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Posted Tuesday June 23 2009, 6:59 pm
14/f
I find it very uncomfortable when people stare at my chest.... it makes me feel annoyed and kind of weirded out....
And this is not only with guys...for some reason I always see one of my friends in particular staring at my chest...it's extremly uncomfortable....I usually say "Hey, my face is up here" but she just laughs and then like awhile later she'll just stare at my chest again....no other girls do that and it's just really weird. And it's not only with low shirts, it's any kind of shirts. And NO, I'm 110% positive she is NOT a lesbian. So i don't know what I'm supposed to do...
What am I supposed to do to make her stop staring??
Thanks!!
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liar liar.
Posted Tuesday June 23 2009, 11:55 am
my friend is the biggest liar ever!!!! she lies about really small stuff that is easy stuff to look over, to huge giant stuff that its shocking someone would even make up these stories. she makes up these huge stories. & she even just told one to me, and i'm her best friend. she told one girl in one of her classes her older brother was fixing her tv one day, and she doesn't have a brother or any brotherly figure. i keep having nightmares about this & i keep dreaming that she'll be really mad and won't talk to me. i don't really trust her with anything, and don't tell her any secrets anymore. i'm not good with talking about feelings and i don't like too. i don't know what to do. :(
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My friends girlfriend is insane!
Posted Tuesday June 23 2009, 4:21 am
So, one of my good friends has been going out with this girl, who is presumably insane.
The first time he had broken up with her, she jumped in front of a truck, and later keyed his car (Mustang GT).
He's going out with her again, but her jealousy is starting to affect our friendship.
She has this idea that everyone is out to steal her boyfriend, and basically restricts him from most of his friends.
Another friend of mine, a girl, had been talking to his girlfriend. She was accusing my friend of talking shit about her boyfriend, and when questioned, the she told her that the only person she's been talking about him to, was me.
So without asking me about it, his girlfriend runs off and tells him that I've ...
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I told a friend what was said behind her back..
Posted Tuesday June 23 2009, 3:03 am
Hey guys! 18/F
I have a group of friends that normally hangs out together, but lately everyone has been separated. Rachel and Sarah have a problem with Danielle and Jessica, and it is apparent. Now, I am close with both "groups", but I am definitely closer to Jessica and Danielle. Today, while I was hanging out with Rachel and Sarah, they said a few things about Jessica and Danielle. Later that night, Jessica called me and I told her a few things that they said. I did not exaggerate anything at all, but Sarah called me upset that I told them and that she expected that I wasn't going to say anything. There's nothing I can do because obviously I can't take anything back (like I wish I could). How do I make this right?...
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im confused my best friend lie
Posted Tuesday June 23 2009, 12:21 am
i thought me and my best friend were honest to each other but she wasnt to me , well we practically did everything together , we even shower together, i just to tell her everything about me but she always hide stuff for me , because she thought i would judge because of my religion beliefs , shes kind off wild she dates alot of guys and knowing that they all close friends, and she likes having sex with guys shes not dating or that she doesnt know that well. i was i a huge crush on this guy since middle school and i found out a couple months ago that she was talking to him , i got pissed off , because she knew i was practically in love with him , well i lie and told her i didnt care and taht i didnt like him ,the next day i hear they dating ...
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How to make new friends sophomore year?
Posted Monday June 22 2009, 1:20 pm
Freshman year..I only went to 2 of my friends' house.. like less than 5 times. Its soo sad. No sleepovers, or anything like that. I have like only 3 close friends but we're not like a clique and we're not even THAT close. Close relationship wise, like I'd go sit with them for lunch or talk about what happened in the day and etc, but not like.. I know that much about them and we talk outside of school. I dont know why its been like that a lot. Like in my life I've only had like 2 or 3 close friends like that but it still wasn't that close. I want to change this next year, sophomore year. I'm 15 now, and a girl, if it wasn't obvious by now, lol.
Umm a friend has only been over to my house, other than for birthday parties (the l...
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Does friends GF know I like her?
Posted Monday June 22 2009, 12:04 pm
Ok first I would never betray a friend even if his girl wanted to go out with me. I'm just curious so maybe she might have a friend like her she could hook me up with, I would have loved to have met her first but things didn't happen that way and she and him are a perfect match she was browsing girls with me on a site then she said lets find you a girl with black hair (she has black hair) then out of nowhere she said here you might like her shes got purple hair (she has blue in her hair) then we where going somewhere and she asked me to do something I said no then she said she would without thinking I said yeah I'll do it to, then she laughed looking at her boyfriend(my friend) and said told ya,
It sounded like I told you so kinda la...
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friend has eating problems
Posted Monday June 22 2009, 12:12 am
15/f
hi ok, uhm my best friend is i think anorexic she doesn't eat and she exorcises all the time. she hasn't eaten in 2 days and sometimes she eats dinner so her parents don't think anything is wrong. she also makes herself throw up the meals. she also figured out that another good way to lose weight is to cut herself because then she'll lose blood and that will mean she will lose more body fluid and make her lose more weight. she takes all her fingernails and toenails off so it takes off more body weight. she also, just cut her hair really really short. she is going crazy!!!! i don't know what to do. i'm so scared for her, and i don't think her parents even care!!! What should i do? please help mee. i can't tell anyone, she told me not too.
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I gave him a chance, but he's sooo annoying.
Posted Sunday June 21 2009, 9:24 pm
Last summer, I met this guy. We hung out once with other kids, and during that time, he told me he liked me and asked me out. I didn't know what to say, and he was like, "maybe we could spend time together?" I said ok, but he meant dating, and I thought he meant just hanging out. When my mom picked me up, she got mad because she thought it was just me and him and she'e really strict with guys. When I got home,I texted him and said he got the picture wrong, that I didn't like him, and that I thought he meant he wanted to hang out and he flipped out. Then 45 minutes later, he said he "got over me." Whatever. Over the school year, he would always ask me to hang out and invite me to parties, but I would make up an excuse. Fr...
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what is his problem?
Posted Saturday June 20 2009, 12:11 pm
Hey,okay so im having problems with my best guy friend
we have litteraly been friends since we were about 6 grew up together and that,can literally tell each other everything im probably closer to him then i am with my best girl friend.
anyway lately hes got a bit distant not overly but he used to text me every day always left me one or two x's etc,but now his texts have gotten really short just one worded answers no x's or smily faces so automaticly i sense somethings up.
i ask him is he okay have i done something to upset him?
all i got was yea im fine and no.
so i said okay look your talking to me here i know when somethings wrong just tell me and he said nothings wrong,i said alright then im here if yo...
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The Bestfriend's Boyfriend
Posted Friday June 19 2009, 9:35 pm
Yeah, so usually I'm good at confronting my friends about this, but this time, it's kind of hard, considering that it's my bestfriend since the first grade.
Well, she's been dating this guy for 6 and half months, but he's been nothing but a jerk ever since they've been dating for about one or two months. To her, he may be really sweet, and I'm happy for her, but for some reason, whenever she's with her friends, he turns all bipolar. He'll accuse her of cheating on him and calling her ugly names when she's done absolutely nothing. One time, after he called her a slut, I told her mom and then leaves a voicemail on her phone saying it's over between them, and that he can thank me for it, which left her in tears for the whole night.
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how do i get more friends
Posted Thursday June 18 2009, 2:00 pm
hi, Y2J here, my parnets pulled me out of school
becuase they tihkn its unsafe for me, anyway, im outta school i dont have many friends i do have a myspace but i dont know how to really find people that are nice, i want new friends, kind friends.:(
i hope someone can help me, if im nice...will tht be an advantage of finding a new friend?
im 15 and a guy btw
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how to be pretty, get guys.
Posted Thursday June 18 2009, 12:45 pm
alright so heres my problem. I am a 15 year old girl who has never had a boyfriend. never had a kiss or even a guy tell me he likes me. becaues of this i now have little confidence. also this year when i entered high school all of my friends got gorgous. most of them have blonde hair and blue eyes, one of them is the prettiset girl in my grade. and when im with them i feel so down because i am not pretty at all. seriously i have brown hair and eyes and just a weird face. plz help. plz. if i dont figure this out soon im gonna go through high school resenting my friends and always wishing for something i didnt have(good looks)
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Some friends..
Posted Thursday June 18 2009, 12:33 am
I'm a lot different than the group of friends I hang out with the most. I'm more street smart/creative/artistic while they're mainly all about education (this is only about some of them, not all of them). Because of this, I tend to get treated as the "outcast" in the group and in all honesty, I feel like I'm not even treated like a friend. I like who I am and I don't plan to change myself for anyone. I just want to be treated like a real friend, what should I do?
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I'm scared for him
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 10:30 pm
I've got this guy I know at work and he seems really depressed at the moment and I'm scared that he'll hurt himself. I want to help but I don't know what to do. I'm 16f he's about 18/19
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will i get ditched soon?
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 12:17 am
16/f
my best friend and i got in a couple really huge fights a few months ago. it really took a toll on our friendship. one of the fights, was something that she did that is sooooo close to unforgivable. (not going to go into details) anyway, lately ever since like beginning of summer shes been like calling me nonstop and like asking me to hang out everyday, & i was like thinking oh wow this is good, maybe everything is better between us again. well, she told me the other day her other really really good friend was on vacation. :/ she doesn't really have any other friends besides me and her. so does that mean shes only talking to me so much right now because her other friend is on vacation? will she ditch me as soon as she gets b...
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Is honesty always really the best policy?
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 12:04 am
So my bestfriend was dating this guy, who had it really bad for her, they had only been official for a little over 2 weeks, but they had been spending alot of time together & he really liked her. Well one day, she decides she likes her guy bestfriend,(her ex boyfriend who took her virginitys brother) her & her "bestfriend" wanted to keep it all under wraps so her ex wouldn't find out, so they decided they wouldnt go out, they would just do physical stuff without being together, & she only told me & another girl.
Well at first she was just going to cheat on her boyfriend, but then she decided to break up with him. She told him that it was because she was grounded for the rest of the summer & woul...
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Whats more important to her? her best friend or jerky boyfriend?(sry long)
Posted Tuesday June 16 2009, 8:46 pm
This has been a problem for 4 years, and i still havent gotten over it becasuse my bestfriend is still dating him. it gets worse. shes been my best friend for 6 years now. she doesnt act like herself and all they do is fight. they claim theyre in love but shes never had a serious boyfriend other than him so i dotn think she knows what love is because its definately not that. she tells me everything and all they do is fight. im not here to ask you for what i hsould do to make them break up because what ever she wants to do, she can do it. im asking who she thinks is more important me or him. she wont answer my texts even when theyre important and when i call her because i need her she wont answer. but oh if her boyfriend texts/calls her shes...
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fourth wheel.
Posted Tuesday June 16 2009, 5:52 pm
Well, I had a bunch of groups of different friends. Well the one best friend of mine is awfully shy when meeting people, and I thought they could meet some new people, so I started trying to mesh all my groups of friends together and they all did end up becoming friends. It was really great cause I never had to worry about choosing who to hang out with anymore since everyone wanted to hang out together.
But now lately, whenever we all hang out together, they start joking about these things and I wonder when that joke happened, and I asked and they tell me it was the other day when ALL of them hung out. Now I didn't work or anything, so I don't know why they didn't ask me. I pushed it out of my mind and moved on. But now this...
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My really good friend billy
Posted Monday June 15 2009, 12:41 am
So i have this really good friend billy.. and hes really really nice and all. But he has a lot of flaws and doesnt know how to fix em. He hooks up with like at LEAST 2 girls per day because he loves the sex and he knows its wrong and he knows that he chooses this. Hes very strong Christian as am i. But I keep thinking that when ever me and him hang out something is always wrong and he just wont be straight about it. He has had a lot of crap in his life... hes been raped a couple of times, taken, hes seen his friend get shot before, he use to do drugs, use to be in a gang... but hes all better now and hes turning to God. The only problem is he loves the sex. And he has so much crap going on in his life that he can't even look at himself in t...
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