Andrew high for the first time, so I know we're close as hell. And We've kised a few times one night via kissing contest, held hands that same night, and we hug a lot, but that's it. If he feels the same, then I want more. But I'm unsure of how to do it, or even TO do it. Like, how do I get him to know I want him to kiss me again? Or something along those lines.
I don't know if any of that makes sense, but some advice would greatly be appreciated :]
Thanks in advance<3
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Weed is ruining my best friend and our friendship! HELP!
Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 8:33 pm
My best friend started smoking weed about a year and a half ago. At first she just did it on the weekends every now and again. She invited me to join her at the parties but I didn't want to so I never did go and join in. All of this time has gone by and with everything going on it sounds like she is doing something else (drugs) but I KNOW she isn't. I KNOW she isn't doing any other drugs besides the pot.
Well, anyway, she now smokes pot a lot. She smokes probably every day, usually after school (when she actually goes to school). We still talk on the phone but it's becoming clear that the weed is doing something scary to her.
My best friend has become increasingly paranoid over the littlest things. Her behaviors...
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I'm paranoid & I always think I'm bothering people, it's holding me back
Posted Friday May 22 2009, 2:27 pm
I'm really paranoid and it's causing me to waste a lot of my time and have many missed oppurtunities. I tend to apologzie for things a lot. Like if I'm being to loud in my cousins car I'll apologize. If I talk too much about the guy I like to my friends I apologize, (and I know that they really don't mind it, they've expressed that to me a lot). I'm always afraid that I'm bothering people. I suggest to some of my school friends that we hang out sometime and that I'll text them, and sometimes I wimp out because I'm scared that I'm bothering them. And I can't even talk to the guy I like outside of school or by text (I told him that I liked him about a month and a half ago, and it kinda freaked him out, and he never really clearly respon...
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Friends at War.
Posted Friday May 22 2009, 11:12 am
My friends and I broke out in an extreamly verbal fight yesterday. My best friend, Alexis heard I was telling everyone she likes this boy, Ben, whom I happen to like. The truth is when people asked me if she liked him, I always told them I really didn't know! I mean, she's my best friend, I wouldn't do that to her. Anywho, at lunch that day, she confronted me and said "WHY ARE YOU TELLING EVERYONE I LIKE BEN?!" and I told her what really happened and what I said. Her reaction was "I don't believe you because you've been acting fake lately, and really weird." I said Okay, and walked away. After lunch, we were on the way to our next block class. In the hall way, two of the popular, mean girls I thought I was friends with c...
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Close friend, not so close anymore. :(
Posted Friday May 22 2009, 12:49 am
My friend, C, and I met about 10 years ago. She was 4, and I was 6. But that didn't stop us from becoming best friends! We spent everyday together, told eachother secrets, played imaginary games, rode our bikes everywhere, and never even got sick of eachother. Not for a second.
Well, now we're both in our teens and going through normal teen stuff. She just graduated junior high and I'm going into my junior year of highschool. We don't go to the same school, but I know she's popluar. She mostly hangs out with two main girls; N and M. I mostly hang out with my boyfriend of five months, S. C has met S, and they get along really well. We hang out a lot, and she even brought M to his house once, and we just chilled. It was very fu...
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is she my best friend?
Posted Thursday May 21 2009, 9:19 pm
okay heres the problem i give presents to my friend yeah we talk but every time when this girl carolina come she just ditches me and its like when carolinas there im invisible but i really like my best friend what do i do?
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Bad friend...but love.
Posted Wednesday May 20 2009, 6:43 pm
Me and my ex-bestfriend were friends since last year.. Me and him just started really talking this year though. I would talk to him hours on end.. But we faught a lott. and i didnt know what to do. And he was a complete jerk when we did fight, and ALWAYS blamed the fight on me.. But I Liked Him Since Last Year, and i fell in love with him.. and after one of our bigger fights we were talking and he said he liked me. And i was soooo happy. Cuz I loved him.. i mean we would both say "I love you" like I love my crazy friend... but like, it ment more when i said it, he just didnt know it.. and a week went by,((he didnt want to be in a relationship)) and the next week, he stopped answering calls, and texts, and stopped wanting hugs.. an...
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best friend..? not so much.
Posted Wednesday May 20 2009, 5:38 pm
so today i was walking in the halls and i see my best friend walking with her boyfriend and one of our mutual friends. (this is really rare- i NEVER see my best friend in school.) she had her back turned to me but when he saw me, she turned around and gave me a really big smile and a "hey!" ...then before i could get a word in, turned right back to the other people she was with and ignored me. and she says im her bestbest friend.
i only see her once every week or two outside of school and sometimes dont even talk at nighttime. we used to be like sisters a few years ago, im'ing for a few hours everyday and hanging every chance we got. but since she got a boyfriend (its been 6 months) i've been left wondering if the t...
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bumper sticker.
Posted Wednesday May 20 2009, 4:04 pm
So I did ask a question about this before but this is a lot shorter and not exactly askign the same thing...
One of my really good friends sent be a bumper sticker on Facebook the day before yesterday. The message that went along with it said something like, "Just a heads up! Please come back!" and the bumper sticker said "I miss you... the old you."
I've already established that yes, I have changed, but this girl is immature and I did mature. We don't share the same interests anymore and her sense of humor really bugs me. I'm willing to still be friends and hang out with her ocassionally, but I'm pretty sure she doesn't like my personality anymore.
Anyway. She sent that to m...
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new friends
Posted Tuesday May 19 2009, 3:24 pm
I haven't had girls that are friends in a very long time. I have a few close guy friends now and most girls either don't like me or I can't stand them. I'm 19 and recently started to get to know a few girls from work. I feel a little left out since they have all been friends for awhile but they're very sweet and have been asking me to hang out lately. The thing is, I don't even know how to act around girl friends anymore! I'm scared of sharing secrets or telling them my feelings/opinions. What can I do to relax myself and to open myself up? I know they want me to be more outgoing with them.
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she says i've changed.
Posted Monday May 18 2009, 8:54 pm
This is kinda long but really important and relatively easy, so please read through! I promise to rate.
So I have this friend who I've known since I was in 2nd grade, been friends with since 4th and been best friends with since 7th.
Basically her and my bestbestwickedbest friend became closer a few months ago and I felt really left out. My defense mechanism to that is to separate from them, and eventually they'll realize that they miss me and will willingly accept me back into the friendship. Its always worked in this past for me. This time, it didnt. For nearly two months I felt bitter and alone. I began avoiding them when I felt like they were giving me pity conversations and began hanging out with my other f...
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Posted Monday May 18 2009, 7:18 pm
me and my boyfriend broke up and my best friend asked me why and i told her i dint know.
the next day she asked me again and i said "uhmm idk because we felt like it"
then this morning she pulled my boyfriend over and started questioning him..i got soo mad that i waited until she left and confronted him and asked him what she asked. and what she asked him was why we broke up.. and what happened. my friend is kinda happy
i dont know why she is questioning soo much . maybe she likes my ex.
what do you think?
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me and my friend like the same guy
Posted Saturday May 16 2009, 1:31 pm
me and my friend both like the same guy.... she dosnt know i like him but i know she i like him. she always talks about how much she think she loves him. me and him have been going out secretly. she just thinks we're friends. she told me scince we're such good friends if i could ask him out for her. i dont want to hurt her feeling, i feel guilty i'm dating her crush. she's been my bffl ever scince i knew her,and he said he likes both of us..... what should i do?
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My friends boyfriend is a JERK
Posted Friday May 15 2009, 8:44 pm
14 female
Ok sorry its so long!
Ok so a long time ago (well like three months ago) and i really thought we were going to start dating. I thought this because we went to the beach and hung out like ALL day together! Him and one of my best friends were really good friends and she was like IN LOVE with his best friend. well like a month later, he asked her out!! i was soo mad. she said yes. after like a month of them dating she changed COMPLETELY!! our friend talked to her about and she apologized and then kept making the same mistakes over and over again. This guy tried to hug me and thought we were really good friends and i just gave him the evil eye and walk away each time. The more and more they got closer i k...
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