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Mom wants me gone
Posted Thursday July 24 2008, 7:34 am
I was the girl who wrote earlier asking for help on how to get along better with my mom.
This morning we got in a fight over a lunch box, a stupid lunch box. Now she told me she wishes I were never born her child.
Its so hard to stay in this house with someone that would say something like that to you.
I don't know what to do. My dad won't listen either.
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curfew
Posted Thursday July 24 2008, 12:26 am
14/male
my parents gave me a curfew of 9:30 becouse she dosint like we out when shes asleep (shes hella fuckin old) how do i convince her to to give me an apropreate curfew thz is beging to effect my Social life my freinds r starting to call me momas boy and when its 9:30 my freinds will say hay james its time to go suck ur moms tits plz help i need a convincing agument
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Theres only so much I can take.
Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 6:27 pm
I'm 15. I hate being around my family because they always make me feel like I'm not good enough, I do everything wrong and all they do is yell at me. I live with my Dad and my step-mom. I have for 4 years sience step-dad started getting way too abusive. I don't know what to do. I am on anti-depressents and they were working for awhile but now thath the stress at home started getting worse and so did the yelling, all I do is cry. Please help?
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How shoud I act?
Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 9:59 pm
You see.. a while ago my neighbor died.
He's one year younger than me, we weren't friends, we went to the same school, and to tell you the truth i never liked him because he was a bad influence and hit me once n made me cry three years ago so i'm just apathetic about his death. My brother though..they were both friends and he's really down about it. I haven't seen him, he left to see him at the hospital. I'm never nice to my brother so i really don't know how to act around him now..
Then there's my neighbors sisters, i actually like them and feel really bad because before they left to the hospital they were outside crying with their mother.. i haven't talked to them in awhile so they'll probably think i'm some weirdo and that ...
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Does my mom not love me?
Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 1:44 pm
My mom and I kinda fell apart about a year ago. I thought we had patched things up pretty well but after noticing some of my friends talking to their moms, I realized how bad things I had gotten.
My mom doesn't call to check up on me, she doesn't hug me if I'm crying or if I'm hurt. She merely says "Stop crying." She doesn't say I love you even after I've said it to her, normally she'll just say goodbye. She stopped cooking meals for me and when I have a problem she says its my problem not hers.
Sure, she's not responsible for everything in my life. But I'm a 16yr old girl and sometimes I need my mom :( she just doesn't seem to be there.
I don't know what to say to her to help this out, she seems too blocked off to care.
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What am I doing wrong?
Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 1:08 pm
My mom is constantly letting my older brother who is 24 do whatever he wants. Let me also tell you that I am 21 so saying that he is old enough to do those things won't fly. I do well in school, he is lazy won't do anything. He convinces my mom to do his homework for him and when I ask for help she claims she doesn't have time. I work my butt off to pay my bills, car payment every month, and do what I can around the house. HE doesn't have to pay anything! He has two credit cards which he is not paying, a truck payment, and a cell phone bill. HE has a job and uses his money to buy cds. What does my mom do pays for everything of his and when I have a little trouble managing one of my bills, she goes crazy when I ask if she can pay a 10 dollar...
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my sister bullies me
Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 10:26 am
my sister is older than me n she bullies me after she hits me she hits her self n gose tells mi mum i hit her
i told my mum but she just sed she dosnt no hus dun it
so my sis carries on hertin mi
wot shud i du?
plz help
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Lieing...
Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 8:04 am
heyy im 13 years old i would like to no something im in bif trouble you see...i kinda stole my moms hair straightner and i used it for a year and now its not working but she never used it anyways she doesn't even no wheres it is...and im feeling guilty i no the best thing to tell the truth but its soo scary im sooo clueless but its eating me up inside i really dont wanna tell what should i say? can i not tell and prmise i'll never do this stuff again cuz i really wont...i mean everyone has stuff they did bad that they keep 2themselves rii please help im soo sad:(
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i hate my parents
Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 2:35 am
i have a really bad relationship with my parents. i yell at them all the time and they yell at me. we fight constantly about stupid things. i feel bad about it and i want things to be better, but i dont know how to fix things. any advice?
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Posted Monday July 21 2008, 1:23 pm
My brother is 19 and he smokes. He recently dropped out of college, does drugs, curses at everyone, has sex, cheats on his girlfriend, quit his job, and was kicked out of my house. I really miss him and I want the OLD brother I had that used to play with me and stuff. Now he doesn't write letters or emails or calls my family. And he doesn't keep in touch with his friends so no one knows where he is...what should I do!?!?
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Really big prob with my fam
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 11:06 pm
ok most of the time me and my mom get along fairly well, but whenever im around my grandma, the whole world goes CRAZY. she acts like shes my mom all the time. i cant say anything about her to my mom or i get a big lecture about how shes my grandma and she wont be here for much longer. but sometimes i really dont care cause when my grandma comes over to our house she really acts like my mom,"clean this up, pick that up" its driving me crazy anyone wanna help me out here??
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i am alone
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 5:46 pm
everything in my life is going horribly wrong, i feel im digging myself into a hole and it's just getting deeper and deeper day by day. i have an mip and 30 hours of service to complete by wednsday. i just got my liscence a month ago if even and i already crashed my mom's lexus yesterday. my parents are so dissapointed in me. i am a horrible student and just a horrible kid period. i need someone to talk to..i have my bestfriend but she is in the same position so i don't get any advice we just talk about our alike problems and sure it helps to get it off my chest but i need help and advice not someone to tell me i'm not alone. because frankly i know i am not alone. another last thing there is this guy i like but he is going to college this y...
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crazy mom!
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 4:17 pm
Long story short: I got kicked out of my house for a lip piercing in April. A week later, my mom begged me to move back in. I asked her if I would be able to come and go as I please because I'm 18 now. She said yes, so I moved back in.
Now, in July, she has made so many rules that go against what we agreed. I can't leave the house past 11:00pm, I have to be home by 1:00am, and I can only stay the night at someone's house once a week.
I'm not taking any classes and I can't work (don't ask why, I just can't), so it's not like I have to wake up early for anything. I'm not involved in drugs or sex and she knows that. She just went against everything we agreed on.
What do I do? My friends are tired o...
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Not ready
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 3:25 pm
15/f
i am going into my sophomore year of high school this year and i have a very attatched relationship with my boyfriend, and my friends.
My parents are already planning where they are going to retire, and where i am going to go to college.
Im not ready for these changes yet!
I want to stay right here, and go to college here like my friends & like my boyfriend are doing.
I really dont want to leave, and their throwing this all in my face and i am only still a kid
I cant handle this stress.
I dont know what to do, i just had to tell someone.
Im really attached to my home, and i dont want to leave.
The drive is 8 or 9 hours by the way.
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Family
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 2:52 pm
Hello. I am a 14 year old girl. I absolutely hate my family, i cannot help it. They are terrible to me. No one has ever hurt me except my sister and all she does is slap me but...i dont know they act like im the worst thing that has ever happened to them and i ruined their life. I have a mom and dad who think everything i say is retarded and that im stupid and i should be more like my sister. She is 17 and shes terrible. She smokes, she drinks, she drives while under the influence and she is going to hurt someone, maybe even herself. She does acid and everything and even though she always yells at me and slaps me im worried about her i mean she is my older sister. and my parents don't know and i tried to tell them but they don't believe me ...
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Tattoo
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 1:06 am
Heyy. Well, my 15th bithday is comming up and i really want a tattoo on my foot. Nothing big but something simple and cute. Any ideas?! Ohh, and how can i convince my mom cause my dad is cool with it. Thanks! Oh and im a girl :)
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birth control...
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 6:55 pm
16/f dating a 17 yr old. my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost two months now but ive known him forever and im completely in love with him and he loves me. well my mom brought up birth control once before but i kind of blew it off because i didnt think i would need it. i mean my periods are very short and light and i didnt plan on having sex any time soon. but my boyfriend and i have been talking about it lately and i sort of want to with him. im a virgin so im pretty scared about my first time but idk how to ask my mom for birth control again. i dont want her to think im going to go have sex because i dont even know if i want to. but i want to have it on hand just in case. my mom and i arent close at all. we fight entirely too muc...
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I feel like my family hates me. What do i do?
Posted Friday July 18 2008, 10:54 pm
I have 3 brothers and im the only girl. And about ten years ago i was molested by my oldest brother and we was taken away to juvy then a group home. But when i was about 12 about 5 years ago he came to live with us because we were moving from california to florida and my dad didnt want to leave his son there but i wanted to. My dad thought he learned a lesson but he never did because he still kept doing it and now at my house here for almost 4 years i've had to use two locks so he wont get in. he's almost 22 and still lives with us. I feel like my dad loves him more because he never yells at him but always at me. I feel like my parents dont love me at all. My secong older brother has a girlfriend and i feel like my parents like her more by ...
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Sisters.
Posted Friday July 18 2008, 3:09 pm
I have three sisters. Two of them are older, but we were always close when we were younger. The thing is they go out and they drink and smoke and stuff, and I don't tell my parents anything. I always keep their secrets. One got a ticket for drinking and had to go to the hospital, and she is only 18. My parents don't even care! They lowered her curfew and took her car away for like, a week. The other one isn't so bad. She is 19 and goes out all the time and drinks.
Now, my parents know we drink, just as long as we aren't a sloppy mess. I don't smoke, but last night I was hanging out with my boyfriend and his friends (who are my sister's friends as well) and I tried salvia. It was horrible and I did not like it and I ...
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Parents Divorced! Remarried Mum! Stepdad troubles!
Posted Friday July 18 2008, 2:17 pm
My parents are divorced and my mum is remarried, my stepdad recently said some terrible things to be. What happened was; my mum and stepdad had an argument, when my mum went upstairs she left me and my brother in the firing line of his anger. I have recently seen a councellour for other reasons, and he said some hurtful things like; Everything that ever goes wrong in this family is your (me and my brothers) fault, then everytime your mum gets upset its your(me) fault! and "councelling at your age" Deal with it!"
Know I can't even look him in the eye and I got really upset at school yesterday and It is really getting to me, I want some advice on how to get over it. Thanks for your time!
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