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Emotional and physical Affairs
Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 2:17 pm
Is if justified to side with one friend who has recently admitted to a physical affair over her husband who has had and is having an emotional affair with another woman? The other woman was friends to all of us and they're both in denial about any wrong doing. The marriage is splitting up due to the wife's physical affair, yet he is accepting no responsibility for his emotional affair. Am I justified to feel this way?
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Is what i am doing wrong.
Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 12:13 pm
My best friend has been with this boy for well over 2 years. They have never been official, but they say i love you, he fucks her, they chill, whatever.. they act like a couple. This kid fucks other girls all the time, lies to her, treats herlike shit, and just the other week he was so drunk, he beat her up. He drinks all the time, has no job, doesnt go to school, he encouraged my ex boyfriend tocheat on me throughout our whole relationship, he harasses his friends. Basically this kid is worthless. My friend talks about him all the time, wont go out and do anything cause of him because she chooses to mostly, not cause hetells her not to, she comaplins, cries, but noooooo matter what he does, even after he beat her up, she goes back. Its lik...
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this ones a doozy
Posted Monday July 6 2009, 2:28 pm
alright. first of all ive been datin my boyfriend for almost 4 months, and im very happy. hes a really good guy, we hang out with my parents, hes hung out with my grandparents, hell pick me up if i have no where to go, plus hes a real gentleman and we get along great.
the problem is, my friends dont see it. they think that there is something fishy about it which i dont really understand because they dont hang out with him nearly as much as i do. i have a group of 4 best girl friends, but lately they dont seem like that at all.
my main best friend, 'Z', has a big party house. and her mom lets us do whatever basically, even hard drugs. ive done em a few times at her house and for the rest jus smoked and drank.
but...
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my best friends mom just died
Posted Monday July 6 2009, 11:30 am
Hey. Okay so me and my best friend are fifteen, and her mom died this past friday of a blood clot of some form. For the funeral, they have posterboards of random pictures of her and her family. My friend wants to find two quotes that can go at the tops of the boards. Does anybody know any good ones that are good for her mom, or any good sites to look at?
The quotes shouldn't be about like teenage love or anything. They should be moving and promote thought, but also not be dark and gloomy. We (my friend and I) want the quotes to be perfect.
Somone PLEEASE help!?
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rude friends?
Posted Tuesday June 30 2009, 3:03 am
there are some friends i have that are boys and usually they say hi to me but sometimes they just completely ignore me. they know im there and they look at me but dont even say hi.
why would they do that?
and also this one specificly used to always smile at me but once me and his best friends stopped having a thing he acted like we werent even friends.
now dont get me wrong these guys are my best friends i barely talk to them. they are just one of those people you say hi to be nice and you talk to them if they are around barely. "small talk"
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A first relationship and friendships being ruined.
Posted Sunday June 28 2009, 10:47 pm
I got into my first relationship, and it's over now, but my friends are all upset and everything because they felt that we were all into each other instead of being with our friends, is this normal? How do I fix the tension with my friends?
Thanks in advance!
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Why does my friend remembers it when others forget?
Posted Sunday June 28 2009, 5:44 pm
i have a friend when i tell her something she remembers it for long time but when i tell my other friends they just forget but my friend remembers exactly all the details i told her long time ago she has a bad memory like other people but tend to remember things a lot when tell her things why is that?
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Have you ever wanted to tell someone something but didn't?
Posted Sunday June 28 2009, 5:44 pm
Have you ever wanted to tell someone something but didn't? if so why does it happen? it feels like that when i want to tell my friend about me something is stopping me from telling them thats why i cant....why does it feel that way?
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"Don't have too much fun ;)"
Posted Sunday June 28 2009, 2:42 am
16/F.
So i work @ a clothing store, we hired a new guy thats my age and he's really flirty. But i think thats just how he talks to girls, like thats how he comes off. But i was getting ready to leave and I said bye to everyone because I was going out of town and he stops me and says, "hey, don't have to much fun" with a little smile on his face. I said, "uhhhokay?" and left lol.
was that a total hitttt on? or whattjuilf!?!? What would you make of it? Am i just being stupid? lol.
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Am I blowing this out of proportion?
Posted Saturday June 27 2009, 8:55 pm
17/f
I was talking to a friend about my plans for university and future career in general. Granted I know things change, so I might not follow through with them 100%, but still: I had mapped out a scenario involving which major, which university, how I would finance it, volunteer work I was planning on doing, where I would live, where I would apply after completing my degree, (assuming everything went according to plan) etc... It was fairly extensive/detailed and she was the first one I had told about it. Anyways, I find out later that after talking to me she posted a note on Facebook with my plan word for word, saying that this was what she was planning on doing with her life. I know it sounds a bit infantile, but this pissed me off...
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bitchh alertttt.
Posted Friday June 26 2009, 7:47 pm
ok so i apologize if this ends up being extremely long, but i just have so much ANGERR. theres this girl and we used to be really close friends. tell eachother everything, you know the whole deal. except we fight 24/7. like atleast once or twice a week. but about a month ago we got into a HUGEE fight, and havent been talking. we both decided to just end the friendship, but she came running back to me like she does after every fight last night. me being the nice and dumbass person that i am, accepted the apology. this morning i got a text from her and it made me pissed, so we started fighting once again. when things are good between us, they are amazing. but they seem to be bad more then they are good (not sure if that made any sense..) basi...
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Is he just joking or is he a perv?
Posted Friday June 26 2009, 6:56 pm
I'm a 15 yr old gal.
I have this really cool guy friend that's basically like a soul mate to me. He'd be the perfect gay guy friend for me, but he's actually quite straight. He's like 99% perfect, except for one thing...all the bathroom jokes.
He is a constant stream of jokes about me going to the bathroom. In addition all kinds of spoken jokes, there's always some kind of practical jokes he's playing on me also. Some times, he'll throw small pics of himself making funny faces into my toilet when he knows I have to go. Other times, he'll put saran wrap over the seat, or shaving cream, glue, or Icy Hot on the toilet seat. He draws on my toilet paper and also on my pads and tampons that are in my purse and back...
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exFriend probelems
Posted Thursday June 25 2009, 10:57 pm
Alright well I had this friend. She was younger than me and was in a lower class. When she moved up to my grade [which was in a different school], she changed a lot and started ignoring me. She would always give me this weird look that made me think she hated me/had no idea who i was. she would hang around with different people [not to be rude, but "ghetto" people] and she ditched me on halloween and made up this stupid excuse that she cant go out [later i found out she went out with her other friends]. Well after a while it was really starting to piss me off so i asked her why she ignored me and lied to me and stuff and she said she would stop and that she had now idea what i was talking about. But she kept ignoring me. So me and...
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My bestfriend with guys..
Posted Thursday June 25 2009, 5:57 pm
(sorry if this turns out to be long il do my best to explain in a nutshell)
Okay,so im getting a little annoyed right now at how my best friend treats guys..
So its like she often wishes how shes in a relationship and wants a boyfriend etc and she ALWAYS attracts theese really lovely lovely guys,but yet she always has to find something wrong with them or a reason not to go out with them she gets bored quickly and messes them about,yet then still complains about not having a boyfriend its like shes oblivous to this.
The most recent guy she told me a few weeks ago how she really liked him,So today we went to the park and he text her and said he would come up to meet her and bring a few friends and she agre...
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soberly impaired = fun time?
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 11:18 pm
i have had this really good friend for about 2 years now. she and i can tell eachother almost anything, and we're really close. at first she was really shy and it took almost a year to break her out of her shell. and now that i have, shes totally a fun person to be around and talk to.
when she and i first started getting really close, we'd do wannabe hardcore stuff; smoke paper, snort pixie stix, smoke pixie stix, smoke twizzlers, get "drunk" off of full throttle... you know, kid stuff. anyways, eventually we broke out of that phase and started drinking beer and whiskey, smoking cigarettes, weed, etc, etc.
i recently realized that every time she and i hang out, we always either get drunk or high. and ...
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my BFF....
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 10:58 pm
ok so like i have this really great friend and ive been her BFF since 2nd grade. I would do anything for her. But i just found out that shes moving. Because her parents are getting a divorce. Shes moving all the way across the country and her mom is telling her that she can visit once every 2 weeks and that im going to go fly to visit her. and then her mom has been going and telling my mom that its all a lie just to make my friend feel better. and it really hurts watching my BFF get soooooo happy over something thats never gonna happen. im wondering if i should tell her whats going on? any advice???
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i need advice
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 4:04 pm
there is a talent show me and my friends gave no i idea what to do!! give me advice.
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bff or not =(
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 3:55 pm
ok so i have this friend and we have been BFFs for 6 years. We have had some of the best times and were always honest with eachother. but all of a sudden shes been lying to me. and i can even prove it. she goes and tells me something about her family ( cause her parents are getting a divorce, and she might move to florida) and then her mom will tell my mom something totally different. Shes even been lying to me about who she hangs out with. like the other day i got a text from her saying dont tell taylor were hanging out (BTW im taylor), and i was like WTF? and she was like that was supposed to go to someone else. Idk what to do, i mean i give up everything for her.... any advice?
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BFF OR NOT
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 12:22 am
14/f
Alright my friend is really nice and al but she can bug me so much. Sometimes all she talks about is her other friend who is not @ our school. She calls her her BFF when she hardly see's her and i am standing right their!!! I mean we spend every minute of the day together and tell all our secrets with each other. It is almost like we are sisters. But all she can talk about sometimes is her friend emily. I dont know if i am jeleous or if she is trying to give me a hint??? IDK where our friendship stands. When someone asks who her bff is she says EMILY :( and im right their. And also i know Emily to and she said that she is not her BFF. So do i tell her that. ?
It just dosent make sense concidering we hang ...
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Hate and Love
Posted Tuesday June 23 2009, 11:30 pm
Hey, i have this friend and she is not liked very much by other kids @ our skool! But she dosent know this. And everyone is always asking me why i am her friend. sometimes i dont stand up for her behind her back when people ask me that because, they think i am cool when i say i dont really like her when she is like my best friend! What do i do?? i like her alot BUT no one else does? ?
What do i do?? LOST AND CONFUSED?
sincerely: MMR<3
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