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frenemies (kinda long, sorry)
Posted Monday August 3 2009, 5:48 pm
alright. im basically goin to give you some background information to kind of understand my problem. i pretty much have a group of 5 best friends and myself. we're known as 'the girls' and weve all been friends for a while.
ill call them L & S, my bestest friends, B & R, two that im super close to in the group... and then there is P.
P is the most flirtacious, bitchy girl but somehow shes manipulative enough to get everyone on her side. i used to be pretty good friends with her, i thought. but then i started noticin that she flirts with my boyfriend, gives head for rides, has soo many 'friends with benefits', i think you get the point.
ive heard from L & M that shes all like 'T (me) means not...
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Tell me what you think. :)
Posted Monday August 3 2009, 4:44 pm
Okayy so I have this friend, I'll call him A. So, me and A have known eachother since like 3rd or 4th grade. We've always been good friends! I don't know if he's ever liked me or not..but, we get along very good. I think he's pretty cool and everything and I wouldn't mind dating him. He broke up with his girlfriend and told me that he was looking for a new one. He told me some girl asked him out..but he doesn't like her and told her he isn't looking for one..but then he told me he actually is he just didn't want to tell her that. I told him I never had a boyfriend before..and he said "you can get a boyfriend". So, we talked about that for a little while..and then we stopped and changed the subject. Basically, everytime we talk..we...
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What am I to him?
Posted Saturday August 1 2009, 10:24 pm
14/f
A very close friend of mine and I fooled around together two weeks ago, a week after he confessed his love to me. He was my first boyfriend. We made the mistake of going out when we didn't really know each other so once the relationship ended we decided to remain friends and became really close. I've never felt so close to someone before. Last week, a couple of days after we fooled around, he went to visit his family in Florida for a month and never even texted me once untill last night. After what we did and how close we were, you can imagine how hurt I was that he never even contacted me for a week. I felt like he did the "hit it and quit it" thing with me. So he finally texts me last night and we began talki...
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bff problems
Posted Saturday August 1 2009, 11:52 am
Um okay I got these friends whO I've known since third grade there's names are Kayla, Tawnae, and Kozi well anyways Kayla is Tawnaes bff Tawnae is Kozi bff and Kozi is Kaylas bff but Kozi and Tawnae is my bffs [so where does that leave me?] anways... since we all went to highschool [were n 10th grade now] we kinda drifted apart like I hate Kayla not hate but I dnt like her and Tawnae is sometymey w| me nOw... anywho Kayla and Tawnae gO to the same school i dnt think there bff's anymore tho and me and Kozi live in they same neighborhood but its still kinda far to get to her house... im still try 2hold onto our frendshyp but I think its only hurtn me like I love these girls [no homo] should I let go or like do you haVe another way? O ps. I've...
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Should I be worried/insulted?
Posted Friday July 31 2009, 11:51 pm
I know this is long, but please help me out.
So, let's just say there are 3 chicks - Sally, Franny, and Annie.
Sally, Franny, and Annie are all friends. I hang out with Sally on a regular basis outside of school, but not necessarily AT school. Franny and I hang out at school (and sometimes outside of school). Annie is someone who I've only talked to a couple of times. We're just acquaintances. I'm not really friends with her, but like I said before, Annie is friends with Sally and Franny.
One day, Franny invited Sally, Annie, and me to go see a movie together. We did. I thought it went well. I talked to Franny and Sally as usual (since they're my good friends, obviously) and talked to Annie too...
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i think she is a back staber what should i do
Posted Friday July 31 2009, 1:36 pm
i have a friend and she is one of my best friends she always ignores me at break and lunch unless we are bitching.If i fall out with her then i'll probally lose another friend how is just the same.They are starting to do it to everyone but i don't know how the others feel so i don't what to tell them how i feel cause they might tell my friends and they could take it the wrong way.It only began with the other friend cause i said she was my best friend when i meant it about someone else,please dont say talk to them cause they won't listen.
p.s its preety messed up
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Posted Friday July 31 2009, 1:34 pm
i have a friends sleepover but my mom wont let me go because u never know what would happen what should i do?
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stages of a girl forgiving
Posted Friday July 31 2009, 4:56 am
13/m
is there a kind of a set of stages type thing of what a girl will do when their angry at you because i was going out with this girl for about a week but then she got angry and dumped me because she said i was ignoring her and not paying enough attention and not making her feel special like i should and that is somewhat true but i was always afraid if she would get too creeped out by me telling her that she was beautiful and stuff like that so i hardly ever did now its been about a week and shes still angry at me
but for the first few days she was angry and telling me what i should of done to/for her that would make her feel special and stuff now shes starting to ignore me because i saw her at the movies as i was walking ...
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My friends are fighting
Posted Thursday July 30 2009, 3:16 pm
ok so i thot (im gonna make up names) melissa* was my best friend but she thot emma* was her best friend emma* thot jessica* was her best friend and no i thinks im there bff but anyways melissa* said shes my best friend now because emma* was being mean w/ jessica * jessica* is being a meany and being just soooo mean 2 melissa* because jessica* thinks melissa did sumthing but melissa told me she didnt so i dont no who 2 beleive help me?
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Dont want my friends anymore : - (
Posted Wednesday July 29 2009, 9:31 pm
So here's the thing. I just graduated high school.I'am only seventeen years old and I'am honestly fed up with my friends. Not to be mean,but i really have outgrown them.I just feel like I'am more mature then them and therefore I need mature friends.All of them "claim" that they are grown now because they are 18 and i just feel like thats bull.To me everybody's in a competion with one another.And I hate to say this but I feel like I dont have strong friends at all.One friend just cant let a boy she dated go.He cheated and he has TWO,yes..TWO kids.I mean,come on!! What will it take.I also have one friend who is so lazy and isnt committed to anything.They are very smart girls but for some odd reason I cant help but to think they have...
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life is ruined by school and sports
Posted Tuesday July 28 2009, 11:22 pm
Lately my life has basically been all about sports and school. A couple of years ago my life was all about going out with girls and hanging out and stuff. but since high school I got disconnected from my socialable friends. And almost all of my "sports" friends are in the same problem as me, they spend so much time in their sport and school work. I also go to an all boys school which doesnt help at all. Even though i do spend alot of time on academics and sports, its not like i dont have time to do stuff its that its been over two years now since ive done somthing with my "old" friends that i dont know what to do and how to get back into doing stuff. I feel like that when i left my old school for my new school i wanted t...
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we just met but i wanna be best friends?
Posted Tuesday July 28 2009, 5:57 am
hmm..
i don't really know how to start this but i'll try. I met this kid online and he seems really cool and nice. he's one grade older then me but i don't care. i try to talk to him on aim a lot but he doesn't really anser me. i don't know if it's cuse he doesn't like me or just cuse he's busy. when i comment him on myspace he ansers... but i don't know. i wanna be good friends with him but i'm not sure how he feels... what should i do???
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my friend has a crush on my ex
Posted Monday July 27 2009, 6:11 pm
alright, so, My ex who lives in america, broke my heart really bad by doing numerous things, he went to a wedding and told me he saw a hot blonde who looked like me, he asked a girl what her answer would be if he was single(whilst he was with me) and numerous other things as well. I realsize now it was stupid of me to think a long distance relationship like this would actually work, he hurt me real bad
Now, a close friend of mine, who is like a sister has recently told me she has a crush on him. The guy and i broke up three weeks before she told me this. She says she likes him but wants to tell him she likes him, point is im worried that he's going to do exactly what he did to me to her. and She is much more vulnerable than ...
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should we be friends??
Posted Saturday July 25 2009, 11:15 pm
15/f
I have a profile on Facebook and under my friend suggestions is this guy that I went to school with since pre-k to 8th grade. Ever since I first saw him in pre-k I thought that he was really cute. We became not so much friends but in between acquaintances and friends. The entire time I went to school with him everyone thought that I had a huge crush on him, but I only thought that he was cute. I dont know if I should be friends with him or not. Im afraid to ask him to be my friend because Im afraid that he will say no. And if he says yes Im afraid that my schoolmates will make fun of me again for being in love with him. Im friends with all my schoolmates so its hard sometimes. I would ask my best friend but he's her ex,so I cant...
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akwardness with ex-girlfriend and her best friends
Posted Saturday July 25 2009, 10:21 pm
13/m
ok so i went out with this girl for about 2 months but since the holidays i thought she was avoiding me cause everytime i talked to her or texted her if she wanted to go to the movies she said she was busy so i assumed she didnt like me anymore so the day back to school we broke up and its been about 2 or 3 weeks since we broke up and its really akward because we're in the same class and before we were going out we were pretty close but we only have known each other since the start of the year but everytime i say hi or what's up to her in class she says nothing and just walks away or stops talking and when i talk to her friends (which are also in my class) they do basically the same but sometimes we have short conversations so ...
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Everyone LOVES my best friend!
Posted Saturday July 25 2009, 3:21 pm
So I love my best friend to death. and actually everybody does. Shes got the type of personality to always get attention, in a positive friendly way, talks to everybody, etc. I am like that too I like talking to people and being friendly, but whenever I am with her I am always considered the quiet girl. Like people call me shy and stuff when they meet both of us at the same time. For some reason I feel like she dominates in a way you know? Well its not that it bothers me and I'm not exactly jealous, I just want to know what I can do to not be labeled the shy girl around her. Whenever we meet people they always take to her and love her, but whenever I meet people on my own they love me so its not like I'm shy or anything. She just has a stro...
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we hav a stalker thats a crybaby
Posted Saturday July 25 2009, 2:51 pm
i didnt know what category so i did this 1...im not tryin to be mean by saying crybaby the stalker...but she wont leave me and my friends alone...im in a group of 4 bffs...were 13 were girls...we go to a stupid catholic school...we are very rough w/ eachother we do cuss but so what...we dont be mean 2 her we dont do it 2 her but me and my friends come up behind eachother and jump on or trip or just step on ther shoes we cuss at eachother not mean but as best friends... so she crys about everything we do and tells on us so we get a detention and SHE WONT LEAVE US ALONE...my mom whent up 2 school because of stalker telling about everything we do my mom says its fine its my friends and she was the same way...i have had 16 detentions this year ...
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a friend, she changed, also scared for her
Posted Saturday July 25 2009, 2:50 pm
kay so theres this girl, i thought she was my bff.........but then i think she kinda changed over the summer. and then she tells me stuff, and i believed her, and then she says shes lieing. but now i dont know if its true or not and im scared about her now
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not such best friends anymore
Posted Saturday July 25 2009, 2:49 pm
okay. So my friend doesn't really seem like my friend too much anymore. Ever since middle school started my friend has just kind of dumped me. I wasn't in her class at the begining of the year, then i was through the rest of the year. She made a new friend at the begining of 7th grade, and introduced me to her when i got moved to her class. Now they always do everything together and always leave me out. I really do not know what to do. I miss hanging out with her like we did in 6th grade. Just help me please ! I don't know if i should say something to them or just keep getting left out of things until they notice. Then there's times that I do try to say something to them, but they get mad at me and leave me out of more things. Help !
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being single
Posted Saturday July 25 2009, 2:48 pm
ok im 15/f and i live in florida and i just wanted to know: is it weird that after a few relationships i don't want to really date anymore? and i have this one friend that i really like and i might want to date him but i like being single and i don't know if i should date him or not, and i don't know if he still likes me or not considering he's asked me out twice already. and my mom doesn't really like the guy but she didn't really meet him, and my friends say i should but then i don't know because he can lie occasionally
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