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would you do it? yes or no?
Posted Thursday August 7 2008, 6:41 pm
okay so school is coming up and i have no job or money as yet. I've applied to over 20 places and none have called back as yet so the job thing is off the list for now. My mother wants me to babysit her friends kid while they go away for the weekend and i'm going to get paid $100.00, But the thing is that we don't have a relationship at all, we don't talk, she's always attacking me physically and verbally and whenever she wants her favours done, she uses me...i want to do it because atleast that's a start for me then my dad would give me some more money on top of that for school shopping but on the other hand; i don't want to do it because she's just using me..like she always does and i would have to ride in the car with her down there and ...
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disrespectful co workers.
Posted Thursday August 7 2008, 2:49 am
ok i am here to vent about my personal frustration. i am frustrated over about what my mom told me about people at her work that disrespects her. and it makes her go crazy and it is affecting our relationship. right now i think those people must be really crazy to tick her off like that. she said she cant really move into a different job yet though. so what can i really do. ok on this one i want adult advicenators to answer as well.
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scared of telling the truth
Posted Wednesday August 6 2008, 3:23 pm
So I was cleaning out my room one day and I found my Nintendo Ds. I got it for one of my birthdays, from my parents. So I was on the phone with a guy I really like/love and so I offered it to him because I didn't want it anymore and I new he was looking gor one online. So I gave him it and a few games a few days after I found it. Now my dad keeps asking where it is. I keep lying and saying my friends are borrowing it. He says I need to get it back. When I asked if it would be ok with him if I gave it away as sombodys bday present he automatically said "No". He was like " If you arn't going to play it then give it back to me!" and that really got me mad because the only reason he wants it is so he can play it! I'm afraid ...
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worried for her...
Posted Tuesday August 5 2008, 7:06 pm
Lastnight my mother got a call from walmart saying that my 18 year old sister had stolen a $4 pair of earings. This was the first time she's ever done something like this,and i reallly cannot believe she did! Im really worried that she may go to jail. What's going to happen to her!?
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get my dad's trust back..
Posted Tuesday August 5 2008, 2:22 pm
well july 14th, i went to go visit my dad that i haven't seen in 3 years. i have a step-sister that lives there, and she is 16, i'm 15. well while i was there, me and my sister snuck out alot to hang out with the boys in te neighbrhood. there was this one boy who is 18, he's a sweet kid, i did like him, but my dad told me to stay away from him, of course i don't listen to him. well i gave the guy a handjob, and he fingered me. and he really liked me, i then realized i didn't like him like that. and told him and idk i started liking his best friend. well me and him jjust layed down together and stuff, nothing big. then about a week ago, one night we were going to sneak out and just hang out & talk since i was leaving. well i guess a nei...
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my brothers a jerk
Posted Monday August 4 2008, 5:34 pm
my borther and i fight constantly and we wont sto pwe can barly wven be in the same room like i love him to deathbut you know icant stand him and his jerkish ways , when his around his friends and our borthers he gets ten times worse like i could almost kill myself becauseof some of hte things he says when i'm home with him by my self and i dont do wut he wants he will threatn me with a knife to slit my throat and it's harsh ..
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my mom
Posted Monday August 4 2008, 5:29 pm
k well me and my mom are not close or anything but i feel awkward asking her somethings and watchign some shows with her i dont know why and i hate being around her !!! whatshould ido
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im too
Posted Monday August 4 2008, 8:58 am
well im too attached to my dad. i don't live with him i live with my mom, and it's really hard for me not to see him all the time. i'm a total daddy's girl, and i just don't know what to do anymore. i was just over there for 2 weeks and i had to come home today, and i've been crying my eyes out since i got out of the car because i miss him. i am almost 15 years old and im bawling my eyes out like a baby because i had to leave my dad. i want to live with him, but i dont know because my mom would probably be really upset, and i just dont know. i need help. why am i so attached, how do i stop crying? someone please let me know because i want to stop crying but i cant because i miss him so much already.
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Wicca
Posted Sunday August 3 2008, 8:49 pm
Okay, I've been reading a book on the Wiccan religon and have been thinking of converting to it. However, my mom is very Catholic and thinks that Wicca is evil. I don't know how to tell her I want to be wiccan without her getting mad at me. What should I do?
13/f
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preversion and deviance
Posted Saturday August 2 2008, 4:12 pm
i know who i am and i am very comfortable with it. i don't mind sharing myself except that the true me will probably send my family's reputation down the drain and give all it's members a heart attack.
3 years ago i graduated from highschool and was getting ready to go to college after summer. in the middle of it my grandfather died and the whole family had to pack and leave one night and spend the rest of the time in another city (which happens to be near my college). i was only given 1/2 a day to pack since my grandfather was on the verge of dying and my parents thought we could still make it in time.... little did i know that i wasn't going home for another three years....
here's the problem... in highschoo...
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is not Crying at a Funeral a Bad Thing?
Posted Saturday August 2 2008, 12:31 pm
For some reason, I can't cry at funerals because I just don't cry that often.
But I was wondering if this was bad or heartless? Because once my cousin got mad at me because I wasn't crying at her dad's funeral and it makes me feel awful that I can't cry during these times.
Are there any other ways to display emotion, if not in tear-form?
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Cousin's grandpa just died - what should I do?
Posted Friday August 1 2008, 8:58 pm
My cousin's grandpa just died. :(
I'm really close to my cousin, but I don't really know what to do or say to her cause I've never really had someone close to me die.
I was wondering what I should do?
I don't want to seem like a heartless person and I don't want to say the wrong thing and make her feel bad...
All advice is appreciated.
Thanks
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family fued
Posted Friday August 1 2008, 4:30 pm
my sister put a warrent on my cousin and my aunt and they said if they find out she put a warrent out on them they would be through with them becouse i ran away to my sisters house and when i went to my mom's house to get my stuff my cousin was there waiting on me becouse my sister is a drug addict and a lesbian and my cousin didn't want to see me live that kind of life so my cousin made me get into her her car so she could drive me to her house away from my sister so i would be safe so my sister followed my cousins car to her house on her private property and started cussing and threatening her so my aunt pulled a gun on my sister for defense i might ad and now my sister put a warrent on my cousin and my aunt and they said they would be th...
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sweet 16 party
Posted Thursday July 31 2008, 8:57 pm
I would like some ideas for my daughter sweet 16 party
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another family problem question
Posted Thursday July 31 2008, 8:22 pm
Okay, this is going to be kinda long. But, I am a 15 year old girl who is going to be a sophmore in high school. turning 16 in december. Both of my parents work. My father leaves for work at 4:30 in the morning, and gets home at about 9 at night. My mother leaves for work at 9 in the morning, and comes home between 5 and 6. Well, you know how it is a mothers job to cook dinner? she hasnt cooked one meal in about 2 years. and im not over exxagerating, im being totally serious. The only time i eat dinner is on sundays and wednesdays, or if i sleep over a friends house. Im quite underweight because of this, becuase of being left home all day. im 5'4 and i weigh about 90-100 pounds. it varies. I complain to my mother that she never cooks, and ...
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"It's Ok."
Posted Thursday July 31 2008, 3:15 pm
My mom and dad are in a lot of debt right now. It's really hard on them I can tell so I try to not complain over stupid stuff anymore. Well my mom is taking it the hardest I think. I mean school's comming around and we see those adds for back to school clothes and stuff and I can tell she feels bad because we won't be able to do that this year. There are a lot of other things we can't swing anymore and I really want to tell her it's ok, and that I don't need any new things. But it seems like when I tell her that she just gets upset. Maybe I should just leave them alone? It's just nerve wracking to wake up and see my parents stressing over bills and things, and I can't do anything or say anything. What do I do?
Thanks...
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The Gloves are ON
Posted Wednesday July 30 2008, 11:35 pm
I'm 16/f and ever since my older sister hit her teen years she has been driving me nuts. She is now 20 years old, and she is still driving me crazy, but now to the point where I wouldn't mind punching her in the face. I'm a VERY civil person, where if someone annoys me, it's easy to ignore. But, unlike my sister, I don't know any other person, and their reason for making me wanna put a gun in my mouth is a reason that I don't know them. However my sister just thinks that everyone was put on this earth to serve her. If you do something or say something that she agrees with, it's not hard to get along with her. But, if you do something that's an inconveneince to her than "you-know-what" hits the fan. Just yesterday I was so close to...
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me and my mom never see eye to eye on anything
Posted Wednesday July 30 2008, 8:04 pm
my mom never agrees with me and i luv her tons!! but ever since i was little iv wantd to get my naval pierced.. she knos it too. I just want her to understand that i really want this and i would do anything for it!! how can i talk to her about it with out making her mad??( latly every time i bring it up she gets madder)
~Angie
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annoyed by him
Posted Wednesday July 30 2008, 6:58 pm
i totally hate my moms boyfriend right now. he acts like he is totally irritated with me. and he thinks i talk behind his back one time coming from the bathroom when i was singing this amy winehouse song he thought i was saying something bad to him. i am like no i wasnt. then i heard him like called me a bitch before and i totally had heard it. like right in your face. he really likes to belittle the shit out of me and i dont get why. i tottaly just hate it when i see them making love in the living room so maybe thats why he hears me talk. that fucker he should have taken her the fuck home then. i dont get why i should be the one to blame on this because i dont get why when they do it they always stays here and he knows i am awake and going out of my bed room. ah he is irritating as hell.
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vacation
Posted Wednesday July 30 2008, 12:29 am
so my fams going on a vacation and wnen i was younger my cuzins how im going with would be relly mean to me callin me all sorts of names and they even hit me before.it has stopd now cuz it only happens when i live with them. but whenever im with them we all ways fight but only with words i have to be with then for hours of flights and i dont know if i can handle it being with them 24/7 and theres no just "walking away" on a plane and im on ship the rest of the time so i cant relly get away from them
what should i do?
how do i stop form going crazy??
eney why to get away form them???
p.s. they get worst when there friends are around and one of there friends is going with us!!!
thanks a bunch
<lover3
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