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noooo pleasure ?


Posted Tuesday February 9 2010, 2:59 pm

17/f

I don't find being fingered pleasurable at all.
Like it doesn't really hurt, its not as everyone makes it out to be. Whether i'm fingering myself, or my boyfriend. It just doesn't feel pleasurable. So, is there a reason why it isn't?

And also, what could I do to myself that would be pleasurable for masturbation? Please do not just say "sex toys" because i'm not going to go out and get one. I don't even think i'm old enough.

So, help please ?
Thank you!!! :]

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sex advice for teens


Posted Tuesday February 9 2010, 2:49 pm

hey.. so im 16f and wanting some advice on a guy and sex.. so ive known this guy, lets call him john, for a while and we've liked eachother on and off,we havnt talked alot he moved and cuz i started talking to one of his friends which i still am. but me and john want to hangout soon and first im debating on wether i should or not.. me and him always had the emotional aspect of a relationship but we never experienced the physical with eachother. so i know if we hangout we're going to get physical, and i want to have sex with this guy but i cant, im a virgin and i dont want to be that easy and other reasons, so how do i know when were about to have sex..? like are there specific things that he will do that shows like hes ready to have sex. ...

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is gagging a turn off


Posted Tuesday February 9 2010, 1:56 pm

is it a turn off when a girl starts gagging while giving oral sex? or how is it? also, are there any ways to not gag ?

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Sex Question?? o.O


Posted Monday February 8 2010, 6:52 pm

Okay let's say you're having sex with a girl and she cums, can you still continue having sex with her? I know for guys it's different because after they cum they go soft and need some time to get it together again. So basically can you keep going or do you stop? Btw...I'm a girl and was wondering because my guy and I plan on having sex soon.

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Problem with penis going ... weak :(


Posted Monday February 8 2010, 1:15 pm

Well today I had sex with my gf and before I start off, this isn't the first time this happens to me.

Sometimes my penis grows weak while we are having sex. This does not happen during the first time we have sex, but when I want to go again after about 10 minutes it will get hard,but then weaken during the sex itself. I really can't explain it any better, and sex with a weak penis is no good.

I want to make my girlfriend get to the climax, and now i'm getting really desperate, as if i'm not good enough to make her feel good.

Can somebody help me please, I'm desperate.

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Mastrabation


Posted Monday February 8 2010, 3:28 am

What are good ways to mastrabate female!!!

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stuck


Posted Monday February 8 2010, 1:48 am

17/f

I've been depressed probably for about 7 years now. I have suicidal tendencies and have battled self mutilation on and off. Over the last four years I've seen about three different psychologists, I've tried multiple different kinds of medication and nothing seems to be helping. Its very hard for me to get close or comfortable with a psychologist because i always get the feeling that they have pre-made judgments about the situation and are too quick to tell me i'm wrong than to actually listen to what i have to say. I don't believe that just because thy have studied psychology they can actually relate and understand what is going on in my head. It seems like all the answers they have are very cliche and could easily be fo...

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what's the chance that i'm pregnant ?


Posted Monday February 8 2010, 12:04 am

Me and this guy i've been talking to had unprotected sex on the 23rd of january, & unfortunately he came inside of me twice. I was really scared that i might be so i told my pediatrician and he made me take a pregnancy test but it had only been like 9 days after i had sex and it came out negative. i also haven't spotted or felt any different.. only thing is that my stomach hurts sometimes after i eat but its nothing drastic. i'm supposed to get my period on the 14th, but i dont want to wait that long to find out whether i really am or not ! what would be the chance that i'm pregnant ?

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fingering


Posted Sunday February 7 2010, 10:47 pm

The other day I tried fingering myself. I can't seem to make my finger fit at all. Does this mean I'm way too tight? Or am I doing something wrong? I'm kind of concerned about it. I wanna be able to do something to relieve sexual feelings and I can't even do that.

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molestation?


Posted Sunday February 7 2010, 10:25 pm

when i was 15 i went out this guy who was 17 and we always hang out at this one placee where alot of people went and after awhile he wanted to be alone with just us and when i ddint wanna go hed get mad at me so i would go anywayy. we would always go to the same place and each time it got worse and worse. the first couple times we would just make out for like 2 hours and then after that he wanted to do more. she he made me take my shirt off and everytime i didnt wanna do anything hed tell me it was a "turnoff" and get mad at me. everytime i was so scared to go with him but i still went anyway. and each time hed make me take off my shirtt and hed touch me and stufff, and i felt reallly uncomfortable. ive only told one person and sh...

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am i a slut


Posted Sunday February 7 2010, 9:51 pm

I sleep around

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books


Posted Sunday February 7 2010, 1:16 pm

I'm looking for books that talk about tough issues. At least 80pages.
Mainly:

Domestic Abuse
Bullying where the main girl commits suicide

etc

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sex crazed.


Posted Saturday February 6 2010, 2:01 pm

16/F

Okay, so i've had sex a few times recently and now thats all I want to do. I'd rather do it with a guy i'm NOT dating, I know thats bad but its just how I feel. Please don't tell me "I'm too young to be having sex" because its my business, not yours. I'm asking for help, not for you input on my decisions.

So, is there anything I can do to not be so sex-crazy?

Thank you! :)

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A flirt or A teas....


Posted Friday February 5 2010, 9:13 pm

i'm a girl and some guys i've been out with said i'm more of a teas than a flirt, but most of my guy-friends and best friends say that i just flirt alot. I don't think i'm a flirt or a teas, i'm just an outgoing person. I truely don't know the diffrence between the two, i thought they were the same. i asked some one befor but i couldn't get a stright answer. What's worse a flirt or a teas?



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Am I a Virgin?


Posted Friday February 5 2010, 5:04 pm

I am lesbian and I've only had intercourse with a girl. Does that mean I'm a virgin? Today someone asked me if I was a virgin and I said "no" but really I don't know. Opinionated answers are fine with me. Just curious. Also when I have sexual intercourse with my girlfriend, we make it special. It's affectionate and we do it because we are in love. This is just so complex to get my mind around. Some define virginity as a penis going into a vagina, but isn't other forms of sex included for virginity? If people have oral sex and they never had a penis, are they a virgin? What defines sex?

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Sucking


Posted Friday February 5 2010, 2:26 pm

Hi,
I have girlfriend and i love to suck. Is there any problem by doing this.Is it ok?
Thanks!

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birth control shot


Posted Thursday February 4 2010, 7:53 pm

18/f
So I am scheduled to get my next birth control shot on Friday. I was also planning on going to a party later that night. I was wondering if alcohol has any effects with the depo provera birth control shot?? Thanks

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If you have the time to invest in this one, help out.


Posted Wednesday February 3 2010, 10:30 pm

Okay for starters I'm 19 and I know I have the rest of my life ahead of me, which is why I need some advice. I met my best friend when I 16 years old. We were so close even when he had girlfriends. When I turned 17 the truth came out and he told me he was crazy about me. I've always been afraid of getting hurt, and I never felt like I ever met someone who truely liked me for me, they only liked what they saw. I took it slow with him and he asked me out 5 times before I finally said yes, I was petrified of losing our friendship. But it ended up turning into the best decision of my entire life. I completely fell for this boy, head over heels in love with him. And he felt the same way about me. Other than school and work we invested a ...

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was my child sexually abused?


Posted Tuesday February 2 2010, 5:05 pm

hi i am a 30 yr old mother of a 7 year old child and have wondered for a while if there is a possibility of her being sexually abused? the things that make me wonder are
1. when she was 5, almost 6, teachers at her school caught her and another little boy touching eachother and even performing oral sex.
2. i found her showing her friend how to draw a penis.
3. i walked in on her rubbing back and forth on a stuffed animal 3 times.

i just dont know where she would get all these ideas from and her dad is not in the picture so the only person i can think of who it could be would be her step grandfather because we live with my parents. any help is appreciated. thanks

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I need advice about gay sex


Posted Tuesday February 2 2010, 2:28 pm

Hi i am 18 years old and my boyfriend and I want to have sex but I am afraid that we might get caught by both of our parents where is the best place to have sex without getting caught

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