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Major issues going on in my life right now.. I need lots of advice!
Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 8:11 pm
I was wondering if I could talk to some of you guys on the phone about it.
Its just.. my life this school year has taken a disastrous turn. I used to do well in school.. I wanted to get good grades this year so I could get into honors subjects next year. I still do. But there have also just been issues that have kind of been there before.. that just seem worse. I'm not suicidal or anything.. I just need some guidance.. I'm afraid to talk about my issues to so-called friends, and my family members.. they'll be too disappointed.. they still think everything is fine in my life when it is not. maybe I'm a good hider. But its really been taking a toll on me mentally and physically. I don't love myself right now.. something I coul...
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is this normal?
Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 5:22 pm
my boyfriend fingered me for the first time, and it kind of hurt. he wasn't doing it too hard or anything, he was being gentle and stuff, but is it normal for it to hurt?
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Terrible Pain
Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 5:21 pm
Hi i'm 19 and I was having sex and then all of a sudden I got a terrible pain and it just wouldn't go away it felt like something was trying to tear my lower abdomen area apart. It was so bad that I almost threw up and I couldn't move for like a half hour. Over time i felt better. But it was so painful and it scared me a little bit. Do you know what it could possibly be?
Thank You!
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Muffing
Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 12:08 am
19/f
My boyfriend wants to muff me. But I'm worried as to how it smells and tastes.. So, what can I do to maybe make it smell better or taste better?
I don't douche or anything. I'm pretty as naturale as natural gets! I will go for a brazilian wax. Any other tips?
Thank you!
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seasonale
Posted Friday January 22 2010, 9:21 pm
Im about to switch my birth control to seasonale, and my doctor said most likely I wont experience breakthrough bleeding because Ive been on my other birthcontrol for a while. but she said to give seasonale 1 cycle (3months) first. I was wondering if anyone else has been on it, what were your side affects? I just dont want to gain weight. And is there effects of hair growth or hair loss? breast growth?
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Wanting to die
Posted Thursday January 21 2010, 12:51 am
I'm stuck???? I've been in this relationship now for three years, it's been great for awhile, but now it's gotten phsycial and crazy... I've been really depressed lately mainly because he's been this dick asshole to me but again he see's it differently and i'm the bitch. We got in a fight and my finger got broke, but then he got mad one morning and he was grabing my face and shit, pinching me and screaming at me and telling me to shut up but not in so many words. Second I got this text on my phone from a guy I know long before I knew him and it ended up being a mistake, he was trying to text his wife telling her goodnight sweetheard but had texted me. but he apologized the next morning for texting the wrong person and he was some what sorry...
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what to say when i get my toys back??!
Posted Wednesday January 20 2010, 1:04 am
19/female. i've had the biggest crush on my friend probably for about 3 years now. i let him borrow my handcuffs and whip haha yeaaah, and so when i get them back from him i kind of want to say something sexy. i dont want to be like "did you have fun??" because obviously he did, and i dont want to know or need to know what he did with them!! but i dont want to make it all awkward and be like .. "i'll use them on you next time" or something really obvious. when i gave them to him i said .. i have three instructions. DONT LOSE THE KEYS TO THE HANDCUFFS, THEY BETTER COME BACK CLEAN AND HAVE FUN!:) and he just kind of smiled and said no worries ;) i know hes attracted to me, we talk about sexual things all the time but have ...
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I keep doing weird things in my sleep.
Posted Tuesday January 19 2010, 6:37 pm
I've caught myself waking up fondling myself. I did read in a magazine that women can have wet dreams and I'm sure I've done that. But what bothers me is waking up with my hand in my bra. I've been to so many doctors I don't want to add a shrink to that list, so can someone please help this confused female?
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fingering
Posted Tuesday January 19 2010, 6:24 pm
i was wondering my ex fingered me and it hurt a lot he kept on doing it for like 5 minutes I mean it felt good and all but it killed like hell, why is this happening? also i have another question why do guys lick their fingers and smell them after fingering? my ex did this to me and it made me freaked out and grossed out
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low libido
Posted Tuesday January 19 2010, 6:21 pm
i've been with my boyfriend for a year now. we are deeply inlove, but we have a problem. he has a way stronger sex drive then i do which causes fights and tension. he has agreed to calm down with his as long as i improve mine. i have no idea how to do this. i heard certain scents might work and to just relax before hand. i'm sexually attracted to him and when i do get in the mood i think about him. we both have rough work schedules so we don't see eachother as much as we would like but when we do see eachother, i want to make it as special as possible. so any tips on how to get into the mood more often would be great lol thanks!
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To all girls/women
Posted Tuesday January 19 2010, 9:19 am
ok I have recently been having really shap pains in my abdomen. I mena it really have been hurting me. What could this mean I mean I am 14 and I don't know what to think. I have missed my period and I was suppose to get it on the 3rd here we are on the 19th what could this mean. please help.
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How to Dump someone who only wants you for your body
Posted Tuesday January 19 2010, 9:01 am
I have this Guy that I think I really Love, But how do I dump him without the guit. I mean this guy only wants me for my body and i'm 14, I am not ready for all of this . Someone Please Help me!
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why did i lie about the dumbest thing ....
Posted Tuesday January 19 2010, 12:54 am
19/female. this might be longer, so i will return the favor to anyone generous enough to help!:)
Basically i've been head over heels for my good friend joe for about 3 years now. i'm still a virgin, the farthest i've gone is making out. joe is 18, and he's only been with one girl and he's basically done everything possible with her, sexual wise. they were together for 2 years, understandable. i'm not sure if joe knows i'm a virgin or not, i've said i was but then sometimes it seems like he thinks im not by the things he says. so i bought these black fuzzy handcuffs at the sex store, and basically it was to just put in my room because my room is black and pink. i've never used them before or anything. well this past weekend jo...
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whats wrong with my vagina?...
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 10:46 pm
ok so my boyfriend fingered me the other day
hes done it before usually one or two fingers..im really tight.
but the other day he tried three and since then ive been in pain
and i checked it out in a mirror today, and its really swollen, and my vagina is really swollen and much tighter than usual...and theres white in the hole...what the heck is wrong with me?
it hurts really bad and itches and it hurts when i pee...
WHAT IS THIS IM SO SCARED
please help!!
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Broken Condom !
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 7:02 pm
So last Saturday me and this guy had sex, wasn't the first time I had with him but we were drunk. well he busted but I didnt realize and the condom broke after, inside of me. oh I'm 15... what are the chance that i got pregnant I got off my period not that long ago... but just i dont know what to do !
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wow it would be him
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 5:31 pm
soooo pretty much i broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about 2 months ago. im still in love with him but im trying to move on cuz i kno its whats best. i havnt had feelings for any guy at all except him in the past 2 years and its like im not even attracted to guys anoymore. (not girls either haha) BUT my best friends brother has always been my best friend and we somehow ended up kissing last night. and it was really weird like it was the 1st time ive felt that much when kissing a guy after my boyfriend and i really love him and care about him. but the thing is, i went behind my best friends back and did this. and 2 years ago her old best friend did that and kissed her brother and they got in a big fight and dont talk anymore. so i reall...
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Help me
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 3:05 pm
My boyfriend and I were making out, and he then out of fno where took out my belt and begin to play with me, he then fingered me. I am a high class person and would neevr hear of such things. I then broke up with him, since I am a good student and I knew this would lead to sex. Please help me, I really loved him and I am not sure if I overreacted. Tell if I did the right thing or if I should get back together with him. He is smart and kind and funny, please help.
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what does an orgasm feel like and how can i get a clitoris orgasm
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 11:05 am
i really wanna have an orgasm.. i like masturbating with my clitoris but im not sure if what i feel is an orgasm can someone tell me how to get one
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fingering help
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 6:42 am
For the first time my bf asked me to finger myself to (entertain him and I've neva fingered myself so had no idea what I was doing) i used 2 fingers and it didn't hurt but got a strange feeling(sensation)
Then afterwards there was a lot of blood on my fingers and also later on it hurt to sit and walk and at first I thought it I had cut myself cause my fingers were long but when he got me 2 do it again later it happnd again.and it was close to my period is it possible it culd of triggered my period? Or jst cut myself cause I jst did anything had no idea wat to do. and I have already had sex before and neva bleed.culd it be infection?
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Birthcontrol
Posted Sunday January 17 2010, 1:07 pm
Okayy so I'm 16, and sexual active.
I feel the need to be on birthcontrol , better to be safe. But my parents are not aware that I have sex. & I dont plan on telling them, well at this moment. My friends said that I can just go on base & theyll give it too me. But I don't know if thats true. & i'm not 17, like legal age. So can I have some help please?
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